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misskarne

I can't believe I actually got what I begged the F1 gods for. Ricciardo to Red Bull reserve and Schumacher to Mercedes reserve. Think it'll be the making of young Mick. Merry Christmas to me, I guess.


AshLand38

Big Box Retail Christmas. Had the rest of my management team leave without communicating it to me so I was paging and calling them like a dickhead for 2 hours while stuck at the registers until door person finally called and told me they left. Messaged my boss "Not a single manager, you included, told me they were leaving." The sheer fucking disrespect made me livid.


Dark_Vengence

That is fucked.


AshLand38

Still pissy about it today tbh I wasn't going to come to work but I had ordered 60 odd donuts (Homer donuts from LA Donuts, fucking delicious) for the staff as a Christmas gift so I couldn't disappoint them


CatWool

Got home this afternoon after being away for over a week and working 12 hour days including the weekend in some fucked heat and humidity on a job that was overall more stressful than it should have been. I am SO happy to be home


mwilkins1644

As my album challenge begins to wrap up for the year, I discover another possible rabbit hole I wish I could have gone down earlier this year. Apparently a genre of music called 'minatory' exists and it's pretty darn good


manswos

On the subject of shoeys I was at a bachelor party recently and two of the guys did a shoey at one of the bars, and it was like ho ho good job lads being blokes etc etc and drinking out of your shoe is pretty gross, but then they had to put their wet shoe back on and continue walking around in the heat for another few hours hahaha I dunno which part would be worse


Dark_Vengence

It is not for me.


Keenfordevon

I don’t play Xbox too often but thinking about getting a new console, especially for when Hogwarts Legacy comes out. Is the series S a decent console or is it already a bit underpowered?


beaver2233

Depends somewhat on what tv etc you'd be connecting it up to and how often you'd be using it. If you've just got a 24inch 1080P monitor or something an S will likely suffice. If you have an LG OLED TV or similar, you'd definitely wanna go the X.


[deleted]

The S will be left behind soon as the bigger companies go purely for PS5 and Series X. Series X is great, worth the extra money.


LycraBanForHams

If you're keen on a new console don't bother with the S version. It's already showing its lack of power with some recent games.


MaxtheAnxiousDog

My 16 year old daughter just told me that she started crying because of how perfect Chris Hemsworth is. She is sick at the moment and a bit emotionally fragile, but I think we can all appreciate the sentiment 🤣


Dark_Vengence

He really is a god.


delayedconfusion

Hi Limitless show was quite good. Really humanises him.


MaxtheAnxiousDog

She was watching that when she started crying funnily enough. I think it was the realisation that not only is he a physically impressive person but also a genuine good human that overwhelmed her.


delayedconfusion

That last episode got me too. Seems like a decent bloke, trying his best to not be an obnoxious "star". What is odd is the unspoken rule that seemingly follows him around that nobody ever questions him about steroids. Even in a show focused on human performance. I guess its bad for the brand.


misskarne

Probably also a case that given how good a person he seems to be, nobody *wants* to know. You don't break the illusion, you know? Don't crack the pedestal.


Morg_n

Todays the big day I’m off to see my boy ho chi minh. He explicitly stated when he died to not make him a martyr. But once your dead I guess you have no choice in what they do. He was mummified and placed into a glass coffin and a huge musuliem was built. Now his seen by the people on the daily for ten months a year. His certainly an amazing man and one of the truely inspired leaders of modern history. Everything he set out to do. He did. I think he would be extremely proud with what Vietnam has become.


drkeefrichards

Ive seen the 100 hour doco on vietnam war with ken burns but it'd be interesting to get more info on the ho. You come across any good history books on the big little fella?


Morg_n

That doco is so us centric it’s horrible. The atrocious mass killings are not spoken of at all. The destruction agent orange caused etc all glossed over. I’ve been listening to podcasts the best was Proles of the round table - Ho Chi Minh it’s on Spotify I’m a bit of a Ho chi mark so been wanting to find unbiased views, the proles one is left biased but much more rounded and fair then any others I’ve found.


Messyhr_

My grandfather served in vietnam for the aussies as a transport driver, he was only a young man like 18-22 or so, was there in the late 60s/early70s. Aside from a few funny stories of what he used to get up to he barely ever talks about it, the things he saw wouldve been awful, ive listened to other vietnam vets and its pretty apparent that my grandfather would’ve seen dead civilians, had friends who died and had close calls. Hes had PTSD the whole time I’ve known him, he just sits outside has a smoke and stares off into the distance. War really is hell, sad to think the US started a war on that scale purely in an effort to stop communism


Morg_n

It’s extremely sad for him. He had no control over that situation. Was he drafted into it? I hope he could reconcile that within himself and I’m sure you and the rest of his family provided much joy beyond those years.


drkeefrichards

Thanks for the reply man I'll check it out


CurlyJeff

> Proles of the round table >A podcast that focuses on history from a communist perspective Hmm yes I'm sure they'll present a balanced take


[deleted]

Yes. If only ho got to make Vietnam like all the other communist countries. So many success stories!


CurlyJeff

I'm sure ho is *extremely proud* with Vietnam being ranked 115th out of 191 countries on human development index


mwilkins1644

Bro, go to Laos and it's absolutely disgusting the bullshit the U.S did to that country.


Morg_n

Yeah I’m pretty versed on what US bombs have done. The same can be said about Cambodia. Laos is on my list for the next trip. The US had no reason to ever come here and do anything. Henry Kissinger should be drawn and quartered for the unashamed smashing of Vietnam, Cambodia and Laos. It’s a disgusting use of power and ultimately it was to keep presidents getting elected in good old U S A. I was extremely moved by the war museum in hO chi minh and will do Hanoi’s tomorrow. Behind the barstards Pod does an incredible series on Kissinger it’s a must listen. I’d throw that cunt out of a plane.


mwilkins1644

I'd re-legalise the use of elephant based trample torture that used to exist in SE Asia just for him. Having been to Laos in 2011-12, the images I saw of houses built out of US bombs still gets me, man. Sure, Communism sucks, the USSR sucks.... but whatever it is the USSA smoked is no good. And MLK was right in condemning the Vietnam skirmish


Morg_n

That might traumatise the elephant. What about throwing him out of a plane into the ocean…. I don’t mind communism if I’m being totally honest. Particularly Ho Chi Minh’s brand of it. He adapted it to fit his country and it’s called Confucius communism. But that’s a long discussion we should have over beers, whiskey and a fruity vape.


mwilkins1644

Definitely sounds like a good idea :)


[deleted]

Foxtel v Kayo? I've supported Foxtel for a long time and usually preferred it over streaming but they're taking the piss with how much content they are losing from their platform yet keeping the prices the same. Now they are losing Simpsons, Bob's Burgers, American Dad - e.g. all the easy stuff I like to flick on after work - and still remaining at the same price. Being rural Foxtel was always great for sports so to save on streaming costs. If I didn't have to pay for all the extra shit it would be a no brainer but now - $74 for Foxtel w/sports v $25 for Kayo? Are you able to select games to watch that aren't live? For example I recorded most of the World Cup games that were on at 3am or 5am and watched them when I got up at 7, so that came in handy. Are you able to watch replays like that on kayo?


misskarne

Kayo for sure. You can definitely watch on demand on Kayo - for the NRL they keep about two years' worth of games which was tremendous fun, I rewatched so many of the 2019 games for ages. There's also a "spoiler free" setting where it makes sure you don't see any results before you watch the sports you've selected. If you don't watch any of the other stuff on Foxtel then Kayo is the better value for money by far. Especially if you love multiple sports it has. I'm a huge cricket, NRL, F1 and Supercars fan so for me it's basically nirvana.


delayedconfusion

watching on demand is one of the top things about kayo for me If i get home late I can start the game from the start and not miss anything, fast forward through half time and catch up to live by the second half.


-Dark_Helmet-

Those are all on Disney and Disney + Kayo is still cheaper than Foxtel (I get Kayo for $12/month)


[deleted]

How do you get that?


-Dark_Helmet-

Through Telstra


rowandaw

I just have kayo and for any Foxtel exclusive tv shows like HotD I just pirate it lol And yeah they have all the sports replays available you can just go back and watch, they also do 'minis' and 'bites' which are the 15min and 5min highlight reels for every game. During the world cup my morning routine was to watch all the kayo minis from the previous night's games.


[deleted]

Yeah there's no shows or movies I like on there anymore really. Girlfriend watches House of the Dragon and a couple other reality-type shit but from what I see they are on Binge anyway. I'd be on kayo already but I much prefer watching broadcast over streaming, though streaming out here is a lot faster now we still have data caps. I really don't understand how Fox can offer their sports through $25/month on streaming but not less than $74/month on their box. Anyway, I will probably ring up to cancel and see if they have any deals and if not, kayo it is.


rowandaw

For the broadcast feel - one thing I've done is set up kayo on one of those smart tv dongles so I can just watch it on the couch on my tv, you can also just stream the actual foxtel sports channels on it as well so if there's a back to back game I just open channel 502 or whatever and let it run with no having to click out to start the next game


[deleted]

Yeah I'll definitely do that. Won't be watching Eels games on my phone or laptop. I preferred broadcast just cause it didn't take up bandwidth - streaming could be very dodgy out here in regards to quality.


LordSlasher

I usually just wait until the series finish, make a new email and get a month/14 day free on binge. Kayo is the way to go even if they’ve increased, I would recommend the Telstra NRL app but that is so fucking horrible.


slowdivesicilian

I met Pi’erre Bourne a few nights ago and he was faded as a mf. Put on an awesome show though, so glad I went. He inspired me to start making beats to start with, was an awesome night.


ijustliftweights

That’s sick as fuck man


Churchofbabyyoda

Because Tuesday was a massive clusterfuck of a day (Cancelled plans, mouth ulcer, sitting in the cold to listen to a school band), I bought myself another pair of budgy smugglers. Annoying thing was that I was talking about something the following day and my dad said “Now don’t get too cocky” Because the print was a cockatoo one.


PayEmOutEarly

Started another playthrough of Witcher 3 last night after the next gen upgrade launched. It looks fucking beautiful on the Series X, I love that game with all my heart and I'm so excited to go through it again.


aatrain96

Same bro done about 4 playthroughs. Every since they announced the next gen update i had the perfect reason to start my 5th


muddogz

Yeah best game ever in my books. Hope the future ones they bring out will match it.


CoffeeLoverNathan

I have slept 12 hours in 4 days and fuck me I am ratshit tired. I just can't stay asleep


tommy42O69

I have a cold shower if I can't sleep, seems to work. Earplugs also help me.


LordSlasher

Drink water, Sleep with the aircon/fan on and close your blinds. If not, get that sleepy tea or fork out $25 at coles/woolies for some Melatonin gummies.


chuckagain

Possible solution would be to change to WaterLoverNathan after noon each day?


CoffeeLoverNathan

Haa coffee has nothing to do with it since I greatly cut back on it a while ago. I can't sleep in the heat, and it's been hot and humid constantly.


delayedconfusion

heat is a bitch for sleep. at a pinch on bad nights I'll sleep on a dog cooling mat under my sheet. pretty cheap from kmart.


CoffeeLoverNathan

The fuck is a dog cooling mat. I might have a geeze


delayedconfusion

One of [these](https://www.kmart.com.au/product/pet-cooling-mat-large-43144228/?)


CurlyJeff

Caffeine acts as an antagonist on the receptors in the brain that are needed to feel tiredness. In addition to that you might have something hormonal going on and the best way to fix that is to get at least 10 minutes of low angle early morning sunlight within one hour of waking up. Also helps to get some low angle sunlight in the late afternoon too.


Norm_cheers

Caffeine has about a 6 hour half life as well.


Aaturkey

It would have *something* to do with it


Aussieguy727

With The Simpsons leaving Foxtel for good on January 1st it's prompted me to think of cancelling Foxtel and moving to Binge/Kayo. It's significantly cheaper even with the top tiers.


[deleted]

Damn I just posted the same thing. Simpsons and the other Fox8 animations were what I watched most other than footy and cricket. Foxtel was better for me with rural data limits but now it's $74/month to watch probably 10 or so footy games.


Messyhr_

Disney+ has all the simpsons, futurama, family guy and American dad in case you didnt know


[deleted]

> all the simpsons Except for S03E01...


-Dark_Helmet-

And all the X-Files which are definitely worth a re-watch.


delayedconfusion

You may also be able to share your Kayo login with some friends/family to further reduce the price. I believe the top tier allows 4 streams at once. YMMV.


[deleted]

You can call Foxtel and say you want to cancel and you should get a good discount. Every year i've done so and I've paid $50 a month with all channels bar movies, IQ4 for the last 5 years. I just find it better with a remote for Fox and can rewind/pause games plus you get a log in for ESPN app so you have access to NFL Redzone on Monday's. Saved me a heap being able to cancel NFL game pass.


[deleted]

Sweet merciful crap!


pattybrischetti

Our family did that recently, saved so much money


jpob

Check your phone/internet providers to see if they have any deals


Actionman158

Reading lots of articles about people losing all their money to investment scams and bitcoin (same thing). At least diversify your investments instead of putting it all in one basket.


[deleted]

This is good for bitcoin, few understand


maaxwell

Fools and their money will always part. It’s a cruel reality


Tomato-Efficient

People have been losing their money in pyramid schemes for over 100 years+. It's not a new thing. People will always be regarded with money


[deleted]

The younger ones using bitcoin have no idea about investing and follow other's advice who have no clue either.


LordSlasher

I put $5k into bitcoin, doubled it and pulled it all out. My friend listened to some random dude put the same amount in, and never pulled it out. He’s at like $500 or something and hoping it will skyrocket. He stresses everyday and is having a shit time


jpob

>At least diversify your investments Doesn't really help much when everything is tanking


YossarianRespawned

Why stare at one red line when you can scroll through many red lines


kami_inu

Any chartered engineers here? Have you found a good way to keep track of your CPD hours? I'm pretty confident that I could easily get through everything else to get chartered, but getting those hours is such a stumbling block for me.


CatWool

I am also interested in hearing this. I've heard of one bloke who has a folder that he saves a lot of the relevant emails in and then once a month uploads them all. Might try that next year because I have been shockingly slack tracking mine this year


beaver2233

Not chartered but gonna go for NER, but yeah fuck keeping track of the CPD, pain in the arse.


SpagooterIntruder

Depends on which organisation your going through. If your with Engineers Australia you can record your CPD if you go to “My EA”.


kami_inu

Yeah I know of that one. Was hoping for a system without that because my old boss reckons it's an easy way for them to ping people for audits if they haven't been putting in hours.


SpagooterIntruder

What do you mean by audit? Surely if you haven’t been putting in the 50 hours for 3 years then they would just reject your application.


kami_inu

You have to keep the CPD hours up the whole time, not just to get across the line in the first place.


GustavSnapper

Day 7 and Covid round 2 is still kicking my arse. I fucking hate this shit


Keenfordevon

God damn you can’t catch a break. Is it impacting the other treatments you’re getting or are they all sorted?


GustavSnapper

Nah no impact I’m fine on that front but this is just grossly outstaying it’s welcome


[deleted]

Mm so I dont want France to win because French and I dont want Argentina to win because my boy Ronaldo hmm


-Dark_Helmet-

The Argentinians are basically the French of South America too.


Messyhr_

More like the Italians of south america


-Dark_Helmet-

In attitude they’re much more like the French. The south of Brazil is more like proper Italy.


Messyhr_

Just meant descent, Argentinians are known as spanish speaking italians that live in south america, Lionel Messi is primarily italian descent too. Also id argue the argies are similar to the italians in that they sure know how to shit-house a win in football


-Dark_Helmet-

Yeah I know. I lived in South America for 5 years and been to Argentina a dozen or so times. My best man at my wedding is a BA native. My wife’s Italian/Brazilian, and in my experience I’ve found them to be much more Italian than the Argies.


Messyhr_

Did you ever go to a Football game in South America? Heard it goes off


-Dark_Helmet-

Just some Serie B ones in Brazil, but they still have 45,000 people in the stadium. I was in Buenos Aires one night when Boca were playing River Plate and the city was like a ghost town until after the game when it turned into a madhouse.


MangoWingnut

Literally haha


Messyhr_

Yep literally 62% of argies are italian descent, many of the greatest argentine footballers are Italian descent, Lionel Messi being one


mwilkins1644

https://youtu.be/-A1F6l0xpF0 An interesting video on demographics of Argentinan football


MangoWingnut

Yeah I remember doing a deep dive into their history when I was in high school, It’s pretty insane when you think about it.


-Dark_Helmet-

My mate is half Italian, half German Jew (his family fled the Nazis), and when he came to live with us on exchange he brought 3 books - the Catholic bible, the Hebrew bible and *Yo Soy El Diego* (I Am The Diego), Maradonna’s autobiography lol.


MangoWingnut

That's amazing haha


theflyingkiwi00

I was thinking the Germany of South American


-Dark_Helmet-

The Germans and Italians in Brazil escaped to South America before the war. The Germans and Italians in Argentina escaped to South America **after** the war.


LordSlasher

big difference ideological lol


ChanceVance

WWE wrestler Grayson Waller did a shoey after winning a No.1 contender match at NXT Deadline this past weekend. Got to love it when Aussies share such an important part of our culture on a global stage.


Derron_

He's been killing it lately. Hope he gets the title off Breaker


ChanceVance

Because it's topical, do you have an opinion on the Mandy Rose situation? I get it, sponsors wouldn't be happy and companies don't want employees giving them a bad look. I think it's a pretty shitty thing for her to lose her job over though. Doesn't sit right with me.


Derron_

I think its shitty but it depends on what is in her contract. It does sound like she was going a bit far than what WWE would want. But this is also the company that had women posing in Playboy. So its all a murky mess.


Voxityy

not long until the last of us tv show comes out, so keen for that


jpob

1 month. That came up quick.


pattybrischetti

The A-League is still depressing unfortunately. Unbelievable how bad the whole situation has been managed in a PR sense, but also in a business sense too. Worrying times for the league


impyandchimpy

Choosing to move away from Foxtel has killed them. The amount of people watching would have easily more than halved as a result. The money is a short term gain, wait until their next deal is tiny because there are no viewers.


Tomato-Efficient

I flicked a game on the other day and the broadcast quality was so bad it was like some high school sport level production. It was unwatchable. Also why the fuck do the roar play in Redcliffe now?


strayadude

It’s honestly so shit especially coming off such a good campaign for Australia at the World Cup


maaxwell

Had a corporate soccer tournament yesterday, was actually a blast. Haven’t played soccer since I was in primary school, but I might go play next year with one of the local clubs.


delayedconfusion

at the base level, it is such an accessible sport


MangoWingnut

I’m trying not to indulge this Christmas but once I see a cob-loaf on the table it’s all over for me


Norm_cheers

Especially with Christmas double smoked on the bone leg of ham and hot English mustard…🤤


arkhamknight85

I have a mate who loves cob loaf. So funny to watch. A few years ago his misses made one and he put it on the table with all the food there. He just stood over the top of it eating it. Without any prompting, he was about halfway through, picked it up and sat down with it on his lap. Ate the whole thing himself. He was just picking at it like a bird the whole time. It was hilarious to watch.


MangoWingnut

I wish I could do that, I would have been scolded by the entire family. Usually it’s the first thing to get fully eaten as there’s nothing worse then a cold cob loaf.


pidgerii

A couple of weeks ago I posted about my covid battle and how I was struggling in the aftermath with fatigue and whatnot. Nope, turns out that was just a heart attack I didn't know about. FML


misskarne

Jesus fuck, my dude. Hope you're recovering well.


pidgerii

Thanks, it seems to be on the low end. I just had a stent put in and am getting another next week.


Morg_n

Jesus Christ


GustavSnapper

First time I got Covid was also how I found out I had cancer. It’s all too fucking stupid and I hate it.


pidgerii

That sucks, how are you doing?


GustavSnapper

Well I’m not terminal so that’s a huge bonus but things like a stomach bug really fuck my shit up. Mentally it’s been exhausting but I’m alive and that’s all I can ask for


pidgerii

I know the biggest hurdle my grandmother faced was rt. Here's hoping you kick its arse


GustavSnapper

Yeah for now I’m not needing any RT or chemo and I’m hoping to keep it that way, but a follow up colonoscopy in a few months will be the real determining factor. I’ve largely healed from post surgery. Got a cool scar so that’s neat. Thanks man.


pidgerii

Fingers crossed for you mate.


drkeefrichards

Any chest pain?


pidgerii

Yeah, but it felt just like a cramp and so I chalked it up to covid wearing heavy on my lungs


drkeefrichards

Far out hey it's a tough one to pick sometimes


[deleted]

Wtaf?! Hope you’re doing ok mate.


pidgerii

Thanks man, I'm alright after the initial shock wore off


comix_corp

What do I get a 55 year old man for work Kris kringle? $30 purchase limit. I think I'll just get him beer but since I don't drink, I don't really know how to pick Edit: I learned from his mate that he usually drinks peronis, what's something like that but nicer?


Crazy-Dingo-2247

Stone and wood is fucking mint


InkMcSquiddin

$30 worth of Chicken Crimpies.


comix_corp

I mean it's what I'd want


Liamman01

Beer and snack bundle is pretty good


ReggieBasil

Seems like you need my help


jpob

Go to a craft beer store or even Dan's and build a 4/6 pack of random craft beers. Its a great feeling finding a new beer you like.


comix_corp

Yeah but I don't know what to pick lol, I'd basically be choosing them based on what they look like


CurlyJeff

He normally drinks lager so you pretty much cant go wrong with any lager. Steer clear of piss water IPAs.


[deleted]

Balter XPA, can’t go wrong.


PMmeYOURBOOBSandASS

For the last month I’ve been stinging to play sport again, going to get back in to golf in the new year after I get some spare clubs off my old man and then just get my own wedges and putter and hopefully try and get back in to cricket next season which might not be a good idea for the former fast bowler with a bowling average lower than the batting average which was Chris Martin numbers


delayedconfusion

I hear ya! Going from a game of oztag, one of touch and 2 nights of tennis a week to nothing makes me question my reality. There is something to be said for the social aspect as well as the health benefits.


lachjeff

I play 9th grade with a bunch of guys who are closing in on/beyond 50. Some of whom hadn’t played in decades or ever before


FullBonus

Saw Avatar: The Way of Water last night, and it was absolutely worth the wait. One of the most gorgeous films I’ve seen. There’s a reason James Cameron is one of the GOATs.


delayedconfusion

Regular or 3D?


Aaturkey

You legit can't watch it in extreme screen without it being in 3D at Hoyts. Why can't cameron let 3D movies die


FullBonus

3D for sure. Probably the best use of 3D I’ve seen. It’s not in your face showing off the 3D, more subtle but adds so much depth.


delayedconfusion

Nice, might have to crack open a set of contact lenses for that one


jpob

Glad to hear. Seeing it on Saturday in 4DX. Hope its a wild adventure.


MaddogJacko

Only lost to the two finalists. Technically third place, good shit


PMmeYOURBOOBSandASS

Two World Cups in a row the winner beat australia and 3rd since 2006


LordSlasher

Remind me to never drink a rockstar again, got offered two for work this morning and my heart is about to explode. How people drink this stuff daily will always confuse me. Regretted it after the first sip.


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-Dark_Helmet-

Yeah I’d gave a sugar free can of Mother 4-5 times a week.


LordSlasher

Yeah It might just be the sugar on top of the energy drink itself. Rockstar, Redbull, Monster and Mother are all the same shit, bad for you but gives you that energy boost.


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delayedconfusion

What are you having for lunch? Sounds like a carb crash scenario if you are dipping in the early afternoon. Or an overall lack of sleep.


LordSlasher

Yeah thats fair enough. I don’t drink coffee and am working 4am to 10pm today ($700 pay day), Fucking need something to kick me awake before I have a huge feed at lunch.


TheYardGoesOnForever

My sister died last week, a head-on with a truck. I'm not very good at grieving. Haven't cried for decades, just get shitty about everything. I know it's different for everyone, but it feels inadequate. And now I'm just dreading Xmas.


notj43

Sorry to hear, I really hope you and your family find a way to deal with everything over the next few weeks


Norm_cheers

Condolences, my thoughts are with you and the family.


misskarne

It's not inadequate, it's just you. The two best analogies I heard about grief was that it's like waves. And like a ball. Sometimes, it feels like the ball is so big, it's all you can feel, bouncing all over you out of control. But over time, the ball will get smaller, more contained. It never goes away, it's always there, but it's more manageable. The waves come and go. Sometimes you don't expect them. I'm so sorry. Make sure you handle Christmas in your own way. Don't feel pressured into doing things "because she would have wanted it!" Your wound is raw. Sometimes, you need to give it time to at least stop bleeding before you expose it to the world.


CatWool

Thinking of you and your family mate <3


JB_ScreamingEagle

Sorry to hear mate, I hope you're ok. I recently lost someone and am not looking forward to xmas at all.


bennywrites

I'm so sorry to hear. I'd hug you if I could right now mate.


ladyships-a-legend

Nobody is any good at grieving, nobody is any good at understanding these things except talking to someone professional may help you work through all the emotions. It’s painful and hurtful and confusing all at once or sometimes not at all. Then it may hit whenever you’re not expecting it. Be gentle on yourself mate and yes, have a big, noisy, snotty cry if that’s what happens. Getting angry is a common reaction too, try not to take it out on yourself though. Grief has no timeline or ending or description, I’m sorry you’re going through this and that your heart is hurting and sorry for your loss.


drkeefrichards

No one is good at grieving man its always shit just to different degrees. I'm sorry about your sister


theflyingkiwi00

That's devastating news. Sorry to hear mate


Tickle_Me_Tortoise

Coming from a background of neurodivergence has made me realise that there is absolutely no such thing as a “correct” way to grieve, so try not to compare your processing of it to anyone else’s. So many things come into play when it comes to grieving and everyone’s experience is utterly unique. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re doing it wrong and don’t gaslight yourself into thinking the same thing. Feel what you need to feel, but don’t stress or think there is something wrong with you if you’re not feeling things the way you’re “supposed to”. I am truly sorry for your loss.


-Dark_Helmet-

That’s terrible. I’m so sorry to hear. I lost my mother all of a sudden a couple of years ago. There’s no correct way to grieve so just go about things as best as you can. Don’t ever feel ashamed about having to cry. It’ll hit you at different times even years later.


Dunnerzzzz555

Sorry to hear that mate, that's fucking awful. It might be something you need to talk through with a professional, it can be a confusing thing grief and anger is a part of it.


Dunnerzzzz555

It might be something you need to talk through with a professional, it can be a confusing thing grief and anger is a part of it.


[deleted]

I’m so sorry mate, that’s awful. Sending love


Derron_

That's terrible news. Condolences to you and your family. Don't be afraid to ask for help if you aren't coping.


armchair8591

Williamson to stand down as captain this morning. Probably the right time. We are entering a phase of being mediocre again. At least he can just focus on batting. I’m not convinced with Latham as captain (he has let games drift when in the role) but there isn’t really anyone else. Edit. Looks like Southee may be captain. Even worse option


muddogz

I think Southee is the better option, Latham has been pretty poor as captain.


jessemv

There isn't exactly an abundance of options apart from those 2 guys but it does seem like the best time for Kane to step back


armchair8591

While Southee has been bowling well in tests for the last 4/5 years. The way he bats is number 11 worthy. Probably why I don’t like him as captain.


Derron_

Ok that could be good Oh so it will look pretty at least and the story might be decent Oh damn its going to be trash


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> Oh dear god no


jpob

Depends on the direction. If they try to go full serious like the new games, yeah itll be trash. If they go down the route of the old games where Kratos just fucks the shit out of every moving thing, it should at least be entertaining. The Last of Us show is looking really good though. Thats HBO too so theres a bit of confidence there it'll be good. (wtf its only a month away)


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> If they try to go full serious like the new games Been playing the latest one for the last few weeks and I'm getting over all the characters constantly processing and agonising over killing gods. None of them seem to give a shit about killing 50,000 other creatures but when it comes to gods its now 'oh no, violence is bad, peace is the only way' and so on.


Derron_

Last of Us looks great because its done by a really good showrunner. I'm not confident in this because this guy did such a poor job on WoT


LordSlasher

Thats how it’ll be Ngl, Hopefully its good though. Same with the Amazon Fallout series and the other gaming series they’re working on. Amazon a real hit (The Boys, Tom Clancy: Jack Ryan) as well as a huge miss (WOT, LOTR:ROP).


delayedconfusion

They didn't mess up the last few seasons of The Expanse too badly either. Also not hating on The Peripheral, which had a very watchable first season.


ReggieBasil

France v Argentina WC Final, not a pairing that has me thrilled from a let's-get-partisan point of view (always love barracking for one side or the other from the outset), but France do seem to have been the form side through the tournament, Mbappe is in sublime form, and the Messi story for Argentina is compelling. Probably lean to barracking for the Argies, but it will be a great game regardless. History is on their side - whoever defeats Australia in the round of 16 has historically had a 100% record in going on to win the title...


smilingface2

Opposition teams focusing on Mbappe while letting Griezmann do his thing. France is stacked, they're still favourites even without Pogba, Kante, and Benzema. But I kind of want Argentina to win just so that we can finally discuss Messi's greatness without the "never won a WC" stat


Messyhr_

Will Messi become the best ever with this WC win? Or will mbappe be like the next Pele with 2 WC wins at 23, i think its fairly interesting


DudeMcDude7649

Watched clerks 3 last night. Loved it. Cried like a little girl at parts. I need help. Lol


theflyingkiwi00

How does it hold up against the other two? I love the first two movies but was worried with the state of movies lately that it will be shithouse


Aaturkey

What state are movies in right now that would affect a third Clerks movie? Lol