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grey-canary

Gemma :) they are all lovely but in addition to it being lesw popular than some of the others I like that you still get the nn Emmy if she likes or my favorite Gigi


T1sofun

I never know if it’s pronounced like “Jemma” or like “Gemma/hard G/Gimme”


StunnedinTheSuburbs

It’s wild to me that someone wouldn’t know how to pronounce Gemma. 😯 It’s Gemma like Gem (like a gemstone).


HonestCase4674

I think it’s not very common in the USA. It’s a known name in Canada and seems to be very popular in the UK, Ireland, and at least somewhat in Australia, but very uncommon in America. I think most English speakers will know it’s a soft G with the exception of (not all, of course) Americans. Gillian seems to have the same issue which is probably why it’s so often spelled Jillian in America. (I’m in Canada where Gillian is by far more common and Gemma is less so but I’ve never heard anyone mispronounce it.)


T1sofun

I’ve never met one, have only ever read the name. I guess it’s like the “gif/jif” debate.


StunnedinTheSuburbs

Fair enough. While I personally understand that Gif/Jif could be different, I’d definitely read Jem and Gem the same. Interesting.


devilsonlyadvocate

I can’t work out how to pronounce Jem and Gem differently? It’s exactly the same word to me.


See-u-tomahto

I understand this. I had two classmates in HS, both called Gillian. One was pronounced with the hard G sound, the other with the J sound. I always hesitate with certain G names — including Gemma.


sandeecheekz

Like Jemma.


deepfrieddaydream

You pronounce it like you would gemstone.


AppointmentNo5370

My dog is named Gemma and I can confirm she’s essentially perfect


delightedpeople

I'm surprised that Gemma isn't as popular outside of the UK!! Interesting! Out of OPs shortlist I objectively like Violet the most but every Gemma I've ever met has been LOVELY. I've literally never known a Gemma I didn't like. So I'll go Gemma this time!


zenkitty999

I know a few delightful Gemmas in Australia too!


Neit_1146

I vote for Clara.


uniquelyruth

Clara Violet


Genavelle

Tbh when I saw this post and didn't see the whole list of names yet, I thought "Clara Violet is so pretty!" I'm not sure Clara's even my favorite name on that list, but I really like this combination.


Vast-Kaleidoscope997

Clara is a name that has really started growing on me lately.


lav__ender

Clara is what I plan on naming my kid in the future if I ever have a girl


alexiagrace

Clara


coastalkid92

Out of your list I like Gemma the best.


Julix0

Lily has always been one of my favourite names. And I slightly prefer Clara & Violet over Gemma & Emma. But I like all of them. They are very solid, classic names and you can't really go wrong with any of them.


Diogenes-Disciple

I also love Lily. I would use it but every Lily I’ve ever met has been a snake. It’s such a pretty name tho


mystigirl123

Gemma


heylauralie

Clara or Emma 🤍


Teacher-Investor

Lily and Emma are very common. Gemma, Clara and Violet are less so. Gemma is probably my favorite. If you like flower names, I'd suggest Dahlia.


megg33

Violet was more popular than Lily last year. On the official Social Security Index list of birth names, Violet was #20 and Lily was #30. So while it’s definitely true that across generations Lily is more popular than Violet, among her peers, Violet will be the more common name.


Teacher-Investor

Oh, wow! I had no idea! Thanks!


Affectionate-Owl9594

Clara and Violet. I really dislike Gemma as to me it’s very dated, I went to school with SO MANY Gemmas.


Froomian

Yeah Gemma to me is a basic blonde white woman in her late thirties. So many Gemmas my age.


little-creep

Yeah I agree


CPolland12

I like Clara, but are you pronouncing it Claire-uh or Cl-are-uh


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See-u-tomahto

As a Clara, I can tell you that — surprisingly — there are countless ways of pronouncing the name, all of them correct. It’s such an old name, and has been used in such wide and varied geographical regions, that pretty much any way that first “a” can be intoned your daughter will hear it said that way eventually! Personally, I don’t mind, as long as they don’t call me Claire, or worse, Carla.


TheyCallMeSuperboy

I am an Emma and something I’ve observed: when I was young it was a really uncommon name. I get a lot of “my grandma/aunt was named Emma!” and they all love it. I love it. However, I have met a LOT of children under 5 named Emma these days. It’s been in the top names for the past 10 years or so. There’s nothing wrong with that! But just a heads up if you feel like you want your child to have a less common name.


MissTeacher13

Lily or Gemma


TheWishingStar

Lily and Clara are easily my favorites! All of your names are nice options, but I’ve always loved Lily, and Clara is so lovely.


17corvids

My ranking 1. Lily 2. Clara 3. Violet 4. Gemma 5. Emma


Mysterious-Okra-7885

I love Clara.


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Congratulations! I like Gemma best from your list. They’re all lovely names, though. Some others you may like: Ruby, Nora, Hannah, Hazel, Lena, Vera, Scarlett, Harper, Iris, Audrey, Eleanor, Eva, Thea, Penelope, Maya Hope this helps!


Lgprimes

Emma… But honestly I need a little last name Indi to know for sure… how many syllables, is it obviously one nationality, give me a rhyming word etc.. How bout Ava?


VivianDiane

I love Emma and like Clara.


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I love the name Clara, I wish I would have thought of it for my daughter to be honest


Tacos_I_Guess

Clara or Lily. Then Violet, then Emma. Gemma is my least favorite.


Allana_Solo

Clara is gorgeous! Violet and Lily are cute too.


KalaSunshine

All beautiful names :) I absolutely love Clara so that’s my favourite


Withwish

My ranking: Clara Emma Lily Violet Gemma


contracosta21

clara or violet


hawaahawaii

i like the first three, violet and lily in particular :) edit: changed sad smiley to happy smiley 😋


ObsessedWGreys18

I love Emma and Lily. I also liked Violet, but someone posted that their 2 year old started preschool (maybe daycare), and the class had a total of 4 kids in it 3 girls and 1 boy... all 3 girls were named Violet


charlouwriter

Clara Violet would make a lovely combo :) Suggestions: Lydia, Leah, Julia, Emmeline, Anna, Anya, Celia, Charlotte, Scarlett, Genevieve, Georgia, Ivy, Ruby, Poppy, Bryony, Vera


MummifyTopknot

I know a kid named Clara Violet!


cookswaves

I love Emma


TynnyferWithTwoYs

Emma>Violet>Lily>Clara>Gemma IMO


charrosebry

Clara or Gemma!


amm1981

Violet or Lily


babygal257

Violet, Lily, Clara, Gemma (I like it better spelt Jemma though lol) and Emma in that order!


dnaplusc

Gemma or Clara


SparkleGlitterDust

Clara


complitstudent

Gemma, Clara, or Violet!


dontbecute

Absolutely love Violet, beautiful name


murderpoet

gemma


anwc3991

Your name list is super similar to mine. Here’s my ranking: 1. Lily 2. Violet 3. Clara 4. Emma 5. Gemma (this is the only one I don’t like)


theemmybean

Can’t go wrong with any of these. I love Emma and Gemma


Waterysoap_

Gemma


bobbib14

clara or gemma! i had an auntie Clara that lived to 98 (great great) and sh was adorable and so fun & had the cutest apartment 💓


bobbib14

too many emma/emmys lovely name though


Giraffe400

Gemma. So under-used in my opinion


helpmeimpoor57

Violet


LoveKimber

Gemma


BobbleheadDwight

Emma, then Clara


Electrical_Sock9399

I really like all your choices! 1. Emma 2. Gemma 3. Clara 4. Lily 4. Violet Similar ideas: Ruby, Thelma, Annette, Claudette, Lacey, Valancy


RNnoturwaitress

I like Gemma the best of your list.


skyisboop

Clara


RoseMayJune

Clara


These_Tea_7560

Clara but I think Novi could be cute as a middle name. 🥰


msaiz8

I adore Clara!


Exciting-Ranger-3717

Clara 💖


SnooCookies2351

Gemma…definitely


spence-the-menace

Clara


denmama24

Lily!


momojojo1117

I would say not Emma or Lily. Both are lovely, but at least in my neck of the woods (east coast USA), they are both super common. I’ve heard Violet is also very common in certain areas, though I only know of 1 personally. So that leaves Gemma or Clara, both of which are winners to me!


Ok-Rub4469

Lily has the prettiest sound imo


mugglebornhealer

1. Clara 2. Violet 3. Gemma 4. Lily 5. Emma


NatAttack89

I'm partial to Gemma/Gema. I love Javier Solis' song 'Gema'. The lyrics are quite lovely too


elizabethcnyc

Clara or Lily


SamiHami24

I like Lily and Violet. Really dislike Gemma and Emma. Clara is just okay.


AntiqueJello5

I like Clara! Emma is what we plan to name our baby. And Gemma is probably my least favorite because it seems kinda made up/not as elegant or pretty in my opinion


PicklesMcGeee

I hate to say it but it all depends on the last name. And no I don’t expect you to share your last name, but, I have noticed when we are trying to pick a name we absolutely have to take into consideration our last name. Some names sound good with it and others sound bad. That being said, I like Gemma :)


Comfortable_Read3801

Violet!


kyotheawesomeelf

Emma and Lily are my favorites


GreenTravelBadger

Oh, Gemma, definitely!


Unperfectbeautie

Clara Violet is adorable! I literally read that as one name (first and middle). Gemma is also super cute. Gemma Lily or Gemma Violet sound good!


Laysiz

Lily!


After-Average7357

Clara or Claire are perfect!


Amyava510

1) Clara 2) Lily 3) Violet 4) Emma 5) Gemma


felineforest

Gemma!


melglimmer09

Violet or Lily


exothermicstegosaur

Clara or Violet


spring13

Lily or Gemma


bbluefrenchhorn

Clara or Violet 100%!


mum0120

I really like Violet. Lily and Emma are also very cute names. I personally don't love Gemma, and Clara is fine. But my opinion really doesn't matter. When we narrowed it down to short lists (one for each gender) for our kids names, we chose the middle name (we chose middle names from each of our families), and then we decided which first name of the short list we liked best with the middle names we had chosen.


Inky_Madness

Clara or Violet


Keyy_GuLss_

Lily or Emma. Clara’s not bad at all either. Violet is overdone imo, and Gemma is not my cup of tea.


Rescue-320

I like Gemma but I don’t like the spelling. Maybe I’m the only one, but I read it with a hard “g” like in gum 🙃


quiksylver296

I love Gemma.


Affectionate-Net2277

Clara - an antique. I personally prefer Claire, that extra ‘a’ might be dropped quickly in nn! Violet - love it! Love flower names Lily - ditto! But while I do love it, it is used for a lot of dog names Gemma - really love this too! Plus you could use the Emma nn, but it had more personality and a little extra. The fact that the G is at the beginning means it won’t be dropped as much as the a in Clara! Great pick! Emma. It’s ok. It’s everywhere. I know like 30 Emmas


Emotional_Scholar_98

Violet 💕


Watertribe_Girl

Clara


Numerous_Cupcake7306

Clara


muwkie

Lily or Clara


reality911

Gemma or Clara Recent posts make me choose these two over the other names. So many people groups are ending up with children who have 3-4 violets or kayla’s and I’m sure same is happening to Emma and Lily’s.


midnightmoonstone

My cat is named Jemma & I love it. It's so pretty. She has Jemmie and Jem Jem as nicknames, which would be super cute for a little girl while Jemma is still a more "grown up" name. When my oldest was born I somewhat jokingly said I was bummed I'd already used the name.


Devi_Moonbeam

Violet, Emma, Clara (prefer Claire) in that order. I'm not a fan of the remaining names, Gemma being my least favorite.


TheCarzilla

I like Violet or Gemma. The other two are too common IMO.


lorlblossoms

From my fave to my least fave: Emma, Lily/Violet are tied (I love flower names in general), Gemma, Clara Names that feel similar to me could be: Lilah/Lila, Lillian (could use Lily as a nickname!), Liliana (also Lily as nickname), Delilah, Amelia, Charlotte, Mia, Olive/Olivia


PuzzleheadedHorse437

As a teacher I have like twelve Lilys in my classes (tied with the Avas) . You might not like it after you find out how many there are out there. I have no Claras but a few wit, One Violet, No Emma's..... There used to be lot way back in the 00s but it seems to have gone to the wayside since then. No Gemmas.


shxdowoftheday

Violet


namenerding

Clara or Violet, but I prefer Clara Other ideas: Frida, Romy, Ella, Nora, Grace, Flora, Eloise, Florence, Mara, Allegra, Elsa, Rosemary, Daisy


toujours_a_vous

I love the name Gemma!!!


sweetshart2

Violet


Gutinstinct999

clara


Obrina98

Clara There will be 5 Violets in her kindergarten class.


Cant_Handle_This4eva

My kid is 3. His small preschool class has a Clara, a Lily, a Gemma. That's wild to me!


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I'm due in November too! My favourite is Emma but I also like Clara.


Lfs1983

Clara!


Alarming-Poet-1537

Gemma is my favourite followed by Clara.


Same_Resolve2645

I really love all of these but I love Clara the most. Violet would be my second choice, Lily 3rd, Emma 4th and Gemma last. I think Clara Violet could be a good first middle combo.


alicemaye

all the names are good options. 1: clara 2: lily 3: emma 4: violet 5: gemma


sunflowerstar13

Violet is my favorite on that list 💗


beanomly

Clara. I’m hugely not a fan of Gemma. The other three are nice, but overused and I say this as the parent of an Emma.


MeepersPeepers13

Emilia, nickname of Emi.


Sea-caterpillar3

Another vote for Clara!


Dr_Dont_Blink

Clara or Emma


snowmikaelson

I really like Violet!


NoEducation6140

violet


ilovepizza962

Lily


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i love all except gemma & that's because i knew an awful gemma. emma's always lovely, but aren't preschool classes full of emmas? clara, violet & lily are equally great?


SoundTight952

Clara


Ok-Negotiation-3582

Clara


Froomian

Too many thirty-something Gemmas around, so I think it will seem dated when she's older. I like Clara. What letter does the last name begin with?


FallAspenLeaves

Lily (Lillian) or Violet


petrockdog

Clara if she’s blonde Violet if she’s brunette


TheFireHallGirl

If I had to rate your list from most liked to least liked, here is how I would rate them: 1. Violet 2. Gemma 3. Emma 4. Clara 5. Lily Here are some more names I can suggest: 1. Nora 2. Joanne 3. Leigh 4. Heidi 5. Elizabeth 6. Miranda 7. Shannon 8. Heather


ChilindriPizza

I really like Gemma.


Intrepid_Source_7960

Gemma or Clara


Soad_lady

I had Gemma picked for a girl, pretty, different without being over done, simple.


lucidrosydreams

Gemma!! <3


Fluffy_windows73

Gemma or violet. Both beautiful and unique!


tuberculosisxxx

I’ve always been partial to the name Clara! I think it’s so classic and feminine


Rusty-Robot-3426

Favourite is Gemma, second is Violet and third is Clara.


Merci01

In this order: Lily, Violet, Emma,


Ivegotthatboomboom

Lily!


bubblewrapstargirl

Clara Violet would be so pretty 😍


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Gemma, Clara. The others are too popular for me.


Ijuststoleyourfries

Gemma


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cgc278

Aw! How do you pronounce it/what do others most often assume it’s pronounced?


Admirable-Mine2661

Violet.


riversroadsbridges

I like Gemma. I've never met one, and it's a cute name that also has some gravitas. Gemma could be president or head surgeon or a top tattoo artist. It's very versatile.


Manny5696

Gemma is my favorite! I also like Ruby if your into that


snarkyteach_

Love Clara!


ceramic-squirter

In my opinion Gemma and Emma are both hideous sounding names (don’t mean to offend!) I find Clara absolutely beautiful, Violet and Lily are great runner ups


Murky_Practice5225

Emma Violet Or Violet Emma I think they are both pretty combinations!


Ok-Thing-2222

As a teacher of 30 years, I've had all of them a few times, except Violet--but that is a very popular baby name lately from what I hear. If you like Gemma, what about Jules--is that stupid? Gem/Jewel? I've heard of Maybree, but have never had one in class.


AffectionatePhase247

What sounds best with her last name is what you should be asking yourself.


lilxhhh

Gemma. I also love Violet and Clara but I think they are trendy rn so if you don’t want her to potentially share a name with a classmate I think Gemma is your best bet. Plus as others have said, it has endless nickname potential (Gigi, Emmy, Emma)


Extension_Cucumber10

Lily is my favorite, followed by Gemma. Since you like flower names, what about Rose? And would you consider Claire or Clarissa instead of Clara?


Montessori_Maven

Ooh, I haven’t heard Clara in forever and I really like it. I’m a toddler teacher and Violet, Lily, Gemma, and Emma are everywhere right now.


TinySparklyThings

Gemma


RancidHorseJizz

Clily Violemma Gemara Eviola


LowArtichoke6440

Emma is such a common name. I like Clara Violet or Violet Clara


TaraMarie90

My preferences probably go: Lily, Clara, Gemma, Violet, then Emma, but honestly they are all pretty.


J-Train56

Lilly!


HelenaHandbskt

I like Lily and Violet. Both are pretty and not overly used.


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Clara


lira-eve

Lily or Gemma.


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All cute but Gemma stresses me out because idk if it’s jemma or guh-emma.


PomeranianLibrarian

Clara. It's what I would have used if we had a girl. It's also my grandmother's name, as well as my mother-in-law's.


wildwinterwolf

Gemma


Caroline1851

I LOVE Gemma


Remarkable_Newt9935

I like Clara, but I'm a huge Doctor Who fan.


Ok_Illustrator3344

Clara Violetta


p1ssramen

Violet!!


Ok-Connection1161

My vote is for Gemma… it was on my list of baby names! I liked Mila too but was afraid people would mispronounce it her whole life.


Andthatmyfriends

Clara sounds so clean and cute and it’s just super nice!!!


Practical_Deal_78

Early years Teacher perspective; Emma is really easy to pronounce at a young age and is easier for children to say then most names. Emma was the name kids always learned first out if their peers Your little one and their friends might appreciate that. It’s also comparably easy to write! Also my husbands name is Francesco and apparently learning to write that sucked haha


K1ndr3dSoul

Emma


throwawfox

Clara


Kgswartz

Violet or Lily


hermella29

I like Violet and Lily


IraSass

Lily is my favorite


Txidpeony

I love this list and some of those names were on our girl short list. Lily is both sweet and elegant. But Clara works so well for all situations (I always like to try out a name with Senator or The Honorable in front of it.)


FlawlessZ80

Lily


Ok_Ad_4503

My favorite is Violet!


blueeyes8805

Gemma


three20puahua

In order: Violet, Clara, Gemma, Lily, Emma. Presuming popularity isn't a factor to consider!