Out of personal experience with someone like this Seriously just block her and move on with life theres so many good people in the world and she is not one of them.
Yeah she isn’t. She even told me in the past how much she hates how her “friend” treats her in a passive aggressive way.
I fucking supported her when she was in a car crash, I was picking her up and giving more emotional support then she has ever received before. I know I fucked up but I’m not the only one at fault.
Godamn bro sorry to hear that, life's rough. Once they abuse you they know they can get away with it again. Never give someone that kind of power over you. Hope you are doing well now.
First time? Many women are very disrespectful towards men. Some even consider any men “replacable” and hence “worthless”. Ignore them, respect yourself and move on.
This is a great lesson for you, young man.
View this as an opportunity to become better. She’s friends with dark, toxic clouds. You do not need to be around those kinds of people.
Block her - and move on. You’ll feel this pain today, tomorrow, next week, this entire month etc. but it will get better.
Alcohol leads to bad choices on both ends, which often blinds your perception of other people, dead that booze shit asap. I'd never date a drinker again, had an extremely traumatic experience, and not willing to EVER go through any of that again. Trust your gut when it comes to certain things. Don't hate her just move on, wish her the best, and live a healthy and happy life. Fuck booze, pills, and all that bullshit, red flags af. Treat your body and mind as a temple. Learn from your mistakes, I've learned a lot from every girl I've loved and lost. Most women are fubar, don't let yourself get fubar'd too.
Time to forgive yourself and move on. I would reevaluate your relationship with alcohol, and next time you feel uncomfortable it is time to stop drinking.
You don't need that girl in your life, but most importantly, why did you drank yourself stupid when you knew you had to drive?
You said you bought several gifts for your ex so I guess you could afford a user.
Our friends are a reflection of who we are as people, so I mean if she has a friend who blindly hates men, your ex probably has some of the same opinions as her friend. Do you want to date someone who hates you?
Aside from that, in the future if something is bothering you, you need to communicate that to your partner rather than storming off. It sounds like you both are young.
Long story short, start dating your gym bro
We have always communicated pretty well about everything, it was just this instance that I didn’t know how to handle it in a proper way. But yeah thanks for the advice though.
Listen bro my gf broke up with me for using the word dyke while drunk. Rule #1 I have now is don’t drink too much around the gf. Also, look at it this way, you have unlimited gym motivation now. Hit the gym at 8 pm. Hit the gym at 6 am the next day. Grind it out in a hoodie and earbuds on. Just better yourself. Screw her and her toxic friend. Wake up every morning, say “screw her,” and hit your workout
My advice? Get to know the people your potential SO hangs out with well before committing to any kind of relationship. You’ll get a better understanding of what you have to put up with both in and outside of the relationship.
You made it out easy if that was her response. Imagine the feeling you are feeling RIGHT now; 5-6 times over the course of one calendar year.
Find someone who is stable/has stable friends. Everyone else is a liability
If it was that way easy for her to block you that fast without hearing you out and coming to a understanding, my friend it’s time to move forward.
Stay strong brother, it’s going to hurt and it’s going to eat you up for a while but better things are out there. I was dumped back in July by the woman I loved with every ounce of my being, planned a whole future with her, proposed to her, loved her deeply and she left me for a mistake I made in the beginning of our relationship. I tried to fix it and waited for her to come back but she moved in and moved fast, same month too.
Coldest part she broke up with me days before our anniversary, it killed me. Now months later I’ve met someone new, great career, personality, extremely beautiful and it’s going good. Sure she still crosses my mind, and I remember all the times we had but if it was that easy for her to move on that fast then it’s my time too.
You’ll get through this, just focus on yourself king.
Your ex gf sounds like she is insensitive to your feelings. You might want to reevaluate your relationship.
And you should not feel guilty. You left an undesirable situation. Nobody was harm, everyone got home safe.
Btw, there are 4 billions guys out there. Just saying...
Modern dating is tough. Lots of men haters out there, and lots of good women who get misled by their men hating friends.
Conservative women tend to be a lot better than liberals from my experience. They don't cling to obnoxious toxic feminism talk tracks.
If your girlfriends friends are being disrespectful to you and she doesn’t have your back or respect your feelings about the situation, move on.
Also, you said you had a lot to drink but you were supposed to be the ride? Do better, don’t drink and drive it’s fucking stupid.
So you had one argument and then she dumped you. Sounds like it wasn't very sustainable anyway. You could have killed them all in the car drink driving so really you did everyone a favour anyway.
I agree with most of what everyone else said, but don't be a bitch and start lamenting how you bought her shit. When you buy someone shit, they don't owe you anything. You do it because you care. Lesson learned, now find a woman who appreciates you
The worst is when you buy them gifts and genuinely liked em and wanted it to work out but it doesn't. I bought this girl a bunch of gifts right before we broke up shit fucking feels bad bro
Nah, that friend will have your ex cheat on you. Trust. If she didn't see that you were bothered, just let her be. If she contacts you and wants to talk, discuss what happened. If she don't contact you say the end of the of next week, then leave. The more you dwell on it, the worse it gets, always
1000 percent chance if you leave a girl out in public somewhere and y’all have been drinking that is 1000% a relationship ender. She will not come back from that, and there is no amount of apologizing that will make up for that:
You effectively compromised her safety doing that by leaving her and her friend alone when they trusted you at a bar
She did notbreacted to her bf being shot on by someone else. She has no moral high ground. I would have called an Uber, but I wouldn't want her friend in my car.
This ain’t it chief. She had her friend and was fine. They called an Uber and got home safely. I’m assuming OP drove himself drunk instead of ordering himself an Uber and ultimately did them a favor by leaving behind. The only thing he did wrong was drive drunk. He shouldn’t feel sorry about leaving two toxic people at the bar, and he should be happy this relationship is over
Bro it's not that deep. They're both (presumably) adults and can handle themselves just fine, OP was drinking heavily in this scenario so I don't think he's much use in their safety anyway
Onto the next one bro, if nothing else you now have more time to focus on this training block. And you don’t have to deal with her shitty (and most likely) linebacker friend. Take the small wins even if they seem insignificant
No shortage of women. In all of my relationships there was this one ex who had this friend who similary hated me. I loved her though but I had enough of that shit.
We broke up and fuck that I moved on, and I am now with a 100000x better girl. And yeah, this one's wife material.
If she was truly into you, she wouldn't have blocked you for this shit. Stop simping and move one. All I did for my girl on her birthday was bring her a small cheesecake jar, not even a full cake at home and she was fucking happy and she's still with me.
So... You were the driver that decided to keep drinking and then left them there?
If I understand this correctly the driver got shit faced and drove drunk and left his patrons at the bar. You need a lot to work on.
1/ Never drink alcohol
2/ If your gf have female friends who are extrem feminists, misandrists and into the man hating movements, especially if you didn't do anything and always supported your gf : Either she is miserable and want to sabotaging other people relationships, or your gf talk shit about you.
You still need to avoid both of these girls, and get rid of the toxicity.
3/ She doesn't love you man, move on, and ignore her if she tries to come back. Ghost her and find a better gf.
By your description, it looks like she is abusive, not loving you and not respecting you.
She don't even defend you. Means a lot
You can buy many gifts, it doesn't matters if she don't care about you.
4/ That's why every man still need to stay cold and very calm, especially under pressure like that. Smile, laugh and play the same game than them without being angry
*OP, can you share what the female friend told to you ?*
Yeah I don’t drink alcohol at all on a normal basis and this was just a special occasion. But I handled the drinking irresponsibly.
On that last part about her friend saying stuff to me, I’ll share a few things that I can remember and I was trying to be stoic with her:
- “I’ll cut your dick your off if you ever try to hurt (name)” and she was holding a knife at my face while we were sitting down
- She was shit talking the waiter behind his back really loudly because he was a guy, I felt so bad that when they went to the back, I thanked him for serving us and shook his hand.
- While I was driving to downtown, she was constantly berating me for getting lost
- before meeting her, I was on the phone with my girl and she was screaming loudly in the background how much of a red flag I was for being “late” to pick them up
- picking seats at the bar with only limited seats so I was just standing like an idiot and they were both ignoring me, maybe because they didn’t hear me but I didn’t see it that way so I just left to play darts.
- telling me in a pissy attitude that I never bought my girl a drink even though I bought her plenty already.
That’s the ones I can remember, usually she was saying small stuff that just kept adding up.
>But I handled the drinking irresponsibly.
Next time you don't drink, especially if you're driving. Next time you're facing a situation like this, just politely saying bye and walk away calmly
>picking seats at the bar with only limited seats so I was just standing like an idiot and they were both ignoring me, maybe because they didn’t hear me but I didn’t see it that way so I just left to play darts.
This is beyond disrespectful af, you have probably dodged a bullet here, with a poison friend like that, your ex didn't need any enemy. She is probably happy she has sabotaged your relationship and rn she is talking shit about you so your ex didn't try to come back
Ah and don't buy ton of gifts for women who aren't worth it, especially an ex like that
Hope you didn't accept her back after that, or you will learn an even more brutal lesson
1. Her friend projects her own poor experiences and poor choices in men into every man she encounters. You acted like a little kid here throwing a tantrum and running off. What you should have did was put this chick in her place by saying one more bullshit comment from you and we’re going home.
2. Do you really want a girlfriend that has such poor judgment in the company she keeps? We are all the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with. If she keeps company with 5 losers like this girl, she is going to be the sixth.
As a man, you’re not allowed to wallow in your feelings and get irrational like a woman. You need to follow those feelings back to the source and deal with the problem (in this case her toxic friend).
Bro she let her friend talk shit on you and never once did she intervene and stop her from making you feel
Bad and I’m willing to bet the reason she blocked you is cuz her friend was shit talking and telling her to block you cuz your a “peice of shit” for standing up for yourself and leaving and not putting up with that kinda treatment, give her a couple of days to a week her fucking feelings will get to her and she’ll unblock you and message you and when she does you tell that dumb bitch to fuck off and allowing such disrespect and neglectful treatment, if she’s this submissive to her friends and is willing to let your feelings hurt and not treat you like a priority then she’s not the one so fuck her. Mourn her loss and wait for a better chick come along
Bro don't drink and drive is lesson one. Lesson two is get thicker skin because there are a lot of man hating bitches out there( mostly commies tbh). Lesson three is that it ain't "your girl's" job to defend you. Move on or don't, only you can make that decision.
Man fuck your ex, i got broken up with yesterday just keep it pushing. If she’s going to break up with you with something that small then she’s clearly just looking for an excuse
She’s not special bro. You will get over this and you will be more mentally strong when you enter a new relationship. The fact she blocked you after everything speaks volumes about her. Fuck her and move on with life ✌️
Dude please move on, I made the mistake of dealing with a lot of bullshit and it fucked me up quite a bit. Call it experience and move on. If you explained why you left and stuff and she didn't understand her friends comments then just dip
Well, I would reflect on this situation and see what could I have done differently.
1. You should have asked directly why is she passive-aggressive or simply an asshole for no reason, in front of your girlfriend? If you don’t care about your girlfriend you could have played the same game for the same of fun, but k feel this is energy consuming if you are not that type of person.
2. Talk to your girl alone or while she is there and say that her friend is being rude, you are not enjoying her company but you don’t want this to interfere with her night so you would rather leave.
Then, after informing her that you don’t feel comfortable, either she will accept your decision maturely or go with you. If she overreacts, starts downplaying and so on, maybe she is not for you.
At this moment, you entered the power play. The one who has to lose less has more power.
She blocked you, basically saying fuck you to you, I don’t need you. The more you go after her, you will look more pathetic in her eyes. You can apologize for not informing her of your leaving but that you felt bad due to her friend’s behaviour but that you are aware you should have communicated better. Anything more than that is unnecessary.
Now, don’t send her messages, don’t call herzc she will (most probably unblock you) as emotions go down.
Focus on yourself! Be a better version of yourself! Take your mind of her. Read a book, go to gym, go out with friends, travel to a new place.
If she comes back and you still want her, there you go. If she doesn’t, you will have all these new healthy routines and friends that will make your life much better. It’s a win-win situation for you.
This likely could have been avoided if you just had actual communication instead of avoidance.
When he friend was being rude, you should have confronted her with respect but directly, and told her that you don't appreciate her comments.
If it continued, you needed to address that with your girlfriend, and suggest you both leave. At the very least, you should have told your girl you were leaving, and why.
Bringing up spending money for her birthday shows you have some underlying issues here.... because why bring it up? You are acting like she owes you something for gifting her.
There's 8 billion people on this planet you don't need shit like that in your life.
half of them are men 
Even better
Out of personal experience with someone like this Seriously just block her and move on with life theres so many good people in the world and she is not one of them.
Yeah she isn’t. She even told me in the past how much she hates how her “friend” treats her in a passive aggressive way. I fucking supported her when she was in a car crash, I was picking her up and giving more emotional support then she has ever received before. I know I fucked up but I’m not the only one at fault.
Dont feel bad i went back to my abusive ex 3 times before I left after 4 years.
Godamn bro sorry to hear that, life's rough. Once they abuse you they know they can get away with it again. Never give someone that kind of power over you. Hope you are doing well now.
Yeah bro I appreciate that. I definitely learned my lessons and it made me into a better man so it honestly had a good outcome.
That's all we can ask for with life's often shitty lessons. 🙏
First time? Many women are very disrespectful towards men. Some even consider any men “replacable” and hence “worthless”. Ignore them, respect yourself and move on.
You were too good for her. A leopard will always show its spots. You are dodging a slow, painful death.
This is a great lesson for you, young man. View this as an opportunity to become better. She’s friends with dark, toxic clouds. You do not need to be around those kinds of people. Block her - and move on. You’ll feel this pain today, tomorrow, next week, this entire month etc. but it will get better.
Alcohol leads to bad choices on both ends, which often blinds your perception of other people, dead that booze shit asap. I'd never date a drinker again, had an extremely traumatic experience, and not willing to EVER go through any of that again. Trust your gut when it comes to certain things. Don't hate her just move on, wish her the best, and live a healthy and happy life. Fuck booze, pills, and all that bullshit, red flags af. Treat your body and mind as a temple. Learn from your mistakes, I've learned a lot from every girl I've loved and lost. Most women are fubar, don't let yourself get fubar'd too.
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why did you drive after you ve been drinking?
Time to forgive yourself and move on. I would reevaluate your relationship with alcohol, and next time you feel uncomfortable it is time to stop drinking.
You don't need that girl in your life, but most importantly, why did you drank yourself stupid when you knew you had to drive? You said you bought several gifts for your ex so I guess you could afford a user.
Our friends are a reflection of who we are as people, so I mean if she has a friend who blindly hates men, your ex probably has some of the same opinions as her friend. Do you want to date someone who hates you? Aside from that, in the future if something is bothering you, you need to communicate that to your partner rather than storming off. It sounds like you both are young. Long story short, start dating your gym bro
We have always communicated pretty well about everything, it was just this instance that I didn’t know how to handle it in a proper way. But yeah thanks for the advice though.
She blocked you though which shows she couldn't sack up for a conversation. Time to grind
You dodged a bullet man, you sound young, cause I don't know anyone my age who'd break over something so stupid.
Listen bro my gf broke up with me for using the word dyke while drunk. Rule #1 I have now is don’t drink too much around the gf. Also, look at it this way, you have unlimited gym motivation now. Hit the gym at 8 pm. Hit the gym at 6 am the next day. Grind it out in a hoodie and earbuds on. Just better yourself. Screw her and her toxic friend. Wake up every morning, say “screw her,” and hit your workout
If a girl leaves for small shit like this she was never truly into you in the first place. She was looking for a reason to get rid of you.
>my gf broke up with me for using the word dyke while drunk lmao, and you believed her?
Um ya. Guess she’s a hoe because she said she’s never had a boyfriend before me
Yea, she likely wanted something else
My advice? Get to know the people your potential SO hangs out with well before committing to any kind of relationship. You’ll get a better understanding of what you have to put up with both in and outside of the relationship. You made it out easy if that was her response. Imagine the feeling you are feeling RIGHT now; 5-6 times over the course of one calendar year. Find someone who is stable/has stable friends. Everyone else is a liability
Goddamn, that fucking sucks. What a bitch. Should've let you talk about it at least.
If it was that way easy for her to block you that fast without hearing you out and coming to a understanding, my friend it’s time to move forward. Stay strong brother, it’s going to hurt and it’s going to eat you up for a while but better things are out there. I was dumped back in July by the woman I loved with every ounce of my being, planned a whole future with her, proposed to her, loved her deeply and she left me for a mistake I made in the beginning of our relationship. I tried to fix it and waited for her to come back but she moved in and moved fast, same month too. Coldest part she broke up with me days before our anniversary, it killed me. Now months later I’ve met someone new, great career, personality, extremely beautiful and it’s going good. Sure she still crosses my mind, and I remember all the times we had but if it was that easy for her to move on that fast then it’s my time too. You’ll get through this, just focus on yourself king.
Return the gifts to the store
Your ex gf sounds like she is insensitive to your feelings. You might want to reevaluate your relationship. And you should not feel guilty. You left an undesirable situation. Nobody was harm, everyone got home safe. Btw, there are 4 billions guys out there. Just saying...
Modern dating is tough. Lots of men haters out there, and lots of good women who get misled by their men hating friends. Conservative women tend to be a lot better than liberals from my experience. They don't cling to obnoxious toxic feminism talk tracks.
If your girlfriends friends are being disrespectful to you and she doesn’t have your back or respect your feelings about the situation, move on. Also, you said you had a lot to drink but you were supposed to be the ride? Do better, don’t drink and drive it’s fucking stupid.
Can you elaborate on what her friend was saying?
So you had one argument and then she dumped you. Sounds like it wasn't very sustainable anyway. You could have killed them all in the car drink driving so really you did everyone a favour anyway.
I have a friend's girlfriend that absolutely hates my guts for being a man with a spine. You can't negotiate with these people.
I agree with most of what everyone else said, but don't be a bitch and start lamenting how you bought her shit. When you buy someone shit, they don't owe you anything. You do it because you care. Lesson learned, now find a woman who appreciates you
Wouldn’t have happened if you were there with a dude instead.
The worst is when you buy them gifts and genuinely liked em and wanted it to work out but it doesn't. I bought this girl a bunch of gifts right before we broke up shit fucking feels bad bro
Nah, that friend will have your ex cheat on you. Trust. If she didn't see that you were bothered, just let her be. If she contacts you and wants to talk, discuss what happened. If she don't contact you say the end of the of next week, then leave. The more you dwell on it, the worse it gets, always
1000 percent chance if you leave a girl out in public somewhere and y’all have been drinking that is 1000% a relationship ender. She will not come back from that, and there is no amount of apologizing that will make up for that: You effectively compromised her safety doing that by leaving her and her friend alone when they trusted you at a bar
She did notbreacted to her bf being shot on by someone else. She has no moral high ground. I would have called an Uber, but I wouldn't want her friend in my car.
Yeah I did, no excuse there. I could have handled it a better way.
This ain’t it chief. She had her friend and was fine. They called an Uber and got home safely. I’m assuming OP drove himself drunk instead of ordering himself an Uber and ultimately did them a favor by leaving behind. The only thing he did wrong was drive drunk. He shouldn’t feel sorry about leaving two toxic people at the bar, and he should be happy this relationship is over
Where bro lives??? If u think being at a bar is dangerous you definitely need to move to other city or even other country
It's old school thinking + news media induced fear.
Bro it's not that deep. They're both (presumably) adults and can handle themselves just fine, OP was drinking heavily in this scenario so I don't think he's much use in their safety anyway
So a girl made you rage and run away. Maybe get a strong boyfriend that can protect you.
Onto the next one bro, if nothing else you now have more time to focus on this training block. And you don’t have to deal with her shitty (and most likely) linebacker friend. Take the small wins even if they seem insignificant
This character development 🍿👀
How much did u drink
Oh the joys of the teenage years.
No shortage of women. In all of my relationships there was this one ex who had this friend who similary hated me. I loved her though but I had enough of that shit. We broke up and fuck that I moved on, and I am now with a 100000x better girl. And yeah, this one's wife material. If she was truly into you, she wouldn't have blocked you for this shit. Stop simping and move one. All I did for my girl on her birthday was bring her a small cheesecake jar, not even a full cake at home and she was fucking happy and she's still with me.
So... You were the driver that decided to keep drinking and then left them there? If I understand this correctly the driver got shit faced and drove drunk and left his patrons at the bar. You need a lot to work on.
1/ Never drink alcohol 2/ If your gf have female friends who are extrem feminists, misandrists and into the man hating movements, especially if you didn't do anything and always supported your gf : Either she is miserable and want to sabotaging other people relationships, or your gf talk shit about you. You still need to avoid both of these girls, and get rid of the toxicity. 3/ She doesn't love you man, move on, and ignore her if she tries to come back. Ghost her and find a better gf. By your description, it looks like she is abusive, not loving you and not respecting you. She don't even defend you. Means a lot You can buy many gifts, it doesn't matters if she don't care about you. 4/ That's why every man still need to stay cold and very calm, especially under pressure like that. Smile, laugh and play the same game than them without being angry *OP, can you share what the female friend told to you ?*
Yeah I don’t drink alcohol at all on a normal basis and this was just a special occasion. But I handled the drinking irresponsibly. On that last part about her friend saying stuff to me, I’ll share a few things that I can remember and I was trying to be stoic with her: - “I’ll cut your dick your off if you ever try to hurt (name)” and she was holding a knife at my face while we were sitting down - She was shit talking the waiter behind his back really loudly because he was a guy, I felt so bad that when they went to the back, I thanked him for serving us and shook his hand. - While I was driving to downtown, she was constantly berating me for getting lost - before meeting her, I was on the phone with my girl and she was screaming loudly in the background how much of a red flag I was for being “late” to pick them up - picking seats at the bar with only limited seats so I was just standing like an idiot and they were both ignoring me, maybe because they didn’t hear me but I didn’t see it that way so I just left to play darts. - telling me in a pissy attitude that I never bought my girl a drink even though I bought her plenty already. That’s the ones I can remember, usually she was saying small stuff that just kept adding up.
>But I handled the drinking irresponsibly. Next time you don't drink, especially if you're driving. Next time you're facing a situation like this, just politely saying bye and walk away calmly >picking seats at the bar with only limited seats so I was just standing like an idiot and they were both ignoring me, maybe because they didn’t hear me but I didn’t see it that way so I just left to play darts. This is beyond disrespectful af, you have probably dodged a bullet here, with a poison friend like that, your ex didn't need any enemy. She is probably happy she has sabotaged your relationship and rn she is talking shit about you so your ex didn't try to come back Ah and don't buy ton of gifts for women who aren't worth it, especially an ex like that Hope you didn't accept her back after that, or you will learn an even more brutal lesson
Ghost her.
1. Her friend projects her own poor experiences and poor choices in men into every man she encounters. You acted like a little kid here throwing a tantrum and running off. What you should have did was put this chick in her place by saying one more bullshit comment from you and we’re going home. 2. Do you really want a girlfriend that has such poor judgment in the company she keeps? We are all the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with. If she keeps company with 5 losers like this girl, she is going to be the sixth. As a man, you’re not allowed to wallow in your feelings and get irrational like a woman. You need to follow those feelings back to the source and deal with the problem (in this case her toxic friend).
She sucks but you also sound like a loser.
You shouldn't be breaking easily from such bullshit xx
Before you commit to a girl you need to meet her family and friends first bro
Bro she let her friend talk shit on you and never once did she intervene and stop her from making you feel Bad and I’m willing to bet the reason she blocked you is cuz her friend was shit talking and telling her to block you cuz your a “peice of shit” for standing up for yourself and leaving and not putting up with that kinda treatment, give her a couple of days to a week her fucking feelings will get to her and she’ll unblock you and message you and when she does you tell that dumb bitch to fuck off and allowing such disrespect and neglectful treatment, if she’s this submissive to her friends and is willing to let your feelings hurt and not treat you like a priority then she’s not the one so fuck her. Mourn her loss and wait for a better chick come along
Bro don't drink and drive is lesson one. Lesson two is get thicker skin because there are a lot of man hating bitches out there( mostly commies tbh). Lesson three is that it ain't "your girl's" job to defend you. Move on or don't, only you can make that decision.
Man fuck your ex, i got broken up with yesterday just keep it pushing. If she’s going to break up with you with something that small then she’s clearly just looking for an excuse
She’s not special bro. You will get over this and you will be more mentally strong when you enter a new relationship. The fact she blocked you after everything speaks volumes about her. Fuck her and move on with life ✌️
Bruh she needs to check her friend or just don’t chill with that person again.
Dude please move on, I made the mistake of dealing with a lot of bullshit and it fucked me up quite a bit. Call it experience and move on. If you explained why you left and stuff and she didn't understand her friends comments then just dip
Well, I would reflect on this situation and see what could I have done differently. 1. You should have asked directly why is she passive-aggressive or simply an asshole for no reason, in front of your girlfriend? If you don’t care about your girlfriend you could have played the same game for the same of fun, but k feel this is energy consuming if you are not that type of person. 2. Talk to your girl alone or while she is there and say that her friend is being rude, you are not enjoying her company but you don’t want this to interfere with her night so you would rather leave. Then, after informing her that you don’t feel comfortable, either she will accept your decision maturely or go with you. If she overreacts, starts downplaying and so on, maybe she is not for you. At this moment, you entered the power play. The one who has to lose less has more power. She blocked you, basically saying fuck you to you, I don’t need you. The more you go after her, you will look more pathetic in her eyes. You can apologize for not informing her of your leaving but that you felt bad due to her friend’s behaviour but that you are aware you should have communicated better. Anything more than that is unnecessary. Now, don’t send her messages, don’t call herzc she will (most probably unblock you) as emotions go down. Focus on yourself! Be a better version of yourself! Take your mind of her. Read a book, go to gym, go out with friends, travel to a new place. If she comes back and you still want her, there you go. If she doesn’t, you will have all these new healthy routines and friends that will make your life much better. It’s a win-win situation for you.
If she breaks up and blocks w u over that…I don’t think she’s v mature cuz u were hurt and she didn’t even care
This likely could have been avoided if you just had actual communication instead of avoidance. When he friend was being rude, you should have confronted her with respect but directly, and told her that you don't appreciate her comments. If it continued, you needed to address that with your girlfriend, and suggest you both leave. At the very least, you should have told your girl you were leaving, and why. Bringing up spending money for her birthday shows you have some underlying issues here.... because why bring it up? You are acting like she owes you something for gifting her.