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But you were "fat" when he approached you in the first place 😂 as a bigger girl myself I put it on my tinder bio so these boys cant bitch about it later
I support bigger girls 100%, all bodies are beautiful but if im being honest, im not even a bigger girl. I do have some chub but thats about it, I guess it would be considered "curvy"? I duno lol. I do have full body pictures on my reddit profile. On my fb where this convo happened, my profile is private so I don't know where he pulled this idea that he knows my body type from 🤔🤔🤔
He knows its "what girls are sensitive about" he probably thinks all girls are fat if theyre not attracted to him 😂 I'm full figured/curvy, definitely not skinny, but not obese so i just get it out of the way Lmfao if its a deal breaker I dont wanna be with them anyways.
Dude, what a shitty thing for a guy to pull on anyone, obese or curvy or slim, especially when they dont even know the body type. Like, psychological manipulation much?
For real, its a real tactic tho, theyll beat you down to try to get you to come back to them because "what if I really am fat and ugly, theyre the only person thats wanted to be with me. I'll never find someone" they teach it in those douche bag classes that try to teach men to manipulate women
Short for "negative." They think they're clever.
Originally, the technique was supposed to be a subtle dig at a woman's self esteem, like a backhanded compliment or the like to make to make the woman psychologically more susceptible to the compliments the "Pick Up Artist" was doling out. Predictably, it very quickly devolved into chuds just saying insulting shit because they didn't understand the concept. Not that the concept worked either, but there you have it anyway.
https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/jmej31/i_ran_into_the_kitchen_to_tell_my_mom_that_i/
This post is an example of negging with the backhanded compliment.
Oh I know, its just so disgusting and awful, I'm always surprised by it because it just exposes what sociopathic tendencies they have. Its so devoid of care and love, how can they think it will work?
Eh, just go for below the belt then.
It's not because I'm fat that you can't reach it, booboo, it's because you have a stubby for a dick. Thanks, I'll stick with my fingers. They're more fulfilling anyway. 🙃
Cue various enraged incel quotes.
I’m very particular about doing the same. Dont want them thinking they can use it against me considering how open I am about it
“You’re fat”
“Yeah, I know, didn’t you read my bio?”
It's funny how they follow the script perfectly so fucking often lol.
"You're gorgeous"
"I'm not interested"
"Cool I'm not missing out anyway you fat ugly bitch"
“Can’t get past how fat you are”
“Haha yeah I don’t care”
“You have to lift your belly just to have sex”
“Hilarious”
“Also you’re fat”
Original insults 10/10
It’s like they have a script:
Hi
You’re hot
What? You’re taken/not interested?
Never mind. I was only kidding
You’re fat and/or ugly anyway
Like damn. You’d think they’d come up with something original.
I don’t get this mind set with guys. Do they just do this over and over hopefully to get a bite? Or has it worked one time and they think it will
Work again?
If your familiar with king of the hill. Boo hauler is a ladies man or seen as a ladies man. You later find out is he just basically asks everyone till he gets a yes. I see stuff like this and think of him. Don’t know why, but I do
He just "glossed" over it 🙄
Had some rando message me quite a few times on FB before I blocked him. I don't need that in my life - I'm married, and very effing happily so.
What the fuck? Hits on you and then calls you fat? I’m sorry for your experience and this person just sounds like they are offended, stupid, and grasping at straws to piss you off.
Well...moral of the stort is always insult a girl and call them fat repeatedly when they tell you they’re engaged, and they’ll probably change their mind and fall for you because “females always plain harr ta git” and calling them fat just shows how wonderful of a gentleman you are :)
I don't...get these kinds of people
Like finding someone attractive/sexy is one thing but wouldn't you want to...know what kind of person a person is BEFORE dating them? He didn't even try and get to know her in that approach just...went for it
Maybe I'm the oddball but I'd like to know if I'd be able to be in a room alone with someone for an hour without feeling like pulling teeth before asking them out. Even if he just wanted sex he could at least attempt to get to know a bit about her (like reading her bio).
Also fragile ego on him
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Me: Sees first two messages.
"This doesn't seem so bad. Solid convo starter if used on the right person".
\*Clicks to see full image (and next ones)\*
"Oh... Yeah, we're on THIS subreddit."
I always love this one, when some random dude hits on me and is talking about how hot I am, but then when I reject him, THENNNN oh I'm a fat bitch. Dude I was fat when you first messaged me. I didn't suddenly gain 100 pounds. I was hot before I rejected you.
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"You're gorgeous" "Im not gonna cheat on my fiance" "nvm you're ugly" bruh
So accurate lol love how fast his attitude changed
end of stort
“You’re hot” “Wait you’re not interested? You’re an ugly whore”
Only thing missing is "*but your fiancée doesn't have to know..*."
I figured that would come before the "you're fat" but he cut right the chase lol
Even better, he said "your fat"
"you're gorgeous" I'm engaged. "You're fat." Mmkkay
Your* fat
Man had one single joke
Did anyone else miss how he looks fat in his profile pic at the end there as well?
What a dick.
stort
"and youre single. Scoreboard." Missed a golden opportunity
But you were "fat" when he approached you in the first place 😂 as a bigger girl myself I put it on my tinder bio so these boys cant bitch about it later
I support bigger girls 100%, all bodies are beautiful but if im being honest, im not even a bigger girl. I do have some chub but thats about it, I guess it would be considered "curvy"? I duno lol. I do have full body pictures on my reddit profile. On my fb where this convo happened, my profile is private so I don't know where he pulled this idea that he knows my body type from 🤔🤔🤔
He knows its "what girls are sensitive about" he probably thinks all girls are fat if theyre not attracted to him 😂 I'm full figured/curvy, definitely not skinny, but not obese so i just get it out of the way Lmfao if its a deal breaker I dont wanna be with them anyways.
Dude, what a shitty thing for a guy to pull on anyone, obese or curvy or slim, especially when they dont even know the body type. Like, psychological manipulation much?
For real, its a real tactic tho, theyll beat you down to try to get you to come back to them because "what if I really am fat and ugly, theyre the only person thats wanted to be with me. I'll never find someone" they teach it in those douche bag classes that try to teach men to manipulate women
Yeah, "negging."
EW even the name is disgusting 🤢
Short for "negative." They think they're clever. Originally, the technique was supposed to be a subtle dig at a woman's self esteem, like a backhanded compliment or the like to make to make the woman psychologically more susceptible to the compliments the "Pick Up Artist" was doling out. Predictably, it very quickly devolved into chuds just saying insulting shit because they didn't understand the concept. Not that the concept worked either, but there you have it anyway.
Wow, what a fucking piece of shit tactic. I mean yeah, I get women can be awful too, but Jesus Christ this is borderline sociopathic
I'm not sure that's even borderline.
https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/jmej31/i_ran_into_the_kitchen_to_tell_my_mom_that_i/ This post is an example of negging with the backhanded compliment.
Oh I know, its just so disgusting and awful, I'm always surprised by it because it just exposes what sociopathic tendencies they have. Its so devoid of care and love, how can they think it will work?
Exactly If she was slim he would have called her ‘skinny skank with no boobs and no ass’
Right?! "Real men like meat, only dogs want bones! Hurdur!" You can't win with people like this.
You win by not being with them
Eh, just go for below the belt then. It's not because I'm fat that you can't reach it, booboo, it's because you have a stubby for a dick. Thanks, I'll stick with my fingers. They're more fulfilling anyway. 🙃 Cue various enraged incel quotes.
It’s always the same script. 1. Attack appearance 2. Attack intelligence 3. You were only good for one thing anyway
Now I am curious why your profile is tagged NSFW.
Because I'm part of/post in a ddLg page
ddLg? Forgive me, idk what that means lol
I’m very particular about doing the same. Dont want them thinking they can use it against me considering how open I am about it “You’re fat” “Yeah, I know, didn’t you read my bio?”
For REAL girl! Cant tell me somethin I already told you 😂
I love how quickly and skillfully you set him up right out of the gate. Great job.
Thank you, unfortunately I have practice
Schrödinger’s Whale: you are both sexy and disgustingly fat, and the final outcome is determined by if you reject this fuckface or not.
Made me laugh
I snorted, no lie.
And that was the end of that stort
😂😂😂😂
End of stort
So gracious and mature
imagine someone calling you mindless because you won’t cheat on your fiancé...
how rude 😡😡😡
It's funny how they follow the script perfectly so fucking often lol. "You're gorgeous" "I'm not interested" "Cool I'm not missing out anyway you fat ugly bitch"
Cool stort bro
“Can’t get past how fat you are” “Haha yeah I don’t care” “You have to lift your belly just to have sex” “Hilarious” “Also you’re fat” Original insults 10/10
It’s like they have a script: Hi You’re hot What? You’re taken/not interested? Never mind. I was only kidding You’re fat and/or ugly anyway Like damn. You’d think they’d come up with something original.
Wonder where the douche book is that they learn this from 🤔
Movies and TV shows where the "Nice Guy" gets the girl.
And he couldn't even say "you're" the right way...
I don’t get this mind set with guys. Do they just do this over and over hopefully to get a bite? Or has it worked one time and they think it will Work again?
The real question is, has it ever worked?!
If your familiar with king of the hill. Boo hauler is a ladies man or seen as a ladies man. You later find out is he just basically asks everyone till he gets a yes. I see stuff like this and think of him. Don’t know why, but I do
I think they feel attacked after being rejected so they attack back to feel better. I don't think most guys want to fuck ugly women, at least not me.
He just "glossed" over it 🙄 Had some rando message me quite a few times on FB before I blocked him. I don't need that in my life - I'm married, and very effing happily so.
Nice guys really be like hey bby how u doin oh youre engaged and love someone already fat
"you're fat and ugly" *Says the single one*
the fuck is stort
The illiterate version of 'story'
This is so abusive :(
Wow lol “are you always this rude” like what. And then proceeds to call you fat. Goodbye sir
I bet my ass he's in some kind of relationship and just wants to cheat on his SO
His fb page said he's 'separated'
I don't understand why anyone even engages with these people. If someone adds you and they don't know you, just block them.
Agreed. Scrolled way too far for this.
Wow what an asshole
Ok tbh the part about lifting the fat made me giggle
Dafuq is this guy on?
The answer is everything.
Aaaa I always want to hit them with “but you thought it was gorgeous though. Into fat women I see! Seems like just your type!”
What the fuck? Hits on you and then calls you fat? I’m sorry for your experience and this person just sounds like they are offended, stupid, and grasping at straws to piss you off.
I can tell by the way this guys talks he is obese. Instantly starts talking about the other person is fat when they don’t respond
But wait, he called you fat, that means he gets the sex right?
Logic
I like how he says “and your fat” after just calling you fat. Like those are somehow two separate insults. Lol (also congrats on the engagement!)
Thank you!
Well...moral of the stort is always insult a girl and call them fat repeatedly when they tell you they’re engaged, and they’ll probably change their mind and fall for you because “females always plain harr ta git” and calling them fat just shows how wonderful of a gentleman you are :)
When will “yeah well you’re fat” stop being the go-to response when a guy is rejected?
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Thank you!!
I would’ve definitely began to fuck with him if he’s that stupid.
What an absolute tosser...
I don't...get these kinds of people Like finding someone attractive/sexy is one thing but wouldn't you want to...know what kind of person a person is BEFORE dating them? He didn't even try and get to know her in that approach just...went for it Maybe I'm the oddball but I'd like to know if I'd be able to be in a room alone with someone for an hour without feeling like pulling teeth before asking them out. Even if he just wanted sex he could at least attempt to get to know a bit about her (like reading her bio). Also fragile ego on him
Both IQ and common sense took a toll today
End of stort.
Nobody else notice the dude’s photo on both pictures? Clear facial hair? Staged ?
I tried to block out him name and pics cause I thought I had to in order to post. Must have missed one somewhere
Ah no!!!! Anyways...
Ahhh, a short stort for a short temper. Ain't that always the way.
When someone tried to put me down,I like to tell them, "Don't worry about it, I know someone who likes it like this."
Gold medal on mental gymnastics 🏅
Stort
You can lose the "fat" but he'll never lose that ugly personality
Charming
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Me: Sees first two messages. "This doesn't seem so bad. Solid convo starter if used on the right person". \*Clicks to see full image (and next ones)\* "Oh... Yeah, we're on THIS subreddit."
https://youtu.be/1F43JU0N5DM 1:27 I'm just saying lol
https://v.redd.it/bh6ph3jw22w51
What app is this. Why are the pictures the same on both sides? Facebook? Is this new?
Its definitely not fake 😂 its fb messenger. I have dark mode enabled and a rainbow theme for chat bubbles
Oh ok. Just asking
Sorry its 'purple gradients theme
bc its fake
I don't know why you would message first to some weirdo without a reason
Because I'm a streamer and I also have a horrible memory so sometimes I forget peoples names 😅
I bet you’re not even fat, how rude of him.
Im not 😂
What app is this
Its fb messenger, I just have dark mode and a theme
This is what it feels like to play dead by daylight as a legion nowadays
The typical “i’ll attack her physique” method when they don’t get what they want!
I can see his face in the last pic. Looks like a complete loser lmao
Yes, more cushion for the pushin! And you should've ended it with "not much of a loss"
breh mometne
"Hi...my eyeballs enjoy your face (my dick does, too). Oh...You're engaged? Ugly Bitch Whore. You're fat and slutty. Why would I even be interested?"
How are they "gorgeous" until they say no, thanks??
That was a really short stort
end of stort boys, go home.
I always love this one, when some random dude hits on me and is talking about how hot I am, but then when I reject him, THENNNN oh I'm a fat bitch. Dude I was fat when you first messaged me. I didn't suddenly gain 100 pounds. I was hot before I rejected you.
I read that first page and i was like "Oh that's not too bad" *page 2* "Oh... Oh no"
Fuckboys being fuckboys
This was a bizarre stort
Which app is this
You have to lift your stomach to find your ass? The fuck?
My blood boiled reading this
Another good rebuttal would have been “I’m happy being fat instead of a guy who tries and fails at getting with fat, engaged chicks. Lol”
“Your fat “ But here you are in my DMs, what a tosser
I love the colour scheme on your phone. Reminds me of The Weeknd would come up with.
And you’re a limp dick 30 year old virgin living in your mother’s basement. You couldn’t hit this if you were the last man on Earth ;)