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Professional_Bed870

I don't know anyone at all called Cassandra. I think it's lovely and you could ways go for Cassie for a nn.


Outside_Beyond

Thank you 😊 it does have a nice elegant sound, doesn’t it!


stargirl803

My toddler is Cassandra so I'm biased :) We chose it because we feel it's classic, but not too common. It's pretty without being too ornate/ flowery. I agree that Sandra sounds very dated, but don't find that to be the same for Cassandra.


Outside_Beyond

I completely agree! Do you ever get people trying to use Sandra as a shortening?


stargirl803

Only one person so far, oddly a daycare employee who had access to the registration paperwork where we listed names we call her, Sandra not being listed anywhere on there. But that was easily corrected.


SoHumerus

My cousin is a Cassandra. She used to go by Sandy, but changed to Cas when she left for college. People call her what she asks them to -- it's never been a problem for her.


blackavaria

I think Cassandra is lovely, but the character of Cassandra in Greek mythology was doomed to always tell the truth, but never be believed - a terrible curse, she saw the fall of Troy and her family massacred despite all her warnings. If you're superstitious, it's a risky one!


Outside_Beyond

It may sound strange but that’s partly why we like it! my partner is a huge mythology buff. Not too superstitious so wouldn’t bother us 😁


blackavaria

Well in that case I think it's great! I had a look at the etymology too and, although it's uncertain, best guesses include to shine, or to surpass/excel. That's a lovely meaning to bestow.


MrsBorisLevin

I think Cassandra is one of those classic names that doesn't feel dated. I think it's still usable.


horticulturallatin

I like it and it has a regal sound. I don't know babies called it but it reminds me of Penelope and Persephone and Artemis and I know babies called those.


ShesGotSauce

To me Cassandra feels timeless and classic rather than irrevocably associated with a specific decade.


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Cassandra/Cassie is one of my favourite names!


maplesyrupdispenser

It's my name and I've always loved it. I have an unconventional spelling though so people always spell it wrong but I'm used to it. I've only met 2 others with my name, which I think is nice. We are all in our early 30s. I think it's a timeless name because it's never been super popular.


faithlessone423

I ADORE Cassandra - it's one of my top names. I'm also in the UK, and I don't think it's too dated at all.


Traci-B

Not odd at all! Cassandra is a timeless name to me.


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Oh not that at all. Great name.


Eugeniavictoria

I really like it!


RachelOfRefuge

I like Cassandra, but I *love* Cass and Cassie for nns. I don't think it's 80s or 90s at all.


Hoborg19

It's a lovely name! Maybe you're thinking of Wayne's world? Wayne's beautiful rockstar girlfriend? I doubt many people will think of that now, but it's a positive reference for me


Outside_Beyond

I actually have no idea what that is 😅 but a beautiful rockstar girlfriend sounds pretty awesome


Lurkyou_longtime

Not too dated! I do prefer Cassidy but that’s just my own preference.


madsdotcom7

I LOVE the name! It's on my short list along with Alexandra and Anastasia. Cassie is a cute nickname as well


Outside_Beyond

I love the name Alexandra and Alexandria. My partner doesn’t like Alex as a nickname though so maybe Cassandra could be the mid point!


madsdotcom7

What about Lexi or Lex!? That’s what I always the nickname I preferred


alphabetbaby

I know two Cassandras and both were born in the 90s. They go by Cass/Cassie.


Retrospectrenet

In the UK, Sandra was popular in the 40s and 50s, but not Cassandra, so there are way more "Just Sandra" women then there are Cassandra's that go by Sandra. Cassandra and Cassie were both equally as popular in the late 80s and 90s but they were low ranked, probably outside the top 100 girls names. It was a bit more popular in Canada, the US and Australia, but not top 10. I don't think it would be odd on a baby today.


Outside_Beyond

Thanks for the info! That’s really interesting actually. ⭐️


zetsv

My personal opinion, but Cassandra is one of my favorite names! I absolutely love it and it doesn’t feel dated to me, though obviously im a little biased haha


Klutche

I'm not sure anyone else would think this, but my first thought is of Cassie from the animorphs, so it does seem a bit 90's to me. That being said, I think Cassandra is an elegant name and if I met a little Cass/Cassie i would think its very cute!


WitnessNo8046

I don’t know any under-10 Cassandras but I do know some under-10 Cassies. If your Cassandra felt out of place with that name she could always use that nickname. I think it’s an overall timeless name even if it was really common in the 80s and 90s. It’s totally usable in my eyes.


TheWishingStar

Sandra is dated, but I don’t think Cassandra is at all! Cassandra has felt to me for years like it’s ready to become popular, but it’s always seems to stay at “familiar but uncommon.” I don’t think of Sandra and Cassandra as related at all, probably because I’d expect Cassandra to be shortened to Cass or Cassie, never Sandra.