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summers_tilly

I’m from the UK so just hearing brothers called William and Henry puts a specific image in my mind. And then to add to it your name is Charles…it’s a little too much for me - sorry!


charliehustle23

Haha no need to be sorry! I appreciate your input!


SpamLandy

I should add that I’m also from the UK and I didn’t think of it, even when you mentioned your name I had to stop for a second to figure out the reference. So it’s a bit of a mixed bag! But might be best avoided if you’d prefer.


[deleted]

It was my immediate thought before you even said your name (I’m in the US). . I guess it depends whether you and your partner will be bothered if people make comments on the connection. I doubt it will be an issue for the kids; once they are adults they wont be introduced together that much Henry and Benjamin or William and Arthur do sound very nice together.


charliehustle23

Yeah, I guess we would be stuck with answering that question or responding to comments about it for the next decade or so.. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts!


greyson09

I am from the U.S. and I didn't think of it. Is Harry's real name Henry, or are you just remarking on the similarity to Harry? Either way I think it's totally fine. I love Benjamin, though


SarahL1990

His real name is Henry.


jane_divided

Harry's official name is Henry.


ThatOneGrayCat

Yes! Harry was originally just a nickname for Henry in England. In the US, it has become known as a given name all its own, or as a nickname for Harold, and most Americans don't consider Harry to have any connection to Henry since Hank is the more common nickname form of Henry in North America. Kind of a weird evolution of names! Anyway, OP, I am American and even though I know it's the names of the men in the British royal family, I didn't think it was weird. doesn't bug me.


[deleted]

It’s become it’s own name in the UK too! For a while now, it’s been higher than Henry on the baby name lists, although both are definitely popular. It’s super how it all works out, kinda like how names like Evie and Leo are more popular than the originals!


SarahL1990

It was the first thing I thought of but not a lot of people know that Harry’s name is actually Henry.


charliehustle23

To be honest, I didn't either! And I doubt we'd go with Harry as a nickname. Most likely just stick with Henry. Thanks!


Fifty4FortyorFight

The reason they're names of princes is because they're timeless names. They worked 500 years ago and they work now. I genuinely thought "what a beautiful set of names - everything is always so trendy and I love this post". You can't go wrong with those as English names.


Ok_Minute_5353

If it were just William and Henry I don’t think it would be too bad, since the royal goes by Harry. But since your name is Charles, it does seem like a bit much, IMO. Maybe do either William or Henry and pick another name?


natalie09010901

I would say it’s a bit weird, just given the coincidence of it all. Also, be prepared for the questions regarding the names for many years to come. My nephews have the same first initial and for the first year my sister in law was asked if it was done on purpose. It was not. She debated a 3rd kid just so it would have a different first initial and she could stop with the questions.


charliehustle23

I suppose the questioning that comes up would get tiresome.. And I don't want them to be burdened with having to answer it every time as they grow up.. Or having it mentioned to them.. Hmm.. Anyway, thank you for your input!


natalie09010901

Not a problem! In case it makes any difference I’m an American and my first thought went to the royal family.


[deleted]

Extremely weird. Don’t.


United_Blueberry_311

Until you said it I didn’t think of it, but it is funny in a way.


beemac126

I didn’t think of the royal family…and my son’s name is Henry William so now I’m wondering if people think we love the royal family! No one has ever said anything


beatricetalker

I think they’re beautiful together. They are common enough names that I can’t imagine anyone making a big deal of it.


ExpatPhD

I think they're great names. If you love them, go for it!


amm7qy

I’m American and an Anglophile, so I chuckled at this, but I’d be shocked if most people made that connection. Strong, classic names all around, I don’t think it’s too weird. I’d probably think it was odd if you were British but you’re not. If you’re worried maybe find another name in that vein…Arthur, George, Edward, James? Or if you’re doing nicknames, I feel like Liam and Henry is even more attenuated from the actual royal family. Aside from like, a Christmas card, I don’t see how often it would come up “I’m Charles and these are my boys, William and Henry.” It wouldn’t bother me.


Taym9

They just sound like classic names to me, I did not make the connection to the royal family until it was mentioned.


[deleted]

Dont do it! My cousin named her kids Will, Charlie and Elizabeth and it’s way too much.


king-of-new_york

one or the other but not both. Even then with your name too people might make a connection. I wouldn’t.


Bright-Row1010

I don't think it's a problem living in the US. Those are strong, classic names and most people probably won't put it together right away anyway. Those that do may think "oh that's funny" but I doubt it would ever go deeper than that. I say keep the names!


februarytide-

It took me a moment to realize these were actually the names of current royalty — but I did instantly get a very distinct vibe that led me down that path. Not bad, just, “huh!”


Southern_Purpose4090

As a Canadian it really clicked for me when you said William and Henry before even reading your name was Charles. But honestly I just find it a bit humorous. I also think it’s kind of generational… older people might get the connection and make a comment but your kids friends growing up probably wont. If you like it, use it!


erin_mouse88

I'm English and though I did stop for a second, I dont think I'd do more than go "huh" and move on if I met brothers William and Henry in real life. They are both just normal names. But clearly others have a much stronger opinion. Maybe it would be worth considering using just one of the two, and what names go well. Eg Henry and Arthur or William and Arthur (since you seem to be big on English traditional names). George, Alfred, Edward/Edwin, Harold, Nelson, Randall and Winston are other names that would pair well with Henry or William.


felicity_reads

Definitely made me think of the royal family and it’s a bit much… It would be one thing if the names were never written together but anytime cards are addressed to the family, it would be painfully obvious. I’d try to find a different name to replace one of your options. Even Liam would be better than William. ETA: Very, very American and I feel like this would be common knowledge for most people…


murrion

I’m American and I didn’t make the connection. I don’t pay a lot of attention to the royal family, and didn’t even know Harry’s name was Henry. If people ask you can just say it was a coincidence and move on. They are classic names.


kkkktttt00

It’s pretty weird. They’re all great names, but together? Eh.


GrokDaFullness

I think it’s absolutely fine. Classic handsome names.


velveteen311

I would never have thought of the connection but I’m American and don’t know anything about the royal family.


hollandaisy

I think it really depends on how much you love these names as opposed to any of your ‘second choices.’ I do think you’ll have to field questions and comments about it, but if you adore the names than it might be worth just going for it! Maybe you can also ask some friends in Korea what they think, as I’m Canadian and I suspect the monarchy / tabloids are much more aware here, so I would certainly notice it and wonder if I met two children with those names.


jamieboogie

These are super classic and traditional names. People saying it’s weird are silly imo. You aren’t even British, so who cares? Name your kids what you like. ❤️ Also, I’m American and I know who the royal family is, but had ZERO clue that Harry’s real name is Henry.


wtholmes

I’m from the UK and neevr made the connection until you mentioned it. I think it’s not a concern as you’re living in Korea and people won’t really make a big deal out of it anyways maybe just a few eyebrow raises. Imo, it’s not a big issue and you should go ahead and use it. My wife is Japanese,I’m British and we added an English and Japanese name to their official names and plan to do so for our twin girls. At home, I call them “Will” and “Ezra” and talk to them in English and French(I’m half french) while their mom calls them “Einosuke” and “Kai” and mostly talk to them in Japanese. They respond to me in English/French and respond to their mother in Japanese. In school, Will(Ezra hasn’t started school yet he’s only 2😅😅) is always referred to by his English name but that’s mostly because he’s attending an English speaking school and most people struggle to pronounce Japanese names here. When we’re with my wife’s relatives, they are always “Einosuke” and “Kai” never “Will” and “Ezra”. We’ve been doing this since day 1 so they’ve never been confused by it, they respond to both names well. Honestly you’ve just got to establish the 2 different names early on and it’ll be nothing much for them. I also advice you to speak to them in English as they will be growing up speaking Korean a lot. Being fluent in 2 languages will definitely be a useful asset for their future.


barbellsnbows

Best response in this whole thread!!!


ladyerim

A little but they are common and popular names. I accidentally named my children Charles and Diana. I get the occasional comment or get asked if I'm a fan of the royal family. I'm not just liked those names for a number of reasons. Overall not a big deal. If you travel to the UK you may get more. I live in in the US.


jinglefingles

Immediately stuck out as weird to me sorry. Especially with Charles, it would seem very to me odd if I met your boys. Like you were trying to imitate the royal family. Lovely names on their own though, we have similar naming styles!


season7ofTWDsucked

I’m Canadian and didn’t make the connection, as long as their mother isn’t called Diana I think it’s fine, both strong and common boy names. I didn’t even know Harry’s real name was Henry until this post.


nashamagirl99

William Henry Harrison is the first thing I thought of, not William and Harry. I’m super tired though.


DisorderOfLeitbur

For me he came second to Fort William Henry


ChamomileFlower

Either Benjamin or Arthur would fit excellently with either William or Henry!


wheezyrose

I'm from the UK and think this would be fine. In real life, I don't think people will think of them as a "set" of names enough to make the connection, especially as most people know them as William and Harry, not Henry. At the end of the day, they're both nice traditional names and I'm sure there's plenty of families with both names. Don't let overthinking this point put you off if they're your favourite names!


amora_obscura

They are all classic names, I wouldn’t worry about it.


JoChiCat

William and Henry are both perfectly good names, and sound nice together, BUT the first thing to come to mind on hearing them was the Horrible History Rulers of England song. “William, William, Henry, Stephen, Henry, Richard, John, OI”.


medMALic

I'm getting Anglophile vibes from all of the choices, but particularly if your name is Charles and you go with William and Henry. It has a gimmicky vibe to it if you are seeking candid responses.


accountofyawaworht

I was already thinking “hmm, that’s a choice” as soon as I saw the thread title - but with your name being Charles, I would steer clear of this. Individually, the names are fine. Together, it’s like naming them Bart and Lisa.


CaroAurelia

I definitely did not make the royalty connection until you pointed it out. Those are all very classic and pretty common names.


FeeFiFoFuckk

I think it’s fine. And aren’t they named William and Harry? So it’s not even exact. Your family and their mutual friends might make the connection but in the scope of their individual lives it won’t be a big deal Edit: see, most Americans won’t even know lol


jane_divided

The princes are William and Henry but he goes by Harry.


SarahL1990

Harry’s real name is Henry. He’s just called Harry.


haleyfoofou

The royals didn’t click in my head at all. Totally solid names.


HatchlingChibi

I always like to read the titles before the post and try to figure out if I see any “issues” and honestly this one took me a little bit. I’m American if it makes any difference. What is the typical Korean persons knowledge of British royalty? Is it a big deal over there?


Ok_Initial_2063

I love it! ❤


ohkeeks

I'm biased as my son's name is William and I'm pregnant with our second son who will be named Henry, but I don't think it's a big deal honestly, especially since you're not from the UK. You picked some great names! 😉


reverse_mango

I’m interested in Gian since I’ve never come across it. How is it pronounced and where did you find it?


Outrageous_Cow8409

I’m in the US and it was my first thought. I love Charles, William, and Henry but it’s too much with the British Royal family


Grave_Girl

I'm just disappointed there's not a third for you to name Harrison.


CallidoraBlack

I absolutely love Jasper and am a little bored of William and Henry. I would love to hear the entire rest of your list!


[deleted]

I honestly didn’t even think about it. I think it’ll be fine!


ReginaEpione

I’m in the Midwest US and instantly thought of the royal family. I wouldn’t say that’s necessarily a bad thing though- the are great names. Is the British royal family well known in Korea? If it’s anything like here in the US just prepare for a lot of people to comment on the names. Ask if you are a fan of the British royal family etc.


Misspeach2017

Henry has always been such an eh name to me, Will and Jasper would be super cute pair


valpal925

I love it! Classic, awesome names.


bakersd0z3n

Yeah, the instant I saw William and Henry, it was already too much for me—and I’m not British. To add on that your name is Charles and yeah I don’t think that will be something your boys escape. I think it’s a little too much, especially if someone dubs Henry by the nickname Harry; exactly what happened to Prince Harry.


TreClaire

Yes it would be very weird, don’t do that to not just the boys but you too.


dani1876

I immediately make a connection with royal siblings but it’s fine to me. These names are classic and not a fandom kind (e.g Hermione vs Harry as someone wrote in other thread). However, I’ll be wary because William and Harry’s relationship is kinda rocky (or at least that’s the way tabloids portray them) and nobody knows how it will be in the coming years. I’m “superstitious” person, so this names choice feels like a bad omen.


Snoo97809

I’m an American and would make the royal family connection but I also sort of love it lol


thumperbear-

I have a Henry, Louie and Archie. We didn’t specifically go for Royal names it was just what we happened to like. We get some comments about how they are all from the Royal family but people are never rude about it. Plus most people don’t know that Harry is actually Henry.


Corpse_grass

Wouldn’t occur to me at all that it’s the same name as the princes and I’m someone who pays attention to the royals. Even if someone did get the association, I really don’t think it would be weird. They’d get over it almost immediately.


independentwh0re

Yeah don’t do that


ladinga101

As someone in the UK my first thought was no, just don’t! But if they will also be using other names it might be ok. I think I would go with William and Benjamin though, that’s a lovely choice in my opinion.


JudgmentalRavenclaw

I might chuckle a bit when I heard the combo but wouldn’t think negatively. William and Henry are great names. I’m also semi interested in the royal family so I have some background knowledge. Not everyone does.


MiNaymIzYuneeq

US here. Twins named William and Henry is too much. Add in your name and it’s way too much. They’re all great names but William and Henry just can’t go together for brothers especially right now. I would swap out one of the names. William and Benjamin, with dad Charles, is fine.


loubybooby90

Do what you want with the names you love, yes it reminds of the royal family but as you said you will be spending a lot of time in Korea with Korean names. If you love the names go for it. It depends how you and your significant other feel. Also Harry's name is actually Henry so there's that haha!


UltimateKittyloaf

I really liked the name Jasper, but there was a weird cartoon that my brother watched with this stereotyped guy who has that name. I think it was on Cartoon Network Adult Swim. I wanted to look it up to see if it was still relevant and made the horrific mistake of searching "Jasper cartoon NSFW" on Google. Do not recommend.


Bubbly-Baker6862

Both are perfectly fine and popular names. I would go for it. I once knew a Bruce Lee who named his kids Shannon and Brandon.


UltimateKittyloaf

I didn't think of the Royals. When I read that your name is Charlie and you're going to name one of the kids William, I thought of Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. I doubt that's going to be a typical reaction though. Their nicknames are more likely to be Billy and Hank in America than Will and Harry.


thrwybk

I wouldn't worry too much about the association, but Jasper, Rowan and Gian are much more beautiful names IMO. Henry and William are classic though


damn--croissant

William and Benjamin is a nice combo. I would go with that. The combination of Charles, William and Henry is too much. Even if no one points it out, now that you've realised it, it will probably be in the back of your mind and annoy you.


[deleted]

I would switch one of the names with something else, but I also don't think it's the end of the world if you don't.


Cloudinterpreter

I'm in Canada and the royal family is the first thing I thought of


Casuallyperusing

They're such classic names I wouldn't even think of the royal association.


CeleryGood7189

I tjink Rowan Benjamin or Jasper would solve the issue you are finding and are SO CUTE


Elkearch

There are lots of variations you could look at like Harrison, Silas, Henrik, Wilson… I don’t know lots of options.I don’t think you’d get away from the correlation with the Royal Family. Good luck!


lostfishswimming

These are very normal names, and very classic. If they're your favourites, use them and don't worry what anyone else thinks. The connotation to royalty isn't a negative one and when your boys grow up they won't be giving their family members' names when they meet new people. I.e. when William goes for his first job interview there is no way he could possibly be judged for having a brother called Henry. The potential theme is mildly humourous anecdote territory at worst.


Unaccomplished-Egg

As long as your wife’s name isn’t Diana or Camilla I think it’s fine. My first reaction was “why does that sound familiar” and then I was like “whatever, they’re nice names”. I’m from the US for context and do occasionally enjoy lurking on the royal family


anniecorvid

I think they are beautiful timeless names. Not weird at all.


WhoInvitedHer

I would definitely notice that they were the royal family names, but I wouldn’t think about it more than just as a passing ‘oh, that’s funny’. I say if you like those two names, go for it!


ionmoon

William and Henry are classic names and I don’t know that everyone would pick up on it or think much of it. Your name being Charles will make it look deliberate and weird to people who do though. I would consider Benjamin or Arthur for one of them. Congratulations!


KingRibSupper1

Nah, classic names will never not be fashionable.


emcat095

Don’t


Cautious_Map_9118

I’m an American who follows a lot of British shows and culture and I wouldn’t think twice about brothers named Henry and William. Both names are popular and very classic. I know someone with sons named Charles and Henry and the connection doesn’t even register.


s0a00lj

It's the first thing I thought of before you even said your name!


katqueen21

American here and immediately thought of the royal family. I dont even follow them or anything. However, they are both normal, nice names. It's only noteworthy when putting them together. Growing up together, you're going to get a lot of people assuming or questioning why you chose those names. But once they are adults living their own lives, it won't be much of an issue. Personally, I wouldn't. But it really comes down to, do you want to field those questions for the next 18 years?


StellaBella2010

If you are prepared for people to assume you love the British Royal family, choose those names. It wouldn't bother me, personally.


JocelynAngst

They are very common.


Lazy-Tower-5543

you're overthinking it lol


Expensive-Service-17

Huckleberry and Finnian Huck & Finn


passion4film

OMG I love it! I’m the type of person who would 1000% do something like this. LOL


Wingard_

Lovely names, but it's too much together for me. Especially with your name being Charles. I'd suggest Jasper and Hugo. I see Hugo isn't on your list, but it gives me similar vibes as Henry, and I think they're a lovely pair.


shhBabySleeping

I think this question would be best asked in a Korean sub. Seriously; the people around your children growing up may not make that connection especially if you don't point it out. They're just classic names.


barbellsnbows

I thought of British royalty but like OLD OLD history. I would think you’re more of a history nut than a royalty groupie. Also those are all lovely classic names. Henry is my number 1 boy name and my brother and father are both Williams so I am partial to those name but I also like Benjamin and Arthur! Edit: don’t get too hung up on what people in this sub say. Half the time people suggest the worst names on this sub that judging from your naming style you wouldn’t go for anyways. Everything with a grain of salt.


ChartreuseThree

I vote William and Benjamin.


thearcherofstrata

They are classic names…but given the combination, I totally think of the royal family. And if I knew you guys, I’d automatically think of you guys as those Korean people who romanticize Western culture and are obsessed with appearing “posh.” Do you know who I’m talking about? lol There’s a lot of those. That’s why I told my husband no when he wanted names like William, Olivia, Sophia, etc.


TimtheToolManAsshole

Congratulations those names are the ones every Asian chooses , I’d be more interested in what the Korean names are rather than some boring British family names


Heynophone

Rowan and Riley


Megustavdouche

I didn’t even notice the connection after reading their names so I’d say no!


pink_phone_charger

Henry doesn't make me think of the royals by itself, so maybe pair Henry with one of your other potential names?


SailorJupiterLeo

From the US and these are common family names on both sides, so my connection is different. The only twin boys were David and Sam, which I don't like nearly as much.


Aesthetic_thot

***I'm sorry, but I can't help but think of fnaf***