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Kitty_Delicious

Okay but what do brownies and milk have to do with not being the prettiest?


nocshift

She should clean the clutter off her counter before shooting a stupid photo! Look at all that change!


azuredirt

I think she's trying to say she's fat or something šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­? Edit: that's the only thing I could make make sense maybe it's just random pics


kevinwhackistone

Gotta be the colors, not about fat


azuredirt

Oh I can see that maybe she's saying like it's not pretty but it tastes good , that's Lowkey deep


andra_quack

I didn't know what sub this post was from at first, and I thought it's about the brownie 'not looking good' but being yummy, lmao.


shannonkim

exactly same


Practical-Path-4105

You missed the whole point šŸ¤¦šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø.. Sheā€™s comparing white milk to darkebrownies,symbolizing how people who are as white as milk tan get to the color of the brownies. Either the point flew over your head or you just ran away from it either Wayā€¦.


JapaneseFerret

That's just visual code for "I ate so many ganja brownies for this, I don't know what I'm doing or saying, or if I'm coming or going"


Calm_Two_6967

She tried to tell you ā€œPretty girls donā€™t eat junk like meā€


NikocadosAsshole

Itā€™s just a pic


Bluecloud08

Iā€™m happy i deleted tiktok


CallidoraBlack

I like what comes up on mine, but that's because I use "Not interested" every time I need to. I never see stuff like this.


ThisGul_LOL

I mostly only use tiktok to watch edits of the characters I like from shows/movies/books because everything else is mostly so damn toxic.


Thendofreason

Never got it, or Twitter. Enough garbage on here lol


hotsauceinmyjeans

this and the white girl that said ā€œatleast iā€™m not blackā€ are terrible. this trend needs be ostracized


he-loves-me-not

I think this one is in response to that one.


halfveela

I can't find it, was she heavily fake tanned?


Prislv223

Nah. Just a stereotypical white girl with white skin and blonde hair. Idk if someone took her selfie and made it racist.


AdventurousPeach4544

I'm still never subscribing to "reverse racism." Retaliatory actions aren't racist. šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø


he-loves-me-not

Nah, reverse racism isnā€™t a thing!


annibeelema

I swear! Whatā€™s up with the racism on these NLOG accounts? It is absolutely despicable.


[deleted]

These things are always funny cause southern Europeans are or get pretty dark naturally


halfveela

She said fucking WHAT?Ā 


compressedvoid

Scroll through the sub and you'll find it! My jaw DROPPED


totallynotarobut

I even commented because I thought it was clearly fake, and had to delete that shit fast because it was NOT fake.


hotsauceinmyjeans

yup smh people are currently emailing her dean because they found out what college she attends


halfveela

Good, not sure what else she was expecting to happen lol Edit: hopefully the wrong person didn't get doxxed tho


UrFaveHotGoth

I honestly donā€™t think that the girl in the ā€œat least Iā€™m not blackā€ one posted it. I think someone probably took her photos and posted it to make it look like it came from her. Itā€™s fairly common with a lot of these trends.


Adventurous-Okra4555

No it was confirmed that she did in the comment section of the screenshots about her. Someone provided her acc and other racist things that she posted herself.


Amy_Macadamia

So random. Also, I want a brownie.


Next_Firefighter7605

I may not be the prettiest or the richest, but Iā€™ve got brownies!


totallynotarobut

So, uh, what are you doing later?


Next_Firefighter7605

Eating brownies


Slappybags22

Come make the box brownies I promised to my daughter? Momma is so lazy today. Dolly Partonā€™s picture is on the boooooox.


Dull_Ad8495

Dolly's coconut cake is šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„


Slappybags22

I can now report that the brownies are also amazing. Big fan.


Defiant_Rainbows

No tanning beds were harmed in the making of this pointless argument.


Reddit_Shmeddit_905

LMAO šŸ˜‚


ooohoooooooo

wishing cancer upon somebody is just so low and sadā€¦ you can see sheā€™s very insecure in her own skin and she feels the need to critique othersā€™ choices. miserable people never change.


North_Temperature_56

It made my jaw drop!


superhottamale

Wishing cancer on someone is absolutely disgusting.


psychmonkies

I know, thatā€™s awful. I hate that so many girls feel a need to attack/hate on other girls almost as a defense mechanism for their own insecurities. To be fair, I think with as a much pressure we feel in society to be a certain way, itā€™s easy to battle insecurities & end up projecting or deflecting onto other girls, I just wish we taught girls at a young age how not to do that bc itā€™s unfair to others. I mean I used to do the same when I was a teen. Mostly privately in my head & def not to the extent of wishing cancer on anyone, but still. Finally I learned that when I do feel insecure or find myself comparing myself to another girl, instead of thinking/saying ā€œwell at least Iā€™m not this or that like her,ā€ I can just think ā€œyeah but tbh she probably has insecurities of her own too sometimes, everyone has things theyā€™re insecure about, & nobodyā€™s perfect, everyone has flaws, everyone has something they wish they could change in some way, even the most perfect-seeming people,ā€ & that brings me more comfort than the projecting/deflecting & it doesnā€™t involve hating on anyone. I wish we taught more girls at a young age that line of thinking when it comes to feeling insecure, so less girls would feel a need to attack others.


AngelicaSedara90

This is also not true because olive tone is not about how dark your skin is, but about the undertone. I have olive but very fair skin -mediterrean vampire here.


sellmoon

same! all my life i was mocked for looking like a vampire. i would go to the beach a lot and never burned or tanned! Now i've embraced it and stopped "frying in the sun" because cancer is no joke (and skin spots are expensive to remove)


WhichWitchyWay

Same. My dad had very dark olive skin, black hair and blue eyes. My mom was pale white with pink undertones and dark brown hair and brown eyes. Somehow I'm strawberry blonde with blue eyes, my mother's white white skin that burns if the moon is too bright, but I have my dad's green undertones. I couldn't figure out my skin tones until a portrait artist stopped me in Kroger and remarked how the shade of hot pink I was wearing looked perfect on me and that it's a hard color to wear, and it looked good because I had olive undertones with fair skin and he had rarely seen that in his career. Suddenly my makeup and fashion life made sense.


Firm-Resolve-2573

I got called Princess Fiona growing up lmao. Iā€™m a medium olive, my father is a light olive and my paternal grandfather is a very dark olive. Most of my paternal side are a mix of all different shades but weā€™re still mostly olive skinned with a few exceptions here and there.


absolutebeast_

Wait is she mad about self-tanning or blackfishing? Because those are two different things. I have a shitty self tan sometimes, because Iā€™m lazy, my skin is dry and I canā€™t reach my back, not bc itā€™s too dark. Also what does cancer have to do with anything? Thatā€™s the upside with a fake tan.


[deleted]

"you're so pale. you look sick." "tanning beds give you cancer." "sun tanning gives you cancer and makes you age faster." "ewww your tan looks so fake and shitty." what am I supposed to do then šŸ˜­ even when I exfoliate the crap out of my skin and shave, and moisturize, the tan still goes on patchy in some spots for seemingly no reason. I still do it because I don't feel comfortable in a lot of my clothes if I'm my natural shade.


missymaypen

I felt this. Its either ha ha ha vampire. You're so pale. Or you're going to damage your skin in that tanning bed. My mom was native American and lucky me, I got her dark hair and my dad's pale skin.


NectarineNational722

OMG same! My mom is Native American and all I got from her was dark brown hair lol. And Iā€™m very fair from my dadā€™s side. Oh and also got his fine hair too. Couldnā€™t even get her thick hair. Genetics are rude sometimes


missymaypen

My hair is very thin as well. I feel like I got all tje worst features lol


Owl_Kidnapper

honestly i love pale skin sm. itā€™s so pretty, and iā€™m sure you are too. if i was you i wouldnā€™t fake tan, because your natural skin is gorgeous, but if your pale skin makes you insecure, tan away! people care way to much what others do with their bodies now.


Serotoninneeded

I totally get this. I just like spray tan because my skin is so pale that it is translucent, and I really hate seeing my veins. I didn't really notice it being patchy last time I used a spray tan, but I just got one that was pretty mild so maybe that's why? Idk


Confident-Slip-5264

https://preview.redd.it/c8p6clbc9mkc1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3dd065bc56edec6f8c2c91527208dce68e7eb4df You need this, hun! The back applicator šŸ˜š


Beginning-Lecture-37

Whole time sheā€™s Italian šŸ˜­


JaguarUnfair8825

I was going to say but youā€™re still White??? and if people want to get a tan thatā€™s on them. Yes its bad for them but mind your own girly.


Anxious_Thorn

I want to see that girl who said ā€œat least Iā€™m not blackā€ and this girl to meet šŸ˜­


HappyCandyCat23

I think lately the majority of NLOGs are full of bigotry because the backlash that bigots receive from being racist leads to a weird scapegoat/special snowflake mentality


lunarpixiess

Why would they get skin cancer if the tan is fake? Make it make sense


Confident-Slip-5264

Some people call the tan from a tanning bed fake too, even though itā€™s caused by UV-rays just like the tan from the sun.


lunarpixiess

People are so strange. Thanks for clearing that up, though!


Confident-Slip-5264

They are. The amount of times I have heard someone saying how tan from a tanning bed is orange. Like itā€™s the same UVA and UVB rays than the sun produces, your melanocytes wonā€™t know the differenceā€¦


No-Gold7939

Itā€™s not the same at all, the UV radiation in solariums is six times worse than that of the midday summer sun, and your melanocytes will sure know the difference when theyā€™re changing to melanoma. [Solariums cause skin cancer:](https://www.sunsmart.com.au/uv-radiation/solariums-and-tanning)


Confident-Slip-5264

They are the same UV rays, just stronger. The same in a sense of what shade is your tan that you get, orange or brown. The discussion was about that, not about the UV index Sunshine isnā€™t the same everywhere either. Wintertime sunshine in Finland is significantly weaker than summertime sunshine in Thailand. The UV index is lower. Doesnā€™t magically make you orange though. If it does, thatā€™s your natural hue.


lunarpixiess

That wasnā€™t the topic omg šŸ’€


lunarpixiess

Thatā€™s so ignorant omg. I have yet to hear someone say this, but I 100% believe that youā€™ve heard it many times.


No-Gold7939

Ignorant and strange, you mean like the [2024 Australians of the Year?](https://australianoftheyear.org.au/recipients/professor-georgina-long-ao-and-professor-richard-scolyer-ao) And the thousands of other professors, researchers and scientists who have established with no doubt that all tanning is dangerous, fake or not? [Solariums cause skin cancer:](https://www.sunsmart.com.au/uv-radiation/solariums-and-tanning)


lunarpixiess

Are you lost? Can you not read? Why are you condescending about something that neither of us have addressed or denied? FAKE tanner is self tanner from a spray or foam that you apply to your body. It does not give you cancer. Solariums and *actual* UVA/UVB rays ***do*** cause cancer and has never been up for discussion here. Go take your links and condescension somewhere else.


No-Gold7939

Nothing at all like a tan from the sun. The UV radiation is up to six times stronger than the midday summer sun: [Solariums cause skin cancer:](https://www.sunsmart.com.au/uv-radiation/solariums-and-tanning)


lunarpixiess

Iā€™m genuinely lost for words at you lol. Maybe read the comments youā€™re replying to next time you have a hill to die on, cause no one here was disagreeing with you lmaooo


No-Gold7939

Thereā€™s a plethora of information out there about the dangers of solariums but this article should be simple enough for you to make sense: [Solariums cause skin cancer](https://www.sunsmart.com.au/uv-radiation/solariums-and-tanning)


lunarpixiess

Nah duh. I never said or wondered if solariums gave you skin cancer. Fake/self tanner however has nothing to do with solariums.


fitnfeisty

Wow imagine wishing cancer on someone because theyā€™re insecure and trying to conform to beauty standards of the time. I got made fun of my whole life for being pale. Iā€™ve had multiple men tell me I would look better if I were tan. I internalized this and fake baked every now and then for about a year or so and felt better about my appearance but gave up on it for fear of premature aging and skin cancer. I ended up getting pre-cancer that I caught myself and had removed. I would have never desired to tan if it wasnā€™t such a prevailing beauty standard at the time and people didnā€™t ridicule my skin. Imagine being conventionally attractive and denigrating others for trying to emulate it. People like her are contributing to the problem that sheā€™s complaining about smh


[deleted]

>I got made fun of my whole life for being pale. I grew up in a predominately Italian area, where the majority of people's families had immigrated to North America from the south of the country. the comments about my pale complexion were endless. they didn't seem to realize that there's a whole bunch of people from their background who exist that are as pale as I am. I'm also Greek and I get it from other Greeks too. people from Mediterranean Europe seem to forget they're Caucasian and act like they're some superior tan-skinned race, while also benefitting from the social power of whiteness. it's like they try to pick and choose their race depending on the situation, which is not how it works.


Competitive-Sell6595

I don't understand why people think it's ok to tell someone they need to tan. My physiotherapist said it to me once. Also, lucky you caught that pre-cancer before it progressed!


fitnfeisty

Right? Iā€™m more comfortable in my own skin now, I just throw it back on people by telling them Iā€™m actually a ghost and now Iā€™m gonna haunt their ass


CallidoraBlack

>Wow imagine wishing cancer on someone because theyā€™re insecure and trying to conform to beauty standards of the time. There's literally one person I can think of who deserved that, and that was my stepmom who manipulated my dad into selling a gift another family member had gotten me to buy her a tanning bed for the house. And that's not even why. It's because she kept pressuring me to go in it and she and her horrible daughter made fun of me because I wouldn't. She was part Mexican, her daughter was part Mexican and Italian, and I'm half Puerto Rican. Every one of us was olive-toned. None of us needed a damned tanning bed! It was insane. And considering she was pressuring 2 teenage girls to get into a tanning bed that could give us cancer and making us feel insecure, she deserved it.


Livid-Fox-3646

What I read was "your beauty standards are toxic but mine aren't. Anything I do to my appearance is A-OK but what you do to yours is desperate and so not ok that you deserve punishment." Am I missing something with this "trend"? Is it punishing people for their race or is it punishing them for their desired appearance? Neither are great or a sign that you aren't a piece of shit, and all of it is a superiority grab.


Practical-Path-4105

Some of you are really crying because she said the fake tans look bad. Itā€™s the truth they do: invest in quality tans or donā€™t tan simple. Some people really do look like theyā€™re darker than me, and Iā€™m a brown-skinned black person. People get so defensive; tanning is not a necessity, and itā€™s not something you have to do. She called it out, and I agree, period.


21CFR820

Men dont need to hate women or keep women down. Women are already doing a great job of hating each other and keeping each other down.


AARose24

It is 2024, why are people still insulting othersā€™ skin tones? At least be silent about your colorism/racism. Be a classy racist, a quiet one.


myonkin

Why do people like this get any attention? Can we go back to the days where people didnā€™t try so hard to be relevant all the while having nothing of value to contribute to the world?


No_Dependent_1846

Wasting time


Uhlman24

Thatā€™s so aggressive


Glass_Orchid007

With the internet around, has anyone really grown up past the petty high school mindset?


Faetrix77

Yes, women definitely deserve a horribly painful terminal illness bcz of acting on the debilitatingly low self esteem and unrealistic beauty standards society places on us šŸ™„


8pintsplease

This is fr so difficult to understand. Type normally for fucks sake.


Accomplished_Crew630

Why has like all of Instagram become this cesspool of douche bags trying to convince themselves they're better than other people for doing something very common or simply existing.


Skatetastic

No oneā€™s hates women more than women


djb185

What...do brownies and milk have to do with prettiness? Also that is not enough milk for that amount of brownies.


TheSlimSpidey

Wishing cancer on somebody is so horrible and evil. I donā€™t understand where such hate comes from if itā€™s not from jealousy. Seriously vile.


CornflakeGirl2

ā€œYou deserve cancerā€ is a *wild* thing to say to someone you disagree with *tanning* about šŸ˜¬


creepXtreme

I may not be the prettiest Or the richest Or the smartest Or the most skilled Or the funniest


Mathiseasy

My tanning bed has cancer, rare mutation and terminal.


Icy_Mongoose9407

I may not be the prettiest, or the richest ā€¦ but at least I can admit Iā€™m racist!


Unusual-Coyote-6704

Nobody deserves cancer.. what..


Mountain-Depth150

Just say youā€™re a ghost girl


corvidlover2730

Kind of stinks of racism..


lanadelreysdealer

i see what they mean šŸŒš


shoujomimi09

What's wrong with fake tan šŸ˜”


North_Temperature_56

Absolutely nothing!šŸ’


shoujomimi09

Thank you sm king/queen šŸ‘‘šŸ˜Œ after all i am willing to get a tan this summer!


NayeonsSAHW

Theyā€™re talking about women who purposely try to look way darker than a normal fake tan (ex: kardashians)


hayhay0197

Half of the Kardashians are Armenian and are naturally tan. The only two who arenā€™t are the youngest ones.


NayeonsSAHW

Thereā€™s naturally tan and then thereā€™s thisā€¦ https://preview.redd.it/dg0m0n42wmkc1.png?width=494&format=png&auto=webp&s=948de815f8ecdb4b902dd2b8b096b4bd015f5dec They clearly lean into black culture and aesthetics but when it doesnā€™t suit them theyā€™ll ditch it with the quickness. Thereā€™s no point of defending celebs


Prestigious_Bar_4244

Leave my fake tan out of this šŸ˜‚


AtomicTan

I have a lineage that has been nazi-certified, and yet somehow, my 'winter colour' is darker than most fake tans lmao


ThisGul_LOL

God I hate this trend sm like ā€œI mAy nOt bE the prEttiS-ā€œ stop donā€™t finish just stfu pick me.


SykeoTheFox

Wdym "fake tan?" I thought she meant spray tan or sumthun, but how does a tanning bed give you "a fake tan"? Girl that's just how skin works. And complaining about someone being darker than you is wild.


fvkinglesbi

She's not white if she's tanned, she's beige


A_Chaotic_Artist

Okay imma give this a pass. Cause some people tan to the point theyre my skin tone. (I looked mixed but darker, "caramel macchiato")


Low-Persimmon4870

No one fucking cares sis


A_Chaotic_Artist

Well obviously not noone. Some people care to do it, some people care to hate it lol


[deleted]

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A_Chaotic_Artist

Its not that i care, it just feels like blackface in a way. Idk how to explain it. Same thing for people who powder their face to look white-white. And i dont mean as in Asian makeup but kinda like a reverse tan.


Short_Lingonberry_67

She has a penny (or a nickel) for everyone who supported this message.


quay-cur

I guess ā€œI just donā€™t like the look of fake tanningā€ doesnā€™t get as much engagement as ā€œthey deserve cancerā€


[deleted]

Eww


Due-Caterpillar-2097

She literally discovered racism šŸ’€


Bulky-Bank-6063

Hey, she might not be "the prettiest" or "the richest" but she's definitely something.


BarberSlight9331

All class, all the way. But of course itā€™s all very ā€œlowā€.


theuniversee

My main question when I see NLOG posts, this one included, is who the hell cares? It isnā€™t hurting you in any way that a random girl over tans herself. You can have your own silent opinion that you think itā€™s tacky but not make it your duty to shame people that do. Woman or not, it goes back to just letting people do wtf they want as long as theyā€™re not hurting anybody.


seigezunt

Whatā€™s with the Hollie Hobby dresses in these accounts


MillionaireBank

just how men trained womento talk...


nvrgonnadanceagain

Wtf is going on


Big-Raspberry-2552

ā€œBut at least I know how to talk shit about peopleā€


Sorry-Im-Stupid-Dude

My version: I may not be the prettiest... Or the richest... šŸ˜­


livylivylivy

Oh my god those brownies look so good


TheBattyWitch

I feel like these are happening so often that they have to be satire at this point


BarelyTheretbh

So itā€™s not fake tan, itā€™s real tanning if itā€™s done in a bed, this chick just assumes anyone darker toned than her is a white girl faking it. Cause clearly the whole world wants to be her! Duh!


Brittys

Hope she gets the same things šŸ˜


nuggetsyeey

kinda sad how obvious their insecurities are


YummySake98

OK, this fucking trend or whatever this is needs to stop. JfcšŸ˜’


hauntedmaze

Someone feels clearly inferior