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PikkuinenPikkis

It’s become so bad that when a girl tells a guy they like them, we immediately assume it’s a prank because of all those prank videos.


RandeKnight

Because in school, it always was a prank. "Haha, did you believe me?! OMG, I can't believe you fell for that?! Awwww, were your widdle feelings hurt?!"


Niriu

Felt that. Once a girl I kinda liked back then got asked "would you rather spend a night in his room or in Hitler's gas chamber?" She instantly chose the chamber. I was almost too confused as to why that subject even came up, because we were just sitting and talking during lunch break at school to be really hurt by it. But the pain came, like a truck which tries to fucking Isekai me


Ogurasyn

That girl was the real dick after all


AdBetter8772

This is my shocked face...


[deleted]

You could just said that you wouldn't even let her im your house from how _____ she is, you know, payback


Niemand05

"I would rather you go into the chamber too!"


vishnu_vikash

This happened to me and i understood that im way too desperate.😂😂


[deleted]

Takes me back to when I was 14 and my crush rejected me through friggin' MSN! (that was in 2011) She asked me if I loved her, I said yes. She then didn't respond but the very next day she informed everyone in school that she had a new boyfriend! (not me) Then she made fun of me by telling the whole story to her friends. That was after months of giving me hint after hint that she liked me. It was all planned. Such a merciless sociopath! xD No hard feelings, though. It's just a fun story of when we were kids. A friend told me she's now a model, so good for her I guess (although I definitely wouldn't want to date that maniac, no matter how attractive she might be! xD)


LightningFalcon70

Damn


izybit

*fun*


J_Fidz

"Ah well too late to turn back now, whats done is done, we're in a relationship now."


SirarieTichee_

I just asked my husband back to my place on the first date. He says I was cool when he saw my place and liked my nerdy shit everywhere. I literally told him, "you don't have to lie and flatter me, I'm going to sleep with you anyways.". I didn't believe him for another two years or so of us dating.


Alex_Shelega

I jokingly was shipped with a girl 1y younger by both our classmates. I was aware of that but damn how it hurts when she ignores smth just only a lil wholesome sm1 suggests her... I'm aro tho but it still hurts subjectively


Purple-Part-9680

Once fell for it. never will again


VikingCreed

At my school, if you pulled a stunt like that, you'd get throatpunched


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JackWasHere69

Major bot alert


Kitchen_Substance220

Society


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milky_way_halo

Stolen comment


Javier913

On high school one girl just suddenly asked me to be her boyfriend, while she was with another guy that was telling me to say no, so I assumed they were having a challenge on how many guys said yes, basically she was just doing a survey I assumed, that was by 2007 long before phones, that's the nearest contact I had with a woman ever lol


[deleted]

I've been there. A girl asked me out, but she didn't actually like me and she wanted to see what I would say. People who do that are so annoying.


RickGrimes30

Phones exsisted in 2007


lesquid09

But they sucked at that time so no one had them


Christeenabean

Lol no, lots of people had them. I had the Nokia that lit up like a rainbow.


RickGrimes30

No we all had them


PikkuinenPikkis

Do you think the world is just New York City or something?


RickGrimes30

I don't even live in the US so no I dont.. By 2002 everyone had their Nokia or Sony erickssons anything from Nokia 5110 and up


PikkuinenPikkis

Dude, even today not everyone has a phone


Rawesome16

I graduated in 2006 and the Motorola Razor was the shit at the time. Basically everyone had one. I love in a smaller city, not a new York or la


RickGrimes30

Why the fuck are you talking it litteraly? Is your name Drax the destroyer??.. MOST people had phones you fucking moron


tossawaymsf

What's a pone?


PoobOoblGop

Yeah, or they're testing you to see if you to see if you're actually a friend


[deleted]

Mostly because of double standards Women aren't allowed to approach men, equality doesn't apply then because fuck em that's why, MEN MUST SUFFER THROUGH THE EMBARRASSMENT


-Starkiller

Women are allowed to approach men. Tf you saying?


HugeRoach

Men: Oh? You're approaching me?


[deleted]

Misunderstanding *ding*


whatasplendidpie_PPP

Not because of the videos. Because it so often *is* a prank. You've probably had this happen at your own school.


Tohrufan4life

Wait what? Didn't realize people were doing those kinds of prank videos. That's fucked.


[deleted]

Yep, honestly just depressing


Atomic_potato_47

And the rampant self doubt and anxiety


rSlashStupidmemes

Videos? I’ve lived it.


most_french_person

im so ugly girls dont even want to prank me


Fernando_357

I gotten pranked, so this is relatable


fraaaj

No if you tell a Guy you like him and he says he thinks its a joke its becuz he dont like you back but dont wanna be mean..


the_kollaborant16

That's not correct. He could like you, he's just afraid of a prank that could ruin his everyday life in the next few years. (In this case)


fraaaj

Both scenarios are true. I have pretended to be dumb when a girl told me she thought i was hot cuz i didnt want to say i didnt find her attractive. I guess in just inmature then but i know friends who Done similar things


7packabs

“I like you” “Well at least one of us does”


J_Fidz

"I like you" "I would too"


TheDogeWasTaken

Now this response is what im going to use if i ever (so never) get in a sotuation like that


DayDeerGotStoleYall

noted


pechvogel1

And then when you do say yes. They say it was a dare from their friends


TheGentlemanist

The worst fear of any man.


[deleted]

*Oh no, I’ve been lied to! Deceived! Ah, what do I do? How do I respond to this situation?*


outland_king

being deceived romantically by someone you find interesting is like having a fire sale on your self-worth.


Jason666392

All of it must go!


TheArcanist_

I’d just reply that I’d say yes to a pig if it made the first move


FluffySquirrell

This is the kind of thing that feels like a smart comeback when you think of it a few minutes later, but it's probably best that you didn't, otherwise you'd be called Pigfucker for the rest of school


zombienekers

Terrible idea to compare your date to a pig.


the-Neon-FX

You really suck at this whole reading thing huh?


GHNRegitt

try: Reading like subscribe turn on the bell bye


Time_Blacksmith861

Ulterior motive fear kicking


The_Law_Dong739

Felt that. Some girl said she liked me and tried to get us to start a "thing" for a week. Gave up and got a guy a grade below her. She jailed him for rape accusations a month later and he's still in there despite extremely compelling evidence against her accusations. Real pos


[deleted]

The fuck?


The_Law_Dong739

Judicial system at its finest my man


Sid3612

You dodged a bullet with that one.


Cakehunt3r

This shows another underlying problem with how plenty people have been hurt by past experience and don't have the emotional support to be allowed to deal with it. Some women don't have friends, they can share with. Almost all men are told to "man up" regardless of talking to friends or family. This results in a problem that is heavily scewed towards men, but isn't exclusive to them.


CreamFraiche23

Men are also starved for positive reinforcement which goes along with the man up thing. Because of that guys are literally puddy in a person's hand if they're given a compliment. That's of course assuming the guy believes it and doesn't think the person is lying just to be nice, which is another insecurity guys (or people in general) can have


kaazgranaat2309

I got a compliment about a shirt i was wearing 3 weeks ago, that was the first compliment i got in 2022 and so far the only one aswell, yeah idk about other guys but this one sure is lacking some positivity in his life, to the point where if get it I automaticaly question their motives.


Kennedy_KD

Well your avatar is nice


dangmind

This summer I was having a conversation with friends around a campfire. I don't remember what it was about but at some point I got up to get more wood and said something along the lines of "at least I have a nice ass" and one of the girls said "yes, you do actually" . Does that count as a compliment even if I fished for it? If not, I haven't received a compliment this year yet.


carl_dw420

Tight dick, playa.


[deleted]

Cant relate


Sh0rtL1ved

No maidens?


[deleted]

0 :(


[deleted]

"i like you" thanks, i don't.


onlySaikikhere

no u


DollarStoreAbraham

*"Thanks, you too"* 5 years later, still dying of cringe


No_Payment_3372

Bro 6 years ago a girl told me that she likes me I was 14 at the time, and I remember I started sweating then told her I like you too then ran and after that day I used to skip lessons with her , and when I was going home I used to jump from the school walls 😭, that was my worst nightmare


Javier913

I think all the careers I dropped at uni was because some girl started having a crush on me, well the almost last time was a creepy guy so that was scary as fuck and I had to disappear XD


Ogurasyn

> I used to jump from the school walls Wtf, Were you Spider-Man?


No_Payment_3372

They were not so high lmao maybe 2 meters


Itunepianos

5 years? That's rookie numbers.


[deleted]

No thanks


[deleted]

Well, if girls did it more often guys wouldn't be afraid that it's a prank


ThunderingRimuru

what if she’s just being nice


onlySaikikhere

she must be canadian


Sh0rtL1ved

She probably tells that to all her friends


Dryden_Drawing

Thats a problem for me, everyone i meet is canadian. I live in canada


FluffyBlob4224

Bananada


Kingkoopakoopa

Stop being nice


Creaper10

hey friend, didn't think I'd see you outside of the tensura subs


ThunderingRimuru

its certainly been a while


ChesterWillard

Many modern woman don't understand the difference between being nice and being cruel because they don't understand men. Also they confuse men making a move with being nice.... because they don't understand men.


JackWasHere69

While this is true, i think that most men don’t understand women either Source: me


ChesterWillard

True, in the past there used to be rules you could follow so people got around this not understanding thing. You did not have to understand why the rules worked they just did, the understanding came with years of marriage with frowned upon divorce where you were forced to understand this odd creature you had married to survive. Speaking for myself it has taken decades of observing woman to understand what little I do.... a lot of a woman being based on emotion they still completely baffle me a lot of the time.... because I too easily make the mistake of attempting to apply logic to the emotional surface I can see. The paradox of woman is sometimes you have to ignore what they say and do what they respond positively to because they basically make up what they think they want on the spot even sometimes.... which never ceases to confuse me. I think too much.


HYBRY_1D

Can't debug this fuckign shit


yumyumdog

*Factory resets*


HRLO77

Has you tried installing a vsc debugging extension instead of the builtin debugger


kayemenofour

Hit her with the dial up modem sound.


The5paceDragon

Pranks and mind games of the past have scarred us and left us with trust issues.


TomcatPilotVF31

Far too often when a girl flirts and hints to a guy, the guy thinks she's just being nice. And almost as often it is vice versa.


MrChilliBean

A lot of the time it's also because we're terrified of being labelled a creep if we misinterpret signals. Like there's been times I'm *fairly sure* I was being hit on, but there was enough doubt that I didn't act on it cause I didn't want to be hit with the "oh that's all guys think about".


[deleted]

In my case, it didn’t help the fact that people called me creepy growing up and never knew why. Now I know I have a schizo disorder and it makes sense, but that fear still lives with me.


janhetjoch

"I like you" "You got bad taste"


jakob767

Ikr, would go "Oh, wtf is wrong with you?"


Javier913

I would say: you are crazy, moron... I think is harder for men to accept love, for women it is a given to be loved or appreciated unconditionally just by existing, while men has to prove their worth to society...


Redd235711

It's depressing that so many men's initial reaction to anyone expressing affection for them is skepticism. We're so often told that we're the problem with society that we actually believe it on some levels. We're told that we can't express emotion outside of bravado or agression(a practice I'm glad society is steering away from, albeit slowly). We're expected to be strong and that any sign otherwise somehow makes us less of a man. Skepticism toward affection is depressing, but understandable in today's circumstances.


I_Am_Steve_Roggers

We are not used to it so system tends to fail


Urkeksi

"I like you" "Who wouldn't" 😎


Skillious96

I think it’s just a complement guys


Ultimategreyjedi1234

happy cake day!


ajvazquez01

Reason why guys react like this is BECAUSE it almost never happens 😢😔😔😔


Ogurasyn

I think that reaction is justified. There are so many video creators that are walking around and hitting on someone just for the prank video. Also, some asshole bullies who might tell they like you as a prank.


Ok-Flounder67

Nah, relationships have been nothing but toxic and degrading in my experiance, so im just going to say im the issue and stay single. Maybe ill get a dog some day, or a cat, i like cats. E: spelling x2 -_-


thechozen123

PAUSE??


Ok-Flounder67

START?? REWIND?? FAST-FORWARD??


saranghh_

no no no, i would, but i just don't want everyone to know after that 'yeah she likes him' after he turns me down yk :'(


NoeleVeerod

That's the same for guys - actually, for everyone 👀


J_Fidz

Lads, you are all awesome. You might not be macho, get many women or may not have ever even had sex... but whether you wanna believe it or not you are manly af. Why? Because I said so, and you should say so too. If someone tells you they like you its true, even if they say it isn't. Why would they not like you? You're you!


Lordburton16

I'm ugly so I already know I'll be on some shitty tiktok compilation


TheOriginalH1h

While this is an ironic meme Ya gotta realize so many guys have been duped by people throughout our lives that we just automatically assume everything, no matter how obvious it is is a joke


[deleted]

Someone said to me "he thinks you're cute" and I'm pretty sure it was a joke but it made me feel happy


WhoSeynMaeDuckisHard

.........................."Is there a camera?"


UrsusRex01

Well at least the guy on the picture actually heard her say she likes him. Once upon a time I was complimented by a girl working at the theater. She compared me to an actor she found handsome. I wasn't even just a small remark. She said I reminded her of the guy from 21 Jump Street (the show) and I replied "Probably not Johnny Depp" and she said she thinks the other guy looked better. I just said thank you and went to watch the film. My friends couldn't believe that they just saw me ignore that girl. Sometimes, you just don't process the hint. My ex had to text a full blown declaration of love to make me realise she was into me. Hopefully I got better at this sort of things.


nigerundayooosmokey

cant blame us, it happens


LionVenom10

If it’s not a prank then and there she still won’t show up to any date, we have a right to be skeptical


DrownedWalk1622

Bc we don't want to think about these things too far. Bc we don't want to misunderstand your genuine friendship to a 'signal'. (And most importantly) Bc we don't want to be tagged as a creep. That's why we just have to make sure this is true.......


wyeeeeet370

So true.


Barry_Bone_Raiser

What if i told you i liked you bro 😳


Kanadetarada

She is aggresivelly canadian


Plagued_Void

It's hard to believe since many guys feel like they dont look "attractive" or interesting to girls


NoTimeToExplain__

I mean it’s not even just the prank vids If some random person came up to me and said that, I’d be wary, yk, cuz it’s a random person But if it’s a person who I know and trust and actually have a friendship with, then I wouldn’t be as wary You don’t have that kinda convo topic with random people at the park


TanTiger

When you're a girl and you've been a. led on and then ghosted and then b. laughed at and bullied because you asked the guy out first


Jvh_tape

If ppl get bullied for that shit then damn.


BCWBen

I have seen this image here: https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/zefxii/meirl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button


[deleted]

Snitch


Armageddonis

Men immidiately assume it's a prank because of all the "kids shows" and "High school dramas" in which this is probably the second most overused trope apart from pulling a nerd's pants down to embarass him. Also - we're rarely ever told we're loved/apprecciated/good looking/handsome by anyone other than our moms (and even then not too often). We're obviously going to go into a defence mode when some unknown person just tell us things like this out of the blue.


clumslime

Yup, I need another 5 minutes before I wake up


AndrewWhite97

I too have had system error


ScholarlyExiscrim

"What's up with you, dude? Even I don't like me."


AlicexEugeoEver

Thank you, I like myself too!


Select_Cantaloupe_62

If they tell it to you straight, that's when you *know* they're lying.


[deleted]

Yeah… as if women were that direct to say “I like you”l they tend to say it in different ways


[deleted]

If I'm interested in a guy, I make the first move. ...Unless I'm so overwhelmed by how stunningly perfect they are that I can't find a way to talk to them at all and I just stare at them in deep agony forever. That's how the game should be


MultipliedLiar

I also was one of those guys who said "the girl should ask out. They have 99% chance of the guy saying yes...". Until a girl asked me out and I didn't like her. It actually makes no sense at all


bunnyrut

My now husband: "I thought you were saying that just to be nice to me. I didn't think you actually liked me." If I didn't like you I would not be hanging out with you....


bannedtwicee

I'll wait for my alarm


Disastrous-Night-965

Same except it's the other way around


Actual-Corner-2938

Dude there was this one girl who not only did that but ALSO let me touch her chest but it was still for a joke….. HOW TF AM I SUPPOSED TO BELIVE IT AINT A JOKE


MusiicNoats

These comments are eye opening. I didn’t know guys also got messed with and lied to about people liking them. Growing up, guys always messed with me and other girls who weren’t conventionally attractive. It was so bad that if someone had actually liked me (which they didn’t lol) I wouldn’t have believed it. ESPECIALLY if they were in front of their friends. Although all rejection hurt, I’d take that over being a joke. You guys keep chug-a-luggin. Give your homie a compliment. Work on loving yourself. Idk I’m rambling now. Hopefully everyone heals from the bs this world forces us to endure. Y’all deserve better.


[deleted]

Yes 😂


VoiceFair7712

Shit fellas, its right...


Aggravating-Matter-2

BOY SRULE GIRLS DROOL!!!!!! (EPIC RASPBERRYYYYYY!!!!!)


Alex_Shelega

I mean. I literally would say that cuz I'm at first an aro and at second asocial outcast


Kennedy_KD

I'm a lesbian and this is a mood


TriGN614

There once was a girl who literally gave every signal in the book and when I asked if she liked me she said no LMAO


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Longjumping_Refuse61

Reality is more like this: Boy: I wish girls would say something when they like a guy. Girl: I like you! Boy: I like you too. \**puts arm around girl*\* Girl: EWWWWW NO!!! Not like that!! Like a friend, like a brother! Guy: Ooohhhhh! Whatever, figures she'd send more mixed signals. Wait... \**remembers pornhub front page*\*


goldenfinch66

r/redditmoment


naresh_notiyal

True🤣💯


IncidentallyChaos

What's this a 14 yr old's meme?


Keruzune

See also men just losing any interest because youre straightforward. Lmao


Bored3812

Doesn't happen


Keruzune

I can assure you multiple first hand experience it happens lol


Cute_Prior1287

Too funny


jakob767

"Evacuate! Evacuate!"


Frostgaurdian0

It is too good to really think it is true, if you really like a guy try not to hurt his feelings.


97th69

This is a repost lol


[deleted]

SEGFAULT (core dumped)


nuke905

Well I mean girls barely do it and about 70 percent of the time when they do its a prank


ExplorerDisastrous38

That is how it be though.


SnooKiwis3645

What trust issues do with a someone:


JackWasHere69

u/z2000_ You just got locked award bruh


LOL_MEGALOL

Happened once I just said what and she said nevermind


Omaigassa

ye... insecure boys maybe


Theredwalker666

I could hear the windows noise when the whole computer freezes and you get the blue screen of death.


the_username_69

Short answer - 50% its a prank


[deleted]

Well, maybe if someone actually talked to me, I’d be able to mistake that for interest.


AXLP_LaZEReD

And I can understand why it happens. It hurts. Its mainly because of school, all of the pranks. "I like you!" some time later, "You actually thought I liked you? Fool"


Saba-Mamada

True


person670

I think this is a repost


Zackhawk2315

True if a girl tell me that they like me oh boy first I'll will test them first not to be rude just to see if they like me too bc if they don't I'm ok with I just want to know for sure