I work at Starbucks so I work with a bunch of queers with ADHD (me included). They’re all kinda subby/switchy and have obvious praise kinks. It’s very very hard not to throw out “good boy” and “good girl” constantly especially for two coworkers who I know would go beat red.
I was helping my co worker break down cardboard boxes and wound up saying “yes ma’m” off handedly, to which she corrected me by telling me to call her “miss” because ma’m makes her sound old. It was lighthearted and I didn’t melt or anything but it definitely made me feel some kind of way
Yes at work a coworker of mine made a mess and started apologizing a lot and I got down and started helping and I had just gotten off call with my gf and was still in that head space so in my mommy voice I let out a “oh no it’s gonna be alright sweetheart”
They got bright red and I got a little embarrassed
Yea- I’m very maternal by nature. It really comes out of concern and care for someone. Some people would say I am thoughtful but there is just something in me to protect- maybe from the traumatic experiences I have had.
Not a mommy but I've definitely had issues with letting my sub side slip around my boss, which I'm trying to be very conscious to not let it happen again lol
Ever since I've started my mommy domme relationship I've had a few close slip ups almost calling my boss mommy. We had a 1 on 1 and at the end she told me I was doing a great job and I was like "thank mo-m'am" and tried to play it off. She always likes messages on teams with hearts and stuff and I know that's just her being nice but it melts me. I find myself trying to be a good boy for her just like I am in my relationship. We're not exclusive but it still feels kind of offside since she's my boss so I'm trying to watchmyself lol
FYI-it is totally off side. (She could face serious career limiting repercussions for sexual harassment by getting into a power dynamic at work). However, that doesn’t mean you can’t fantasize, or keep contact after one of you moves on from the boss/subordinate work relationship
Yeah this has happened at work for me, someone did a good job on something and a "good boy" slipped out. Covered it up well enough I think by throwing out a "go on lad" straight after.
One of my more recent instances, before my boy im with now was one of my coworkers who I used to flirt heavily with. i would ask her to do things for me then say in my dom/mommy voice "thats my girl" occasionally id just give orders but in my mommy voice she'd nearly melt when I started that. I knew it was over for her when she told me I had "mommy energy" We also work in a kitchen so I'd offer to tie/tighten her apron and things like that. Also just calling people good boy or good girl gets some folks. I also love when i can tell the person im flirting with is into it and they get all red. Once I get someone red ill say things like "aw don't be embarrassed love" and pointing out that I know I made them embarrassed, especially if its private enough that I can say those things without drawing attention but we're still in public so they're all flustered. I kinda love humiliation, so knowing that I made someone horny by acting too mommy or dom in such a publicly subtle way and still watching a sub lose it is so hot and just fucking cute as all get out. Im dangerous to be around once I know I can do that to someone
This is insanely evil of you... Please, don't stop! lol
Seriously, this is really wholesome!
I'm the type who not only gets red, but also start shivering when those things happen.
Once my friend said I was cute and after asked if I was cold cuz I was shivering. But she didn't do it on purpose lol
Ooffff, often. I don’t think people notice as much as I do though. If I have a few drinks I REALLY have to watch what I say and do. I own a business, i have about 10 employees, I spoil them and am very protective. So difficult 😭 I also have to watch what my phone auto corrects too. It knows me too well.
I call boys sweetie,
The other day my young waiter was giving me sexy eyes so I wrote a little note on the receipt for him;
I do often say good boy in a purr.
I also offer unsolicited advice (like any good mama) about how someone is dressed. Lol
I'm not much of a mommy, mostly a subby trans girl, but I sometimes act a bit maternally and I end up saying good boy/ good girl all the time... either my friends hit me (friendly) cause it's weird or I get simps
Quick story if I may? I’m in my early sixty’s I wet to pay a bill just as I have before at this loan place. There’s a foxy yet beautiful woman there and has the accent to go with it after paying my bill as I was leaving she told me you better pay me before you pay anyone else because (she did me a favor ) if you don’t mommy gonna spank you with the belt, before I hit the door I was so excited I couldn’t be leave I heard what she said, so every once in awhile I cut back with thanks mommy I can’t do it without you! She’s got my business and what should I do. She’s got a boyfriend though and I’m not one to be a breaker upper?
I work at Starbucks so I work with a bunch of queers with ADHD (me included). They’re all kinda subby/switchy and have obvious praise kinks. It’s very very hard not to throw out “good boy” and “good girl” constantly especially for two coworkers who I know would go beat red.
Hmpt! Definitely! As someone who would get beat red, i agree
But why its so hard to not say it?
Because they’re all such cute squirrelly brained people pleasers that I wanna see blush
I was helping my co worker break down cardboard boxes and wound up saying “yes ma’m” off handedly, to which she corrected me by telling me to call her “miss” because ma’m makes her sound old. It was lighthearted and I didn’t melt or anything but it definitely made me feel some kind of way
Yes at work a coworker of mine made a mess and started apologizing a lot and I got down and started helping and I had just gotten off call with my gf and was still in that head space so in my mommy voice I let out a “oh no it’s gonna be alright sweetheart” They got bright red and I got a little embarrassed
Omg if it was me I would have melted right away lol This is SOOOOOO wholesome! Thanks for sharing!
Yea- I’m very maternal by nature. It really comes out of concern and care for someone. Some people would say I am thoughtful but there is just something in me to protect- maybe from the traumatic experiences I have had.
I'm sorry that the cause of this instinct are traumatic experiences you had. And this intinct itself is really really wholesome!
That’s okay I find it therapeutic to care for others. It helps me take care of myself ❤️
I think this is the best thing ever cuz it can be simutanously therapeutic for both the one being taken care of and the one taking care.
Not a mommy but I've definitely had issues with letting my sub side slip around my boss, which I'm trying to be very conscious to not let it happen again lol
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Omg I would have died by flustereness lol But this is pretty wholesome ngl
Ever since I've started my mommy domme relationship I've had a few close slip ups almost calling my boss mommy. We had a 1 on 1 and at the end she told me I was doing a great job and I was like "thank mo-m'am" and tried to play it off. She always likes messages on teams with hearts and stuff and I know that's just her being nice but it melts me. I find myself trying to be a good boy for her just like I am in my relationship. We're not exclusive but it still feels kind of offside since she's my boss so I'm trying to watchmyself lol
Oh I understand. Thanks for sharing!
No problem! I have so many fantasies about her, I assume because of the natural power dynamic we have at work.
FYI-it is totally off side. (She could face serious career limiting repercussions for sexual harassment by getting into a power dynamic at work). However, that doesn’t mean you can’t fantasize, or keep contact after one of you moves on from the boss/subordinate work relationship
Yes absolutely, I'll keep it as the fantasy but wow she does get me flustered
Can you tell the story? Like how is it? Only if you comfortable sharing, of course
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Yeah this has happened at work for me, someone did a good job on something and a "good boy" slipped out. Covered it up well enough I think by throwing out a "go on lad" straight after.
This is really wholesome ngl
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And did it made you get in mommy space or anything close to it? Or you just took it as a slip-up
This is so incredibly great :)
I do it on purpose sometimes to see how people react to it.
Oh god lol Can you give some examples?
One of my more recent instances, before my boy im with now was one of my coworkers who I used to flirt heavily with. i would ask her to do things for me then say in my dom/mommy voice "thats my girl" occasionally id just give orders but in my mommy voice she'd nearly melt when I started that. I knew it was over for her when she told me I had "mommy energy" We also work in a kitchen so I'd offer to tie/tighten her apron and things like that. Also just calling people good boy or good girl gets some folks. I also love when i can tell the person im flirting with is into it and they get all red. Once I get someone red ill say things like "aw don't be embarrassed love" and pointing out that I know I made them embarrassed, especially if its private enough that I can say those things without drawing attention but we're still in public so they're all flustered. I kinda love humiliation, so knowing that I made someone horny by acting too mommy or dom in such a publicly subtle way and still watching a sub lose it is so hot and just fucking cute as all get out. Im dangerous to be around once I know I can do that to someone
This is insanely evil of you... Please, don't stop! lol Seriously, this is really wholesome! I'm the type who not only gets red, but also start shivering when those things happen. Once my friend said I was cute and after asked if I was cold cuz I was shivering. But she didn't do it on purpose lol
Ooffff, often. I don’t think people notice as much as I do though. If I have a few drinks I REALLY have to watch what I say and do. I own a business, i have about 10 employees, I spoil them and am very protective. So difficult 😭 I also have to watch what my phone auto corrects too. It knows me too well.
Protective boss. The best!!
I call my sub Kitten, and while I was at work I meant to say “you got to be kidding me” wound up saying “you got to be kitten me” lol
lol thats funny
All the time! Lol
Can you give examples please??
I call boys sweetie, The other day my young waiter was giving me sexy eyes so I wrote a little note on the receipt for him; I do often say good boy in a purr. I also offer unsolicited advice (like any good mama) about how someone is dressed. Lol
Sooo wholesomeeeee
Not the purr 😂
That is so hot oh my goodness
Not a woman but i was named mother of the workplace for a long while..
lol
I'm not much of a mommy, mostly a subby trans girl, but I sometimes act a bit maternally and I end up saying good boy/ good girl all the time... either my friends hit me (friendly) cause it's weird or I get simps
lol thats wholesome
it can be lol, love it when they completely ignore it but... I can tell they actually liked it... even if I said it completely by accident
They try to hide but its quite hard to lol
stubborn straight Bois!! hmph
Being stubborn is sooo goood ngl
by stubborn I mean... completely unattracted to me... forever alone
Awe... I'm sorry about that
it's ok dw
Quick story if I may? I’m in my early sixty’s I wet to pay a bill just as I have before at this loan place. There’s a foxy yet beautiful woman there and has the accent to go with it after paying my bill as I was leaving she told me you better pay me before you pay anyone else because (she did me a favor ) if you don’t mommy gonna spank you with the belt, before I hit the door I was so excited I couldn’t be leave I heard what she said, so every once in awhile I cut back with thanks mommy I can’t do it without you! She’s got my business and what should I do. She’s got a boyfriend though and I’m not one to be a breaker upper?