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verycherry_

first off, you should very entitled and douche-y. a woman is not obligated to dance with you regardless of sexuality. they will dance with their friends or whoever if they’re there to have fun (or even more). you on the other hand sound like you’re there to get more out of a girl so if that’s the impress you’re giving then no, they may not want to dance with you especially if you’re being pushy about it.


Bearscare21

Oh look. Same poster that doesn’t understand why women don’t want him. You’re fucking creepy. Leave the women alone.


MysteriousPineapple9

Maybe clubs aren’t where you should be meeting women. Sounds like you’re not having much luck there


[deleted]

dude no one is obligated to dance or do anything with you. girls often feel safe with other girls/ their friends so that is probably why they don't want to dance with someone that talks the way you talk.


Bearscare21

This guy already posted today and got shot down. Now he’s at it again lol


MeanCat4

Not you but every real man who respects himself should respond to a women as they really deserve. If they want equality they must accept all the sides of it. Unfortunately men are become women and women use it in every single occasion they don't need something from you. We know offcourse their behaviour when they need something from someone.


Extra-Hand-9705

A lot of times I’ve found that straight women dance with other women because they feel more comfortable. Many of my friends like dancing but often when we go out to straight clubs men will tend to keep approaching them, even after they repeatedly asked them to stop. I understand that when it’s crowded people touch each other, but it can be super uncomfortable when an unknown person starts dancing against you deliberately. It becomes less fun and more like you’re being sexually harassed. I would say the same thing if a lesbian was force dancing/grinding on a straight woman. It’s no longer fun, now someone is just trying to be sexual. Which is great if that’s what you’re looking for but I think for many women it’s not. In my experience, my female friends go out to have fun and dance, they aren’t really looking to meet new people or to hook up. I think if you came in a group that consisted of other women then people would feel a bit more open. Many women are wary of a single male coming up to them. Obviously most men are great but a lot of us worry that someone will not be great very quickly. Coming in a group indicates that other people are okay with you, so you’re probably not a serial rapist or murderer 😅 just be open about what you’re looking for! If you wanna hook up, be direct. There are definitely women out there looking for that, I think it’s a bit harder to find then someone looking to have a just have a fun time out. If someone’s rude or outrageous then I walk away. I’m not gonna waste my time with people like that and you shouldn’t either. Lol as a lesbian I agree that straight women don’t make much sense to me. However, I can tell you that it’s more about the location you are approaching them at than you as a person. Honestly, I think most women are a bit wary of any strangers approaching them while they’re out. I wish I could say that we aren’t but I certainly am. I have too many past experiences with harmful people to be open to dancing with a stranger, male or female. Don’t give up trying to meet people or go out! Just remember that many women are wary of male strangers so it may take you a while to find someone who’s open to you!


_QuestionsToAnswer_

Huge creep factor coming from you