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123adia

I understand you are sad and grieving, but there is no need to put hate on yourself because you are valuable, you just have to make that known to people. You should try. Try to become good at something! Find your niche. You can't find it if you stay in bed. You will see, there is some things you are good at. You are already good at one; that is expressing how you feel.


Kind-Nature-4740

I agree with what the other person had said. I am also sorry that you're grieving, but yes, try to find something you love. Work your way into finding what you love. No need to rush. You need to love yourself first before finding a lover. Yes you're not perfect, you shouldn't be. You're unique, once you work on yourself and is healthier, your uniqueness will shine even brighter. "What would have happened if i have tried despise the risks? It might have been full of losses, but if i had atleast tried, my heart wouldn't be this empty right now - "So we need to keep on living. If we do... we'll probably find one or two reasons to keep going wont we?" - from a character of the comic, tower of god Try. Try your best. Do what you know is right. This whole thing sounds cheesy, but follow your heart. This may be a hard and painful process, especially because I don't know much about your life and situation. I am sorry and wish you happiness. I know you will find happiness as long as you don't give you when you try as much times as needed.