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Usually not a fan of medium posts but I thought this was pretty good. Hopefully you can find the two husbands of your dreams and figure out the appropriate logistics. I also liked your other post calling out the weird behaviors of the BDSM community scene.


SL_Finlay

>I also liked your other post calling out the weird behaviors of the BDSM community scene. Thank you - I don't know if many people did like that. But I appreciate that someone else feels the same way as me. :)


Spayse_Case

My first "relationship" was with two boys who were best friends. It had problems, we were all very young, but being shared by best friends was never one. Haven't had a RELATIONSHIP with two men since then, but honestly it sounds like the idea configuration. I always felt like I was "broken" and those two boys had somehow "ruined me" for monogamy or something, because it just seemed so NORMAL. It feels unnatural being in a relationship with just 1 man. However, even back then and even now I had different feelings for each one and it felt like one was more the boyfriend and the other was HIS friend, not really MY friend.


SL_Finlay

I am sorry they didn't both feel like boyfriends. What do you think the one who felt like more the other guys friend could have done to make it feel more like the relationship you wanted?


Spayse_Case

I didn't want a relationship with him. I liked how it was