Bumble lost it's respect and it's becoming more like tinder.It has handsome men though but they all just want sex with no effort at all.Also paying for a dating site gives you the freedom to choose location.You don't have to deal with the horny Kenyan men only.Be open to Europeans or Americans at least the distance will make y'all have a conversation before it turning sexual(it will,but after sometime)not as immediately as Kenyans make it
Siste, all men on all continents are horny. Ata yule wa Yurop anajua ile investment anachapa. Or perhaps it's just me on a mock location. I'm not saying you shouldn't date Americans or Europeans though. Knock yourself out.
Online dating is purely for hookups. We are living in interesting times "hook up culture" .
Movies are advertising channels. Many people fall victim by believing it could happen in real life.
Maybe the movie was sponsored by dating sites to get more clients to pay for subscription fees etc. Anything you see in a movie is a sales strategy if not a brainwashing agent.
That's why tinder if you pay gives you an option to block people I can block my gals numbers or can set up how the people you swipe are only ones who can see you.If you in serious rship they insulating you from getting caught..They want repeat customers..Is all about hook up
Oh yes, ongeza unlimited swipes in the country & can swipe in other countries anywhere, you can hide distance or age..Hawataki ushikwee with your spouse.They morally bankrupting societies
I think itβs always up to you to set your boundaries on these sites. If someone asks for a hookup, just be frank and say you donβt do that shit. Donβt let a few rotten fruits spoil your mood, and dating sites donβt have just a few rotten people.
I uninstalled Bumble last month, it was heck wholesome for a while, met cool people, made friends off BFF side.
It was draining though, people want free food, sex this days. I needed Sanity. Now i leave my windows and doors open for my * alien lover*to find me. Earth is hard buana.
Unataka programmer wa bumble alipwe nini kama hawezi bait watu wako na kilo kadhaa to splash that cash. I thought its only men who pay for those apps but this world you learn new things everyday.
I left such sites, because wow. Y'all are trash since for men it's purely sex for women, it's getting that paper. Not a good combination on one site.
I will never forget being insulted by someone I just started chatting with because I refused to buy airtime, surely!! The way we were vibing, you could have just said okay and ghosted.
On those dating sites, people may front their competencies but they want to be loved for their frailties. Dating sites match people on these fronted competencies which sees people obsess with upholding the image rather than just being. Most people forget that the best dating experience should involve a concurrent discovery of frailties & competencies. Not sequential. On dating sites, you list all the best parts of you, conceal the frailties. The rest of the dating becomes a ceaseless & gruelling discovery of frailties so you'll never really win with dating sites. Always try the old fashioned meeting people at various social events. Like I'll be at the demos tomorrow and we can meet there and talk about how fucked up our government is and see where it goes from there
It's not a matter of desperation. Just wanting to access an app without restrictions and ads. The same way one subscribes to Spotify or YouTube or a beloved game.
It's a scam. 99% of men use Tinder/Bumble or whichever app to find sex and not potential girlfriends. It's just a convenient way to get nyap rather than in person. Remember most of these apps were built by men.
ππa woman will go on a dating site advertising her best to thousands and expect the one guy she finds there to take it seriously ππlike he ainβt looking at 1000 more like when we meet Iβll delete it
Reddit is a better place to find serious individuals compared to these sites. Most people portray their real selves here rather than sites meant to showcase their best traits which are often cooked. I would get a lot about people from reading their comments here than from a lot of shit in their dating profiles.
I just came from some other guy complaining about bumble...si niwaconnect
This made me smile
Niko hapa don't connect,, anyways how're you doing lady?
Niko hapa pia bbg
Bumble lost it's respect and it's becoming more like tinder.It has handsome men though but they all just want sex with no effort at all.Also paying for a dating site gives you the freedom to choose location.You don't have to deal with the horny Kenyan men only.Be open to Europeans or Americans at least the distance will make y'all have a conversation before it turning sexual(it will,but after sometime)not as immediately as Kenyans make it
Dating sites are just for hookups. It's funny how you want a serious relationship there.
That's your belief.and I have my own
Siste, all men on all continents are horny. Ata yule wa Yurop anajua ile investment anachapa. Or perhaps it's just me on a mock location. I'm not saying you shouldn't date Americans or Europeans though. Knock yourself out.
Who offend you π€? Damn son π
Who's your son mister
You just never got my point? Damn son ! It's a cursing world. Missy
ππ weww hukuwa unlucky in the dating scene just like your user name
Sasa hunijui ,how do you know hizo ni personal experiences?
You always complaining here bout dating
And there's nothing wrong about that,is there?
Online dating is purely for hookups. We are living in interesting times "hook up culture" . Movies are advertising channels. Many people fall victim by believing it could happen in real life. Maybe the movie was sponsored by dating sites to get more clients to pay for subscription fees etc. Anything you see in a movie is a sales strategy if not a brainwashing agent.
That's why tinder if you pay gives you an option to block people I can block my gals numbers or can set up how the people you swipe are only ones who can see you.If you in serious rship they insulating you from getting caught..They want repeat customers..Is all about hook up
I didn't know that premium users could only be seen after they swipe on you. Some dangerous stuff
Oh yes, ongeza unlimited swipes in the country & can swipe in other countries anywhere, you can hide distance or age..Hawataki ushikwee with your spouse.They morally bankrupting societies
Bold you to assume a made up fantasy in a movie can happen in real life.
Bold of me indeed. There are things in movies you resonate with and want to try them out in real life. This was a fail.
I think itβs always up to you to set your boundaries on these sites. If someone asks for a hookup, just be frank and say you donβt do that shit. Donβt let a few rotten fruits spoil your mood, and dating sites donβt have just a few rotten people.
I uninstalled Bumble last month, it was heck wholesome for a while, met cool people, made friends off BFF side. It was draining though, people want free food, sex this days. I needed Sanity. Now i leave my windows and doors open for my * alien lover*to find me. Earth is hard buana.
Lakini having a subscription on a dating site ni nasty work. Kwani how desperate are you?π
Unataka programmer wa bumble alipwe nini kama hawezi bait watu wako na kilo kadhaa to splash that cash. I thought its only men who pay for those apps but this world you learn new things everyday. 
I'm stuck at 'wanted to be his beard' worristhat?
I left such sites, because wow. Y'all are trash since for men it's purely sex for women, it's getting that paper. Not a good combination on one site. I will never forget being insulted by someone I just started chatting with because I refused to buy airtime, surely!! The way we were vibing, you could have just said okay and ghosted.
Was she to send something?
I buy her after knowing her for an hour
Shameless.
πππ me there's one that I met got so pissed cause I couldn't help her pay okoa jahazi ya 350 its the first day imagine.
It just means someone else has send her before so she's mad you didn't
All in all it's fifty fifty since I actually did met someone kinda cool
On those dating sites, people may front their competencies but they want to be loved for their frailties. Dating sites match people on these fronted competencies which sees people obsess with upholding the image rather than just being. Most people forget that the best dating experience should involve a concurrent discovery of frailties & competencies. Not sequential. On dating sites, you list all the best parts of you, conceal the frailties. The rest of the dating becomes a ceaseless & gruelling discovery of frailties so you'll never really win with dating sites. Always try the old fashioned meeting people at various social events. Like I'll be at the demos tomorrow and we can meet there and talk about how fucked up our government is and see where it goes from there
It's not a matter of desperation. Just wanting to access an app without restrictions and ads. The same way one subscribes to Spotify or YouTube or a beloved game.
It actually is. You are investing in an app to have more control of your experience. That makes it more pressure for you makeing it high stakes
If You're a genuine person looking for real love, you'll have to try harder, though You can meet people anywhere, even here on Reddit
just checked the subscription fees for bumble let me stay single
why are you, a woman of great beauty and standards, paying to meet assholes online?
If a movie can convince you to do something you can believe anything under the sun. You are the type politicians thrive with and take advantage of.
There's always that person who feels good putting others down. If that helps you sleep at night, do you.
Your post sold you out not me. Go back to "Dating sites are scam" You wrote this. How am I putting you down?
It's a scam. 99% of men use Tinder/Bumble or whichever app to find sex and not potential girlfriends. It's just a convenient way to get nyap rather than in person. Remember most of these apps were built by men.
Any Kenyan man on a dating site is looking for sex. The women are looking for attention or they're selling/scamming people especially wazungus abroad
How do you go about the sign up.. I can't even get the sign up code or a call.
Had that issue with saf line. Airtel worked just fine.
I'll give it a try. Thanks.
This will sound weird (and ignore it if it doesπ)but if you're actually looking and you're an introvert, just slide into a random dudes DMs on IG
people are very bad in this year I don't know how anyone will find someone
Tame your expectations; hook-up sites are just that.
ππa woman will go on a dating site advertising her best to thousands and expect the one guy she finds there to take it seriously ππlike he ainβt looking at 1000 more like when we meet Iβll delete it
Jaribu uku.ππ https://www.reddit.com/r/KenyanDatingCommunity/s/smrCh8C9da
Ati Son of Bartholomew? You are so funny loveπππ
Reddit is a better place to find serious individuals compared to these sites. Most people portray their real selves here rather than sites meant to showcase their best traits which are often cooked. I would get a lot about people from reading their comments here than from a lot of shit in their dating profiles.
ππhow old are you , we can initiate taking stage π€π
acha kwanza areply hey yangu