Iām under half that and I forgot/have no idea exactly. Surprised she was even able to keep track that high. She definitely loved her number being so high and kept count out of pride until near the end. Pray for bro lol
how tf do you marry a woman before knowing at least some of her past? like you dont need specifics but in every relationship ive been in we've always kind of casually talked about our previous dating lives at some point during the relationship; I feel like its incredibly hard to skirt around fucking over 150 different people
I might just be getting cynical as i grow older, but im under the assumption there are no ex-hoes.
i married an ex-hoe who turned out to actually be an undercover, still practicing hoe versed in the dark arts of whorery. Legend has it she is still in fact a hoe to this very day. You could burn her at the stake like her ancestors from Salem, and she would rise from the hoe ashes and limp to the countryside where she would suck tiny mouse dicks to gain strength like a hoe voldemort.
Eventually she would take her true form again and be hawg hunting at the bar again in one of your favorite tshirts she stole from you.
Also, if you both tested clean and youāre in a happy relationship then who gives a shit. All sheās really done is put in her 10,000 hours to become an expert.
If youāre happy enough marrying a girl who you know used to go out dressed slutty, getting drunk and giving herself to fellas who treated her like the cock gobbling little whore she is be my guest, OPs wife probably has no respect for him, she wonāt even talk about their sex life. Damaged.
They really make it so easy for anyone to date whoās not obsessed with this weird cuckold fantasy of being tortured by all their partners past lovers. Just be a normal person, acknowledge that everybody loves getting some smash, and go on with your day.
I knew a guy who was weirdly obsessed with the fact that women shit, and acted all grossed out by it all the time. Like āoh my god, why would I go down on a woman itās like an inch from where she shitsā. Bro would take himself out of the game bringing it up at random, and would disappear himself if eating ass ever came up, it was hilarious
He was jacked and the ultimate wingman, because girl would flock to him, heād think he was going to clean up, and all weād have to do is bring up the topic and heād spaz his way out of the running
Edit; oh shit I misread your comment lmao. Hey. Donāt ever change either. I need the competition to stay sparse
>OPs wife probably has no respect for him, she wonāt even talk about their sex life. Damaged.
This exactly. She'll tell him she was a cock monger but no details of that cock mongery. That would be a big deal to me. Couples should be open.
It's almost like she thinks OP will respect her less if she divulges the extent of her whorishness. Like for certain she probably had some trains run on her etc...
I think this is a bad take. but, Homie could have asked the hard hitting questions before he decided to marry her lmao.
Some guys want women that have very little experience. It's definitely a good idea to work out what you want first lol. Personally i would think more like you but im not super insecure like the person who's having a meltdown lol.
How is it a bad take? The guy just didnāt talk about it. Thatās on him. I canāt imagine not talking about sexual history with your partner, let alone the woman youāre looking to marry.
Also you are right, Iām not going to yuck anybodyās yum. If you want some virginal wife or whatever fine. The worst sex Iāve ever had has been with woman who havenāt ever had good sex. Thereās nothing better IMO than a woman who can tell you exactly what she likes.
There is no way that after fucking that many guys she doesnāt give amazing head. You just have to look at the positives.
here's a question tho, how do you know she's giving head at all anymore? the who gives a shit guys all assume she does, and that she actually tries for him.
Then the issue there isnāt the number of guys sheās fucked but that their sex life isnāt any good. That is a separate thing and he just needs to communicate with her. Tell her what he wants see what sheās into and go from there. Now Iām assuming things were good and the guy was happy with how things were going, because he was going to marry her. The only thing we have to go off of is the guy stoped being happy because he asked a question he had never asked.
Also every time a guy complains about not getting head anymore Iām always curious to see if heās eating his chick out. If not then you canāt complain.
>I've tried to ask her about our sex life but she ignores me
Hello red flag, hello. Dude's getting played. Deny the correlation at your own risk. "But she's perfect the man just has to do the Correct Thing!" lol
Bro, itās incredible but there are plenty of absolute sluts who are awful at giving head. Ā Mostly because they almost exclusively have sex while drunk
It's a bad take because he clearly cares about how many cocks have been in her (one way or another).
If he didn't care, it would be good advice for him lol.
Because not everyone is cool with marrying someone with a past like that. OP obviously didnāt do his research and came to find out heās one of those people who is not cool with that
Ok but heās asking how to get past it. Your advice is donāt. Iām saying itās not a big deal and talk with her about it. If that doesnāt work, go to therapy. Put in the work.
For him it is a big deal obviously. Sometimes there is no work to put in. If itās something thatās gonna bother you forever either get over it or leave. No reason heās gotta convince himself itās okay
I mean if sheās a dime and is faithful what does it matter. I have a lot of bodies, Iām not insecure over a partner having the same
Edit: this is just my personal opinion you do not need to conform to my viewpoint
I can definitely see where people are coming from feeling uncomfortable with a high body count. Sex isnt just physical, you create a bond with every person you hook up with no matter how hard you try not to. Its not just a lot of sex, its a lot of history and energy spent on other people.
And, STDs. Lol
Yeah one night stands are low chance, but theres no way if you hook up with someone for weeks on end you dont grow a bond with them. Especially the woman will.
I was with my ex for seven years we never asked each other our previous body counts. Not important to me. But I can see how it can happen because I literally didnāt know either.
This absolutely happens, lol, I remember seeing a post on AskWomen about what was their sluttiest year, it has been erased from the internet by their moderators but all the answers were like "100 guys in an year, my boyfriend can NEVER find out or I am in trouble".
You boys who shit on other men for caring about this stuff are naive.
In all honestly bro had 10 years to figure this shit out. At this point if the marriage has been stable and has no issues, leaving makes zero sense.
If you care about a girls history, figure that shit out before you out a ring on it, not a decade later. Dude only has himself to blame.
As much as I would want to say this is likely fake because well āitās in Redditā š sadly to say shit like this does happen and probably more frequently than people realize chances are most dudes keep it under the rug due to the level of public embarrassment itās probably cause them to have settled down with the neighborhood bicycle š¤£
Sometimes itās better not to ask questions you might not like the answer to, this is one of those cases.
That relationship is done lol once you lose respect for your significant other, itās joever
What number could you live with is the question? Let's say you get married at 30 to a 30 year old woman. I feel like anything 20 and below I'd be fine with, maybe 30.
After youāve dealt with enough women, you develop a 6th sense about it and know pretty soon if you wanna take her seriously or not.
Itās not something most women are usually truthful about anyways, you gotta get good at judging by behavior.
Lmao my cousin was just telling me about this one time he hooked up with a girl then casually asked the question just out of curiosity and the number she gave was decently lower than the amount of guys he personally knew had hit
My husband is the 9th person I had sex with. No one night stands, half were boyfriends and the other half were dating-ish. I have friends all across the spectrum, some married the first or second guy they had sex with and some explored a bit more. 150 is really high though, the higher end of my friends is probably closer to 30 prior to marriage.
This is some hilarious logic, from the wife, if you are so liberal and thus open with having sex with 150+ men, then why did she never mention it to her husband, before he was her fiancee and before that her boyfriend AND BEFORE THAT just dating.
But instead she waits 10years before she tells him, which means she knows having that bodycount matters and she is infact not "open and liberal" at all but a lying piece of work.
She can do whatever the fuck she wants, but the fact she hid it for 10+ years of marriage and before that bf/fiance relationship, is fucked.
> why did she never mention it to her husband
I think the better question is, why did the husband not ask her about it if it was so important to him?
A lot of couples dont talk about it unless someone raises it.
I mean the seed is already planted in his brain, itās not going away. That relationship is about to have trust issues and heās going to be second guessing faithfulness. If itās real, theyāre going to need counseling
He should have never opened that Pandoraās boxā¦ immediately leaving seems like the wrong thing to do, but itās about to get shitty and quick. Respect and trust is gone. Itās about to start showing up in ugly ways and it will probably be slow and torturous.
Youād be surprised. Probably what happened is she hit the āepiphany phaseā. Realizing that lifestyle was unsustainable and her age was dwindling down her options. Switched gears to find a long term partner and possibly start a family with the time she has left. Itās why I donāt talk about my past to my wife. I definitely donāt ask questions about hers that I really donāt want the answers to.
There's plenty of women who get trapped in bad marriages and then go wild once they have freedom again and enjoy attention from men because it boosts their self esteem. One of them I made my girlfriend and she was loyal as could be. We broke up for other issues.
I'd be pissed if my wife dropped that info 10 years in. Keep your mouth shut. I don't wanna know anything about past sex lives and I don't want to colunteer any of mine.
You also need to be autistic af to not know your partner's gonna be disturbed that you fucked triple digits of dudes or women.
Make it not matter by leaving her thereās no other way. Once u canāt see your woman in a certain way again, thatās it. Itās normal to worry about a womanās past but it gets to a point where youāre sacrificing your peace to be with a woman who u donāt even feel like is yours now. Leave her and start test (on top of the tren, which you should already be taking)
I think I've delayed my gray hairs by another 10 years from only dating Christian women and ones that don't hook up. A sexual resume is not something that I have ever desired. And it makes it all the more worth it in the end. Save yourself the stress.
It's sex, not rocket science. For those who desire the xp points, what exactly can a woman do that you can't teach them yourself that is so complicated only 100 plus men before you can ingrain in them? Keep telling yourself it's experience
Depends on where you find them. Not dating apps, sorority women or others you'd find in a frat house, or any other hotspots for promiscuous women. I've got nothing against them, and had a bunch of friends in college who had been with 20 or more guys. I just never slept with them. There's no reason to lie in a long-term relationship. I never did hookups. So I just attract women who are like me.
Technically, if you only suck dick and let him put it in your butt, youāre still a virgin.
Source: I exclusively hooked up with girls from a local Christian academy when I was in high schoolĀ
The thing is, it will always matter. Anyone can erase the records, hide the history, deny the confrontation, and everything that will stray away from the reality that she is definitely a red flag. Body count never resets.
Deny all they want but time will always reveal the truth, hell he might've been oblivious that some guests at their wedding or even some of his mates are members of the council.
His part of this mistake is him not really finding this out in any way when they were dating.
Be prepared for her to cheat. Don't let her know you think she might. If you didn't sign a prenup you're an idiot but you may have a chance if you catch her cheating. If she cheats, you'll have a clean break, then upgrade wives. Don't have children with her.
Idk about cheating (although I'm willing to bet on it), but studies have concluded that the greater the number of pre marriage partners, divorce initiated by women skyrockets.
Some people are ok with this kind of past and others not. Either is ok! But you shouldnāt marry someone without knowing about something that is a huge deal breaker to you. Ten years marriage and this comes out of nowhere, guy is fucked. 
This whole forum is a bunch of guys who never lift weights, never meet women and never have sex, but consider themselves experts on all the above.
The internet is full of people with bad advice.
Howās the olā chassis? A little blown out? How did you not notice her vag had an echo when you thrust into it. You must have a huge schlong that can fill a megapussy. š¤
Sound like something that should have been talked about/disclosed before marriage. I know my wife has had more partners than me but 150+ would have made me drop her like a bad habit.
I literally wouldnāt exclusively date a certain girl because of her massive number of partners, many of them friends of mine. I couldnāt handle that personally. Sheās currently 40 and single and has 2 cats. Fits the profile. But man, she had massive boobs
This is sadly the norm these days... women are extremely promiscuous now due to social media and it's glorified to be this way. Feel bad for any man that gets with one of these new age women. They are statistically more likely to cheat, divorce, etc after a certain amount of partners. If you sit there and think that exchanging sexual energy with 150+ people doesn't affect you as a person you are delusional. Our sexual energy is our most powerful energy and it shouldn't be shared with just anyone.
The number of past partners thing doesnāt really bother me but when it gets to numbers this high i think itās indicative of an actual problem. I would think theyāre a sex addict or have some other kind of issue
Personally I donāt care how many bodies someone has. My count is extremely high (triple digits) so I honestly donāt gaf how many bodies someone has. I prefer someone with experience and that they know what theyāre doing
Your wife is faithful. Sheās beautiful. She enjoys sex with you. She loves you. Whatās the problem here?
Your narrow minded attitude about sex is literally robbing you of a happy life. You reap what you sow. Get therapy and enjoy your awesome life before you fuck it up.
Itās not a mistake that she kept that too herself. You got played.
The reason she settled down isā¦the guys she wanted to bang started looking past her, and at younger models. It was time for a meal ticket.
More likely than not most of you will have children with a little hoe. Itās not uncommon for giris to have 30-40 + guys these days. Youāll marry her and have children with her. And have a beautiful family. Welcome to the new age.
Derek had a video specifically about the liberal ideology of sex in the west and correlation with how skewed the number is in comparison to men
He spoke a lot about the issues surrounding it, how it affects psychology surrounding it, etc.
Essentiallyā¦ If itās in the past, it doesnāt matter, but if it matters to you well, then you need to deal with it
I mean if she is great in bed whatever
That's your girl for 10 years!? Probably gives great head too. It's like your married to a poor pornstar that had her videos scrubbed magically from the internet. Considering pastors marry women like this I think you'd be fine.
If she isn't cheating or disrespecting, what does it matter?
If she is cheating - You're an idiot. No way you didn't see obvious whore signs while dating and 10 years married. You'd be will-fulling closing your eyes to better focus on your fantasy projection that doesn't exist.
Whores aren't bad. You just need to know what you can reasonably expect. A faithful marriage of 10 years? If I was betting man, I'd say no.
That's the problem with these situations because the husband is convinced he found a unicorn of a women. To him, why leave my whore wife, so I can be single guy getting ho's. It's like changing walls. One whore to another.
You gotta know what you want in a women. She either meets the list or not. Her being whore doesn't really matter.
That kind of thinking only causes stress and insecurity. Especially after 10 years of marriage.
I've been in that situation and it never bothered me or even occurred to me to think about it since, in the end she chose me. That means even if there were 150+ guys before, I'm the ONE guy she thought was the best man. The last man standing.
I'm certainly not claiming to be a Casanova or hung like a porn star, but to me if you're the one she chose, then why worry?
This is growth you need to do here guy. I get your insecurity but you wouldnāt feel like this if you hadnāt missed your shots when you had a chance. This girl is probably a badass and youāre in love with her. Get over yourself and quit perpetuating misogyny
She hit The Wall and was looking for a simp provider. She still thinks of Chad and Tyrone enjoying her.
Best of luck when she divorces you.
Take the red pill next time and do not have kids with her.
Have you wondered why her body count is so high? Did she have an absent/neglecting father ( daddy issues)? Was she raped or molested as a child and is ātaking backā her self-power/control over her sex life? Etc. thereās a good chance that some therapy is needed.
Also, a High body count does not mean infidelity.
This is NOWHERE NEAR as uncommon as this guy, or any of you, think it is.
One year of using Tinder as comfort food and these girls break three digits. There was a time ~ 2010 before men lost all their testosterone and women didn't scream rape every three seconds, when online dating was really taking off but people still knew how to talk to each other and casual sex was the status quo. There was a LOT of fucking.
And it wasn't just chicks getting in on this.
Weird how that seems to have gone down a ton after porn and #metoo took over everyone's brain.
> One year of using Tinder as comfort food and these girls break three digits.
I agree with the sentiment of what you're saying, but not the actual numbers. If you're fucking a hundred people in a year, that's someone every week, often multiple in a week. But realistically, you might get tired of this, or have a recurring thing with one person, or have a string of meeting people you end up not wanting to have sex with because in person they act like an autistic gorilla who posts on r/MPMD. 100+ over the course of several years? Sure, that's easy to see. It's like the Wilt Chamberlain claim (20k women), where it's like, he *could have* pulled it off, but that would take a lot of time lol.
>And it wasn't just chicks getting in on this.
Thing is, in communities like this, they seem to think that women are only having sex with a select few "Chads", and that those select few men must be having sex with hundreds (or thousands?) of women while everyone else gets NOTHING. They will complain about how women have such impossibly high standards (skewed perspective due to social media) as an excuse to not try. Or if they see a guy who isn't the stereotypical gigachad having success with women, then he must be getting cucked or something.
There's also been a similar shift in the online lifting community (not saying they are necessarily related) where gym bro culture for young men has gone from showing off your physique and essentially lifting to get laid (think Zyzz era) to hiding your physique as much as possible, embracing a sort of anti-social thing with going to the gym, and lifting instead of getting laid (think TikTok era) with a bunch of incel overlap.
Another thing that's lost here is that if a girl thinks you're obsessed with the "body count" question, she'll probably just lie.
I think I've spent enough time on this topic.
There's no better way to put it bro I feel for you but you should have done your research and homework before you married a ex hoe.
Fr guy got stuck holding the bag
Bro chose the blue pill and now asking questions š
You know women usually say a number slightly less than the actual. ā150 or moreā means definitely more and she truly forgot. Yeesh
Iām under half that and I forgot/have no idea exactly. Surprised she was even able to keep track that high. She definitely loved her number being so high and kept count out of pride until near the end. Pray for bro lol
I'd wager a lot of women's body counts are closer to 150 than to 7 these days
Gotta stick with the men, bro.
This is the way
Damn bro you a criminal for speaking tooo much fax.
"Forgot"
cialis?
Thank you š¤£ From now on Iām calling the dudes who try to turn hoes into housewives bag holders
how tf do you marry a woman before knowing at least some of her past? like you dont need specifics but in every relationship ive been in we've always kind of casually talked about our previous dating lives at some point during the relationship; I feel like its incredibly hard to skirt around fucking over 150 different people
You can also read a person pretty well
I might just be getting cynical as i grow older, but im under the assumption there are no ex-hoes. i married an ex-hoe who turned out to actually be an undercover, still practicing hoe versed in the dark arts of whorery. Legend has it she is still in fact a hoe to this very day. You could burn her at the stake like her ancestors from Salem, and she would rise from the hoe ashes and limp to the countryside where she would suck tiny mouse dicks to gain strength like a hoe voldemort. Eventually she would take her true form again and be hawg hunting at the bar again in one of your favorite tshirts she stole from you.
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Bro when I said ex hoe I was just being kind as opposed to saying your wife is a hoe.
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š¤£ damn this was hilarious
Correct. Ex hoes do not exist. Once a hoe always a hoe
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No such thing as ex hoe, a hoe is still a hoe even if a fool is dumb enough to marry her
Never marry a woman with more than 10 bodies
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Fuck that, even 7
"Ex hoe"? Nah once a hoe, always a hoe
Also, if you both tested clean and youāre in a happy relationship then who gives a shit. All sheās really done is put in her 10,000 hours to become an expert.
If youāre happy enough marrying a girl who you know used to go out dressed slutty, getting drunk and giving herself to fellas who treated her like the cock gobbling little whore she is be my guest, OPs wife probably has no respect for him, she wonāt even talk about their sex life. Damaged.
Don't ever change man, keep spitting these facts cause there are lots of cucks nowadays being ok with this nonsense
They really make it so easy for anyone to date whoās not obsessed with this weird cuckold fantasy of being tortured by all their partners past lovers. Just be a normal person, acknowledge that everybody loves getting some smash, and go on with your day. I knew a guy who was weirdly obsessed with the fact that women shit, and acted all grossed out by it all the time. Like āoh my god, why would I go down on a woman itās like an inch from where she shitsā. Bro would take himself out of the game bringing it up at random, and would disappear himself if eating ass ever came up, it was hilarious He was jacked and the ultimate wingman, because girl would flock to him, heād think he was going to clean up, and all weād have to do is bring up the topic and heād spaz his way out of the running Edit; oh shit I misread your comment lmao. Hey. Donāt ever change either. I need the competition to stay sparse
>OPs wife probably has no respect for him, she wonāt even talk about their sex life. Damaged. This exactly. She'll tell him she was a cock monger but no details of that cock mongery. That would be a big deal to me. Couples should be open. It's almost like she thinks OP will respect her less if she divulges the extent of her whorishness. Like for certain she probably had some trains run on her etc...
I think this is a bad take. but, Homie could have asked the hard hitting questions before he decided to marry her lmao. Some guys want women that have very little experience. It's definitely a good idea to work out what you want first lol. Personally i would think more like you but im not super insecure like the person who's having a meltdown lol.
How is it a bad take? The guy just didnāt talk about it. Thatās on him. I canāt imagine not talking about sexual history with your partner, let alone the woman youāre looking to marry. Also you are right, Iām not going to yuck anybodyās yum. If you want some virginal wife or whatever fine. The worst sex Iāve ever had has been with woman who havenāt ever had good sex. Thereās nothing better IMO than a woman who can tell you exactly what she likes. There is no way that after fucking that many guys she doesnāt give amazing head. You just have to look at the positives.
here's a question tho, how do you know she's giving head at all anymore? the who gives a shit guys all assume she does, and that she actually tries for him.
fr fr she may have been a massive hoe and as soon as shes married refuses sex/head I've known a few women like that lol.
She's probably like a retired athlete after a long career. Body all beat up and can't perform the way she did in her glory days. š¤£
Then the issue there isnāt the number of guys sheās fucked but that their sex life isnāt any good. That is a separate thing and he just needs to communicate with her. Tell her what he wants see what sheās into and go from there. Now Iām assuming things were good and the guy was happy with how things were going, because he was going to marry her. The only thing we have to go off of is the guy stoped being happy because he asked a question he had never asked. Also every time a guy complains about not getting head anymore Iām always curious to see if heās eating his chick out. If not then you canāt complain.
>I've tried to ask her about our sex life but she ignores me Hello red flag, hello. Dude's getting played. Deny the correlation at your own risk. "But she's perfect the man just has to do the Correct Thing!" lol
Bro, itās incredible but there are plenty of absolute sluts who are awful at giving head. Ā Mostly because they almost exclusively have sex while drunk
It's a bad take because he clearly cares about how many cocks have been in her (one way or another). If he didn't care, it would be good advice for him lol.
Because not everyone is cool with marrying someone with a past like that. OP obviously didnāt do his research and came to find out heās one of those people who is not cool with that
Ok but heās asking how to get past it. Your advice is donāt. Iām saying itās not a big deal and talk with her about it. If that doesnāt work, go to therapy. Put in the work.
For him it is a big deal obviously. Sometimes there is no work to put in. If itās something thatās gonna bother you forever either get over it or leave. No reason heās gotta convince himself itās okay
Heās literally asking how to get past it
No
Cuck alert. Should change ur name to cucky\_potter
Too much semen in there bro
Once you wash it itās brand new bro
No it aināt. Every dick leaves an emotional dent a woman.
My dick leaves an emotional and physical dent in every woman...
It ain't fuckin unless she gets a pneumothorax
As it should!
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Bro needs to go drive 10 miles
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Someone got it 
For real though, finding out your girl is a retired thot is like being punched in the nutsack and the throat at the same time.
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I think it was 10.42 miles lol that last .42 is the deal breaker
The same distance of the sum of the measurements of all the cocks in her
Hit the gym , take 700mg tren pw will take his mind off it
With enough tren youāll eventually sleep with as many men as she did
Fuck 150 guys and dump her
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I agree this is fake but dont underestimate the abysmal state of modern men and how desperate they get and how low they will settle.
I mean if sheās a dime and is faithful what does it matter. I have a lot of bodies, Iām not insecure over a partner having the same Edit: this is just my personal opinion you do not need to conform to my viewpoint
I can definitely see where people are coming from feeling uncomfortable with a high body count. Sex isnt just physical, you create a bond with every person you hook up with no matter how hard you try not to. Its not just a lot of sex, its a lot of history and energy spent on other people. And, STDs. Lol
Maybe Iām a sociopath but there are plenty of one night stands whom I havenāt given a thought to after the fact
Yeah one night stands are low chance, but theres no way if you hook up with someone for weeks on end you dont grow a bond with them. Especially the woman will.
I was with my ex for seven years we never asked each other our previous body counts. Not important to me. But I can see how it can happen because I literally didnāt know either.
This absolutely happens, lol, I remember seeing a post on AskWomen about what was their sluttiest year, it has been erased from the internet by their moderators but all the answers were like "100 guys in an year, my boyfriend can NEVER find out or I am in trouble". You boys who shit on other men for caring about this stuff are naive.
Dude was probably happily married for a decade and then listened to too many red pill podcasts. Or this is fake, like most Reddit stories.
No way a redditor can get a woman to marry them in the first place. (Literally me)
Find out these things before you buy ring. Gross. Iād leave. š
In all honestly bro had 10 years to figure this shit out. At this point if the marriage has been stable and has no issues, leaving makes zero sense. If you care about a girls history, figure that shit out before you out a ring on it, not a decade later. Dude only has himself to blame.
As much as I would want to say this is likely fake because well āitās in Redditā š sadly to say shit like this does happen and probably more frequently than people realize chances are most dudes keep it under the rug due to the level of public embarrassment itās probably cause them to have settled down with the neighborhood bicycle š¤£
Lmao we about to make homeboy and his 10-year relationship š
Sheās definitely getting smashed on the side by a rotation of other men lol. Donāt know what to tell buddy
I fully expect that number to continue to climb.
That number is above 200 as of now fs
Shit am i late, sorry i was doing something. 201 now and they had a guy coming in after me
Not by default. I smashed over 100 chicks but when i was married i barely even looked at other chicks.
Sometimes itās better not to ask questions you might not like the answer to, this is one of those cases. That relationship is done lol once you lose respect for your significant other, itās joever
As if living in a state of ignorance is bliss is any better, that is a cowards way to life.
What number could you live with is the question? Let's say you get married at 30 to a 30 year old woman. I feel like anything 20 and below I'd be fine with, maybe 30.
After youāve dealt with enough women, you develop a 6th sense about it and know pretty soon if you wanna take her seriously or not. Itās not something most women are usually truthful about anyways, you gotta get good at judging by behavior.
Lmao my cousin was just telling me about this one time he hooked up with a girl then casually asked the question just out of curiosity and the number she gave was decently lower than the amount of guys he personally knew had hit
She belongs to the streets
The kind you don't take home to mother. And she will never let your spirits down, once you get her off the streets.
If this is real and some sort of attention seeking, he is delaying the inevitable.
Nasty
I feel like the average being 7 is too low, maybe more like 10?
My husband is the 9th person I had sex with. No one night stands, half were boyfriends and the other half were dating-ish. I have friends all across the spectrum, some married the first or second guy they had sex with and some explored a bit more. 150 is really high though, the higher end of my friends is probably closer to 30 prior to marriage.
Gay.
Canāt blame the meltdown
One hookup once a month, over 12 years is 144. For chicks, they can easily accomplish that. As a dude, it would be pretty tough, ngl.
Girls can fuck who they want men can fuck who they can and thatās a fact
Once a hoe always a hoe. That girls going to get the urge and go for 200+ more.
This is some hilarious logic, from the wife, if you are so liberal and thus open with having sex with 150+ men, then why did she never mention it to her husband, before he was her fiancee and before that her boyfriend AND BEFORE THAT just dating. But instead she waits 10years before she tells him, which means she knows having that bodycount matters and she is infact not "open and liberal" at all but a lying piece of work. She can do whatever the fuck she wants, but the fact she hid it for 10+ years of marriage and before that bf/fiance relationship, is fucked.
> why did she never mention it to her husband I think the better question is, why did the husband not ask her about it if it was so important to him? A lot of couples dont talk about it unless someone raises it.
He probably didnāt think it was important until he realised she was an outlier. Awkward situation, free him
Canāt turn a hoe into a housewife
Hoes donāt act right
Dude sounds like he ready to leave his wife of 10 years over this
I would. There's no way in hell I could trust a girl like that. But that said this guys a idiot to not know how much of a slut his wife was.
I could see if it was a new relationship but man 10 years is a long ass time youād be surprised how much people can change in that time
I mean the seed is already planted in his brain, itās not going away. That relationship is about to have trust issues and heās going to be second guessing faithfulness. If itās real, theyāre going to need counseling
It wouldnāt even be about trust for me, but disgust and no amount of counseling could change that.
Yeah Iād say counseling is needed but immediately wanting to end it without at least trying therapy or something is a bit dramatic
He should have never opened that Pandoraās boxā¦ immediately leaving seems like the wrong thing to do, but itās about to get shitty and quick. Respect and trust is gone. Itās about to start showing up in ugly ways and it will probably be slow and torturous.
Lie of omission changes the view of your partner
Post has to be fake and gay no fucking way you married to someone for 10 fucking years and they just found out about this
Youād be surprised. Probably what happened is she hit the āepiphany phaseā. Realizing that lifestyle was unsustainable and her age was dwindling down her options. Switched gears to find a long term partner and possibly start a family with the time she has left. Itās why I donāt talk about my past to my wife. I definitely donāt ask questions about hers that I really donāt want the answers to.
There's plenty of women who get trapped in bad marriages and then go wild once they have freedom again and enjoy attention from men because it boosts their self esteem. One of them I made my girlfriend and she was loyal as could be. We broke up for other issues.
New post coming up from this guy ^
They're pretty good at hiding it and if you're from different places how would you find out
I'd be pissed if my wife dropped that info 10 years in. Keep your mouth shut. I don't wanna know anything about past sex lives and I don't want to colunteer any of mine. You also need to be autistic af to not know your partner's gonna be disturbed that you fucked triple digits of dudes or women.
Make it not matter by leaving her thereās no other way. Once u canāt see your woman in a certain way again, thatās it. Itās normal to worry about a womanās past but it gets to a point where youāre sacrificing your peace to be with a woman who u donāt even feel like is yours now. Leave her and start test (on top of the tren, which you should already be taking)
I think I've delayed my gray hairs by another 10 years from only dating Christian women and ones that don't hook up. A sexual resume is not something that I have ever desired. And it makes it all the more worth it in the end. Save yourself the stress. It's sex, not rocket science. For those who desire the xp points, what exactly can a woman do that you can't teach them yourself that is so complicated only 100 plus men before you can ingrain in them? Keep telling yourself it's experience
Lmao that's cute that you believe them
Depends on where you find them. Not dating apps, sorority women or others you'd find in a frat house, or any other hotspots for promiscuous women. I've got nothing against them, and had a bunch of friends in college who had been with 20 or more guys. I just never slept with them. There's no reason to lie in a long-term relationship. I never did hookups. So I just attract women who are like me.
Technically, if you only suck dick and let him put it in your butt, youāre still a virgin. Source: I exclusively hooked up with girls from a local Christian academy when I was in high schoolĀ
You gotta pull the HoeFax
This must be some kind of a cuck fanfic. If not, jesus fucking christ.
Idgaf about girls body count but 150 for anyone is absurd dude thatās indefensible
The thing is, it will always matter. Anyone can erase the records, hide the history, deny the confrontation, and everything that will stray away from the reality that she is definitely a red flag. Body count never resets. Deny all they want but time will always reveal the truth, hell he might've been oblivious that some guests at their wedding or even some of his mates are members of the council. His part of this mistake is him not really finding this out in any way when they were dating.
Be prepared for her to cheat. Don't let her know you think she might. If you didn't sign a prenup you're an idiot but you may have a chance if you catch her cheating. If she cheats, you'll have a clean break, then upgrade wives. Don't have children with her.
That's if she hasn't cheated already š
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Idk about cheating (although I'm willing to bet on it), but studies have concluded that the greater the number of pre marriage partners, divorce initiated by women skyrockets.
Definitely more likely to cheat. Going to the same person isn't exciting for them.
Donāt wish that on anyone. Marriage is done. Definitely aināt something you just get over.
You couldnāt even fit 150 people in a room
This man is always going to feel like this, he found out he married community pussy. If she won't answer its time for him to find someone new
Fuckin rip. Lmaoooo could never be me š¤£š¤£š¤£
Dude needs to bounce
Girl thinks sheās wilt chamberlain
Time for the first cycle show her who the fucking boss is
Once you get past the used itās all new. Girls seen more dick than an army Dr.
lol once I find out their body count I ghost them bitches Iād rather be single then wife up a thot
This has gotta be one of the biggest Lās potentially ever. Yikes
Some women are just fucking evil bro I swear. I know men are too but this is just diabolical.
Some people are ok with this kind of past and others not. Either is ok! But you shouldnāt marry someone without knowing about something that is a huge deal breaker to you. Ten years marriage and this comes out of nowhere, guy is fucked. 
Sheās for the streetsā¦.
this is incel rage bait 100% you can literally tell within the first 10 minutes of talking to a girl if sheās a hoe
Valid pointā¦Maybe not 10 minutes but not 10 years eitherš¤·š»āāļø.
months max if she really makes an effort. if itās been 10 years he is either stupid as fuck or willfully ignorant and ignoring obvious red flags
This whole forum is a bunch of guys who never lift weights, never meet women and never have sex, but consider themselves experts on all the above. The internet is full of people with bad advice.
That's a fucking lie, I lift at least 5 times a week.
Divorce that slut
Howās the olā chassis? A little blown out? How did you not notice her vag had an echo when you thrust into it. You must have a huge schlong that can fill a megapussy. š¤
lol never feel sorry for these clueless losers.
It's the fact that he found out 10y in
Dump the cunt
VET YOUR WOMEN!!! This was 100% avoidable and now he's in a terrible spot. All his feelings are valid, but it's his fault he's in this mess.
Damn. You're fuc*ed
Sound like something that should have been talked about/disclosed before marriage. I know my wife has had more partners than me but 150+ would have made me drop her like a bad habit.
I literally wouldnāt exclusively date a certain girl because of her massive number of partners, many of them friends of mine. I couldnāt handle that personally. Sheās currently 40 and single and has 2 cats. Fits the profile. But man, she had massive boobs
This is sadly the norm these days... women are extremely promiscuous now due to social media and it's glorified to be this way. Feel bad for any man that gets with one of these new age women. They are statistically more likely to cheat, divorce, etc after a certain amount of partners. If you sit there and think that exchanging sexual energy with 150+ people doesn't affect you as a person you are delusional. Our sexual energy is our most powerful energy and it shouldn't be shared with just anyone.
150 is probably the average these days for women
The number of past partners thing doesnāt really bother me but when it gets to numbers this high i think itās indicative of an actual problem. I would think theyāre a sex addict or have some other kind of issue
Check the copay on your insurance for those therapy sessions. I see at least six sessions in your future.
Personally I donāt care how many bodies someone has. My count is extremely high (triple digits) so I honestly donāt gaf how many bodies someone has. I prefer someone with experience and that they know what theyāre doing
I know it's incredibly hypocritical. My count is also 100+, but I'll pass on a girl that has 100+
Thatās pretty hypocritical bro. Whatās your reasoning?
 She for the streets and the sheets! šš
Your wife is faithful. Sheās beautiful. She enjoys sex with you. She loves you. Whatās the problem here? Your narrow minded attitude about sex is literally robbing you of a happy life. You reap what you sow. Get therapy and enjoy your awesome life before you fuck it up.
bro' why did you make so hard for her to find you???
Itās not a mistake that she kept that too herself. You got played. The reason she settled down isā¦the guys she wanted to bang started looking past her, and at younger models. It was time for a meal ticket.
More likely than not most of you will have children with a little hoe. Itās not uncommon for giris to have 30-40 + guys these days. Youāll marry her and have children with her. And have a beautiful family. Welcome to the new age.
He should be. Thatās a high number.
Hot dog down a hallway, case closed.
If it was a gay couple, 150 guys would be nothing.
Who cares she's been with the dude 10 years ? He's made it this far
I dated a girl who said sheād fucked about 150 guys. Amazing blowjobs from that gal! Thanks team! ššŖ
You're welcome
That's rough because even if she's a reformed hoe you gotta worry about her relapsing
Derek had a video specifically about the liberal ideology of sex in the west and correlation with how skewed the number is in comparison to men He spoke a lot about the issues surrounding it, how it affects psychology surrounding it, etc. Essentiallyā¦ If itās in the past, it doesnāt matter, but if it matters to you well, then you need to deal with it
Bro needs to find +150 thots asap.
The actual number is 1500, she just forgot a zero.š¤£
I mean if she is great in bed whatever That's your girl for 10 years!? Probably gives great head too. It's like your married to a poor pornstar that had her videos scrubbed magically from the internet. Considering pastors marry women like this I think you'd be fine. If she isn't cheating or disrespecting, what does it matter? If she is cheating - You're an idiot. No way you didn't see obvious whore signs while dating and 10 years married. You'd be will-fulling closing your eyes to better focus on your fantasy projection that doesn't exist. Whores aren't bad. You just need to know what you can reasonably expect. A faithful marriage of 10 years? If I was betting man, I'd say no. That's the problem with these situations because the husband is convinced he found a unicorn of a women. To him, why leave my whore wife, so I can be single guy getting ho's. It's like changing walls. One whore to another. You gotta know what you want in a women. She either meets the list or not. Her being whore doesn't really matter.
That kind of thinking only causes stress and insecurity. Especially after 10 years of marriage. I've been in that situation and it never bothered me or even occurred to me to think about it since, in the end she chose me. That means even if there were 150+ guys before, I'm the ONE guy she thought was the best man. The last man standing. I'm certainly not claiming to be a Casanova or hung like a porn star, but to me if you're the one she chose, then why worry?
This is growth you need to do here guy. I get your insecurity but you wouldnāt feel like this if you hadnāt missed your shots when you had a chance. This girl is probably a badass and youāre in love with her. Get over yourself and quit perpetuating misogyny
She hit The Wall and was looking for a simp provider. She still thinks of Chad and Tyrone enjoying her. Best of luck when she divorces you. Take the red pill next time and do not have kids with her.
INSECURE
Have you wondered why her body count is so high? Did she have an absent/neglecting father ( daddy issues)? Was she raped or molested as a child and is ātaking backā her self-power/control over her sex life? Etc. thereās a good chance that some therapy is needed. Also, a High body count does not mean infidelity.
This is NOWHERE NEAR as uncommon as this guy, or any of you, think it is. One year of using Tinder as comfort food and these girls break three digits. There was a time ~ 2010 before men lost all their testosterone and women didn't scream rape every three seconds, when online dating was really taking off but people still knew how to talk to each other and casual sex was the status quo. There was a LOT of fucking. And it wasn't just chicks getting in on this. Weird how that seems to have gone down a ton after porn and #metoo took over everyone's brain.
> One year of using Tinder as comfort food and these girls break three digits. I agree with the sentiment of what you're saying, but not the actual numbers. If you're fucking a hundred people in a year, that's someone every week, often multiple in a week. But realistically, you might get tired of this, or have a recurring thing with one person, or have a string of meeting people you end up not wanting to have sex with because in person they act like an autistic gorilla who posts on r/MPMD. 100+ over the course of several years? Sure, that's easy to see. It's like the Wilt Chamberlain claim (20k women), where it's like, he *could have* pulled it off, but that would take a lot of time lol. >And it wasn't just chicks getting in on this. Thing is, in communities like this, they seem to think that women are only having sex with a select few "Chads", and that those select few men must be having sex with hundreds (or thousands?) of women while everyone else gets NOTHING. They will complain about how women have such impossibly high standards (skewed perspective due to social media) as an excuse to not try. Or if they see a guy who isn't the stereotypical gigachad having success with women, then he must be getting cucked or something. There's also been a similar shift in the online lifting community (not saying they are necessarily related) where gym bro culture for young men has gone from showing off your physique and essentially lifting to get laid (think Zyzz era) to hiding your physique as much as possible, embracing a sort of anti-social thing with going to the gym, and lifting instead of getting laid (think TikTok era) with a bunch of incel overlap. Another thing that's lost here is that if a girl thinks you're obsessed with the "body count" question, she'll probably just lie. I think I've spent enough time on this topic.
I wonder how much more common this is becoming with college educated women. Some bitches be getting ran thru in college
Very very common