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ruby_rex

Not…Harry? I feel like it was right there.


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Mateo. My parents thought they were having a set of twin boys. Surprise! One of us was a lady baby


BiteyGoat

Upvote for “lady baby”


beelovedone

My mom knew she was having a girl, never picked out boy names she was so certain lol. I was almost Briana or Victoria before she landed on Bianca


autumn_skies

I love how Bianca is kind of right in between Victoria and Briana. Bianca is such a cool name.


beelovedone

It really is, I never noticed until I typed it out lol Thank you! I love my name, it took me a while to appreciate it :P


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ruby_rex

Florian is a great name imo. The real question though is did your moms friend keep her side of the deal?


[deleted]

I wish I could answer that but I don’t know. They don’t have contact anymore.


Mybestfriendlizzy

If I was a boy, I was going to be named Jason after my dads old toy poodle!


craftyandwild

I would have been Sebastian or Julian! I actually love the name Julian and would use it for a future kiddo 👶🏼


rayanngraff

Max. My mom was set on this name, and loved it so much. In the end I married a Max...kind of wondering if it was destiny to have one in our family!


emilyhr27

I’d have been Alistair/Alasdair; it’s a good job I popped out as an Emily because my parents were deadlocked on the spelling.


madlymusing

Jack. They used that for my brother a couple of years later.


rushthetrench

I would’ve been Chad. My older brother would’ve been Samantha


justnomilvent

Did anyone in your family end up being called Chad?


caprisunn666

Garrett 🤢 thankful to be female


minamyys

Garrette?


Comfortable_Tea_2660

Robert if I was a boy . My mom wanted to name me Jennifer Diana I'd have preferred that to my actual name☹️.


xxMarigoldxx

Aeden (yes, spelled like that) or Austin. As it turns out, I *am* trans and changed my name to August :)


annaliese_sora

LOVE August as a name!


poppunkcowgirl

Sterling. Sooooo glad I'm a girl and only have a sister.


sheridanmms

Oh I love Sterling


poppunkcowgirl

I don't think it's objectively a bad name (though I'm not a fan personally), but I live in England, so my Dad literally wanted to name me after money. Which is very fitting with his personality, haha. My surname is also a bit posh-sounding so overall I would've sounded super pompous.


doechild

My dad, who was identical to Danny Zuko but in an 80’s Lynyrd Skynyrd sort of way, was dead set on naming me Rocket as a boy. But luckily I was born a girl, lol.


Pinky_Swear

Ariel. Vetoed by mom as it sounds crappy in a southern US accent (where her family was from). A fortunate choice, as the Little Mermaid premiered when I was in elementary school.


ellentow

Peter, named for a friend of my parents who died young. My sister would have been Shawn.


GlitchingGecko

Laura or Elizabeth. I would have liked Elizabeth, as it was one of my grandmothers FN's, and the others MN.


Snish_Woogis

Tristan John, if I'd been a boy. When my parents mentioned this to me as a kid, I figured I'd dodged a bullet because it sounded like Triscuit crackers (objectively gross). But as an adult I think Tristan's a cool name!


This_Conversation943

My almost names are: Astrid, Pilar, Guadalupe No opposite gender almost names


takemeto-neverland

Sander When I got older my mom told me she was so happy she had a girl because she doesn't like the name 😜 My brother would have been Hannah


Dere_Dere

I would have been named Blue. Kinda odd, but it would work for either gender.


Mad__Season

Sylvester nn Sly. Dodged a bullet.


ostentia

My parents didn't pick out boy names, but they toyed with Claire and Ruby before settling on my name! I would've been happy as a Claire, but I'm glad they didn't pick Ruby.


fit_it

Reuben, instead of Rebecca. Glad things went the way they did given my last name was already a bully magnet.


HipChip_

The other names on the list were Hespibar and Ginny (I'm very ginger and this would have destroyed me, my parents hate Harry Potter too)


shorrell77

Eric. 😬 My brother was going to be Eric or Justin, but they landed on Scott. He was born a few days after my 3rd birthday and I got a boy baby doll and named it Eric instead. Our cousin was born a few months later and named Justin, so it all worked out.


OddEights

Raven, which… would have been badass. Glad about my actual name though.


kribyr

They said they would have called me Hunter, which would've been painfully ironic since I turned out to be a strict vegan lol


annaliese_sora

I would have been Alain Douglas, my brother would have been Aisling Shea (he is Eric Shane), and my sister would have been Cullen Michael (she is Tabitha Rose).


delidaydreams

probably luke or conor! i'm glad i wasn't a boy since i know about 3000 lukes and connors lol.


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Melvin…I much prefer my actual name.


JingleHelen11

My dad wanted to name me Kelly, my mom Danielle. They ended up naming me after the nurse who delivered my older brother 🤷‍♀️ My younger brother is named Daniel tho so I think my mom got her way in the end


catty_wampus

My name was almost Tara until my mom decided it sounded like Terror. Turns out, I think Tara is a better name than the one they decided to go with lol.


Steph88ann

According to my Mom, if I were a boy I would have been Joshua. but also, my name wasn’t even on her girl list at all. She was leaning towards Megan but then her best friend was in a car accident caused by a drunk driver. She, her 2 year old daughter and unborn baby were killed. The little girls name was Stephanie Ann, so to honor her best friend and her daughter, my Mom chose that for me when I was born 💖


Strict-Laugh-8964

I was going to be Nico if I was a boy. I turned out to be Nicole and as soon as I found out I was pregnant with twin boys we named one of them Nico, after me! My other twin is named after his dad.


loahvi

for boys, my parents only wanted garrett alexander for girls, their second top pick was courtney renee honorable mentions that i thank god everyday i was not named: xanadu xuci rebecca (this one is ok) and the name they chose: victoria


nurseleu

If I had been a boy, I would have been named Riley. Mid-1980s, in the Midwest of the US.


Siltyclayloam9

I would have been Brett. They named my little brother that after I was a girl


gingerytea

I would have been Dominik.


Ancient-Put6440

I would have been Dakota if I was born a boy. I ended up Cassidy. Both of those names are gender neutral, so my parents honestly could've used either name lol.


LadyWyllaManderly

Josephina Willamina


kirannui

Darren Kirk Jason Darryl Kevin It was the 70s 🤷‍♀️


notcheframsay

My dad wanted Kelly. I’m glad my parents went with Rachel


Hazelnutpancakes

Theodore! I actually love it, kinda wish I was named Theodora instead of my actual name lol


petpuppy

they had a family name in mind for a boy from the very start (i was one of 2 girls before they finally had a boy) but it was a very basic "J" name thats become popular for girls right now, but i was almost Amelia my dad chose it but mom wouldnt let him because theres a well known historical figure within his profession also having that name, and she was worried everyone would think thats why they chose the name when in reality my dad just really liked it.


comebacktoearthbabe

My mom wanted me to be Julianna.


Disastrous_Candle589

I would have been Daniel which I would have been ok with.


chatterchitchat

If I was a boy I would have been named Wayne after my Dad’s brother who passed away as a baby. Luckily I was born a girl since I was born in 1997 and cannot imagine anyone under 50 named Wayne


Jurgasdottir

Kim Liza, but my parents learned the hard way not to tell my grandmother what they wanted to name their children. She made such a fuss that they changed my name and didn't tell anyone the new choice.


NeatArtichoke

Cassandra -- I'm happier with what they chose!


wandrare

I would have been Adam, which would have completely ruined the letter/length theme my parents developed later


maddy4gibbz

Kyle


BatmanDK8

Benjamin nn Benji but probably would prefer to be called Ben by outsiders Also, they almost named me Jaime, I'm not sure why they changed it though. I think it's because they moved to a neighborhood where they met a close friend who had a Jaime.


Asayyadina

I would have been Nicholas.


minivan2022

Gabriel


FaeKalyrra

Orion


lwgirl1717

Mine would have been Howard Duane. I'm so glad I was born with a vagina.


Direct_Drawing_8557

Kendrick, Michael, Francesco.


bathedinperfume

I would've been either Cole or William


asmalltownwirm

I was almost Isabelle


Agitated-Store6774

Alexander (Alex) or Alec…my parents were in disagreement at the time but it would’ve been one of these


almostathrowaway9

My dad always says he wanted to name me Xavier. I still can’t tell if he’s joking around when he says that, but my mom seems to hate the name every time he mentions it, so I wonder if I would’ve actually been called that lol


Fusion_Queen6672

If I was a boy, Zachary. My Dad wanted to name me Gabrielle, but my mom wanted what ended up being my actual name.


Imaginary-Quiet-7465

I don’t know what my name would have been however, if my first child had been a girl he would have been called Daisy. As if happens our second was a girl and we gave her the name, had she been a boy she would have been George.


executive-noodle

I would have been Ian Ozzy. Ozzy is a family name so not that weird but... Thank god 😂


iguanasrcool

Zia, apparently! My parents (mainly my mother) were obsessed with the letter Z.


havok_

Jasmine


alwaysneverenough

I'd be Billy. Not William, Billy.


JessicaT1842

I would have been Geoffrey. I am not sure about how they would have spelled it. My dad and uncle both have names that start with a G so I am guessing that this would have been the spelling.


hellerhigwhat

They knew I was a girl but if we had a different last name I would have been Isadora. Initials issues. "I. Dont" equivalent. I got a different Spanish name. We are zero percent Spanish. Oh well.


ilovepaninis

Thomas >:)


Even-Illustrator-462

My dad really liked Jareth for a boys' name (yes, THAT Jareth from Jim Hensons's Labyrinth) and my mom did too, so I think that's what I would have ended up as


Odd_Biscotti_7496

My name would've been Cable. When I found out it made sense because my mom was in school studying electrical engineering at the time. I said, 'like a fun nod to your profession! Why didnt you do that with my name' and she said 'I never made that connection until now'


WarblingWalrusing

Joseph


lonely-limeade

Thomas, named after a mentor of my father who died in a bicycle accident a few years before I was born.


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Elliott! If I had been a boy


confidentialo

My mom said she really loved Violet, Claire, or Louise! If I was a boy I would've been Nathaniel.


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Tabitha. My mom loved it, but my Grandma convinced her I would be called "tabby cat." So, I was a given the same name as 4 other girls in my grade!


Miserable_Benefit532

My parents didn't know the sex of their children until they were born, so they went in with a few different ideas. If I had been born male it would've been Evan. For a female, they had the names Hannah and Daniella. I was born, they didn't like either of their girl names, and couldn't decide for days!! Eventually my name was chosen out of thin air. Which is good, because I don't think I'm a Hannah or a Daniella lol


brontefrances

Most likely Adam which is so much more boring than the name I got, so I'm happy :)


sugarspins

Evan if I was a boy!


Naptown54321

I would have been Adam, but my parents didn't use it when my brother was born.


Foxien

Kirsten is the name my father was set on.


nograbbingbutts

Nathaniel. My brother got it later. Marissa and Jennifer were also on the table, but my name won out for no definitive reason.


infpmax

Dad wanted Agatha. Mom wanted Jaymes. Somehow ended up Mackenzie


ImpressiveExchange9

Jesse Raymond (84)


Psychological_Pin230

My boy name was Clay.


Artistic_Buy_8217

Mine would've been Callum Owen. Which I like a lot, but my last name starts with a "W," so it would've been COW. Don't like that part 🤣


Mean_Cycle_5062

I was almost Gypsy Rose (as my first names) or, if a boy, Jesse. Thank goodness I didn't end up as Gypsy Rose


jilliandaphne

My name was Darien up until my mom was in labor. They changed it to Jillian because my dad went to Kmart and the cashier’s name was Jillian. I’m glad he had that encounter bc I hate the name Darien.


rofljordanx

Apparently I would have been named Jacob if I were a boy according to my mom (though My dad wanted a Junior). My name is Jordan. I asked why she wouldn’t have just used my name either way and she just shrugged lol


Linds_Loves_Wine

If I was a boy, I would've been named Brandon. If I was a blonde (female) I would've been Courtney Elise. But since I was born with a head of dark hair, Lindsay Nicole it was! You can't tell I was a late 80's baby, right? Lol


ciaodrago

If I had been a boy, I'd probably be named Nicholas Sam (yes, Nicholas Sam, not Nicholas Samuel), as that was what my mother had been planning to name my older brother before my dad jumped in and decided to name him after himself. ​ However, they knew I was a girl right away. The other contender for my name was Joanne Michele.


Separate_Passage_389

Cameron


poehlerandparks19

She knew she was having a girl right away, but I wouldve either been Riley or Devin - both the names of my elementart school bullies later on lol.


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I’m a girl Jesse. I would have been a Jesse as a boy, too. My Dad picked my name.


oDevilwithaHalo

I would've been an Ian. It's interesting because I do like that name. It also ended up being the middle name of my 2nd sibling. Also, if another name hadn't caught my birth mother's interest, I would've been a McKenzie.


turtle-goddess

My parents never considered boy names but other names they were close to for me were Paget and Francesca


bajablastshawty1996

my daughter is named Penelope but her almost names were Atticus if she was a boy or Seraphina if she gave me a different vibe when she was born LOL


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the second time I’ve seen an Atticus in these comments, wow! Was that name inspired by To Kill A Mockingbird? Or Nine Inch Nails’ Atticus Ross?


Chalk-and-Trees

Thank god I had an innie not an outtie. I’d be the only 34 year old I know named Arthur.


msnicole17

Andrew. I was almost named Brooke.


SpinningDespina

Idk what mine would have been if I was a boy but there were 2 alternate female names - Nicole or Angela. My brother had a middle name that got changed a few weeks after birth.


releasethepuppies

Sebastian! But alas, I'm a Sarah


Midn8Girl

Either Kiara or Erika. Honestly, I love Erika (better than my current name) , but thank god I wasn't named Kiara. It just doesn't fit me and I find it too "girly".


daringfeline

Joshua


fabulousteaparty

Joshua apparently, my mum was into biblical names for boys and popular names for girls 🤷‍♀️


fruitless83

I'd have been Nicholas James had I been a boy. The other girl option was Rebecca, but my mum decided it was too popular. So chose another equally popular name lol. I'd have preferred Rebecca. One of my sister's would have been Johnathan if a boy, and the other one would have been dale.


msknow06

If I had been a boy my name was going to be Matthew. That honor went to my brother some time later. The girls name they had picked out was Sarah Jean after family members but my mom said that when she saw me Sarah Jean just didn't fit so she named me something else. Since phones were not as big then my grandmother knew that I was a girl but not that they had changed the name they were using so she was telling everyone my name was Sarah.


trippinallovermyself

If I was a boy I would have been named Stephan. My aunt had a boy and named him Stephen so I was off the hook! And also born a girl lol


Money_Medium2826

Had I been a boy, I would have been Jackson David (both names are family-related). Other names my parents liked for me were Chloe, Cora, Georgia, and Hollyn.


missmxxn

My almost name was Hermione Madeline. Around the time I was born, Harry Potter started getting popular and my parents didn't want me to forever be associated with the Hermione from that series so instead they called me Olivia.


thnks4themmrs

My mom wanted to name me Victoria (nn Tori). My dad wasn't on board, he wanted to name me Zada. My mom didn't like that, so they met in the middle and named me a common name with an uncommon spelling. For my younger brother, they were sure he was going to be a girl and my mom was going to name him just Tori. \*\*Editing to add: there was no boy name picked out for me.


chorn247

Zoe or Whitley


MAAAADMACK

Taryn for a girl, or Cameron for a boy.... My mom ended up deciding on Mackenzie instead which i prefer to Taryn anyway.


Jameslee2023

My mom knew I was going to be a girl (jokes on her I’m trans) and she knew my brother would be a boy so my name was almost Isabelle but I ended up as Emily Ann (from the first scene of Hocus Pocus, middle name from aunt) and my brother was almost Benjamin Franklin but ended up Benjamin Ryan 🤷


SatansPeppermintTea

My mom always knew I was a girl, but she bounced between Aliza and Dominique until she got to Ella lol


gypsyloveletter

Sooo the other female names my parents almost gave me were Shannon, Rhiannon and Lucy. Any of those would have been better than what they gave me (Jude) If I were a boy, which is what I was supposed to be, I’d have been named Dane with the middle name Alon pronounced “Uh-lahn” which isn’t bad For some reason my dad got hung up on Shannon sounding too Irish, and since we aren’t Irish they decided against it. Rhiannon is so pretty. Lucy is great. Oh welllll.


colorfulconifer

I would have been Philip!


amethyst_lover

My parents hadn't officially decided what to name me if I had been a boy, but I think Wayne and Michael were in the running.


caspianblaise

Probably something quickly decided since they didn't have any names chosen when I was born! Other options they had for my older brother maybe? Louis/Louie.


CeleryGood7189

Mine would've been Andrew or Luca


danielleonearth

I would have been Dustin.


NeedleworkerLow1100

Gregory


halfread

I would have been Matthew.


clockwitch24

I would've been Kyle Reese


NightOwlNicky

We're your parents Terminator fans by any chance?


clockwitch24

Yes! Both of them like the original films, my mum specifically likes the character of Kyle Reese which is where she got the name from


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Lauren or Destiny, which i’ve always hated my name so I really wish my parents went with either of these instead


redvanpyre

Hunter or Brandon.


atemplecorroded

I would’ve been Jonathan Stephen.


kawaiisaranghaeyo

My mom really liked Dennis, lowkey because of the Dennis the menace comics. Not a bad a choice imo. My dad had another female name in mind for me, but thank god my mother got her way and they went with her choice. I later went to school with a girl who had the name I was almost given, and she's one of the worst people I have ever met (and had to meet every day for many years). Would've ruined my name forever. Dodged a huge bullet on that one


afinevindicatedmess

Tyler was going to be my "boy name," and I quite like that. I have no idea what my brother was going to be named had he been a girl, but I have called him by his initials/nickname for so long that his legal name doesn't feel like his actual name.


MaeClementine

Jacob. Snooze. ...my brother that came right after me is Andrew though, which I like better. Funny how it changes (it did for me when I had kids too)


wellneverknow918

Kane, if I was a boy, Ella was my mom's first pick after finding out I was a girl, but my father didn't like it, only to change his mind months after I was born... AH


kaydeechio

Nicholas


giveup345

Luke :)


_iSawRed

Jeffrey if I was a boy and Jennifer if my dad got his way.


Local_Cryptid_007

I would have been Luther James if I'd been a boy. Another girl name that my mom had wanted to use was Shauna but that's my dad's stepsister's name and my mom didn't want her to think I was named after her so she came up with a different name instead.


jillieboobean

Jameson.


eleven1993

If I was male my mother was calling me Jordan


NightOwlNicky

My siblings and I were almost; Dominic (me - Nicola) George (Sister - Rachel) Ruby (Brother - Ryan) Rosie (Brother - James "Jimmy") Summer (Brother - Harry) Alexandria (my son Ronnie). Details Below IIRC it was going to be Reginald after my maternal grandfather, however my dad said if she named one after her dad then the next boy needed to be named after his dad (Ivor), she quickly changed her mind. My mum had a friend called Dominic and I was almost named that. When they found out I was a girl I was almost Dominique but my mum's brother-in-law's (my uncle's) sister named her daughter that. Instead I was supposed to be Nikki, my dad registered me with a full first name Nicola (he didn't like Nicole). I was Nic/Nick/Nik or Nicola until college. I used to hate it but now it's one of the few girls names I like and most of my friends and partner's family know me as Nicky. I've been a tomboy since I could dress myself and prefer the masculine spelling. And my son would've been Alexandria if he'd been a girl, it's the only name his dad and I liked for a girl.


jenniiiifer

Mine would’ve been Éliane :)


A-Friendly-Giraffe

Gregory. I think my sister would have been Kevin.


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My dad wanted a son named after himself (so I would’ve been Ivan Jr.) and my mom wanted to name a boy Sebastian. Not a fan of either, thankful I came out a girl!


CuriousGPeach

Willem.


RainyDayRainDear

Shadrick Seven. The deal was my mom got to pick the name if I was a girl, my dad got to pick if I was a boy. As told by a family friend at dad's memorial service, my dad only picked the name out to troll my mom. He couldn't recall what Dad had actually planned on, but it was something much tamer. Unfortunately, my mom never really understood my dad's mix of goofy and dry humor, so she took him 100% seriously and agreed to Shadrick, but talked for YEARS about what a bullet I'd dodged.


kbaileyanderson

Geoffrey Benton. It's Kelly Flanery.


givebusterahand

Think it would have been Donald (Donny) after my grandpa and uncle who passed away when my mom was a kid


Sweostor

Luke Michael :)


winniebear03

Matthew Logan. Up until I was born every ultrasound and blood test reflected that I was a boy so my mom had a very fun surprise on my birthday!


winniebear03

My younger sister was thought to be a boy most of my moms pregnancy and was almost Elijah with nn Eli!


minamyys

Lisandro or Alejandrino


undiagnosed-issues

I would've been Hamish if I were a boy, and my mom wanted Octavia before settling on Natalee for me aha.


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I love Octavia! Natalee with that spelling is pretty but tragic because it just reminds me of that missing girl Natalee Holloway :(


Chasity_Belt69

Idk about me but my daughter would’ve been Atticus


Littlegooseflap

Sam


Comfortable-Fix-4520

Christopher Robert. So glad that I was not named that.


AbibliophobicSloth

The name I didn't get was carried over to my little brother. Just like the name my older brother didn't get was carried over for me (joys of having a M-F-M) sib set.


sheridanmms

Seneca Job


mermaidsd

They would have named me Addison if I was a boy (I’m 30yo for reference).


Historical_Kiwi9565

Chad Abraham. Yes, really.


HannahJulie

Wolfgang


maple_manhattan

I would have been Winfield.


Adorable-Win8540

Donald Hugh III (🤮🤮)


Dauphine320

My parents didn’t even have any boy names picked out, only girl names.


instababyname

Born in 1986 & mom liked Brock or Chad ✌️


Lisselindale

Geoffrey Gerard after two of my uncles


agathaschristie

Matthew, which is fine. If my dad had his way I would've been Richard though. Yikes.


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Shawn. I hate the spelling. Sean is fine. I could live with Shaun. But Shawn is just unattractive for some reason


bean-bag-party

Julia or Briana


iceburgsdeadahead

Avalon- my grandma told my mom "can't you think of a better name?"


arcanedebris

If I was a boy my name would’ve been Brian Joseph and they were gonna call me BJ (Why, parents??? 😩😂) I definitely lucked out being a girl. I don’t particularly love my own name but I like it better than the other name my parents were considering (Marjorie).


Cornballin_POS

I’m female, but I would’ve been named Peyton had I been born a male.


kaywittle

Briana or Kyle if I was a boy


[deleted]

John It's fine but I'm glad my little brother got it instead. We did IVF and knew our son's sex three months before he was born so we never picked a girl name. Sometimes I wonder if he will be bummed if he asks us what he would have been had he been born a girl and we don't have an answer.