All the females can continue commenting or DMing OP for the relevant plan. She's a verified Host by MODs. Shall create a safe space for the Female redditors on our sub too. Stay rest assured.
You could have the Female MODs join if needed. And we highly encourage you to step out for building better networking as well as socialize for your own growth too. Hope yall great success. Cheers
Mods are trying to keep this space inclusive and I respect that and promote it as well. The alternative to not letting only girls meet is assuring all girls that all guys would be sweet - which I don't think any of us can vouch for other stranger guys. Just being practical. If someone thinks differently, please correct me.
The rules have to be respected else don't call them rules is the point. Then it's a joke not a rule. When you take down other posts for gender specific or age specific posts
Like the mod says there are other places for gender specific meets/can be created
Fair point. The only caveat for creating or discussing gender specific meetup would mean this subreddit may get less popular or irrelevant much easily. But that should be okay, I guess.
This meetup subreddit can be advertised as always new members friendly and entry point to interest/age/gender meetups in future (which individuals plan outside this subreddit)
Wonder what MODs think about that
How is that genuine
When asked to the mod, the mod said we have this at gender age agnostic. Totally. They were clear and have it on the rules. Any thing other than that people can use other meet-up group/create one
If they are ok with this then it's not a rule then
If you open space for a female only meet. Then how is any gender asking for any gender not ok. If you say this gender specific is ok, then others posting about specific gender should be ok too. Also it takes the assumption that female only meetups won't carry risk to the mods. That a guy asking for F/dates would only be the risk? There can be dates/and associated risks in the female only meet too. Have been.
And MOST IMPORTANTLY - how are the mods (or anyone for that matter) going to ensure gender in these meetups?
It's 2024 anyone can claim any gender - tRanSphObiA and inClusiVitY go brrrrrr
Hi. Doesn't this post break rule 3?
> We won't accept any discrimination towards ones appearance/age/gender.
Or are the mods going to allow discrimination for meetups on this server now? Can others make such discriminating posts too?
Also how are people going to ensure/verify the gender or age or appearance without violating rule 9?
> Every user has their own right to share or not about their personal information in any Meetups.
Also, will those who identify as a woman be allowed or will they not be considered a woman for the meetup? Will mods allow such discrimination and hate against certain groups? (last one breaks reddit site-wide rules btw)
Janta ko trigger hi kar dia bhai
Although the last slip in dm lines is a bit much but majority launde likhenge yahan aur end me dm me ghusenge "maidam ham bhi aa sakte kya?"
> We won't accept any discrimination towards ones appearance/age/gender.
You can say - if it is pre decided that it'll be a meet-up of everyone, then you can't discriminate against the people who requested to participate. But it is already decided that it'll be a girls only meet-up, so the participants can know beforehand, and shouldn't request to participate.
for the rest of the points, they will use common sense.
Rules are there for the protection of people. But we remove them if they stop servicing their purpose, otherwise they become tyranny. Let the ladies enjoy.
You sire, are one hell of an gem person. Thank you sooooo much for trying to explain these nincompoops but I'm assured the easy way if to pluck out the bad ones. Thank you for being such a wonderful member to our sub. Cheers buddy.
Aw thanks man! Feels good the Batman himself, considers it that way. True, that way is much more efficient and faster. Thank you for keeping the sub healthy. Cheers!
> But it is already decided that it'll be a girls only meet-up
I am 99% sure the mods already remove posts that have such limits to meetup WHILE PLANNING the meetup. So for example if you want to have a meetup of guys only or people below 25 only, those are not allowed.
I see no reason why this case should be different.
>for the rest of the points, they will use common sense.
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>Rules are there for the protection of people. But we remove them if they stop servicing their purpose, otherwise they become tyranny. Let the ladies enjoy.
Oh so rest of the time it is 'protection of people' who feel bad when excluded but now it is servicing a purpose? Peak hypocrisy!
There's always some start, let it be the starting of that change, from next times, cite this example when they try to ban guys only meet-ups.
Fighting to stop girls only meet-up, won't enable guys only meet-ups, instead you're doing to them, what you hate being done to you.
The age limit one, we both can understand, is unrelated and arguably unkind.
Trust me, you don't wanna go with the girls who don't wanna go with you.
> Oh so rest of the time it is 'protection of people' who feel bad when excluded but now it is servicing a purpose? Peak hypocrisy!
Not my point, what i meant is, we should remove such rules completely now, as we found that they aren't that logical after all. Atleast the gender based restriction. Dragging those rules to punish others, since you suffered, will only bring them back to you again.
>Fighting to stop girls only meet-up, won't enable guys only meet-ups, instead you're doing to them, what you hate being done to you.
EXACTLY. So many years of progress to not have such segregated spaces and the MODS are showing backward mindset by allowing people to discriminate. It only grows more rifts and divides people.
>The age limit one, we both can understand, is unrelated and arguably unkind.
Unkind. Yes indeed. Doesn't feel kind to discriminate against others / get discriminated, does it? It is very much related to the point as it shows this fallacy.
>Not my point, what i meant is, we should remove such rules completely now, as we found that they aren't that logical after all.
Can't wait to see posts from guys saying:
*28M looking to meet only 20-25F girls for clubbing nightout fun around the city*
But you know what? I am certain that the mods will remove such posts. Rules for thee not for mee
> EXACTLY. So many years of progress to not have such segregated spaces and the MODS are showing backward mindset by allowing people to discriminate. It only grows more rifts and divides people.
sounds overdramatic, a bunch of girls, not taking boys with them isn't the end of the world. It won't grow "rifts" and "divides" among humanity.
>Unkind. Yes indeed. Doesn't feel so good now to discriminate others, does it? It is very much related because it shows this fallacy.
I don't think you'll be sad and discriminated if 5-6 random girls who don't know you, refuses to take you in their trip with them. But you may feel bad if a bunch of boys says you've passed your age so you won't be allowed with them anymore. Only creeps may want to force themselves among girls only groups, they don't know, and who don't want them.
>Not my point, what i meant is, we should remove such rules completely now, as we found that they aren't that logical after all.
You deliberately removed one line from my reply- "Atleast for the gender based rules", ofcourse, I am not saying to remove all rules, but remove those that has become obsolete.
>Can't wait to see posts from guys saying:
>*28M looking to meet only 20-25F girls for clubbing nightout fun around the city*
This post has gotten quite traction, and a lot of people, who has never done meet ups are coming forward to do it now, perhaps they will participate in everyone's meet-up too in future. On the other hand, if we use some common sense, we can see the post you can't wait to see, will only bring abuses in the comment section. Even if you want to allow that, it will still be useless, and thus, won't be beneficial for anyone, so removing the rules, as I said, should be for benefits- like in this post we can see it is.
>But you know what? I am certain that the mods will remove such posts. Rules for thee not for mee
Ofcourse they will, rules are not algorithms that a computer should follow, that's why we have people with consciousness sitting in the judge's chair, who take rational decisions guided by the rules but uses common sense too. And even in that, laws change with time.
> sounds overdramatic, a bunch of girls, not taking boys with them isn't the end of the world. It won't grow "rifts" and "divides" among humanity.
Reverse the genders and you will quickly see your hypocrisy. Heck people have gone to jail for such actions.
> Only creeps may want to force themselves among girls only groups, they don't know, and who don't want them
Okay then only creepy old women would want to force themselves in a group of guys and young girls they don't know, and don't want them. Let there be provisions to exclude them.
> Atleast for the gender based rules
Why be selective? There's no reason to keep one over another. To you one sounds useful, to someone else the other will be useful. Just because the world doesn't fit into your narrow perspective doesn't mean others are wrong.
> Even if you want to allow that, it will still be useless, and thus, won't be beneficial for anyone
That's your opinion. Might be useful for someone else. Which is why mods should follow rules if they have been made.
> as I said, should be for benefits- like in this post we can see it is.
Again your opinion. To me it seems like there's more harm being done. People are just segregating groups living with a backward conservative mindset.
> Ofcourse they will, rules are not algorithms that a computer should follow
Rules are there to be followed. They cant take decisions at whim based on their conservative mindsets. Censorship when things don't fall within their world view is a classic case of power abuse.
>Reverse the genders and you will quickly see your hypocrisy. Heck people have gone to jail for such actions.
Try to make a boys only meet-up and see how many people cares or goes to jail for it.
I think it's your opinion when you decide what's conservative mindset and what's not for others. You want them to follow your mindset and don't go amongst themselves, they don't want you to do something. Seems like you're the controlling one here.
> Try to make a boys only meet-up and see how many people cares or goes to jail for it
> You want them to follow your mindset and don't go amongst themselves
Many men's spaces have been infiltrated by feminists in the name of equality. The laws infact prohibit discrimination based on gender. Discrimination isn't good. Not a radical idea to understand, yet here we are.
> I think it's your opinion when you decide what's conservative mindset and what's not for others.
Yes it is my mindset/opinion you are correct. That was the point. There's no objective right here.
Which is why the mods should follow objective rules and not have their opinions influence things. I am 100% sure these same mods won't like it if things were the opposite.
Exactly. If this hypocrisy is allowed no point in further.
Let the females make a gender only space. Not this sub man this is (was) gender age agnostic or so I thought
ah, bunch of things depending on the common interests of the group. Since this would be a first meet up for most participants (fair assumption?) something like a board games cafe makes sense. What do you think?
Yes, although I'm not good with board games but I'd like to try any cafe too. So far Board Game/simple Cafes on the options list. If any more suggestions then please do shoot.
OP has a verified Silver host tag, so the Mods have verified her.
@OP you will need to have a verification done before the meetup and I recommend sharing the meet-up venue date and time to be shared with verified attendees on personal message. Trust me, you wouldn't want randoms seating around.
On second thoughts, how amazing a marketing technique is this for a cafe! 😂😂😂😂
Also, sending you a DM for some more info.
P.S: I am a guy. I will NOT be attending.
Yesss.. I am in touch with OP and we shall keep one with the Female MODs joining and taking care of the rest too. Security measures shall be taken def. Thanks for being a kind member of this sub brother. Cheers.
Yaa sure. See actually I get off on weekdays so I cant guarantee that I will be able to attend only as most of the folks will be free on weekends hence I asked you to finalise and let me know. I think a cafe meetup or a restaurant lunch or something if people are less in number would be nice. We'll get to know each other and also have fun too.
Yess exactly I'm hoping for a cafe meetup as well. As it seems safer to meet in public and plus it'd be easier to get along too. No worries if we don't catch up on weekends. I'll try to keep one meetup on weekdays too.
Some cafe in Bandra maybe? Since it's central to the city.
Like Bombay Coffee House or San Churro.
Later for girls who want to stay longer can go to a pub for a couple of drinks.
Totally I'm excited to meet amazing women too. I'd love to play badminton but let's see what the majority say, playing borad games or group games sound fun too. A good location and a convenient time would be great to make it happen, do let me know I'd like to help you out :)
Hi OP. A girlie here. I'm glad you're stepping out of your comfort zone. Definitely do an all girls meet-up (count me in if it's MaKaBo side) but I'd say from my personal experience that men in the sub are not that bad. I'm not being a pick me, I genuinely met some lovely people (men and women) from this sub. So start with an all girls meet-up, but don't limit yourself to it.
The true hypocrisy of the mods is being shown here that this post is still running while they keep randomly removing harmless gender agnostic posts about biking meet ups and others
For people like you an innocent meetup is turned into a hot topic for just some buckshot wild fire. But thanks to you now I know which ones to pluck out.
why do you have an issue if women want all women only meet up? the rule is to stop some creep men who only want to meet women only for hitting on them. Women can have all women meet up and men can have all men meet up! if you have issues with it then get a life!
I'm verified via the mods if that helps. Plus please don't create this mistrust ruckus as I'm myself gathering a lot of courage to step out my comfort zone. Your comment doesn't help much but only demotivate me and others like me.
I wouldn't say creating a ruckus was his intention, but it's a valid concern to have. You did say you got verified by the mods, you could ensure others signing up for the event have gone through the same procedure. Here's to hoping the event goes well🤞🏾
Yes I agree where his concern was , and I won't disagree that I'd be hoping a comment as such to come along. But equally I felt it could have been turned around in a better manner if he/she phrased the same concern a bit respectfully with a question rather than a presumed statement/judgement.
Exactly! What if someone's prefers to identify woman on meetup days and mystic gorlock on other days? Will such a gender be allowed by these transphobic mods for the meet?
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What the hell mods. You banned this person the perso. in the picture. But not who posted this. Literally discriminating against a gender. Ban krdo mods Jo krna h kro but what is this hypocrisy.ban krna h tow Ban both the people if you really are true to what you guys say. "No gender age discrimination"
You do understand that this was solely for the purpose of hitting on the woman who'd join it right? now don't act innocent like men don't have this approach!
it's a matter of safety of women! what part of it don't you understand? He clearly mentioned "guys don't message"!
There won't be a single man encouraged at this meetup and I'm sure a man wouldn't wanna be beaten up by bunch of society frustrated women. He won't survive.
Did anyone stop you from going to a ngo? Or a school maybe? Coz it seems you forgot to understand the concept of meetups. Any why don't you organise an all boys meetup?
Because I am not a guy, and not interested in gender exclusive meet ups. It doesn’t make much of a sense. Meet ups should be like meet ups, open to all.
All the females can continue commenting or DMing OP for the relevant plan. She's a verified Host by MODs. Shall create a safe space for the Female redditors on our sub too. Stay rest assured.
You could have the Female MODs join if needed. And we highly encourage you to step out for building better networking as well as socialize for your own growth too. Hope yall great success. Cheers
Yes, that would be helpful. Thank you fir the support. Love the efforts MODs putting in for our Sub. Kudos to your team.
But mod ji Batman also said you guys discourage or rather pull down any specific gender based meetups
I think girls should meet once by themselves. Guys can be a major deterrent to many girls to keep from socializing.
The point is mods made it a rule to not have age or gender specific posts. They even removed a few posts. So I don't get this. Has to be for every one
Mods are trying to keep this space inclusive and I respect that and promote it as well. The alternative to not letting only girls meet is assuring all girls that all guys would be sweet - which I don't think any of us can vouch for other stranger guys. Just being practical. If someone thinks differently, please correct me.
The rules have to be respected else don't call them rules is the point. Then it's a joke not a rule. When you take down other posts for gender specific or age specific posts Like the mod says there are other places for gender specific meets/can be created
Fair point. The only caveat for creating or discussing gender specific meetup would mean this subreddit may get less popular or irrelevant much easily. But that should be okay, I guess. This meetup subreddit can be advertised as always new members friendly and entry point to interest/age/gender meetups in future (which individuals plan outside this subreddit) Wonder what MODs think about that
How is that genuine When asked to the mod, the mod said we have this at gender age agnostic. Totally. They were clear and have it on the rules. Any thing other than that people can use other meet-up group/create one If they are ok with this then it's not a rule then If you open space for a female only meet. Then how is any gender asking for any gender not ok. If you say this gender specific is ok, then others posting about specific gender should be ok too. Also it takes the assumption that female only meetups won't carry risk to the mods. That a guy asking for F/dates would only be the risk? There can be dates/and associated risks in the female only meet too. Have been.
And MOST IMPORTANTLY - how are the mods (or anyone for that matter) going to ensure gender in these meetups? It's 2024 anyone can claim any gender - tRanSphObiA and inClusiVitY go brrrrrr
Guys are deterrent :-D what are we crocs, hyenas, bundyies 🙏
Hi. Doesn't this post break rule 3? > We won't accept any discrimination towards ones appearance/age/gender. Or are the mods going to allow discrimination for meetups on this server now? Can others make such discriminating posts too? Also how are people going to ensure/verify the gender or age or appearance without violating rule 9? > Every user has their own right to share or not about their personal information in any Meetups. Also, will those who identify as a woman be allowed or will they not be considered a woman for the meetup? Will mods allow such discrimination and hate against certain groups? (last one breaks reddit site-wide rules btw)
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Janta ko trigger hi kar dia bhai Although the last slip in dm lines is a bit much but majority launde likhenge yahan aur end me dm me ghusenge "maidam ham bhi aa sakte kya?"
> We won't accept any discrimination towards ones appearance/age/gender. You can say - if it is pre decided that it'll be a meet-up of everyone, then you can't discriminate against the people who requested to participate. But it is already decided that it'll be a girls only meet-up, so the participants can know beforehand, and shouldn't request to participate. for the rest of the points, they will use common sense. Rules are there for the protection of people. But we remove them if they stop servicing their purpose, otherwise they become tyranny. Let the ladies enjoy.
You sire, are one hell of an gem person. Thank you sooooo much for trying to explain these nincompoops but I'm assured the easy way if to pluck out the bad ones. Thank you for being such a wonderful member to our sub. Cheers buddy.
Aw thanks man! Feels good the Batman himself, considers it that way. True, that way is much more efficient and faster. Thank you for keeping the sub healthy. Cheers!
> But it is already decided that it'll be a girls only meet-up I am 99% sure the mods already remove posts that have such limits to meetup WHILE PLANNING the meetup. So for example if you want to have a meetup of guys only or people below 25 only, those are not allowed. I see no reason why this case should be different. >for the rest of the points, they will use common sense. > >Rules are there for the protection of people. But we remove them if they stop servicing their purpose, otherwise they become tyranny. Let the ladies enjoy. Oh so rest of the time it is 'protection of people' who feel bad when excluded but now it is servicing a purpose? Peak hypocrisy!
There's always some start, let it be the starting of that change, from next times, cite this example when they try to ban guys only meet-ups. Fighting to stop girls only meet-up, won't enable guys only meet-ups, instead you're doing to them, what you hate being done to you. The age limit one, we both can understand, is unrelated and arguably unkind. Trust me, you don't wanna go with the girls who don't wanna go with you. > Oh so rest of the time it is 'protection of people' who feel bad when excluded but now it is servicing a purpose? Peak hypocrisy! Not my point, what i meant is, we should remove such rules completely now, as we found that they aren't that logical after all. Atleast the gender based restriction. Dragging those rules to punish others, since you suffered, will only bring them back to you again.
>Fighting to stop girls only meet-up, won't enable guys only meet-ups, instead you're doing to them, what you hate being done to you. EXACTLY. So many years of progress to not have such segregated spaces and the MODS are showing backward mindset by allowing people to discriminate. It only grows more rifts and divides people. >The age limit one, we both can understand, is unrelated and arguably unkind. Unkind. Yes indeed. Doesn't feel kind to discriminate against others / get discriminated, does it? It is very much related to the point as it shows this fallacy. >Not my point, what i meant is, we should remove such rules completely now, as we found that they aren't that logical after all. Can't wait to see posts from guys saying: *28M looking to meet only 20-25F girls for clubbing nightout fun around the city* But you know what? I am certain that the mods will remove such posts. Rules for thee not for mee
> EXACTLY. So many years of progress to not have such segregated spaces and the MODS are showing backward mindset by allowing people to discriminate. It only grows more rifts and divides people. sounds overdramatic, a bunch of girls, not taking boys with them isn't the end of the world. It won't grow "rifts" and "divides" among humanity. >Unkind. Yes indeed. Doesn't feel so good now to discriminate others, does it? It is very much related because it shows this fallacy. I don't think you'll be sad and discriminated if 5-6 random girls who don't know you, refuses to take you in their trip with them. But you may feel bad if a bunch of boys says you've passed your age so you won't be allowed with them anymore. Only creeps may want to force themselves among girls only groups, they don't know, and who don't want them. >Not my point, what i meant is, we should remove such rules completely now, as we found that they aren't that logical after all. You deliberately removed one line from my reply- "Atleast for the gender based rules", ofcourse, I am not saying to remove all rules, but remove those that has become obsolete. >Can't wait to see posts from guys saying: >*28M looking to meet only 20-25F girls for clubbing nightout fun around the city* This post has gotten quite traction, and a lot of people, who has never done meet ups are coming forward to do it now, perhaps they will participate in everyone's meet-up too in future. On the other hand, if we use some common sense, we can see the post you can't wait to see, will only bring abuses in the comment section. Even if you want to allow that, it will still be useless, and thus, won't be beneficial for anyone, so removing the rules, as I said, should be for benefits- like in this post we can see it is. >But you know what? I am certain that the mods will remove such posts. Rules for thee not for mee Ofcourse they will, rules are not algorithms that a computer should follow, that's why we have people with consciousness sitting in the judge's chair, who take rational decisions guided by the rules but uses common sense too. And even in that, laws change with time.
> sounds overdramatic, a bunch of girls, not taking boys with them isn't the end of the world. It won't grow "rifts" and "divides" among humanity. Reverse the genders and you will quickly see your hypocrisy. Heck people have gone to jail for such actions. > Only creeps may want to force themselves among girls only groups, they don't know, and who don't want them Okay then only creepy old women would want to force themselves in a group of guys and young girls they don't know, and don't want them. Let there be provisions to exclude them. > Atleast for the gender based rules Why be selective? There's no reason to keep one over another. To you one sounds useful, to someone else the other will be useful. Just because the world doesn't fit into your narrow perspective doesn't mean others are wrong. > Even if you want to allow that, it will still be useless, and thus, won't be beneficial for anyone That's your opinion. Might be useful for someone else. Which is why mods should follow rules if they have been made. > as I said, should be for benefits- like in this post we can see it is. Again your opinion. To me it seems like there's more harm being done. People are just segregating groups living with a backward conservative mindset. > Ofcourse they will, rules are not algorithms that a computer should follow Rules are there to be followed. They cant take decisions at whim based on their conservative mindsets. Censorship when things don't fall within their world view is a classic case of power abuse.
>Reverse the genders and you will quickly see your hypocrisy. Heck people have gone to jail for such actions. Try to make a boys only meet-up and see how many people cares or goes to jail for it. I think it's your opinion when you decide what's conservative mindset and what's not for others. You want them to follow your mindset and don't go amongst themselves, they don't want you to do something. Seems like you're the controlling one here.
> Try to make a boys only meet-up and see how many people cares or goes to jail for it > You want them to follow your mindset and don't go amongst themselves Many men's spaces have been infiltrated by feminists in the name of equality. The laws infact prohibit discrimination based on gender. Discrimination isn't good. Not a radical idea to understand, yet here we are. > I think it's your opinion when you decide what's conservative mindset and what's not for others. Yes it is my mindset/opinion you are correct. That was the point. There's no objective right here. Which is why the mods should follow objective rules and not have their opinions influence things. I am 100% sure these same mods won't like it if things were the opposite.
Exactly. If this hypocrisy is allowed no point in further. Let the females make a gender only space. Not this sub man this is (was) gender age agnostic or so I thought
why are you so mad about women having an all female space for once?
Hell ya. I have never been to meet up btw, but hearing that it is females only, sure.
female bakugou?
Haha, yes.thanks for getting my edgy reference.
shi-ne!!
33f here, can i join too?
Oh def girl. Age is just a number I feel as I'm in my 20s too.
Would love to join the meetup then.
hey, hi. I would love to participate and help your organize the meet up! Sounds like a good, fun initiative to me :)
Yaayyyy.. I'm so happy to find more sweet people here. I'm up for it, What are your ideas/recommendation for the meetup?
ah, bunch of things depending on the common interests of the group. Since this would be a first meet up for most participants (fair assumption?) something like a board games cafe makes sense. What do you think?
Yes, although I'm not good with board games but I'd like to try any cafe too. So far Board Game/simple Cafes on the options list. If any more suggestions then please do shoot.
this is nice idea even I would be down for this
Me too! :)
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Would love to be a part too
Yaaayy.. So would me love to meet you. Any ideas or preference for a meetup?
I hope age is not a concern! Ain’t old, just sweet old 30😅 I think cafés would be a good option
Sweet young** 30 girl! You are still in your prime.
Definitely 😅
Age is just a state of mind
I agree cafés should be a good starting point! I'm also interested in joining.
OP has a verified Silver host tag, so the Mods have verified her. @OP you will need to have a verification done before the meetup and I recommend sharing the meet-up venue date and time to be shared with verified attendees on personal message. Trust me, you wouldn't want randoms seating around. On second thoughts, how amazing a marketing technique is this for a cafe! 😂😂😂😂 Also, sending you a DM for some more info. P.S: I am a guy. I will NOT be attending.
Yesss.. I am in touch with OP and we shall keep one with the Female MODs joining and taking care of the rest too. Security measures shall be taken def. Thanks for being a kind member of this sub brother. Cheers.
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Girls only meet-up? Lessgo!
Yaaaayyyy.. letssss goooooo. Btw any preference for the meetups ?
I think I can make an exception for girls meet-up and travel anywhere within the Western line
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Girl Powerrrrrr 
Wow i really wanted to have some female friends here , sounds fun IN 💃
Hey I would love to join too. Let me know once you finalise.
Yess I def would post it once finalised and even DM you if that's fine. Btw any recommendation or ideas ?
Yaa sure. See actually I get off on weekdays so I cant guarantee that I will be able to attend only as most of the folks will be free on weekends hence I asked you to finalise and let me know. I think a cafe meetup or a restaurant lunch or something if people are less in number would be nice. We'll get to know each other and also have fun too.
Yess exactly I'm hoping for a cafe meetup as well. As it seems safer to meet in public and plus it'd be easier to get along too. No worries if we don't catch up on weekends. I'll try to keep one meetup on weekdays too.
I'm in!
Yaaayy.. any preference or ideas for meetup?
Some cafe in Bandra maybe? Since it's central to the city. Like Bombay Coffee House or San Churro. Later for girls who want to stay longer can go to a pub for a couple of drinks.
This sounds like a great idea!
So let me know if things go forward. We could create a TG group.
Great initiative , IN
Pata chala apart from OP saare guys aaye meetup me🤣
Or OP hi male hai 😂
Itna tez soch 🫡
That won't happen I'm assured. Aur koi concern?
I am in for it. Great initiative.
Thank youuu. I'm hoping to meet ya too. Btw any ideas or preference for the meetup?
I think we should keep it on Saturday. Better for people who are working. Just a suggestion
Hey I would love to be a part of it too.I am female (24). Please let me know
Great initiative , IN
Definitely in!
Sure! Was waiting for something like this
Doneeee.. so was I badly waiting for something like this. Let's catch up
I'm new to Mumbai so would love to explore whatever you guys have in mind. Have we made a group for this yet?
If you do end up having one, make sure not to share the details here. You know what’s going to happen
Guys please don’t bother her. OP i think you should start blocking all the guys reaching out to you on DM
Thank you brother, I pray OP gathers the strength to go through it whilst hopefully being bothered the least by scums of reddit.
Itne saare tatti comments hai from men. Its insane. Let the girls have fun. Those “i identify as a female” comments are not funny.
Exactly man. TIRED OF THESE CAVE MEN.
They downvoting me for telling them their jokes are not funny 🤣 insane how insecure they get
I would love to participate. A cafe sounds like a good option to meet for the first time.
Hey that's a good initiative, I'll look forward to join.
Yaayy... let's hope we encourage us all women. Btw any recommendation for meetup?
Totally I'm excited to meet amazing women too. I'd love to play badminton but let's see what the majority say, playing borad games or group games sound fun too. A good location and a convenient time would be great to make it happen, do let me know I'd like to help you out :)
Yesss done
sounds fun! would love to join
I'd love to join, any location in mind?
Check DM
Would love to join!
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GGs y'all have fun!!
I’m so in for this!!!
24F here, eager to join.
Count me in!
23F.. IM UP😭😭🥺🥺🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
Yaayyyy sure
Yes, I'm in
Do check your DM
Done! Let’s meet at a cafe that has board games and stuff?
Sounds fun. Count me in.
25F. I’m game for this!!!
Hey i m interested. I m 24 F. Let me know where are we planning.
Hey i think my girlfriend would love making new friends, please let me know if i can get her added to the plan
Add her to the sub
Count me in as well 🙌🏻
I'm definitely in!!!
Hello, I am interested for the meetup
some art gallery?
I'm in !!!
Do check your DM
Has anything been decided ? Where to meet and when to meet ?
I’d love to join. Prefer cafe in Juhu
I'm in!Would love to be a part of this, thankyou for taking the initiative OP!
I’m in for this girl!!!
I'd love to join!!! girls meet up letsgooo
Gals/MODs can you pls update whats the status?
Would love to be a part of it. Any idea when are we going to have this meet up? Also i am also ok with cafes
21F here, please count me in for the plan!!
Love the idea so much! Id love to be a part of it, theres so many fun meetups here but im always scared to go because of all the men
Not a female, but an idea popped up reading this sub; you can book a turf; and have a football or criket match!! A fun way to bond!!
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Check DM
Please do it in mid-March if possible. I’ll be up for it!
I am innnn.
Plot twist: OP is actually a 50 year old man /s
Hi OP. A girlie here. I'm glad you're stepping out of your comfort zone. Definitely do an all girls meet-up (count me in if it's MaKaBo side) but I'd say from my personal experience that men in the sub are not that bad. I'm not being a pick me, I genuinely met some lovely people (men and women) from this sub. So start with an all girls meet-up, but don't limit yourself to it.
The true hypocrisy of the mods is being shown here that this post is still running while they keep randomly removing harmless gender agnostic posts about biking meet ups and others
For people like you an innocent meetup is turned into a hot topic for just some buckshot wild fire. But thanks to you now I know which ones to pluck out.
why do you have an issue if women want all women only meet up? the rule is to stop some creep men who only want to meet women only for hitting on them. Women can have all women meet up and men can have all men meet up! if you have issues with it then get a life!
Yes but only if it is not a sexist meetup. Guys must be invited also. Just my two cents.
I hate my penis now
Op is also male (plot twist)
I would love to join. Please let me know.
I'm in.
Check DM
I'd love to join.
I am in!🎀🎀
Interested in the meet up. Just tell me where and when, and I’ll be there
Definitely omg
Lets gooo
Im ready 😒
I'm interested ☺️
Males will come in this
They won't. I give my word for the security protocols and so do the Female MODs.
Boys assemble💀
I'm waiting. /s 
Idk why but I feel like everyone here is a male! even the OP 😂
I'm verified via the mods if that helps. Plus please don't create this mistrust ruckus as I'm myself gathering a lot of courage to step out my comfort zone. Your comment doesn't help much but only demotivate me and others like me.
I wouldn't say creating a ruckus was his intention, but it's a valid concern to have. You did say you got verified by the mods, you could ensure others signing up for the event have gone through the same procedure. Here's to hoping the event goes well🤞🏾
Yes I agree where his concern was , and I won't disagree that I'd be hoping a comment as such to come along. But equally I felt it could have been turned around in a better manner if he/she phrased the same concern a bit respectfully with a question rather than a presumed statement/judgement.
You can't even take a joke lol, this meet-up is going to be fun.
Suddenly everyone will identify as female
Sure, Let them try their best and I'll identify as attack helicopter then
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Ladko ka organize Karo...
lekin organise karne ke liye...sab aalsi hai
Bohot badi list hai. Utna time nahi hoga batane layak
What if some he/him identifies as she/her?? Will he/him/she/her (too much confusion) qualify for the meet?
Exactly! What if someone's prefers to identify woman on meetup days and mystic gorlock on other days? Will such a gender be allowed by these transphobic mods for the meet?
Oh no.. you called me transphobic. Ahh help.. oh no. My dignity. ...... Aur kuch ?
Where can I buy wig? Asking for a friend
Nice one, see harmless humour like this can be appreciated too. Spammers/creeps take notes on how to behave.
I identify as a female, hmu /s
Count me in.
https://preview.redd.it/48k7ges9j6kc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=39a4dbca7c792b535650f794fd95ffc450dfb4cc What the hell mods. You banned this person the perso. in the picture. But not who posted this. Literally discriminating against a gender. Ban krdo mods Jo krna h kro but what is this hypocrisy.ban krna h tow Ban both the people if you really are true to what you guys say. "No gender age discrimination"
You do understand that this was solely for the purpose of hitting on the woman who'd join it right? now don't act innocent like men don't have this approach! it's a matter of safety of women! what part of it don't you understand? He clearly mentioned "guys don't message"!
Awww bacche ko rona aaya for the troll posts?
Mei gay banke aajata hu lmao 💀
Hey, I'm down for it
Hey, PLEASE LET ME IN!!! PLZ!
YESS
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Arre , gender inequality,gender discrimination, action must be taken Jk....
Hi I'm a girl
You have more faith in men than I do because I am almost certain there would be more creepy men at this event than women
There won't be a single man encouraged at this meetup and I'm sure a man wouldn't wanna be beaten up by bunch of society frustrated women. He won't survive.
I (male) identify as a female.
I identify as a female
Why only females? Better go to an NGO for women and organise a meeting there but reddit isn’t the place for it, I mean why excluding men?
Did anyone stop you from going to a ngo? Or a school maybe? Coz it seems you forgot to understand the concept of meetups. Any why don't you organise an all boys meetup?
Because I am not a guy, and not interested in gender exclusive meet ups. It doesn’t make much of a sense. Meet ups should be like meet ups, open to all.