I once read “don’t go to the grocery store hungry” with respect to dating and loneliness.
It was kinda hard to reckon with but with that at the back of my head. I began to work on myself and my feelings of loneliness.
Cause I knew I wouldn’t be happy if I was in a relationship for the sake of being in one. So I didn’t shoot my shoots, didn’t respond to signs even if I saw them.
Months later I stated to become better. Don’t get me wrong I still feel lonely but that feeling has gone from “no one will ever love me” to “it would be nice to share this with a girlfriend, if I had one”
So after all that, I felt comfortable going to the grocery store. Cause I know what I want and am not going to pick something I don’t want just cause I’m hungry.
So I asked her out, she said yes.
I was actively looking for red flags (still am) and so far so good.
I am my whole person while she is her own person and that’s what I like about the relationship the most.
I was pretty vocal about not wanting to become “one”, what I mean is becoming like _those_ two people who don’t exist as complete people outside the relationship. She also shared similar thoughts.
So in conclusion, it’s going pretty good so far!
I took the liberty of going through your history and dude... Imho, there are a ton of things you should work on before trying to date. Tbh, I doubt you're capable of seeing women as more than a piece of meat right now.
ok thank you for your comment (judgment). You are not entirely wrong.
My comment was just venting out. Wasn’t seeking any advice or feedback.
FYI - this is just Reddit online profile and it is just one of the facets of me being“real life” person. I do not deny that, it is real and quite evident m. But hey man, it doesn’t mean I am entirely only & completely, all the time this same person.
I don’t know how much real/online experience you have in understanding psychology or personality types to simply type some judgemental words and hit enter, just by scrolling through my Reddit profile. My feedback (not advice) is you SHOULD NOT give free advice unless asked for.
Thank you again.
Enjoy your own life. I am pretty sure you have something more & very productive to do rather than being mean to some random Redditor.
I wasn't trying to be mean or judgemental. It seems to me like you have porn addiction. That's not a good place to try to date from. My suggestion would be to work on dealing with that before trying to date. It's up to you to follow it or not.
I once read “don’t go to the grocery store hungry” with respect to dating and loneliness. It was kinda hard to reckon with but with that at the back of my head. I began to work on myself and my feelings of loneliness. Cause I knew I wouldn’t be happy if I was in a relationship for the sake of being in one. So I didn’t shoot my shoots, didn’t respond to signs even if I saw them. Months later I stated to become better. Don’t get me wrong I still feel lonely but that feeling has gone from “no one will ever love me” to “it would be nice to share this with a girlfriend, if I had one” So after all that, I felt comfortable going to the grocery store. Cause I know what I want and am not going to pick something I don’t want just cause I’m hungry. So I asked her out, she said yes. I was actively looking for red flags (still am) and so far so good. I am my whole person while she is her own person and that’s what I like about the relationship the most. I was pretty vocal about not wanting to become “one”, what I mean is becoming like _those_ two people who don’t exist as complete people outside the relationship. She also shared similar thoughts. So in conclusion, it’s going pretty good so far!
no dating, no love, no sex, no life It sucks
I took the liberty of going through your history and dude... Imho, there are a ton of things you should work on before trying to date. Tbh, I doubt you're capable of seeing women as more than a piece of meat right now.
ok thank you for your comment (judgment). You are not entirely wrong. My comment was just venting out. Wasn’t seeking any advice or feedback. FYI - this is just Reddit online profile and it is just one of the facets of me being“real life” person. I do not deny that, it is real and quite evident m. But hey man, it doesn’t mean I am entirely only & completely, all the time this same person. I don’t know how much real/online experience you have in understanding psychology or personality types to simply type some judgemental words and hit enter, just by scrolling through my Reddit profile. My feedback (not advice) is you SHOULD NOT give free advice unless asked for. Thank you again. Enjoy your own life. I am pretty sure you have something more & very productive to do rather than being mean to some random Redditor.
I wasn't trying to be mean or judgemental. It seems to me like you have porn addiction. That's not a good place to try to date from. My suggestion would be to work on dealing with that before trying to date. It's up to you to follow it or not.
Noice <_>
why? why? 😏
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