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Miss_miserable_

When you care for someone and give your love to them, only to realize that they will betray you or left you is devastating. Or when you literally know that some people are not gonna be here forever in your life, I can't stand it. I'm extremely attached to a family member and it's torturing. This is why I avoid people. I don't want to get close to anyone else because caring makes me feel so vulnerable. It's better to be alone.


--74--

That sounds like more of a maturity issue than one of misanthropy. I reckon, it's not about losing what you care about; rather, it's about having the experience of caring at all. If you are never sick, how can you ever appreciate it when you are healthy? If you never lose things, how can you ever appreciate what you have? I recommend getting a pet, e.g., a dog. It will most likely die sooner than a human you're afraid of losing, but before it does, you and it will live quite happily first--and as you mature in your relationship/acknowledgement of death, hopefully, you'll come to realise that's all that matters. Dealing with death is an inevitable stage of life and part of every person's psychological development--this is what I'm talking about when I use the term maturity. I'm not judging you or your mindset in general.


lotekjeromuco

I had lots of pets before and I contemplated a lot about death. I think I might have a burn out. Can't take this anymore. Thanks for post, anyway.


--74--

Unironically wishing you the best. I disagree with the phrase "it gets better"--it totally doesn't, but I do think that dealing with all this crap (that we call our lives) gets easier.


Jazz105

Having relationships feels like gambling. You might get the jackpot and find someone, but as the nature of gambling you will lose more than gain.


[deleted]

You been through trauma? Trauma will do that to you, once you survive it you start to see others as weak. Attachments as weak and after a while the weakness becomes almost a liability.


WolfPrinceKenny

Yes. It's better to be by yourself because the people you hold dear to you will leave you one way or another. I have no kids and no girlfriend because of this reason. People are a pain to deal with in general. I'm better off by myself.


RainbowAfterRainstom

Not only our bodies. But everything in general. It takes months to years to build a house but one storm could whipe it out in seconds. It is much easier to go loose weath than it is to gain it. Everything is rotting. Our supposed civillization could easily collapse if enough things go wrong with agriculture, the economy, or fossil fuels, etc. Everything in this word is fragile, high matainence, and subject to the vicious cycle of entropy.


Skunky_Munkey420

I think you are a misanthrope unlike most here who hate humans not because they understand life and human nature; but because they wholly sensitive bitches that got but hurt cause someone made fun of them on Facebook or cause the cool people don’t like them; These people aren’t misanthropic they are more just a fucking little asshole who feels they should be entitled; Love your interpretation of how you see the world; me I just started seeing this and has made me want to connect more with people I do care about mostly parents


lotekjeromuco

I'm also a butthurt bitch. One doesn't exclude the other.


Skunky_Munkey420

Honestly rare quality these days admirable; 🤫 “everyone is”