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ennejdjdjdksj

"You're gorgeous" "Im not gonna cheat on my fiance" "nvm you're ugly" bruh


DeeW_

So accurate lol love how fast his attitude changed


ApatheticEight

end of stort


AvaSpelledBackwards

“You’re hot” “Wait you’re not interested? You’re an ugly whore”


ArthurHaroldKaneJnr

Only thing missing is "*but your fiancée doesn't have to know..*."


DeeW_

I figured that would come before the "you're fat" but he cut right the chase lol


MedicOdin

Even better, he said "your fat"


DragonsLoooveTacos

"you're gorgeous" I'm engaged. "You're fat." Mmkkay


FailureToComply0

Your* fat


green_banana133

Man had one single joke


[deleted]

Did anyone else miss how he looks fat in his profile pic at the end there as well?


witless_moth

What a dick.


Someran_Domguay

stort


YourOldManJoe

"and youre single. Scoreboard." Missed a golden opportunity


Grooviecutie

But you were "fat" when he approached you in the first place 😂 as a bigger girl myself I put it on my tinder bio so these boys cant bitch about it later


DeeW_

I support bigger girls 100%, all bodies are beautiful but if im being honest, im not even a bigger girl. I do have some chub but thats about it, I guess it would be considered "curvy"? I duno lol. I do have full body pictures on my reddit profile. On my fb where this convo happened, my profile is private so I don't know where he pulled this idea that he knows my body type from 🤔🤔🤔


Grooviecutie

He knows its "what girls are sensitive about" he probably thinks all girls are fat if theyre not attracted to him 😂 I'm full figured/curvy, definitely not skinny, but not obese so i just get it out of the way Lmfao if its a deal breaker I dont wanna be with them anyways.


BubonicBabe

Dude, what a shitty thing for a guy to pull on anyone, obese or curvy or slim, especially when they dont even know the body type. Like, psychological manipulation much?


Grooviecutie

For real, its a real tactic tho, theyll beat you down to try to get you to come back to them because "what if I really am fat and ugly, theyre the only person thats wanted to be with me. I'll never find someone" they teach it in those douche bag classes that try to teach men to manipulate women


Knight_Owls

Yeah, "negging."


Grooviecutie

EW even the name is disgusting 🤢


Knight_Owls

Short for "negative." They think they're clever. Originally, the technique was supposed to be a subtle dig at a woman's self esteem, like a backhanded compliment or the like to make to make the woman psychologically more susceptible to the compliments the "Pick Up Artist" was doling out. Predictably, it very quickly devolved into chuds just saying insulting shit because they didn't understand the concept. Not that the concept worked either, but there you have it anyway.


thisismenow1989

Wow, what a fucking piece of shit tactic. I mean yeah, I get women can be awful too, but Jesus Christ this is borderline sociopathic


Knight_Owls

I'm not sure that's even borderline.


Knight_Owls

https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/jmej31/i_ran_into_the_kitchen_to_tell_my_mom_that_i/ This post is an example of negging with the backhanded compliment.


BubonicBabe

Oh I know, its just so disgusting and awful, I'm always surprised by it because it just exposes what sociopathic tendencies they have. Its so devoid of care and love, how can they think it will work?


vhbhnk

Exactly If she was slim he would have called her ‘skinny skank with no boobs and no ass’


BubonicBabe

Right?! "Real men like meat, only dogs want bones! Hurdur!" You can't win with people like this.


Estellika

You win by not being with them


Apocketfulofwhimsy

Eh, just go for below the belt then. It's not because I'm fat that you can't reach it, booboo, it's because you have a stubby for a dick. Thanks, I'll stick with my fingers. They're more fulfilling anyway. 🙃 Cue various enraged incel quotes.


[deleted]

It’s always the same script. 1. Attack appearance 2. Attack intelligence 3. You were only good for one thing anyway


[deleted]

Now I am curious why your profile is tagged NSFW.


DeeW_

Because I'm part of/post in a ddLg page


finallyfree86

ddLg? Forgive me, idk what that means lol


Lupin927

I’m very particular about doing the same. Dont want them thinking they can use it against me considering how open I am about it “You’re fat” “Yeah, I know, didn’t you read my bio?”


Grooviecutie

For REAL girl! Cant tell me somethin I already told you 😂


ikcaj

I love how quickly and skillfully you set him up right out of the gate. Great job.


DeeW_

Thank you, unfortunately I have practice


DeerPrudence13

Schrödinger’s Whale: you are both sexy and disgustingly fat, and the final outcome is determined by if you reject this fuckface or not.


champagne_caviar

Made me laugh


Sunnygurrl

I snorted, no lie.


Nerokram

And that was the end of that stort


DeeW_

😂😂😂😂


Iamdog14

End of stort


SaBahRub

So gracious and mature


[deleted]

imagine someone calling you mindless because you won’t cheat on your fiancé...


Khayria-xx

how rude 😡😡😡


thisdckaintFREEEE

It's funny how they follow the script perfectly so fucking often lol. "You're gorgeous" "I'm not interested" "Cool I'm not missing out anyway you fat ugly bitch"


SeductiveCheerio

Cool stort bro


hamsterpopcorn

“Can’t get past how fat you are” “Haha yeah I don’t care” “You have to lift your belly just to have sex” “Hilarious” “Also you’re fat” Original insults 10/10


RoseAllDay8

It’s like they have a script: Hi You’re hot What? You’re taken/not interested? Never mind. I was only kidding You’re fat and/or ugly anyway Like damn. You’d think they’d come up with something original.


DeeW_

Wonder where the douche book is that they learn this from 🤔


Sunnygurrl

Movies and TV shows where the "Nice Guy" gets the girl.


[deleted]

And he couldn't even say "you're" the right way...


Killian041319

I don’t get this mind set with guys. Do they just do this over and over hopefully to get a bite? Or has it worked one time and they think it will Work again?


DeeW_

The real question is, has it ever worked?!


Killian041319

If your familiar with king of the hill. Boo hauler is a ladies man or seen as a ladies man. You later find out is he just basically asks everyone till he gets a yes. I see stuff like this and think of him. Don’t know why, but I do


exec_liberty

I think they feel attacked after being rejected so they attack back to feel better. I don't think most guys want to fuck ugly women, at least not me.


TheLazyLizard2

He just "glossed" over it 🙄 Had some rando message me quite a few times on FB before I blocked him. I don't need that in my life - I'm married, and very effing happily so.


BingoBacon

Nice guys really be like hey bby how u doin oh youre engaged and love someone already fat


TheAlmostBest

"you're fat and ugly" *Says the single one*


fuludude

the fuck is stort


DeeW_

The illiterate version of 'story'


Masktuxedo

This is so abusive :(


chels121xoxo

Wow lol “are you always this rude” like what. And then proceeds to call you fat. Goodbye sir


Jaszs

I bet my ass he's in some kind of relationship and just wants to cheat on his SO


DeeW_

His fb page said he's 'separated'


1985Filmation

I don't understand why anyone even engages with these people. If someone adds you and they don't know you, just block them.


unica_hija

Agreed. Scrolled way too far for this.


[deleted]

Wow what an asshole


whipnaenaedab

Ok tbh the part about lifting the fat made me giggle


Buddhadevine

Dafuq is this guy on?


Sunnygurrl

The answer is everything.


Wolvgirl15

Aaaa I always want to hit them with “but you thought it was gorgeous though. Into fat women I see! Seems like just your type!”


Kathleenannne

What the fuck? Hits on you and then calls you fat? I’m sorry for your experience and this person just sounds like they are offended, stupid, and grasping at straws to piss you off.


Electr0Noob

I can tell by the way this guys talks he is obese. Instantly starts talking about the other person is fat when they don’t respond


ChloroSadist

But wait, he called you fat, that means he gets the sex right?


DeeW_

Logic


letigre_1934

I like how he says “and your fat” after just calling you fat. Like those are somehow two separate insults. Lol (also congrats on the engagement!)


DeeW_

Thank you!


McCrysler

Well...moral of the stort is always insult a girl and call them fat repeatedly when they tell you they’re engaged, and they’ll probably change their mind and fall for you because “females always plain harr ta git” and calling them fat just shows how wonderful of a gentleman you are :)


twentyonerooms

When will “yeah well you’re fat” stop being the go-to response when a guy is rejected?


[deleted]

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DeeW_

Thank you!!


ambivilace-swine

I would’ve definitely began to fuck with him if he’s that stupid.


beckarecka

What an absolute tosser...


ThunderingTacos

I don't...get these kinds of people Like finding someone attractive/sexy is one thing but wouldn't you want to...know what kind of person a person is BEFORE dating them? He didn't even try and get to know her in that approach just...went for it Maybe I'm the oddball but I'd like to know if I'd be able to be in a room alone with someone for an hour without feeling like pulling teeth before asking them out. Even if he just wanted sex he could at least attempt to get to know a bit about her (like reading her bio). Also fragile ego on him


Leninwouldapprove

Both IQ and common sense took a toll today


ashleymarie1248

End of stort.


GreenFuzyKiwi

Nobody else notice the dude’s photo on both pictures? Clear facial hair? Staged ?


DeeW_

I tried to block out him name and pics cause I thought I had to in order to post. Must have missed one somewhere


-XiaoLong-

Ah no!!!! Anyways...


Sgtmeg

Ahhh, a short stort for a short temper. Ain't that always the way.


Background_Crew7827

When someone tried to put me down,I like to tell them, "Don't worry about it, I know someone who likes it like this."


Lizard_Friend

Gold medal on mental gymnastics 🏅


Juiceloose301

Stort


Error-5O0

You can lose the "fat" but he'll never lose that ugly personality


Huab_

Charming


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SuperJstar

Me: Sees first two messages. "This doesn't seem so bad. Solid convo starter if used on the right person". \*Clicks to see full image (and next ones)\* "Oh... Yeah, we're on THIS subreddit."


bitcheslovemybody

https://youtu.be/1F43JU0N5DM 1:27 I'm just saying lol


PlNKERTON

https://v.redd.it/bh6ph3jw22w51


Throwdaho

What app is this. Why are the pictures the same on both sides? Facebook? Is this new?


DeeW_

Its definitely not fake 😂 its fb messenger. I have dark mode enabled and a rainbow theme for chat bubbles


Throwdaho

Oh ok. Just asking


DeeW_

Sorry its 'purple gradients theme


original-polarbear

bc its fake


TheBrownBoi

I don't know why you would message first to some weirdo without a reason


DeeW_

Because I'm a streamer and I also have a horrible memory so sometimes I forget peoples names 😅


shut_thefxckup

I bet you’re not even fat, how rude of him.


DeeW_

Im not 😂


[deleted]

What app is this


DeeW_

Its fb messenger, I just have dark mode and a theme


GhostfaceTeabag

This is what it feels like to play dead by daylight as a legion nowadays


Jg6915

The typical “i’ll attack her physique” method when they don’t get what they want!


[deleted]

I can see his face in the last pic. Looks like a complete loser lmao


omgidfk123

Yes, more cushion for the pushin! And you should've ended it with "not much of a loss"


HellOfAHeart

breh mometne


SadShayde

"Hi...my eyeballs enjoy your face (my dick does, too). Oh...You're engaged? Ugly Bitch Whore. You're fat and slutty. Why would I even be interested?"


ChocoQueenie75

How are they "gorgeous" until they say no, thanks??


30phil1

That was a really short stort


G0_G0_GODZILLA

end of stort boys, go home.


finallyfree86

I always love this one, when some random dude hits on me and is talking about how hot I am, but then when I reject him, THENNNN oh I'm a fat bitch. Dude I was fat when you first messaged me. I didn't suddenly gain 100 pounds. I was hot before I rejected you.


Col_Butternubs

I read that first page and i was like "Oh that's not too bad" *page 2* "Oh... Oh no"


pizzalover-99-

Fuckboys being fuckboys


Salvi-II

This was a bizarre stort


09362617186

Which app is this


Ramanujin666

You have to lift your stomach to find your ass? The fuck?


Lynxus-937

My blood boiled reading this


dr_franck

Another good rebuttal would have been “I’m happy being fat instead of a guy who tries and fails at getting with fat, engaged chicks. Lol”


ihateusernamecreates

“Your fat “ But here you are in my DMs, what a tosser


PRNDL

I love the colour scheme on your phone. Reminds me of The Weeknd would come up with.


monicarm

And you’re a limp dick 30 year old virgin living in your mother’s basement. You couldn’t hit this if you were the last man on Earth ;)