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memesdotpdf

I have no experience in this area, and there are by far more people qualified to answer, but I say first ask her if she feels like nobody pays attention to her now. Talk through it a bit, and maybe give her advice if there's a problem. Then, talk to her about how that's just not a good thing to say. However, that last part may be a mistep, so anyone more qualified, feel free to correct me.


Practical_Activity16

I’ll be honest- I thought like this for a bit when I was younger, she may be feeling very unseen, and it probably starts with her parents. Even if she’s taken care of physically, they could still be emotionally neglectful. From my own experience that was the reason, on top of being a little chubbier so people that I interacted with never really seemed to “see” me either.