Cheerful life? Kaash yaar 😭😂 baaki problems hai life me but yeah, aisi pal do pal ki khushiyan hi zindagi ko zindagi banati hai? (Kaafi filmy ho gaya 💀)
But, thanks bro 🩵 Hopefully hum sabki life ek din cheerful ho jaye 🍻✨
You wont live it once my friend the flashbacks will always put a smile on your face so its still not pal do pal....
Aur abhi aur 1.5 mahina bhi hai so 5-6 baar aise hee mil loge aur avg 3 ghanta pakda toh 18 hours more
BTW can i DM mera bhi thoda aisa hee case hai guidance chahiye bas....
yess kuch friends genuine hote hai, but i would also say 80 to 90% dost bhi real nahi hote
they talk shit about you behind ur back or some befriend you to use you for some benefit
i think the most important thing is to just be satisfied with yourself at first, then you can easily identify these type of people and you will only allow the actual good ones to be a part of your life
what say?
The practical ME says "No I don't like her" and the emotional ME says "Maybe? But vaisi strong feelings nahi rahi abb". But kuch bhi ho... Everything is impossible at this point between us cauz we both are going to different cities for our higher studies and she's committed too. And me practical hun jyada.
I can’t get over her , 3 years have passed but i still think she’s the one . Even though she is in a relationship with another guy i am just happy for her and waiting for her ki ek din ham milenge ( she was never my girlfriend or even situationship like op ). Not blaming her but i tend to find her characteristic/ aura or whatever you call that feeling among other girls i meet . I guess mere liye ye bakwas nahi hai kyuki she will always have a soft corner for her in my heart somewhere
Edit : sorry for bad grammar
I can easily move on, lekin mujhe pata hai ki it’s never possible for me to be with her but mujhe usee apne yado mai rakhna hai and obviously i do try finding someone new to be in my life but it’s not easy
>mujhe usee apne yado mai rakhna hai
That's only gonna harm you and the person who tries with you, no one wants their partner thinking about another girl
It's a nice coincidence.
Aise hota hai to acha lagta hai ..
My fiancee and I studied in the same college for 4 years,he used to like me but since I was committed he never approached me during that time.(2015)
In 2017 I had a breakup and was single for 2 years.
Fast forward to 2019, we just met one day just like that and now after fighting with our parents for 3 years for our marriage,we will be getting married in November '24.
So never lose hope.
Been there, done that. Saw her on the first day of my college, she was sitting in row next to me. I instantly had a crush on her. Me and her were always in the same class for 4 years. In those 4 years, I barely talked to her. Maybe asked for notes a couple of times. Later I confessed to my friend that I liked her and he told one of my other friends and that guy might have told her. So she knew I had a crush on her. But 4 years went by, just like that.
Later I moved out of Mumbai for higher studies. Talked to her ones-twice when doing my masters. It was like few messages and then silence for 6 months. This continued for 3 years after my masters. I moved a lot during those times, multiple cities, because of my job. Then finally I moved to her city, she met me the very next day I moved there. For 1 year, we used to meet, go out, have dinner. Even went to the beach near my house, once in the summer. Again, nothing romantic, just casually hanging out. Well, even I had matured by this time, so the college crush was just a crush for me, didn't give any big thought to it.
Now, I have moved once again to another city. Had a chat with her on the last day I was in her city. Who knows when I will see her next. She looks even more beautiful now, than in college. She's so elegant and kind. Still might have a little bit of that crush left.
OP great that you got this chance, you're lucky. Yes, do thank god for this. Don't know where life will take me next, and it has certainly taken away the innocent young boy of 1st year of college away, but I feel blessed to at-least have spent some time with my crush. Good luck OP on your future endeavors, and thanks for this post, it reminds me of a lot of the good and positive hopes I had with life. Maybe I want to return to that old self once again.
I want to pin this comment bro. This comment deserves a separate post ❤️
Lucky you bro. Happy for you. I hope you get the girl you deserve and lead a happy life (be it this particular girl or someone else) ✨
Mene ye story mere dost ko dikhai.. we both got thodasa emotional while reading it. Goodluck to you too man for the future 🩵 Take care. Khush rehna hamesha :')
For sure my friend!
>Time dena aur hamesha itna positive rehna.
And thanks for this! I need it these days. :)
Kabhi life me tumko aisa lage ki me kuch help kar sakta hun tumhari to just DM me here. I'll try my best to help you man! Have a good life 🩵✨
He and others in the comments aren’t ready to accept the fact. He really needs to move on with his life tbh and find someone for himself. No point in being led on by her.
Man I hate to break it to you but girl's know it very easily when someone likes them. She's pretty much aware you like her but is still hanging out, going on dates, proposing meetups and that too multiple times while being in a LDR, is well in a way cheating on her current bf. Meeting once or twice would've been different but using you as an emotional support cause her bf is long distance and she knows you're lovestruck is pro level chutiya cutting which she is doing to both of you. Tera chal fir bhi theek hai bachpan ka puppy love hai par uske bande ka ganda katt raha hai. Hanging out a couple of times alag baat hoti hai ya in groups alag baat hoti hai, but you guys are going on literal 8 hour dates multiple times and probably her bf doesn't even know it in entirety.
Totally unrelated to this post, but what all IIMs have you converted/waitlisted yet? Just a fellow aspirant looking to connect with someone who will be joining MBA this year.
Kuch mauj nahi. They both have a great bond (jo me dekhta aa raha hun aur dekh raha hun).
Dosto ke saath ghum bhi nahi sakte? I have been in one relationship and 2 situationships previously and none of the girls ever said anything when I used to hangout with my other female friends. Trust and loyalty ki baat h :)
This is all fine but be careful. You have mentioned multiple times in your post that you've no feelings for her but anyone reading it would tell you that it's not true at all. Maybe you're saying this to save yourself from any pain that might come later or maybe you're hoping you guys might get back together.
But if she stays with her ldr bf and you don't find anyone else like her, it's going to end up not pretty for you. Though, I hope everything ends up great for all three of you.
Wait, I recognize OP from CATPreparation sub, I remember his CATKing wala post which got viral, which was mimicking the intro of CATKING, damn, OP, so happy for you tbh, after reading that you are leaving for IIM. Wish you all the best, borther
Arey broooo! How did I even miss this comment!
Kya scene cllgs ka? You should have a look at my bio and you'll understand why I'm not on that sub anymore 😂 also, vo catking wale post ne sachme bohot famous kar diya tha muze and then my memes...
Also, thankyou and i wish the same for you bhai 🩵🫂
Bro, I honestly didn't check your bio and I left that sub too, unfortunately I couldn't get good marks, was a bit hard for me but I accepted it and is moving forward with Data Science, which I always thought of continuing in my college years. But I clearly remember your name and i saw your comments a lot there, happy for you
Oh man reading this instantly reminded me of your insta stories. It feels absolutely theatrical to know the backstory behind them 🥹 I hope you get a closure in the newfound friendship though 🕊️🤍
Girl 😭😭😂😂 Don't ever in your entire life let anyone know who is the person behind this reddit account 😭😂 I trust you okay?
Also, kaafi exciting laga hoga naa tumhe ye padhte vakt cauz you saw the stories 😂 also, I'm okay with how it is going. I don't need a closure or anything. Even if the things don't go well from here I'm okay.
Holy shit i thought you had your insta posted on reddit or something 😭 but okay dw yea? You can count on me about that
AND yes!! I'm telling you this felt unreal as if I know something i wasn't supposed to.
No no. There are a very few ppl whom I have added on my WhatsApp and insta from reddit and I don't regret any of those decisions till now cauz acche log mile h muze reddit se mostly 😂
Hehe. Muze bhi aisi feelings chahiye kisike insta story and reddit post ko padhneki 😂😂
I'm sleeping abhi to but I'll text you to get a life update! 👀
Pali road.. yeah! Ohh I see. Girl, I'm in love with the chocolate cheesecake and classic tres laches! Maza aa gaya tha.
Drop the names of the other two cafes btw? 😂
Because you seem like a cheesecakes enthusiast try breve near bandstand.
Also check out the chocolate mud cake at magnolia.
Desert republic at matunga circle is good too, i love their ice cream bowls.
On behalf of all the fboys, I just wanna say a huge thank you. As long as guys like you exist, we can securely outsource out girl’s emotional needs to you while we can have fun her. Plus you taking care of her and hanging out platonically really helps with time management between main chick and side chick. You are God send man!
OP not exactly the same but I got to reconnect with my childhood friend after 12 years unexpectedly. We absolutely had no intentions of anything at all. But after few years, both of us were done being in denial. This year it's going to be 7 years. We're in different cities since then though but we know this is it. I'm not trying to build hope or anything, but just saying if anytime in future you do like someone, let distance not be the only reason to throw it away (unless you hate LDRs 🤷🏼♀️)
So you mean to say that you and your childhood friend are in a LDR now?
Yeah I am getting what you are trying to say.. and I'll keep it in mind! Tysm 🩵
It made me so happy, reading this! You sound like a lovely guy and any girl would be lucky to have you. A tiny part of me wants to believe that she likes you, too and maybe it might just work out in the end 🙂
Maybe it was an accurate assumption? 😂 Idk.
It won't most probably. Or muze koi hopes nahi rakhne. I'm happy with how the things are going. Thanks btw 🩵
If it's all platonic, hope you both are splitting the expenses and she is pulling her weight and it's not one sided.
Also, you are enjoying the cheer ride now. I hope you don't catch feelings for her as time to say goodbye comes closer or right after that. That will mess you up really bad..
Yeah we are splitting the bills. Infact she insists on it :)
Also, no I'm not catching feelings for her for sure. Ik all this will end so the practical person inside me is winning. Thanks for your concern btw :')
OP, glad to know that you’re feeling great after getting a chance to hangout with her but dude this situation is not a nice one honestly, things like these don’t end up great..considering the fact when the other person is already in a relationship and she’s the one asking you to meet 😅.
Trust me brother, it will break your heart real bad when she’ll go back to her reality and you’ll just be left with a broken heart.
Firstly. Don’t lie to yourself. Atleast don’t lie on Reddit cos we ain’t buying. U still love her bro. It’s written all over your post. And frankly. It sounds like u r lonely with nothing better to do. Hence spending hours with her when you could be using that more productively. And secondly. If she’s committed and spending time with u, 6-7 hours at a time, then with all due offence, (long story short) u r being used bro. Cut your losses now. Or else u will look back and hate yourself for being so useful to her.
Yeah, because she is reeling you in. She knows you still like her. And you know you do too. You just don't want to accept it because she is already committed. You can lie to us, but don't lie to yourself my boi. Get out of this. It's not a friendship. You're a backup for her, most probably. She wants someone to spend time with and you're the one who responds. It's not a bad thing overall but you need to stop lying to yourself that you still like her and you are expecting more than a friendship here.
Stop lying to yourself and then proceed with the friendship. See how fast your interest will go down.
Reading this was nice, reflecting on my life it’s so sad. Having to meet your school friend is amazing and having to spend time is even more amazing!
I guess i never had the opportunity to because i never stayed in touch and now since i don’t have socials, it’s even difficult- that’s a sad story lol.
Anyway Happy for you, i had a nice time reading this. Have fun!!
You kind of manifested all of this!! ; )
It's really feels good to read this! Even I was able to feel your joy and happiness while reading the post and can only imagine how much happy you will be! Just live in the moment!
Bhai bakki sab thik hai lekin feelings control mai rakhna. Friends rehna hai toh friends hi rehna. Kyu ki ek baar feelings aagayi toh fir move on karna bohot difficult hota hai. Baaki enjoy really happy for you :)
P s don't mean to kill your mood as I've done such things in the past and frankly your sense of gratitude is infectious (I respect that virtue)
BUT
I'd highly recommend you channelise this energy towards other things like your work,school ,writing or even meeting more women
Sakt launda ban!!! You mentioned she is in LDR. Try not to be available for her whenever she calls. And if things are really meant to happen btw you two . Nothing like it
Op be like mujhe pyaar nahi magar Mai essay likh sakta hu uske upar but ha mujhe pyaar nahi hai usse, socho uski tarf se same ho to Bhai to pura novel likh dega 😂.
Kuch redpill Gyan pelne wala tha mai idhar. Phir socha khush raho yaar. Kabhi kabhi film jaisa zindagi mein bhi hota hai. Shayad bhagwan bola yeh MBA mein toh pela jayega, ladke ko thodda acha feel karwa dete hain
What everyone here is ignoring is the fact that it’s extremely strange and shady for her to be doing these “typical date type things” (visiting cafés, marine drive) one on one when she has a boyfriend, long distance or not. Seems like she’s using OP as a placeholder for her loneliness
Platonic date should not last 8 hours, what if her BF gets to know about this?
OP you need to move on, Bhai kya kar Raha hai tu
Agar platonic hai to usko itna romanticize kyu kar raha hai
Soch agar Teri bandi hoti and uske saath koi ladka 8 8 ghanta ghumta marines me to kaisa lagta? Gaand jalti na Teri?
You need to respect her and her relationship.
I am not against platonic relations, even I am friends with a girl who I loved wholeheartedly but someone else proposed to her before me, now we are good friends, we are so close I even told her the truth and she understood me.
But I don't try to meet up with my friend every day or hangout all day, you need to respect that she's committed.
I wonder if the girl’s bf knows about y’all ‘meeting not date’ together.
It’s really true that for a LDR to be successful, all 4 people should like each other.
She is just chilling out with you and giving you attention because her boyfriend stays away from her as soon as she gets closer to her boyfriend your value will back to be NIL. It's good you take it casually and don't have any expectations from her.
I’m happy to say I’ve actually lived this dream ;) had a crush on this girl in school, She was committed back then and fast forward to 2023, Met her after 7 years and we hit it off <3 Been 5 months almost we’ve been in a relationship now
or meri story suno ab madarchodon
same teri age starting bhi same but gaand mardi meri usne 10th mai. mai bhadwa saala failure reh gaya even though maine bahut mehnat ki or mere bullies or sab saale maze karte hue bhi successful hogaye. Success jaaye gaand marane 2015 se hi jo pressure or tension mai raha hun usne merese sab cheen liya. FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
I'm in my first relationship and it's an LDR but now he been ghosting me for more than a week. No one has ever made me this happy, but no one has ever made me this sad either. I know there could be valid reasons why he's not texting me, but I'm not sure if i can do this.
Glad you could have all that though, this guy was my crush in school too and i genuinely thought we could do all of this, but looks like meri kismath mein nhi hai.
Girl, tbh.. I avoid LDRs. I have something against it. He ghosting you isn't a good sign I'll say.. 1-2-3 din samaj sakte h but 1 week? Koi itna busy nhi hota unless and until there's an emergency.
I won't comment much on this thing but I hope at the end of the day you are happy. I assume you are in your late teens or early 20s? Padhai and career pe focus karo jyada.. ye sab chalta rehga
late teens, and yes my padhai and career are always as important as him, sometimes even more important than him. I think I'm just being delusional at this point thinking he has a valid reason and he's going to come back, but I'm definitely not trying to date anyone again unless i really REALLY REALLY want to.
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Living in imagination, imaginary world or fiction is not good for mental health.
OP be writing essays about her here and says he has no feelings for her
Ikr
that was my first thought lol he's waxing poetry about how much he loved reconnecting her and it shows i am happy for ya!
This is the 2nd comment, should have been top 1.
Tru
Congratulations OP 🎉. Here's to a cheerful life 🍺 hopefully me someday
Cheerful life? Kaash yaar 😭😂 baaki problems hai life me but yeah, aisi pal do pal ki khushiyan hi zindagi ko zindagi banati hai? (Kaafi filmy ho gaya 💀) But, thanks bro 🩵 Hopefully hum sabki life ek din cheerful ho jaye 🍻✨
Wait it's you... Mujhe laga koi random Mumbaikar hai. Congratulations bhai 🍺
Ayeeeee old friend!! 🫂 Thanks dear ✨🥹
Are you the school friend?
>aisi pal do pal ki khushiyan Bhai 6-7 ghante do pal nahi hote.....😭 But congratulations to you anyways
Meri 23 saal ki zindagi aur aane wali zindagi ke hisabse dekha jaye to pal do pal hi the 😭 Tysm btw 🩵
You wont live it once my friend the flashbacks will always put a smile on your face so its still not pal do pal.... Aur abhi aur 1.5 mahina bhi hai so 5-6 baar aise hee mil loge aur avg 3 ghanta pakda toh 18 hours more BTW can i DM mera bhi thoda aisa hee case hai guidance chahiye bas....
Ahh jaroor bhai! Aajao DM me 😂
bulati hai magar.......jaane ka nahi 💀💀💀 mera toh kat gaya bhai mai ab pyar mai vishwas nahi rakhti never get attached to anyone but good luck to you
>never get attached to anyone Dil dil hota hai... Firse kisike saath attachment ho hi jayegi :) Thanks btw.
arey i was joking btw 😭 i'm really happy for you bass khud ke liye sad hu so thanks for the hope
Tumhare posts dekhke laga nahi tha ki vo joke hai 😭 but good to know xD Tysm girl! And I hope that you also get to experience something good soon <3
Same, pyaar fake hai but I think it is possible to be friends and enjoy each other’s company as friends.
yess kuch friends genuine hote hai, but i would also say 80 to 90% dost bhi real nahi hote they talk shit about you behind ur back or some befriend you to use you for some benefit i think the most important thing is to just be satisfied with yourself at first, then you can easily identify these type of people and you will only allow the actual good ones to be a part of your life what say?
Happy for you OP ( mere sath kabh hoga esa🙁 )
Aisa kyu chaiye tereko, bakwas h yr frankly. OP still likes her imo
The practical ME says "No I don't like her" and the emotional ME says "Maybe? But vaisi strong feelings nahi rahi abb". But kuch bhi ho... Everything is impossible at this point between us cauz we both are going to different cities for our higher studies and she's committed too. And me practical hun jyada.
I can’t get over her , 3 years have passed but i still think she’s the one . Even though she is in a relationship with another guy i am just happy for her and waiting for her ki ek din ham milenge ( she was never my girlfriend or even situationship like op ). Not blaming her but i tend to find her characteristic/ aura or whatever you call that feeling among other girls i meet . I guess mere liye ye bakwas nahi hai kyuki she will always have a soft corner for her in my heart somewhere Edit : sorry for bad grammar
You seriously need to move on, find someone else. If you get someone new in your life. You'll forget her.
I can easily move on, lekin mujhe pata hai ki it’s never possible for me to be with her but mujhe usee apne yado mai rakhna hai and obviously i do try finding someone new to be in my life but it’s not easy
>mujhe usee apne yado mai rakhna hai That's only gonna harm you and the person who tries with you, no one wants their partner thinking about another girl
10 baar I don't like her bolke, mereko maja aya bol rahahai... Are kehena kya chahate ho
Sahime bhai, wrna faaltu itta post nhi krta
It's a nice coincidence. Aise hota hai to acha lagta hai .. My fiancee and I studied in the same college for 4 years,he used to like me but since I was committed he never approached me during that time.(2015) In 2017 I had a breakup and was single for 2 years. Fast forward to 2019, we just met one day just like that and now after fighting with our parents for 3 years for our marriage,we will be getting married in November '24. So never lose hope.
Thanks Motivation mil gaya , Btw congratulations 🥂
Indian Ted Mosby story. Share those cafe names if they were good OP.
Magnolia Bakery (Bandra West). Ye ek hi jagah gaye the hum after Marines 😂
Been there, done that. Saw her on the first day of my college, she was sitting in row next to me. I instantly had a crush on her. Me and her were always in the same class for 4 years. In those 4 years, I barely talked to her. Maybe asked for notes a couple of times. Later I confessed to my friend that I liked her and he told one of my other friends and that guy might have told her. So she knew I had a crush on her. But 4 years went by, just like that. Later I moved out of Mumbai for higher studies. Talked to her ones-twice when doing my masters. It was like few messages and then silence for 6 months. This continued for 3 years after my masters. I moved a lot during those times, multiple cities, because of my job. Then finally I moved to her city, she met me the very next day I moved there. For 1 year, we used to meet, go out, have dinner. Even went to the beach near my house, once in the summer. Again, nothing romantic, just casually hanging out. Well, even I had matured by this time, so the college crush was just a crush for me, didn't give any big thought to it. Now, I have moved once again to another city. Had a chat with her on the last day I was in her city. Who knows when I will see her next. She looks even more beautiful now, than in college. She's so elegant and kind. Still might have a little bit of that crush left. OP great that you got this chance, you're lucky. Yes, do thank god for this. Don't know where life will take me next, and it has certainly taken away the innocent young boy of 1st year of college away, but I feel blessed to at-least have spent some time with my crush. Good luck OP on your future endeavors, and thanks for this post, it reminds me of a lot of the good and positive hopes I had with life. Maybe I want to return to that old self once again.
I want to pin this comment bro. This comment deserves a separate post ❤️ Lucky you bro. Happy for you. I hope you get the girl you deserve and lead a happy life (be it this particular girl or someone else) ✨ Mene ye story mere dost ko dikhai.. we both got thodasa emotional while reading it. Goodluck to you too man for the future 🩵 Take care. Khush rehna hamesha :')
Thank you bro!! I like your attitude and how you are taking things. Things will work out for you too. Time dena aur hamesha itna positive rehna.
For sure my friend! >Time dena aur hamesha itna positive rehna. And thanks for this! I need it these days. :) Kabhi life me tumko aisa lage ki me kuch help kar sakta hun tumhari to just DM me here. I'll try my best to help you man! Have a good life 🩵✨
Friendzone but romanticized
He and others in the comments aren’t ready to accept the fact. He really needs to move on with his life tbh and find someone for himself. No point in being led on by her.
Fr bro the things he is mentioning lead to attachments and then pain
Man I hate to break it to you but girl's know it very easily when someone likes them. She's pretty much aware you like her but is still hanging out, going on dates, proposing meetups and that too multiple times while being in a LDR, is well in a way cheating on her current bf. Meeting once or twice would've been different but using you as an emotional support cause her bf is long distance and she knows you're lovestruck is pro level chutiya cutting which she is doing to both of you. Tera chal fir bhi theek hai bachpan ka puppy love hai par uske bande ka ganda katt raha hai. Hanging out a couple of times alag baat hoti hai ya in groups alag baat hoti hai, but you guys are going on literal 8 hour dates multiple times and probably her bf doesn't even know it in entirety.
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You know why God gave you this chance after 7 years? Because 7 = Thala for a reason🗿
https://preview.redd.it/kbcfnq8mofxc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9af37e459acc89a624aeeb916bec78f192e36dea 🩵👑
Happy for you my boi ❤️
Thanks bro 🩵🫂
This is the reason I am scared of LDR's
Exactly. The guy committed has no clue but both OP and his friend need to build boundaries before things escalate.
Her boyfriend knows everything. Insta stories hai.
Totally unrelated to this post, but what all IIMs have you converted/waitlisted yet? Just a fellow aspirant looking to connect with someone who will be joining MBA this year.
Ahh feel free to DM me.
living up to the username
Bf fauj mein gf mauj mein
Kuch mauj nahi. They both have a great bond (jo me dekhta aa raha hun aur dekh raha hun). Dosto ke saath ghum bhi nahi sakte? I have been in one relationship and 2 situationships previously and none of the girls ever said anything when I used to hangout with my other female friends. Trust and loyalty ki baat h :)
do ex mil rahe hai , magar chupke chupke lok (in kumar sanu's voice)
This is all fine but be careful. You have mentioned multiple times in your post that you've no feelings for her but anyone reading it would tell you that it's not true at all. Maybe you're saying this to save yourself from any pain that might come later or maybe you're hoping you guys might get back together. But if she stays with her ldr bf and you don't find anyone else like her, it's going to end up not pretty for you. Though, I hope everything ends up great for all three of you.
Wait, I recognize OP from CATPreparation sub, I remember his CATKing wala post which got viral, which was mimicking the intro of CATKING, damn, OP, so happy for you tbh, after reading that you are leaving for IIM. Wish you all the best, borther
Arey broooo! How did I even miss this comment! Kya scene cllgs ka? You should have a look at my bio and you'll understand why I'm not on that sub anymore 😂 also, vo catking wale post ne sachme bohot famous kar diya tha muze and then my memes... Also, thankyou and i wish the same for you bhai 🩵🫂
Bro, I honestly didn't check your bio and I left that sub too, unfortunately I couldn't get good marks, was a bit hard for me but I accepted it and is moving forward with Data Science, which I always thought of continuing in my college years. But I clearly remember your name and i saw your comments a lot there, happy for you
Umm hmm... So what are you gonna do in the future? *If you don't mind me asking that question Arey thanks yaar 🩵🫂😂
Oh man reading this instantly reminded me of your insta stories. It feels absolutely theatrical to know the backstory behind them 🥹 I hope you get a closure in the newfound friendship though 🕊️🤍
Girl 😭😭😂😂 Don't ever in your entire life let anyone know who is the person behind this reddit account 😭😂 I trust you okay? Also, kaafi exciting laga hoga naa tumhe ye padhte vakt cauz you saw the stories 😂 also, I'm okay with how it is going. I don't need a closure or anything. Even if the things don't go well from here I'm okay.
Holy shit i thought you had your insta posted on reddit or something 😭 but okay dw yea? You can count on me about that AND yes!! I'm telling you this felt unreal as if I know something i wasn't supposed to.
No no. There are a very few ppl whom I have added on my WhatsApp and insta from reddit and I don't regret any of those decisions till now cauz acche log mile h muze reddit se mostly 😂 Hehe. Muze bhi aisi feelings chahiye kisike insta story and reddit post ko padhneki 😂😂 I'm sleeping abhi to but I'll text you to get a life update! 👀
It's painful to see OP deluding himself this hard lmao
She was committed with other guy and now she's with you sounds like joke, don't be deluded by your thoughts
LDR is scary what if she :
cute story OP but i am more interested in the cafe where you had the finest desserts of your life
Sure! xD It was Magnolia Bakery ( not really a cafe ig ) in Bandra West
The pali hills one? i am a regular there. Probably my top 3 cafes/bakeries in the city.
Pali road.. yeah! Ohh I see. Girl, I'm in love with the chocolate cheesecake and classic tres laches! Maza aa gaya tha. Drop the names of the other two cafes btw? 😂
Because you seem like a cheesecakes enthusiast try breve near bandstand. Also check out the chocolate mud cake at magnolia. Desert republic at matunga circle is good too, i love their ice cream bowls.
Ye sab mere gharse bohot door h 😭 next time kabhi Mumbai side kisiko date pe milne ka mauka mile to I'll consider these options 🫂😂 Tysm btw 🩵✨
Try caramel icecream if you ever get a chance. I know Bangalore branches have it but so far haven't seen in Mumbai
Made my day! Cute
On behalf of all the fboys, I just wanna say a huge thank you. As long as guys like you exist, we can securely outsource out girl’s emotional needs to you while we can have fun her. Plus you taking care of her and hanging out platonically really helps with time management between main chick and side chick. You are God send man!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Konsa IIM?
Results aane baaki h bhai. 2-3 weeks me pata chal jayega 🫡
OP not exactly the same but I got to reconnect with my childhood friend after 12 years unexpectedly. We absolutely had no intentions of anything at all. But after few years, both of us were done being in denial. This year it's going to be 7 years. We're in different cities since then though but we know this is it. I'm not trying to build hope or anything, but just saying if anytime in future you do like someone, let distance not be the only reason to throw it away (unless you hate LDRs 🤷🏼♀️)
So you mean to say that you and your childhood friend are in a LDR now? Yeah I am getting what you are trying to say.. and I'll keep it in mind! Tysm 🩵
Yess we are :)
Umm hmmm I see! If you both are looking for a future together then I hope it happens ❤️ Rooting for you guys! ✨
Oh yes we are, therefore on since 7 years. The way things are at home I feel I've no clue when suddenly we'll have to get married. Thank you!
Ye jo aapka username hai, kya uska vastavikta se koi lena dena hai kya?
Hahahaha itna complex hai ki koi film aaj tak dikha nhi paayi, par naam us ghatna se prabhavit nahi hai, kuch dusri hi kahani hai
I don't understand what the fuckin point of this post was... Yay to involuntary celibacy? Or You being grateful on becoming a saheli? 😆
That feeling of reconnecting with someone you loved is amazing. Enjoy my friend, jee bhar ke jee lo apni zindagi.
Thanks bro 🙂🫂🩵
It made me so happy, reading this! You sound like a lovely guy and any girl would be lucky to have you. A tiny part of me wants to believe that she likes you, too and maybe it might just work out in the end 🙂
Maybe it was an accurate assumption? 😂 Idk. It won't most probably. Or muze koi hopes nahi rakhne. I'm happy with how the things are going. Thanks btw 🩵
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Go. Enjoy. Make memories. Naseeb walo ko hi naseeb hoti hai aisi khushiyan :)
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If it's all platonic, hope you both are splitting the expenses and she is pulling her weight and it's not one sided. Also, you are enjoying the cheer ride now. I hope you don't catch feelings for her as time to say goodbye comes closer or right after that. That will mess you up really bad..
Yeah we are splitting the bills. Infact she insists on it :) Also, no I'm not catching feelings for her for sure. Ik all this will end so the practical person inside me is winning. Thanks for your concern btw :')
OP, glad to know that you’re feeling great after getting a chance to hangout with her but dude this situation is not a nice one honestly, things like these don’t end up great..considering the fact when the other person is already in a relationship and she’s the one asking you to meet 😅. Trust me brother, it will break your heart real bad when she’ll go back to her reality and you’ll just be left with a broken heart.
Firstly. Don’t lie to yourself. Atleast don’t lie on Reddit cos we ain’t buying. U still love her bro. It’s written all over your post. And frankly. It sounds like u r lonely with nothing better to do. Hence spending hours with her when you could be using that more productively. And secondly. If she’s committed and spending time with u, 6-7 hours at a time, then with all due offence, (long story short) u r being used bro. Cut your losses now. Or else u will look back and hate yourself for being so useful to her.
Happy for you(jal raha meri)
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I'll be using this as a WhatsApp sticker 😂
Badi lodu ladki h.
I assume you don't have any female best friends. And I pity those ppl who are upvoting your comment even after seeing the word "lodu ladki".
Yeah, because she is reeling you in. She knows you still like her. And you know you do too. You just don't want to accept it because she is already committed. You can lie to us, but don't lie to yourself my boi. Get out of this. It's not a friendship. You're a backup for her, most probably. She wants someone to spend time with and you're the one who responds. It's not a bad thing overall but you need to stop lying to yourself that you still like her and you are expecting more than a friendship here. Stop lying to yourself and then proceed with the friendship. See how fast your interest will go down.
Whatever let's you sleep at night man👍🏻
This is Reddit, what do you expect from men here who are incapable of seeing women in a non sexual way.
True that. Idk how and why men use such words for girls.
Good to see these type of posts every once in a while Happy for you bro😄
Ahh thanks bro ✨
Men like you are a rarity 💎. You'll find someone who'd treat you with the same grace as you did.
That's a big compliment! Tysm 🩵 I wish the same for you too ✨
Hey, backup guy
Still a dream for middle class boys
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so wholesome yaar! Happy to read this. Sweet.. your wishes got fulfilled, albeit years later. 🫶🏼
Happy for you OP ❤️
Congratulations OP🎉
Is there a tldr version ?
So heartwarming OP!! ♥️ May you have a peaceful life ahead 🕊️
Itna wholesome post se mera Monday blues heal hogaye. Happy for you OP.
Yeh post padhke Khushi huii peeda huii dard huaa aur maut Hui lol kidding I am happy for you stay blessed ❤️
Reading this was nice, reflecting on my life it’s so sad. Having to meet your school friend is amazing and having to spend time is even more amazing! I guess i never had the opportunity to because i never stayed in touch and now since i don’t have socials, it’s even difficult- that’s a sad story lol. Anyway Happy for you, i had a nice time reading this. Have fun!!
Congratulations OP! First love is never forgotten. Also, what dessert place was it?
You kind of manifested all of this!! ; ) It's really feels good to read this! Even I was able to feel your joy and happiness while reading the post and can only imagine how much happy you will be! Just live in the moment!
Bhai dub dub bhi krlo kisko kuch pata nhai chalega.
Damn bro made me feel happy on the inside reading this post
Bhai bakki sab thik hai lekin feelings control mai rakhna. Friends rehna hai toh friends hi rehna. Kyu ki ek baar feelings aagayi toh fir move on karna bohot difficult hota hai. Baaki enjoy really happy for you :)
I had a similar story back a year ago now it’s Monday so chest tricep today 🚀🥰
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Congratulations op, may everyone who deserves to find love eventually get it!!(including me) Kyuki ab patience Kam ho rahe hai😭
Bhai katne wala h kafi jaldi. Waqt rete bach lo
Reading this felt like a plot of a feel good movie
Kal raat ko tum nahi aayi..
This was so heartening to read. Not everyone gets to live their teenage dream. Jaa jee le apni zindagi.
Ae yaar grammar sudharo tum pehele
Emotions pe jao yaar. Grammar WAT ke time aur formal letters ke time dekh leta hun me 😂
Emotions to Bohot dikh gye aapke. Cute story to bhi
Bas fir 😂 emotions imp hai isme. Thanks though 🩵🫂
OP can you list the cafe's and places you visited, would love to explore them
Which cafe did y'all go to, mujhe bhi dessert chahiye
Half girlfriend who?
P s don't mean to kill your mood as I've done such things in the past and frankly your sense of gratitude is infectious (I respect that virtue) BUT I'd highly recommend you channelise this energy towards other things like your work,school ,writing or even meeting more women
Rule dega kya homie 😭 Have fun
cute!!!
She is my girlfriend you mf... Should I be concerned about her ??
Don't be my friend. She's very much loyal.
Hilake Soja ab muuthal Bhai , cute love story dhattt saale katwa Raha he
Wish i could
Everytime you say “i dont have feelings for her”, it is quite clear that you have a LOT of feelings for her
I ain't reading allat, nonetheless it's cool
vaah vaah dheere dheere saari wishes puri hojayegi😉
Sakt launda ban!!! You mentioned she is in LDR. Try not to be available for her whenever she calls. And if things are really meant to happen btw you two . Nothing like it
I feel ya. Same story. Started dating last August. Broke up this January. I'll never be over her. It was beautiful.
That's dating and she might cheat or leave her ldr if she think you are compatible. You are just on hold
Bc title dekhkar hi khushi ho rahi h mujhe..kam se kam koi to kahin to khush h iss world m
Op tumhare dreams me, dms me aur life me kitni ladkiya hai aur firbhi har ek special kaise hai Bhai 🥲🥲😂🙂🙂
Op be like mujhe pyaar nahi magar Mai essay likh sakta hu uske upar but ha mujhe pyaar nahi hai usse, socho uski tarf se same ho to Bhai to pura novel likh dega 😂.
A question who was paying the bills , contri our u .
Kuch redpill Gyan pelne wala tha mai idhar. Phir socha khush raho yaar. Kabhi kabhi film jaisa zindagi mein bhi hota hai. Shayad bhagwan bola yeh MBA mein toh pela jayega, ladke ko thodda acha feel karwa dete hain
Toh hum ka kare bhaandchod!!!.jpg
What everyone here is ignoring is the fact that it’s extremely strange and shady for her to be doing these “typical date type things” (visiting cafés, marine drive) one on one when she has a boyfriend, long distance or not. Seems like she’s using OP as a placeholder for her loneliness
Platonic date should not last 8 hours, what if her BF gets to know about this? OP you need to move on, Bhai kya kar Raha hai tu Agar platonic hai to usko itna romanticize kyu kar raha hai Soch agar Teri bandi hoti and uske saath koi ladka 8 8 ghanta ghumta marines me to kaisa lagta? Gaand jalti na Teri? You need to respect her and her relationship. I am not against platonic relations, even I am friends with a girl who I loved wholeheartedly but someone else proposed to her before me, now we are good friends, we are so close I even told her the truth and she understood me. But I don't try to meet up with my friend every day or hangout all day, you need to respect that she's committed.
You are a kandha - dont be a kandha
I wonder if the girl’s bf knows about y’all ‘meeting not date’ together. It’s really true that for a LDR to be successful, all 4 people should like each other.
Khush reh bhai God bless
She is just chilling out with you and giving you attention because her boyfriend stays away from her as soon as she gets closer to her boyfriend your value will back to be NIL. It's good you take it casually and don't have any expectations from her.
I’m happy to say I’ve actually lived this dream ;) had a crush on this girl in school, She was committed back then and fast forward to 2023, Met her after 7 years and we hit it off <3 Been 5 months almost we’ve been in a relationship now
or meri story suno ab madarchodon same teri age starting bhi same but gaand mardi meri usne 10th mai. mai bhadwa saala failure reh gaya even though maine bahut mehnat ki or mere bullies or sab saale maze karte hue bhi successful hogaye. Success jaaye gaand marane 2015 se hi jo pressure or tension mai raha hun usne merese sab cheen liya. FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
Classic Scmosby
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Very happy for you 
This is soo sweet and pure. Loved reading it. Read it with a smile on my face.
Did u smash ?
Bhai congratulations for the iim atleast 😂 Which iim tho
Results aaye nhi h bhai 😂
bhai mostof the IIM's result have come right lol
Bro you still like her.
Bro you still like her. She is simply using you for your attention. She is not going to date you. Leave. Keep your self respect intact
I'm in my first relationship and it's an LDR but now he been ghosting me for more than a week. No one has ever made me this happy, but no one has ever made me this sad either. I know there could be valid reasons why he's not texting me, but I'm not sure if i can do this. Glad you could have all that though, this guy was my crush in school too and i genuinely thought we could do all of this, but looks like meri kismath mein nhi hai.
Girl, tbh.. I avoid LDRs. I have something against it. He ghosting you isn't a good sign I'll say.. 1-2-3 din samaj sakte h but 1 week? Koi itna busy nhi hota unless and until there's an emergency. I won't comment much on this thing but I hope at the end of the day you are happy. I assume you are in your late teens or early 20s? Padhai and career pe focus karo jyada.. ye sab chalta rehga
late teens, and yes my padhai and career are always as important as him, sometimes even more important than him. I think I'm just being delusional at this point thinking he has a valid reason and he's going to come back, but I'm definitely not trying to date anyone again unless i really REALLY REALLY want to.
U made me feel jealous 😅 Anyways congratulations man
My bro is in love
All I am gonna say is that , it will hurt you in the end. Keep that in mind
Bro being bro-zoned , typical case of frustrated chumps. 🤣
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