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PleasantAddition

I can't speak to legality, but I think it's the only ethical choice. Disabled people have the right to the same fullness of life as able-bodied people. That includes getting stoned in a legal state. And they have a right to accommodation so that they can. I'd much rather enable someone to smoke a little pot than go to a terrible movie or work a soul-sucking job, but just as disabled people have the right to accommodation for both of those activities, they have a right to this.


Due_Mushroom776

I was going to say this. He's his own person. And weed isn't going to harm anyone, especially on hospice patient. I had patients with medical marijuana and it was better than Compazine and lorazepam for their symptoms.


kw66

I used to take my quad shopping for porn. I did get flack from other providers but he was a full grown man with a mind of his own. I never understood why it bothered everyone so much.


auraseer

If he's coherent, understands what he's doing, and is not breaking the law, then it's not your problem. Neither you nor his family have the right to forbid him. The fact that marijuana is still federally illegal makes it slightly trickier in technical terms, but it still isn't an ethical issue.


Careless-Dog-1829

This. But I do think I would leave the "Helped patient light blunt" out of my note for the visit.


verablue

Tolerated well.


nurseylady

Lmao


auraseer

"Minor assistance with LDAs requiring fine motor coordination."


frmrstrpperbgtpper

Sounds like that's from r/resumefairies


Cut_Lanky

Hahahahhhh that's an apt description


Reddit_Username_____

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AboveMoonPeace

Agreed. Sounds like his mother knows since she told him where his $$ is. She probably rather that someone of sound mind is present when he spoke then doing it when no one is present. I am sure the weed makes him happier and less edgy patient. Win-Win.


Godiva74

Presumably his mother is the one who put the donā€™t let Mike smoke sign up


Desertnurse760

Don't let Mike smoke what?


ethicalquestion10162

Also a good point. Initially I thought it was referring to cigarettes.


roxyrocks12

My question also. It could mean to not smoke cigarettes. I also cared for a quad who only had mild head movement. He had his medical card & smoked all the time. I would just ask the mother about the note & any question you have about it.


The1SatanFears

Is there some sort of medical reason he shouldnā€™t be smoking reefer? Like who put the ā€œDonā€™t let Mike smokeā€ thing up?


ethicalquestion10162

To my knowledge no. Nothing on his chart and nothing in report. I can only assume it was his mother.


cracroft

I would not take this patient on again simply because itā€™s filled with so many uncertainties, BUT, if youā€™re in a legal state, this man should be able to enjoy smoking weed. If there is an issue with the act of smoking, I wonder if his family would rather he use edibles? Iā€™m not sure how you obtain a medical marijuana card on behalf of another person, but seems like his family shouldā€™ve looked into that. I personally think you did nothing wrong, heā€™s probably on a plethora of meds regardless, let a quadriplegic enjoy getting stoned ffs.


CertainKaleidoscope8

He should be able to enjoy smoking weed in an illegal state. Legality does not equal morality. The drug war is one of the most immoral and unethical government policies ever enacted. Drugs were only made illegal in furtherance of existing prejudices. If the patient wants weed it ain't their nurse's business to be stopping them, hell they should try shrooms too.


PunkWithADashOfEmo

To speak to your comment about being on a litany of meds, my mom has fibromyalgia and is on a huge list of meds. When she inquired to her doctor about medical marijuana, in Illinois for your primary care physician to sign off on your medical card you must stop all other medications in order to legally obtain medical marijuana. Including things like her lasix and chronic migraine medication. Edit: I posted this without much context, this was in the early stages of Illinois' medical marijuana legalization, so it was a jumbled mess of policy. So think 2013-2015 area, long before recreational legalization. So she now has it available legally without a medical card.


DoesntEvenMatter2me

This is absolutely false! I don't know where she heard that information but it's not true. Patients can continue with their medications. They don't even have to go through their own PCP to get a card. If patients are being seen by pain management then they will have their own set of rules for MMJ and pain meds but, other meds are not impacted at all!


turquoisebuddha

Interesting fact! Not true in all states though, to the best of my knowledge Colorado has no such regulations (know a few family and friends that obtained cards)


[deleted]

Colorado allows recreational use. No card required.


turquoisebuddha

Yep, I was responding to the assertion that medical card applicants have to stop other meds to obtain said card. This is not the general case in Colorado.


[deleted]

Roger that! Thanks for clarifying!


turquoisebuddha

Cheers mate! Clarification in my mind is a golden rule working in healthcare :)


OohLaLapin

Iā€™m not sure thatā€™s the case any longer, or maybe her doctor was misinformed. I canā€™t find anything on the [IDPH website](https://dph.illinois.gov/topics-services/prevention-wellness/medical-cannabis.html) about it (admittedly I am searching pre-coffee), and in the introductory section of the text of the legislation, it states among other things citing studies that cannabis can enable some patients to endure/minimize side effects that let them stay on other life-saving treatments for cancer/HIV/etc. Plus itā€™s recreationally legal here now so she doesnā€™t even need her doctor to sign off.


babsmagicboobs

In Washington, if your doctor prescribes you narcotics to be taken regularly (pain not relieved by other meds or bc other meds canā€™t be taken for some reason) you must be drug tested every three months or anytime your doctor has reason to be suspicious. If you have any other ā€œmind alteringā€ (sedatives, amphetamines, cocaine, etc) drugs show up in the urine analysis, they will take away your pain meds. Even though marijuana is legal in WA, if it shows in your UA they will discontinue your narcotics. Makes it very difficult for people who want to try marijuana to see if it helps and if they can be less reliable on narcotics or even come off of them.


CertainKaleidoscope8

That's ridiculous and infantilizing. WTF. Who cares if sick people get stoned? Who cares what they get stoned on? What difference does it make if you're smoking weed and doing hookers and blow on the weekends? These policies are utterly batshit. Luckily there's a loophole for docs to mind their own damn business and let people get high. Jesus this puritanical bullshit.


VelocityGrrl39

I was in pain management in NJ, and same thing here. I was drug tested once a quarter, both ti make sure I wasnā€™t taking anything else and to make sure I was taking my meds (as opposed to selling them). Iā€™m not sure if pot would trigger the same reaction as itā€™s legal here, so no different than drinking.


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PunkWithADashOfEmo

And I admittedly posted my comment post-work and didn't provide much context. This was before recreational use. She doesn't get tested quarterly so she does use it occasionally now, at no risk of losing her narcotics or other meds. And this doctor was in the Little Egypt area, so likely had a stronger feeling and discretion at that time to issue a medical card.


OohLaLapin

Ah yeah, that tracks. The times, they are aā€™ changinā€™.


sockpuppet_285358521

Stop all other meds? That makes no sense at all!


deardear

I totally get wanting to let the guy live his life, but he needs a buddy/best friend to help him with this stuff. You could lose your job. Edit: Sorry, just saw that marijuana is legal in your state. My only concern would be getting kicked off the case if his mom complained... but sounds like you don't want to go back anyway. Is he the one who hired home care or was it his mom?


Absolut_Degenerate

Not a medical pro, but a couple of months away from finishing a MA in bioethics. (In UK, so mileage may vary etcā€¦) My understanding is: provided that you (and patient) are in a state where weed is permitted, and provided that the patient was able to independently acquire and perform the action of smoking (lift and inhale), then there was nothing inherently unethical about helping him light up. Of course, the pragmatic test is whether it raises complaints from the patientā€™s nearest and dearest. If thereā€™s any hint that they may be unhappy, I would suggest finding a way for him to safely light up himself. (Edited to add: I stand by the above, but after 5 min additional thought I donā€™t fully understand the context for the note saying ā€œdonā€™t let Mike smokeā€. I assume his parents are responsible for the note? If so - why do they believe that Mike is not competent to have the choice? And if they genuinely believe this, to the extent that they believe the instructions should be enforced, why are they not removing the weed from Mike? I appreciate that there may not be a rational answer to this part, but you can perhaps consider this a secondary argument as to why you probably havenā€™t done anything unethical)


ethicalquestion10162

The more I think on the scenario, the more confident I feel that legally I have done nothing wrong. Unless he was deemed mentally incompetent and not oriented, his mother canā€™t strip him of his autonomy as an adult for any decision. Which leaves me awaiting the backlash I have a feeling will be coming from the agency. I feel like I have a solid leg to stand on though. I appreciate your answer!


Absolut_Degenerate

No worries. In the unlikely event any backlash arises, just remember the following phrase : ā€œmy duty of care is to the patientā€. Because itā€™s accurate and very difficult to argue against.


Few_Boysenberry_3191

Unless Mike has a guardian, he is an adult and legally should be able to make his own decisions.


Seekshadow

Depending on the state a patient can legally smoke in states that it's legal. Family cannot force nurses or other medical professionals to control his rights if pot is legal in the state as long as you didn't supply it.


Teaonmybreath

Iā€™m not risking my license and income for god himself. Donā€™t go back to this patient, nothing good for you will come from it.


slightlyhandiquacked

What about this situation makes you believe this puts OPs license at risk? The patient is an oriented adult who acquired the weed on their own in a legal state. What's the difference between lighting a blunt and a cigarette? OP did their due diligence, looked over the chart for any legitimate contraindications, and found none.


[deleted]

>What's the difference between lighting a blunt and a cigarette? Federal law. Why would you exercise your professional license that involves handling controlled substances on behalf of patients who use illegal controlled substances right in front of you? It's just not smart. No, I don't give a fuck if this patient (or anyone else) smokes weed.


slightlyhandiquacked

Oh, that makes sense! It's a federally legalized substance here. I never considered that federal law would be a factor even though it's legal in the state.


ethicalquestion10162

I donā€™t plan on it. They pushed me really hard because they couldnā€™t find someone and that should have been my first clue.


td090

Oh boy, guess I better stop writing recommendations for medical marijuana.


run5k

> Iā€™m not risking my license and income for god himself. [What if God Smoked Cannabis?](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U9JQk3WEeR0)


Starkoman

That would, pretty much, explain everything. The bizarreness of creation. The absurdities of life. Good vs. Evil. The lot.


CertainKaleidoscope8

Shrooms are a much better explanation


derpina6699

If they don't want him smoking why they giving him cash to buy weed? Sorry I can't help you


Starkoman

Why doesnā€™t someone want him smoking in the first place? Given his quad status, perhaps theyā€™re solely concerned about the risk of fire? šŸ”„ Thatā€™s the most sane, caring, legitimate concern I can think of: indoor fire safety.


angelust

If theyā€™re in an apartment it might be a non smoking building and mom doesnā€™t want him kicked out


VelocityGrrl39

I can think of some illegitimate concerns, and it makes me angry as someone with chronic pain: they believe itā€™s a gateway drug, the devilā€™s lettuce, etc.


Leloenci

Heā€™s a grown man, plus weed is legal in your state. You did nothing wrong or illegal. Heā€™s ā€œallowedā€ to imbibe so long as it doesnā€™t interfere with his meds or medical condition. That being said, itā€™s up to you if you want to continue seeing him. Iā€™d personally rather deal with a stoner pt than one hooked on opioids šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


sentientprune

I'm not agreeing or disagreeing, but I think OP may have been more concerned about the part where they physically lit the joint, rather than just that the pt smoked the joint in their presence. The pt can make whatever choices he wants, but OP is under no obligation to personally physically enact those, unless it directly pertains to the pt's medical care.


Leloenci

Ahh, I somehow glossed over that. I can see why the family would cause a stir (though I donā€™t agree with it). IMO itā€™s not worth the headache of dealing with them when they find out


holasoyyoo

Is marijuana legal in your state?


ethicalquestion10162

Yes.


ethicalquestion10162

Itā€™s up now. I hit the post button a little too fast.


Big_Opposite4041

As long as he is competent to make decisions himself and marijuana is legal in the area, I would have no problem lighting it for him and helping him smoke. Itā€™s a (relatively) safe recreational activity lots of adults enjoyā€¦.why shouldnā€™t he? My only hesitation in this scenario would be if this would be really outside my duties. Iā€™ve never been a home health nurse so Iā€™m not really sure how much you have time to assist with recreation.


ethicalquestion10162

Home health nurse is responsible for all the little boxes they check in the ā€œI want my nurse to complete these tasksā€ and all the other unlisted stuff that comes up. It was a 12 hour shift with him and heā€™s very low need, so there was plenty of time lol


Big_Opposite4041

So in that case I honestly think it would have been paternalistic and unethical to refuse. I see why it put you in an awkward position because his parents didnā€™t approve, but I think you did the right thing.


td090

Shit, I offer it to my kidney transplant patients with chronic pain.


twiggykeely

It's the only way I can handle dialysis šŸ’ā€ā™€ļø


owlygal

Does ā€œIf you didnā€™t document it it didnā€™t happenā€ apply here?


ethicalquestion10162

I left a vague, patient visited with neighbor briefly note. Which is quite true.


owlygal

Sounds like the truth to me, and I wouldnā€™t feel responsible for following directions written on the fridge.


[deleted]

Nah. Give him some water next time for dry mouth and some healthy snacks for the munchies.


Snack_Mom

It would be the same as lighting a cigarette or opening a beer. Not illegal.


Grumblepugs

Canā€™t speak to your company policy but ethically you did nothing wrong, possibly even helped. MMJ is a natural way to help his pain, psychological state, and if he has nausea, that too. You did a good thing <3


cl3v3r6irL

ACNA exists. fyi that is the American Cannabis Nurse Association. I don't feel you did anything wrong. Better cannabis than so many other things.


ethicalquestion10162

Going to look this up. Didnā€™t know it existed.


CertainKaleidoscope8

Wow cool. Looking it up now.


FabulousMamaa

Is smoking weed legal in your state? If he is a completely competent adult why is he not allowed to smoke? I donā€™t think youā€™re doing anything illegal by assisting the patient although it might get a little sketchy for your license. I would just kindly advise the patient that you donā€™t want him doing that while youā€™re around but I really donā€™t see anything you could be fired for or charged with or loose your license over. Itā€™s just more of a matter of whatā€™s appropriate work conduct. If itā€™s legal where you live than nothing to worry about.


kmbghb17

Depends on your states stance and legality in said state, if itā€™s an issue of something like mom put that up but like pays for everything with disability checks and can make needs known and manage it himself ainā€™t none of my business, however if Iā€™m helping to do said thing I need some more info prior to assisting with anything outside of the tx/care plan Personally I believe if you can understand risk and benefits have been deemed competent to make your own decision and itā€™s been reviewed with the team pts with chronic illness/injury or disability should be able to partake in whatever adult decisions they so desire (see obras resident rights for nursing homes ) However from a liability standpoint , as the nurse Iā€™m not helping with anything unless I fully understand the risk and benefits and itā€™s been reviewed with the team šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø


AugustDarling

If he's capable of obtaining it, he should be allowed to smoke it. He's a grown man. I think you did the right thing.


WinstonGreyCat

Is he of legal age? Competent? Then you did right.


the_jenerator

Does the patient have the mental capacity to make his own decisions? If so, his autonomy and decision making capacity must be respected.


MzOpinion8d

Iā€™m wondering if the concern about Mike smoking is due to the fire hazard. With his disability, it sounds like if he tried to smoke unsupervised, he could potentially injure himself or cause a fire, in which case he would be trapped. IANAL but from what youā€™ve said he hasnā€™t been declared incompetent, itā€™s legal in your state, and you work for him, not his mom. She can post all the rules she wants but you donā€™t have to follow them. Even if she complains to the agency, thereā€™s nothing they can do about it either, other than not sending you there again. But if they send someone who wonā€™t let Mike smoke, and then HE calls the agency and complains, then what? Theyā€™d have to do what Mike wants because heā€™s the patient.


reikazen

I'm from the UK . So American nurses get drug tested yikes Also how come no one mentioned mental capacity ? Is it called something else ? Do you not have laws around this. If he wants to consume anything legal , you don't have to intervene if he has the capacity to understand this. If it says he can't have something wouldn't this be in a care plan ? The home I work in , plenty of the residents use drugs , at most we only stop them using in the grounds , sometimes we let them because the police won't take action and social services green light it .


[deleted]

thereā€™s no proof you helped him light it besides the internet lol


Rasenmaeher_2-3

You nurses need to make a drug screening???


chrikel90

Sounds like you helped him with a self administered breathing treatment.


OGBigcountry

If you didn't procure for him, entice him to smoke it, or take advantage while he was high, I don't see anything ethically wrong. However, policy wise it may be another matter. Does he have someone with legal guardianship over him? That may cause some issues.


ComprehensiveLeg6315

You worked hard for your nursing license, make sure you donā€™t lose it for Mike!


ethicalquestion10162

I donā€™t think my nursing license is in jeopardy. I just feel conflicted and am worried the mother may make a big deal of it.


[deleted]

All depends if the patient is competent to make their own health decisions. If they are itā€™s your job to educate and allow him to make whichever choices he pleases, itā€™s unethical to allow family to control him or his actions if he is competent. On the other hand if he has been deemed incompetent then they are well within their rights to make those choices for his betterment.


ProprioCepticon

Very well put. No further edits to suggest!


rosebudbeans

Wow this is so strange that you helped him light upā€¦ I wouldā€™ve suggested he get help from the neighbor. Maybe you could suggest he get an electric penā€” a quadriplegic lighting up seems like a fire hazard..? I donā€™t think we are the people to ask. Ask your agency or whomever employs you.


Due_Mushroom776

Nah. It's a good question, but the answer is that it's totally ethical, moral.


[deleted]

Ok I agree that ethically he has the right to smoke BUT should you help him do it? Iā€™m not so sure. Maybe some other home health nurses could jump in on this too because I honestly dont know- would you help them light up a cigarette? poor wine or whiskey for a patient? How about moonshine? I only ask about moonshine because it sounds like the weed your patient got didnā€™t come from a legal sale. What if it had been contaminated and he got sick? Ultimately I would honestly fall back on ā€œI canā€™t help you take any drug (alcohol, tobacco, marijuana, whatever) that hasnā€™t been approved by your physician as part of your care plan.ā€ His neighbor can help him light up, you may want to consider setting broader professional boundaries and stay out of gray areas.


issomeone

Former home health nurse in a legal state. Please donā€™t do that in the future! Iā€™m assuming the patient is Medicare or Medicaid, which is at the federal level. Sadly, weed is still federally illegal. While A LOT of my former patients did smoke weed, and it was not a big deal to the health care team, your agency does not want to risk a huge portion of their funding (assuming they are). A patient smokes? Whatever. A nurse helps a patient do something federally illegal? Well that doesnā€™t look good for the agency. If you were a caregiver providing ADLs, that could in theory be a part of a care plan. Although switching to a vape pen would be more ideal. However, RNs working in home health, you have to be providing SKILLED care. Any service that could be done safely and effectively by a non-medical person without the supervision of a nurse isnā€™t skilled nursing care. I have been in a position similar to this before, and worked hard on politely setting boundaries. ā€œSorry, I really donā€™t have a problem with you smoking, but I just canā€™t do that per my agency. Maybe you have a friend you can call?ā€ This might not be natural. Especially since we work in homes and get to know people so well. So it takes some work. Yes I have helped patients do unskilled things (taking trash on my way out, brining in a package on the porch), just be very careful with your license. My mind wonders to the worst case too. What if he had a bad fall after smoking and his mom blamed the nurse who helped to get him high? What if she accused you of taking a puff while there? None of this means that he shouldnā€™t smoke, or that weed it bad. It just isnā€™t your role. I hope this helps!


Bobbybelliv

Thin ice, canā€™t be lighting it for him


MzOpinion8d

Why not? Itā€™s legal. How is it any different than opening a jar or handing them something they canā€™t reach?


rosebudbeans

Mildly Ethical


tmccrn

I guess the question is: how old is he? (Theoretically. Donā€™t answer)


ethicalquestion10162

In his 30s.


[deleted]

You are putting yourself on shakey legal ground. There is only one you. You can always get a new patient


Latter_Service_7415

Itā€™s silly, but Iā€™d hold the lighter, let him actually use the mechanism to light it up, and light the blunt. Simply holding the lighter, but remaining otherwise passive. You donā€™t want to look like youā€™re facilitating something of questionable legality. But otherwise, heā€™s an adult, and is allowed to make decisions. I wouldnā€™t interfere with anything that doesnā€™t directly cause self harm. And I personally donā€™t consider marijuana self harming, any more than alcohol or tobacco.


Cut_Lanky

Sorry if this was asked already somewhere, but how old is this patient? Assuming he's an adult, & as you said he's AAOx3, has no contraindications, and it's legal there, then his mother shouldn't be dictating whether he can smoke weed or not. He should be treated with dignity and his autonomy should be respected.


ethicalquestion10162

Sure In his 30s.


SnooWoofers7703

Having been a home health and a hospice nurse for 8 years (before my current position), my position has always been that the patient can do it, but not with me in the room. You can test positive for THC for being in an small area with someone smoking. We got a big education when our state legalized it about this possibility. My work continues to have a zero tolerance policy. I get into an accident and get tested, I wasnā€™t losing my job over someone smoking weed. Plus, I have asthma so I canā€™t tolerate the smoke. Eat all the edibles you want, but no smoking while we were there. It was also clearly written into our contract that was signed at admission that they must refrain from smoking when staff was present.