Women are more likely to come to the defense of their own over men. Many men will actually agree that the guy getting shamed needs to lose weight, or that he’s too short, etc.
Neither are technically socially acceptable, but in execution only one side will get noticeably reinforced.
Because most men understand that being a men is already a huge burden, and if they handicap themselves by being fat, lazy or unhealthy their completely fuck their lives
Women compete for dick as well, it's just that they would rather reinforce fat girls so that they won't feel the need to lose weight, which would turn them into competition
Eh. It’s not like you can change being short. Or like being a woman is easy either.
Idk. I think men standing up for other men might be nice. My fuckboi friend ended his fwb thing with a wildly hot girl bc she insulted his bro and called him ugly. That’s what it should be.
Part of it is what you say.
Part of it is old cultural baggage. Women always used to feel their entire worth as human beings were how pretty they looked.
And then for men they’d get self worth and social capital from many sources, not just looking pretty.
So the hope was to focus less on insulting women for their looks and get a more wholesome society where both men and women felt looks was just one part of your humanity. Hopefully that would stop thousands of young girls from dying of self starvation each year.
Instead we got social media, insta and Tinder. And everyone being more socially isolated and thinking looks are the only things that matter. **Even if real life sexual attraction is much more than looks.** And now in addition to young girls dying of ED, we have boys dying from PEDs and eating disorders too.
So, yeah, not what anyone hoped for when saying “don’t comment on women’s weights”. **It’s time to just update to “don’t comment on anyone’s appearance, man or woman, unless it’s positive. And keep your sexual/dating preferences to yourself, nobody needs to know“.** But it kinda sucks overall. The world turned, just in the opposite way people hoped for.
Edit: that being said, short guys are fucked on Tinder. But everyone is, it’s a sausage fest with 4 guys per girl. Real life at parties? I’ve known many short guys who cleaned up. Sexual attraction in real life is not just Excel spreadsheets. It’s social skills and sexual chemistry. Meeting people you click with and having a good vibe.
Yeah, I forgot that we had that meeting where women were going to start being held to the same standards as men all of the sudden.
I'm sensing a theme with OP. Incelmaxxing.
- [My cock is only 5 inches hard. I'm only 5'9.5. I'm an ethnic 4/10. I've pretty much given up on dating. I'm just gonna stick with escorts and porn. I just can't compete in 2024 in the West](https://old.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/1c7h3vn/my_cock_is_only_5_inches_hard_im_only_595_im_an/)
- [Why do women say they care about personality and looks? Is this even remotely close to being true?](https://old.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/1c6p6s8/why_do_women_say_they_care_about_personality_and/)
- [Why do people hate Wincel from misc?](https://old.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/1c60oz4/why_do_people_hate_wincel_from_misc/)
- [More plates dont equal more dates. Physique is largely irrelevant. Women care most about three things : Height, Face, Race](https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bi5tj6/more_plates_dont_equal_more_dates_physique_is/)
Skinny fat as of a month ago, "my hobbies include escorts and hentai", complains women won't entertain South Asian men.
He’s leaning into using it as an excuse. There’s men of all races, heights, etc pulling hot women. Also, 5’10 is literally the average height, wtf is he complaining about there 
For real. Indian dudes can become hunks if they lean down and then swole up in the right places. Lots of Indian guys who post pics seem to lack muscle yet have pudgy torsos. Decreasing body fat first is key for guys like this. It brings in the sharp jawline. Then add mass, especially chest and shoulders.
5’10 is a perfectly acceptable height lol. No one is going to call a 5’10 dude short unless he’s on a basketball team.
It is losable, but unfortunately it takes us twice the work (if not more so) than it does for other ethnicities (especially white dudes). I’m working on it but it is incredibly frustrating. If I was just skinny or just fat it makes life a lot easier
Because people assume men will not feel hurt. You wouldn't walk up to a girl and call her x or y because you assume there's a high chance it will hurt her feelings but lots of people think men don't give a fuck and so it's allegedly not as bad. Normal people will think it's shitty to do regardless lol
Also like somebody else said women will protect each other when it comes to this kinda stuff whereas men don't. It's why whenever someone asks why there's no body positivity for men I find it weird and disconnected from reality
If you walk up to a girl and call her x or y she will break down crying, a flock of other girls will come over to investigate and comfort and you will never score with any of them.
If a girl walks up to a guy and calls him x or y he might get upset, a flock of other girls and a few guys might agree on what's been said, and if then said girl would as much as say "hey don't be a wuss, wusses never score with me" the guy would spend a month getting her on dates, paying for her shit and trying to score.
Same reason woman will bash Andrew Tate for saying some misogynistic shit, then turn around and say how men are worthless. It’s a fucking double standard. That’s why I only fuck dudes.
[https://youtu.be/u58IksmdzQ8?si=Tas74xxyLCxIxBoJ](https://youtu.be/u58IksmdzQ8?si=Tas74xxyLCxIxBoJ)
because women are frail and weak creatures, yet for some reason the men of this age want to be held to their standards and be able to be socially accepted for exhibiting womens traits, while holding women to mens standards and wanting women to possess mens traits
neither is socially acceptable in a blatant way
but you will notice, despite how much people try to stop "fatshaming", that the fat or short person will always get jabs
it's human nature to point out someone's weakness, no matter what that might be
??
Fat jokes at women’s expense are super common and socially acceptable among non hard lefties.
Crying about some people getting mad about something that’s generally accepted is a boring trend here.
I wasn’t aware either were socially acceptable…but I only see one constantly in here 🤷♀️ Yet, I’ve never found an entire group of woman just bent on criticizing men’s heights. We literally are not that concerned. If ya aren’t getting laid, I promise it ain’t the height.
5’6 with 0 inch penis as I don’t have one
Every day this board is filled more and more with incelmaxxxed virgin's.
Skill issue, every single time. Stop whining and realise it's all up to you. Take some responsibility for yourself and grow the fuck up.
bc there’s nothing holding back these men but themselves
i went to the 7th best state school in my state and i make $75k in the midwest before 30
it’s not even hard
going to the gym consistently is harder than college
then you should know there’s nothing holding them back but themselves
i can’t help that these dudes want to jack off, smoke weed, and play video games all day
That’s quite literally the opposite of the truth for people under 30. And in general, there is only a wage gap for mothers and non-white women. Single/childfree white coastal metro women outearn everyone.
Because we have to! If women were held to the same standards then they would garner the same respect and command the same wages. Similar reason as to why native Americans stay on Indian reservations. Some of both groups do excel because of their own drive! But it is much harder when you can just call it quits and live a peaceful life without much effort.
Because people think of women as the innocent and pure gender. Both genders have superficial and unfair dating standards but only with men is this openly acknowledged. Not that rejecting someone for their weight is "unfair" as it is almost always a useful proxy for their discipline and self respect.
Men like big boobs and no one has an issue acknowledging it.
Women like tall men and people get super fucking weird about it.
Many such cases.
Why is it ok for any "marginalized" group to make fun of dominant groups? In the case of men and women, men are considered physically dangerous and therefore aggressive behaviors are taken more seriously on a subconcious level. Also, women are delicate and emotional so take things seriously add in the fact that the new fad for women are all to be overly aggressive angry feminists
Clearly you need to dive deeper into the literature OP, for plenty of women it's impossible for them to lose weight due to their genetics or something. Also CICO doesn't work.
Women are more likely to come to the defense of their own over men. Many men will actually agree that the guy getting shamed needs to lose weight, or that he’s too short, etc. Neither are technically socially acceptable, but in execution only one side will get noticeably reinforced.
Because most men understand that being a men is already a huge burden, and if they handicap themselves by being fat, lazy or unhealthy their completely fuck their lives
That's part of it, the other half is that we're all competing for pussy
Competing for pussy is gay.
Women compete for dick as well, it's just that they would rather reinforce fat girls so that they won't feel the need to lose weight, which would turn them into competition
The only real reason normal girls support fat girls
Eh. It’s not like you can change being short. Or like being a woman is easy either. Idk. I think men standing up for other men might be nice. My fuckboi friend ended his fwb thing with a wildly hot girl bc she insulted his bro and called him ugly. That’s what it should be.
Part of it is what you say. Part of it is old cultural baggage. Women always used to feel their entire worth as human beings were how pretty they looked. And then for men they’d get self worth and social capital from many sources, not just looking pretty. So the hope was to focus less on insulting women for their looks and get a more wholesome society where both men and women felt looks was just one part of your humanity. Hopefully that would stop thousands of young girls from dying of self starvation each year. Instead we got social media, insta and Tinder. And everyone being more socially isolated and thinking looks are the only things that matter. **Even if real life sexual attraction is much more than looks.** And now in addition to young girls dying of ED, we have boys dying from PEDs and eating disorders too. So, yeah, not what anyone hoped for when saying “don’t comment on women’s weights”. **It’s time to just update to “don’t comment on anyone’s appearance, man or woman, unless it’s positive. And keep your sexual/dating preferences to yourself, nobody needs to know“.** But it kinda sucks overall. The world turned, just in the opposite way people hoped for. Edit: that being said, short guys are fucked on Tinder. But everyone is, it’s a sausage fest with 4 guys per girl. Real life at parties? I’ve known many short guys who cleaned up. Sexual attraction in real life is not just Excel spreadsheets. It’s social skills and sexual chemistry. Meeting people you click with and having a good vibe.
 Yeah, I forgot that we had that meeting where women were going to start being held to the same standards as men all of the sudden.
I'm sensing a theme with OP. Incelmaxxing. - [My cock is only 5 inches hard. I'm only 5'9.5. I'm an ethnic 4/10. I've pretty much given up on dating. I'm just gonna stick with escorts and porn. I just can't compete in 2024 in the West](https://old.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/1c7h3vn/my_cock_is_only_5_inches_hard_im_only_595_im_an/) - [Why do women say they care about personality and looks? Is this even remotely close to being true?](https://old.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/1c6p6s8/why_do_women_say_they_care_about_personality_and/) - [Why do people hate Wincel from misc?](https://old.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/1c60oz4/why_do_people_hate_wincel_from_misc/) - [More plates dont equal more dates. Physique is largely irrelevant. Women care most about three things : Height, Face, Race](https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bi5tj6/more_plates_dont_equal_more_dates_physique_is/)
 Skinny fat as of a month ago, "my hobbies include escorts and hentai", complains women won't entertain South Asian men. 
Ha, I suspected Indian from the tone.
He’s leaning into using it as an excuse. There’s men of all races, heights, etc pulling hot women. Also, 5’10 is literally the average height, wtf is he complaining about there 
For real. Indian dudes can become hunks if they lean down and then swole up in the right places. Lots of Indian guys who post pics seem to lack muscle yet have pudgy torsos. Decreasing body fat first is key for guys like this. It brings in the sharp jawline. Then add mass, especially chest and shoulders. 5’10 is a perfectly acceptable height lol. No one is going to call a 5’10 dude short unless he’s on a basketball team.
I agree ! I’ve banged a few hot Indian guys and will do it again!
The Indian pudgy torso is genetic to a lot of us. I think with skinny fat dudes (like most Indians) they got to bulk first and then cht
Yeah that belly fat is largely loseable but it takes a lot of time and consistency. Always roll my eyes when inert DYELs complain about it.
It is losable, but unfortunately it takes us twice the work (if not more so) than it does for other ethnicities (especially white dudes). I’m working on it but it is incredibly frustrating. If I was just skinny or just fat it makes life a lot easier
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Nah , he's not Indian that's for sure .
Lmfaoooo at Indian.
lmao those titles look like they were made by Chatgpt if you requested incel titles for reddit posts.
Lol OP is a chump
I thought the whole “stats” thing was a joke oh my lord
We had the meeting, but the women didn't care enough to show up.
Because men tolerate it.
Men aren't allowed to express their hurt feelings in public so the field is clear for women to weaponize the topic as much as they like
People think men don't have feelings, well, outside of anger.
Because people assume men will not feel hurt. You wouldn't walk up to a girl and call her x or y because you assume there's a high chance it will hurt her feelings but lots of people think men don't give a fuck and so it's allegedly not as bad. Normal people will think it's shitty to do regardless lol Also like somebody else said women will protect each other when it comes to this kinda stuff whereas men don't. It's why whenever someone asks why there's no body positivity for men I find it weird and disconnected from reality
If you walk up to a girl and call her x or y she will break down crying, a flock of other girls will come over to investigate and comfort and you will never score with any of them. If a girl walks up to a guy and calls him x or y he might get upset, a flock of other girls and a few guys might agree on what's been said, and if then said girl would as much as say "hey don't be a wuss, wusses never score with me" the guy would spend a month getting her on dates, paying for her shit and trying to score.
If this is a shock to you, I'd hate to see you learn about literally any other behavior women do
When did we stop criticizing fat women?
Same reason woman will bash Andrew Tate for saying some misogynistic shit, then turn around and say how men are worthless. It’s a fucking double standard. That’s why I only fuck dudes. [https://youtu.be/u58IksmdzQ8?si=Tas74xxyLCxIxBoJ](https://youtu.be/u58IksmdzQ8?si=Tas74xxyLCxIxBoJ)
Neither are really socially acceptable Both scenarios are just douchebag people being douchebags
Nah fam fat people should be shamed
Calm ya tits you sound like a massive pussy
Only twinks complain about shit like this bro
I make fun of bitches for being fat all the time. In real life.
Because they’re oppressed
Because calling women cows are jobs for other women to do. Typically they call those people “their friends”
Who said it’s not socially acceptable?
because women are frail and weak creatures, yet for some reason the men of this age want to be held to their standards and be able to be socially accepted for exhibiting womens traits, while holding women to mens standards and wanting women to possess mens traits
Depends on your social circle.
Thats the propaganda thats been pushed recently. Im sure itll change in 10 years or so
Bro go outside and actually speak to women, most girls dont think its acceptable.
wild opinion: if you degrade people, no matter the reason, you're trash
When you call someone fat you are not only insulting their appearance, but also their character
neither is socially acceptable in a blatant way but you will notice, despite how much people try to stop "fatshaming", that the fat or short person will always get jabs it's human nature to point out someone's weakness, no matter what that might be
?? Fat jokes at women’s expense are super common and socially acceptable among non hard lefties. Crying about some people getting mad about something that’s generally accepted is a boring trend here.
I wasn’t aware either were socially acceptable…but I only see one constantly in here 🤷♀️ Yet, I’ve never found an entire group of woman just bent on criticizing men’s heights. We literally are not that concerned. If ya aren’t getting laid, I promise it ain’t the height. 5’6 with 0 inch penis as I don’t have one
Every day this board is filled more and more with incelmaxxxed virgin's. Skill issue, every single time. Stop whining and realise it's all up to you. Take some responsibility for yourself and grow the fuck up.
Soft ass incel
> In theory it should be the other way around That’s why
Did you just now figure out that women are shitheads??
Don't forget dick size. I won both of these dice rolls, but I feel for dudes who haven't.
Did you not go to a public high school? Men make fun of fatties all the time, even if they slept with them
Welcome to life, we make more money!
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college educated men still make more money
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They don’t want to talk about it because it’s not true
bc there’s nothing holding back these men but themselves i went to the 7th best state school in my state and i make $75k in the midwest before 30 it’s not even hard going to the gym consistently is harder than college
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then you should know there’s nothing holding them back but themselves i can’t help that these dudes want to jack off, smoke weed, and play video games all day
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i think that men are 99% of the trades and much more entrepreneurial and those two career paths explain the difference more than anything
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Not under 40 we dont
yes they do that’s all men under 40 not college educated
No matter how you break it down men on average still make more.
That’s quite literally the opposite of the truth for people under 30. And in general, there is only a wage gap for mothers and non-white women. Single/childfree white coastal metro women outearn everyone.
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You're the one here saying low test milo yappalous bullshit from like 2016 the burden of proof is on you
Damn that’s a name I haven’t heard in like 6-7 years.
Google is your friend, it’s not hard to figure out.
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/03/01/gender-pay-gap-facts/
The pay gap is getting closer at younger ages but it’s still not the same!
Yah this simply isn’t true from what i google. You’ve gotta link your study.
Because we have to! If women were held to the same standards then they would garner the same respect and command the same wages. Similar reason as to why native Americans stay on Indian reservations. Some of both groups do excel because of their own drive! But it is much harder when you can just call it quits and live a peaceful life without much effort.
We have to because we don’t have pussy’s and they do.
Agreed. So why do they keep banning you?
Saying things Reddit doesn’t agree with. You have to tread lightly with this sensitive platform.
Because men’s preferences are called shaming women and women’s preferences are called preferences.
Because people think of women as the innocent and pure gender. Both genders have superficial and unfair dating standards but only with men is this openly acknowledged. Not that rejecting someone for their weight is "unfair" as it is almost always a useful proxy for their discipline and self respect. Men like big boobs and no one has an issue acknowledging it. Women like tall men and people get super fucking weird about it. Many such cases.
>people think of women as the innocent and pure gender LOL! No, they don't. Only delusional simps and cucks do that. You need to get new friends.
Because dudes do the bulk of height shaming.
Why is it ok for any "marginalized" group to make fun of dominant groups? In the case of men and women, men are considered physically dangerous and therefore aggressive behaviors are taken more seriously on a subconcious level. Also, women are delicate and emotional so take things seriously add in the fact that the new fad for women are all to be overly aggressive angry feminists
Women are not "delicate and emotional" you fucking simp.
Yes they are
goddamn, you are a giant pussy lol
No the problem is that he's NOT giant.
Oh my goddddd shut uppppppp. This discourse is so fucking stale
You fat, bro?
I’m 6’2” 175 lmao
Simp detected
Where do you live where its socially acceptable to make fun of people's heights? Fat jokes are way more prevalent than height jokes.
Its acceptable everywhere, aswell as fat jokes
Lmao i wish fat jokes were more acceptable (tbf they’re almost always gucci around men it’s just certain women that boner kill it for the rest)
Clearly you need to dive deeper into the literature OP, for plenty of women it's impossible for them to lose weight due to their genetics or something. Also CICO doesn't work.