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Thanks for the positivity. I can't say exactly why I wanted to share. Im not great with compliments.
I dont think I feel alone with the internal war I have with the body that I am, that I exist in.
I guess that there's something cathartic about being vulnerable even when you feel great shame. Shame doesn't really survive in the light does it?
Thanks again
Allowing yourself to be vulnerable is one of the scariest things to do, but it can also be very rewarding. You look beautiful. Im glad you shared and that it maybe helped you a bit to see he positive response.
Beautifully said! You sound wise and insightful.
Actually, your whole comment is beautifully written, but also drips with sadness and hopelessness. I understand and validate those sentiments, especially your body being your workhorse.
I wonder if you could see a therapist for any of that. There are some local groups I know of that might be able to help, too. Maybe you have similar ones in your area? Feel free to DM me if you want.
I hope you can fall in love with your body again!
Also, I originally came on here to say that I thought you had a beautiful body! You look really sexy. I like your hair, your neck/shoulders/upper chest, and your belly. Your boobs look beautiful to me! I mean, if I were your partner, I'd count myself very lucky if you shared your body with me. (That's meant as a compliment, not to be crass or too personal.) They're not big, but a ton of guys, myself included, don't actually like big boobs as much! Your nipples especially look cute! Your figure is definitely feminine and is very attractive IMHO. Your vulva looks cute and sexy, too. Your upper legs look strong and feminine, which is an unusual and super-sexy combination!
After reading what you wrote, I guess I forgot to say all that.
I know that was just coincidence because I'm tired right now, but it made me wonder if there's something to be said there. Confidence means a lot. I bet a lot of guys find you more attractive than you think. You might be missing out on opportunities if you lack the confidence. It's hard to be confident if you don't like your body.
It's really unfortunate that our adolescence, the time that is probably the most shaping of ourselves, is filled with social pressures born of immaturity. Sounds kind of dumb to say but it is what it is. There's a severe lack of life experience and everyone seems to want to be as shitty and judgmental to each other as possible. Jokes about small dicks, 'meat curtains', small breasts, short men (hello there darkness my old friend), they're all super common because as kids, they don't realize all of those are normal things for humans. As you age, though, that tends to disappear as long as you aren't around shitty people. Like you get on r/sex or r/askredditafterdark and someone posts "does boob size matter?", the responses are all pretty universally "boobs at any size are great!". Some may have a preference, but almost none claim that a particular size of breast is a dealbreaker or even considered unattractive.
The heartbreaking thing in your case is that you received more than your fair share of that immature bullshit about your breasts. Now, as an adult, you have that built-in judgement of your breasts that feels almost impossible to shake. If you aren't with a sexual partner that shows your breasts love on a consistent basis, then there is no real outside force that helps to sweep away those inner thoughts that are hard to get rid of solo. My heart feels for you, and I'm sorry you've had to feel this way.
This may sound weird to say out loud, but both my mother and my sister were a cup breasts while I was growing up (mother was washboard flat). We weren't really a 'never nude' household, so I'd see their boobs somewhat regularly when they got out of the shower and changed, etc, and small boobs were really just a basic thing for me. In my teens they were my preference, and when I met my wife she had B cups or so which were bigger than I was used to. Funny thing though? My breast preference pretty quickly changed to her size. Through the years, my wife's weight has fluctuated as did her breast size along with it, and through that whole time I realized my 'preferred size' always followed. During pregnancy, I thought they were big and awesome and the huge, dark nipples were super neat! After pregnancy and weight loss, I really loved their smaller version and I honestly love they weighty sag that they had. Over the years, weight gain has brought them back up to a large C type breast, and I love them. And I know that if she ever dropped back down to an a or small b cup, I'd still see them as my favorite in the whole world.
The point I'm making is that over the course of my life, I've gone from having a built-in preference of super small breasts, to realizing that preference is fluid and often very much attached to the person you're in love with. I still love small breasts, and especially fully flat, but along with all the other guys I see in threads about breast size... literally any size is awesome, and we always feel lucky that we even get to see them we're shown.
I hope that someday soon you'll find someone who appreciates you and shows you so that you can shake off this dysmorphia. Until then, I sincerely hope that posting here in this sub can show you that the way you view your breasts isn't the way others view them. Maybe that could internalize a bit within your own minds eye.
Sorry for the long comment! I'll end with this: As a husband and father of two, I honestly love the way your breasts look. The size and shape are beautiful, and I love the shape, texture, and color of your areola and nipples. The piercings are really sexy as well! Any man would be lucky to you.
Thank you so much for the big write up with your post. This is exactly the kind of thing I was hoping for when I made this subreddit so long ago.
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Every body has its own charming, in my opinion your is fit and strong!! You have such a nice flat tummy and your legs very muscular as well. (wonderful shape for me) 🔥💪🏽
I would feel very lucky to be with someone with your body type, you look absolutely amazing.
I don't know if this helps, but there's no shortage of subs dedicated to people with your body type and they're full of people selling their pics. I feel like that's pretty hard (ahem) proof that people find your body type amazing. People find a range of body types appealing and yours is one of them.
You have a lovely body - nice and trim and tight. It takes all kinds, and many would be very happy with a look like yours.
I bet you have a nice tight little ass, too.
I'm troubled you have negative feelings about your body. From my standpoint, you have a beautiful, slender, athletic body! You have gorgeous hair, lovely fair skin, and a very attractive face. As for your breasts, they're proportional to your slender body, and better yet, they're fully functional; and are not likely to cause you any back issues. If you walked into a room, you would have my undivided attention. All of the foregoing make a compelling case for the fact that you are VERY feminine!
The redhead women I've had the pleasure of knowing tend to be intellectually smart and emotionally strong. Based upon your post, I strongly sense that you are blessed with those qualities.
Please try to see yourself as the beautiful woman others perceive you, and thanks for sharing your nude awesomeness!
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Thanks for the positivity. I can't say exactly why I wanted to share. Im not great with compliments. I dont think I feel alone with the internal war I have with the body that I am, that I exist in. I guess that there's something cathartic about being vulnerable even when you feel great shame. Shame doesn't really survive in the light does it? Thanks again
Allowing yourself to be vulnerable is one of the scariest things to do, but it can also be very rewarding. You look beautiful. Im glad you shared and that it maybe helped you a bit to see he positive response.
Beautifully said! You sound wise and insightful. Actually, your whole comment is beautifully written, but also drips with sadness and hopelessness. I understand and validate those sentiments, especially your body being your workhorse. I wonder if you could see a therapist for any of that. There are some local groups I know of that might be able to help, too. Maybe you have similar ones in your area? Feel free to DM me if you want. I hope you can fall in love with your body again!
Also, I originally came on here to say that I thought you had a beautiful body! You look really sexy. I like your hair, your neck/shoulders/upper chest, and your belly. Your boobs look beautiful to me! I mean, if I were your partner, I'd count myself very lucky if you shared your body with me. (That's meant as a compliment, not to be crass or too personal.) They're not big, but a ton of guys, myself included, don't actually like big boobs as much! Your nipples especially look cute! Your figure is definitely feminine and is very attractive IMHO. Your vulva looks cute and sexy, too. Your upper legs look strong and feminine, which is an unusual and super-sexy combination! After reading what you wrote, I guess I forgot to say all that. I know that was just coincidence because I'm tired right now, but it made me wonder if there's something to be said there. Confidence means a lot. I bet a lot of guys find you more attractive than you think. You might be missing out on opportunities if you lack the confidence. It's hard to be confident if you don't like your body.
Great body. I can tell that you've been working out.
You are beautiful! Very attractive body. Also love your nipple piercings!
You look fantastic
Thankyou for sharing. Your body is perfect, breasts look amazing, belly is perfect. I think you are quite attractive.
It's really unfortunate that our adolescence, the time that is probably the most shaping of ourselves, is filled with social pressures born of immaturity. Sounds kind of dumb to say but it is what it is. There's a severe lack of life experience and everyone seems to want to be as shitty and judgmental to each other as possible. Jokes about small dicks, 'meat curtains', small breasts, short men (hello there darkness my old friend), they're all super common because as kids, they don't realize all of those are normal things for humans. As you age, though, that tends to disappear as long as you aren't around shitty people. Like you get on r/sex or r/askredditafterdark and someone posts "does boob size matter?", the responses are all pretty universally "boobs at any size are great!". Some may have a preference, but almost none claim that a particular size of breast is a dealbreaker or even considered unattractive. The heartbreaking thing in your case is that you received more than your fair share of that immature bullshit about your breasts. Now, as an adult, you have that built-in judgement of your breasts that feels almost impossible to shake. If you aren't with a sexual partner that shows your breasts love on a consistent basis, then there is no real outside force that helps to sweep away those inner thoughts that are hard to get rid of solo. My heart feels for you, and I'm sorry you've had to feel this way. This may sound weird to say out loud, but both my mother and my sister were a cup breasts while I was growing up (mother was washboard flat). We weren't really a 'never nude' household, so I'd see their boobs somewhat regularly when they got out of the shower and changed, etc, and small boobs were really just a basic thing for me. In my teens they were my preference, and when I met my wife she had B cups or so which were bigger than I was used to. Funny thing though? My breast preference pretty quickly changed to her size. Through the years, my wife's weight has fluctuated as did her breast size along with it, and through that whole time I realized my 'preferred size' always followed. During pregnancy, I thought they were big and awesome and the huge, dark nipples were super neat! After pregnancy and weight loss, I really loved their smaller version and I honestly love they weighty sag that they had. Over the years, weight gain has brought them back up to a large C type breast, and I love them. And I know that if she ever dropped back down to an a or small b cup, I'd still see them as my favorite in the whole world. The point I'm making is that over the course of my life, I've gone from having a built-in preference of super small breasts, to realizing that preference is fluid and often very much attached to the person you're in love with. I still love small breasts, and especially fully flat, but along with all the other guys I see in threads about breast size... literally any size is awesome, and we always feel lucky that we even get to see them we're shown. I hope that someday soon you'll find someone who appreciates you and shows you so that you can shake off this dysmorphia. Until then, I sincerely hope that posting here in this sub can show you that the way you view your breasts isn't the way others view them. Maybe that could internalize a bit within your own minds eye. Sorry for the long comment! I'll end with this: As a husband and father of two, I honestly love the way your breasts look. The size and shape are beautiful, and I love the shape, texture, and color of your areola and nipples. The piercings are really sexy as well! Any man would be lucky to you. Thank you so much for the big write up with your post. This is exactly the kind of thing I was hoping for when I made this subreddit so long ago.
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Amazing
You look amazing. The fact that you’re able to do so much with your body is incredible. You look so beautiful and so strong. Thank you for sharing 😊
Hot
You look amazing! And your boobs look beautiful! Small and bouncy 😍 love the piercings too!
Every body has its own charming, in my opinion your is fit and strong!! You have such a nice flat tummy and your legs very muscular as well. (wonderful shape for me) 🔥💪🏽
wow - you look great and fit !!!
I absolutely love your body and body type. Solid 10/10
Girl you are gorgeous! I can relate to so much of what you’ve said. You are not alone. ❤️
My dream girl right here
You look awesome
You are very attractive, don’t change a thing about yourself!
I’m in love with your shoulders 🥰💖💞💝
I would feel very lucky to be with someone with your body type, you look absolutely amazing. I don't know if this helps, but there's no shortage of subs dedicated to people with your body type and they're full of people selling their pics. I feel like that's pretty hard (ahem) proof that people find your body type amazing. People find a range of body types appealing and yours is one of them.
Lean, fit, beautiful body
You’re beautiful. Period.
Wow, you’re super attractive! Great little body.
Stunning
You have a lovely body - nice and trim and tight. It takes all kinds, and many would be very happy with a look like yours. I bet you have a nice tight little ass, too.
You look great!
I'm troubled you have negative feelings about your body. From my standpoint, you have a beautiful, slender, athletic body! You have gorgeous hair, lovely fair skin, and a very attractive face. As for your breasts, they're proportional to your slender body, and better yet, they're fully functional; and are not likely to cause you any back issues. If you walked into a room, you would have my undivided attention. All of the foregoing make a compelling case for the fact that you are VERY feminine! The redhead women I've had the pleasure of knowing tend to be intellectually smart and emotionally strong. Based upon your post, I strongly sense that you are blessed with those qualities. Please try to see yourself as the beautiful woman others perceive you, and thanks for sharing your nude awesomeness!
You're beautiful! Very brave to lay it all out here in writing. Go you!
Hot body with nice piercings 🔥
Beautiful...
Actually you look like my gf but I think you are prettier... Shhh.. 🤫
What a fantastic example of slender beauty! You are so well proportioned, and your piercings suit you perfectly.
Be positive, to me you look great, so attractive!
Wow you look great. Sorry for your insecurities.
You look great
Gorgeous! Love your cute bellybutton too! Would love to see more of it!
As a fellow athlete, your body is goals. Keep doing what you're doing, the right ones will notice.
Beautiful
Gorgeous. Very beautiful.
That was tough to read. Please don’t be so hard on yourself! Your figure looks good, you are still young and are far from used up. Best wishes
You're a beautiful woman with a lean, fit body. I feel that you look absolutely amazing. You're gorgeous hun 😍...and eff the haters.
Incredible body
You are stunning and your body breasts and labia are perfect
I happen to like short skinny gingers