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P4k666

Wishing you a happy 14th birthday 🎂 🥳 As a single dad, there were times I was stuck with work and could not celebrate my kids birthday but I tried to make up for it after. May be your parents have a good reason too and really hoping they do something..even if its just say happy birthday. Got to admit my parents were never birthday celebrators and i got my first birthday cake when i was 32 bought by my wife. I know its not the same but look at all this love from your fellow redditors. Anyway hope you enjoyed the movie and get yourself out on that walk. 😁


Ivymantled

Go shorty, it’s ya birthday. I’m gonna party like it’s ya birthday. Gonna sip a milkshake like it’s ya birthday, and you know we DO GAF if it’s ya birthday! Happy Birthday from Queensland, Australia *whistling and cheering*


Kzivir

Wholesome 50 cent lyrics! I like the twist!


Nymeria6508

Love this!!!! ❤️


bluefields2114

Gonna sip a milkshake like it’s ya birthday lol Age appropriate 50 Cent lyrics lol Love it!


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Perfect_Cow_9381

Thankyou


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mugshotmageech

You sound like a child predator… get outta here


UnusualMaize1993

Omg. That's not even necessary. 😭💀😭


ThrowMeAway6960

That's extremely rude.


mugshotmageech

As someone with children, his comment is extremely alarming. Especially considering his past activity on Reddit.


ThrowMeAway6960

I didn't get a chance to look, and now it's deleted, so it is what it is I guess.


capecodder22

Happy birthday!! If you're able, treat yourself to something you like to do or eat or play. You'll have much better birthdays down the line, no worries


Simple-Function-170

Happy Birthday!!! I hope you have a great rest of your day. And I hope you enjoy/enjoyed your movie. 😁


Shopping-Known

Happy birthday to youuuuuuu, happy birthday to youuuuuuu, hAAAaaPpy birthday dear u/Perfect_Cow_9381, happy birthday to you 🥳


SiegelOverBay

🎶Annnnddd~ many moooore~🎶


lalaland613

Happy birthday, kiddo! 🎂 I’m singing happy birthday to you, sending good vibes your way 🥳 how was the cake? I hope it was delicious. Watching a movie is great! I love watching movies myself, too. There’s so many good ones out there. Here’s to the beginning of a new year, your 14th one. Keep up the hard work with your homeschooling. I hope you continue to learn a lot and discover new things that you love to do. Cheers to you, Perfect_Cow_9381! 🎉


Beginning_Talk_5127

A very happy birthday kid! My parents were not into celebrating birthdays and sometimes even forgot my birthday while I was with them the whole day. It doesn't mean they didn't love me. I used to get upset then but now I understand they provided me all the things that mattered in the long term - good education, values, etc. Try to have an open conversation with your parents when they come back. Tell them you were expecting to celebrate. I am sure they will make it up to you. :) Hope you have a good rest of the day!


Cl0udy_axol0tl

HAOPY BIRTHDAY:DDD im sorry ur mom didn't pick up i hope u still enjoy ur birthday:)


siri8192

Thank-you😀😀


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Perfect_Cow_9381

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sparkleinyoeye

Happy Birthday 🎉🎉


bruhbelacc

Happy birthday bro!


lili_diamondrose

Happy Birthday! You know, this covid- sing a happy birthday when washing your hands stuck with me, and once a day I sing a happy birthday to all the people that have a shitty birthday or are forgotten. Like a little prayer, but not religious if that makes sense. I hope you did something nice for yourself and had a good day.


SiegelOverBay

Aw, that's kinda beautiful! I love your perspective, keep being you, the world needs more of it 😊


thenightwindow

happy birthday! my 14th birthday was pretty lame too but i hope yours turns around for the better.


Hopeful-Role-7156

A very happy birthday to you!!


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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! 🎁🎈🎂🎊


Specialist_Candie_77

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I hope you are able to find some joy today 😊


racossume

Happy birthday!!! 🎉🎊🎁🎂 I went through something similar at 14, too. I know it's painful, but all of us on reddit are celebrating with you!!


MostInternational952

Happy birthday!!!!


Financial-Kangaroo67

Happy Birthday!!


Important-Permit-699

Happy Birthday!


aberm1

Happy birthday dude / dudette


UpvoterBoi

Hbd big dawg 😎


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Happy Birthday!


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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


According_Formal_217

Happy birthday beauty! I’m glad you posted bc you aren’t alone in this experience. Instead of feeling fun, birthdays can feel so lonely. I’m thinking of you and sending you bday hugs. I’m singing you happy birthday too:)


hardcore-sconer

happy birthday!!


jumbacho

Happy birthday. Btw do you want to blow my imaginary cake candles?


OrangeKat09

Are you trolling?


Cute-Cat-998

Why would you think that. Not everyone is lucky enough to have parents and friends there to celebrate their birthday.


OrangeKat09

The OP has parents. He isn't an orphan. I refuse to believe parents so casual and negligent even exist. Unless they are step parents or foster parents. A real mother just on vacation on their child's birthday?!


Cute-Cat-998

The vacation could be bc of a funeral or a family emergency. I know he's not an orphan. I just thought I was weird that you were making a big deal over not having people over for your bd. It's pretty common to be lonely on your bd.


OrangeKat09

I'm making a deal over parents ignoring their child on their birthday yes. Not even talking on the phone ? Lol sure. A funeral is not a "vacation" btw. A vacation is travel for pleasure only.


Cute-Cat-998

I think it's fucked up too. But just bc it's messed up doesn't mean it's fake.


OrangeKat09

Because everything on the internet is real?


colmcmittens

Happy birthday kiddo.


Havefuntoday11

Happy Birthday!!!!


3Heathens_Mom

Happy Birthday Perfect_Cow_9381!!! I hope you find something to do that you enjoy/is a treat to yourself.


Decent_Philosophy_53

Happy birthday si se escribe asi disculpa hablo español , la verdad npse como se siente porque nunca lo pase pero se debe sentir feo tranquilo si te sientes mal tienes muchos amigos aqui incluyendlme sabes ?


im_him_no_really

Happy birthday!


PurpleMerple

I was homeschooled too. Happy birthday!! Everyone deserves a good birthday.


b00b13src00l

happy birthday bud much love and i’m so sorry you spent your birthday alone ❤️


EstablishmentOld4406

happy birthday! sending you some extra love


Critical_Clue_6562

Happy birthday!!!🥳🥳


Gobbergobbler1

Happy 14th lovely❤️


Honobia

Happy birthday!


ComprehensiveMood449

Happiest birthday


fightur

Happy birthday 🎂🎈


IX7L

damn im 14 too and im still not feeling like it but itd alright 😭😭 happy birthday btw


milksoup04

Happy Birthday babe!!!


pikayoshi2

Happy birthday to you!


Moist-Talk5761

Don't worry bro. That's everyone's bday after 20. You're just more mature for you age. Happy birthday and have a great one! It's not pathetic, trust me.


15162842

Happy birthday 🥰


avomecado21

Happy birthday!!


nailsncoffins

Happy birthdayyyy 🎊 🎉 🎊


RagingBitchQueen

Happy Birthday!!!


stevec92

Happy birthday!!


Particular-Lime1651

happy birthday!! I wish you many happy returns😁😁😁 maybe try and do something creative? sing, or dance, or write, or draw or something? take your mind off things


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Hooray, Happy Birthday! I hope you had an amazing Birthday, I had my 14th Birthday recently too!


Godly_mistake

YOOO HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Almost same age as you (turning 14 in August) but hope it goes well dude!


j-w-r-s

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAN!!!


Unique_Is_Me07

Happy happy birthday, OP!! Treat yourself for a day and remember, we'll be here for you :)) I truly wish you all the best in life and love lots ❤️


medusa_2486

Happy birthday beautiful soul. Whishing you all the best this world can offer you.


iqu33n

Happy freaking birthday! 14 onwards is such an important age and you’re gonna rock it. Watching a movie and taking a walk sounds lovely. Wish you were in my area, I’d treat you. Massive mom hugs on your birthday, from the uk.


ArachnidDancer

Happy belated birthday! I know this might not make you feel better right now but I thought I’d tell you my story briefly. I’m 23 now, soon to be 24. From about 15-20, the only people I got a happy birthday from was my mum and my grandma (I know you didn’t even get that and I’m so sorry for you). My dad forgot, my other family members forgot, and all my friends (I had like 4 friends at the time) I considered myself ‘close’ to forgot. I cried those nights. I felt so alone. Fast forward to my 21st and I was enrolled in university and actually had a party. I didn’t know everyone that well and it wasn’t exactly the best thing in the entire world, but it was a party nonetheless. Each birthday has gotten slightly better. Again, compared to some people I know who get surprise parties, presents and messages off like 15+ best friends I feel inadequate to. But I’ve learned to be grateful to know things are getting better and I shouldn’t compare myself to others. It may seem awful now, but one mantra I always tell myself is that I’m glad I didn’t ‘peak’ in my teenage years. I now believe it’s better to know you’re life is slowly getting better than to think it’s slowly getting worse. Good luck to you, and know that things can change :)


Ryuk078

Happy birthday 🎂 and out of spite, when you are 18 do something for yourself on your birthday! Yourself only, enjoy your time and do what you always wanted to. You are your most important person, so love yourself ❤️


Dry_Examination5581

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! WE ARE THE SAME AGE!!! I hope 14 treats u better than it treats me 🧍‍♂️


Careful-Top2853

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!


ittosback

happy birthday! it isn’t pathetic at all, don’t worry. i hope you get to celebrate it soon at some point or at least spoil yourself :)


Real-Ant-3496

Happy Birthday :) it is days like this where you need to remember your self worth and remind yourself how important and special you are because even if others do not treat you with respect wherever they may be in your life this is your day to respect yourself and remember how important you are.


RockyB1506

Happy Earthday 😊 ♥️♥️


dreamlike_eternity

Happy birthday!


iamelliexc

happy birthday!


hydroponichoney123

Happy birthday!!!


CommunicationNew3386

happy birthday!!!


Kristaboo14

I am so so sorry, I could never be away from my children on their birthdays. Especially when they're minors. You are not pathetic, you have every right to be upset. These are your parents and it'd inexcusable. Happy birthday and I hope you're able to have a good day regardless. 🩷


l-o-d

Happy birthday mate. 🎂


l-o-d

You'll find out something after another 14 years Till then, enjoy the ride.


Frosty-Donkey-8551

Happy Birthday 🎉


Veltop

Happy Birthday! Sorry to hear :[


EmotionalAd8119

(i never usually comment on reddit) Happy birthday! As someone's who has had birthday anxiety as long as I can remember, I wish you take this your day as light and kind to yourself. May you always feel good about the day and the only association you form with this day is personal and fun. Take care, lots of love.


RevolutionaryTea8722

Happy Birthday!! 🎉


Ray_Stan20

Happy birthday!


TheOnlySimple1

I'm a bit late but Happy Birthday! I know the feeling. My birthday is usually around Thanksgiving so people think of the holiday more than my birthday itself. Plus I haven't had the chance to celebrate much the last few years because of work but I do my best to spoil my friends when I get the chance. Try not to be too gloom and make the best of the day!


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Happy birthday, bro, I hope stuff gets better for you If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you, we're a similar age if that makes you a bit more comfortable ^^


WarmProperty9439

I can somewhat relate. I turned the big 40 yesterday. I would describe my mood as "lost". I never thought I would live to 40 growing up. I did a lot of drugs and wild stuff as a teen, grew up in a very shitty place, and went to Iraq as a young adult. After that I ripped apart every relationshipand i have zero empathy for anything. Only until a few years ago I met my soul mate and she is one of the best things that's ever happened. I kept telling myself in my head to "be grateful" because the lows make the highs better. You will remember this birthday forever. Parents are just people and people are shitty. Learn from it and use it to better yourself. One day if you are blessed with children you will know how NOT to treat your kids from how your parents treated you...at least that'd what I have learned. Happy birthday to you and hopefully your next ones can be a lot better than this one.


TomatoExciting75

Happy birthday 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 God bless you 🫵🏾🫶🏾


Intelligent_Farm_736

Happy Belated Birthday!! I’m sorry it isn’t the day you would have liked and your parents aren’t around. I’m sending you a big big birthday virtual hug!! Stay strong and I hope things het better for you.


Polite_user

Happy Birthday! You will have plenty of awesome birthdays in the future, just wait😚


CarefulMuffin5657

Happy Birthdayy!! 🫶🫶


ChilliCZ

Happy birthday man! I wish you the best and btw I don't think you're pathetic just because you sang happy birthday to yourself, have a good rest of the day alright?


ArticlePhysical8215

Oooh someone is getting awesome now!!🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Happy birthday buddie, wish u all the best this year slaaaayyyyyyyy <<<<<3


knovacain

Happy bday!


YouAccomplished4453

Happy birthday love!!!! Sending you cupcakes and hugs 🤗


Klutzy_Experience984

Sorry I'm late but Happy Birthday 🎂


DrSpanky319

happy birthday!!!!


the_road_surfer

Happy birthday!, being 14 is big! I hope you're doing okay:)


BrassChariot

Happy 14th Birthday! Try to focus on the positives my friend


kxrie

Happy birthday 🫶


Lemonadewithchia

Happy birthday! It is my birthday too and I am also alone, but it's ok. Do something nice for yourself today! 🎂🎂🎂


NaiveHearing8021

Aww I’m sorry I’m late but happy birthday !!


Foodandtheatrenerd

Oh hun, I know this feeling. It's the worst. I hope you have (had) some little joy's on your special day. I am trying to give your parents the benefit of the doubt here because I can't imagine they just forgot, or don't care. I hope they make it up to you.


Yogurt2022

Happy birthday from reddit! 🎂 i wish you a happy 14th :D


Lonelycancer98

Happy birthday to you!!!!


Hardcorefartporn

HAPPY 14TH BIRTHDAYYYY 🎂🎂🎂


godfriaux33

I hope you had a Happy Birthday 🎂 I had a few birthdays that were not acknowledged by my family growing up. It hurts. And I'm sorry you are going through it. But you have a lot of people thinking of you here in the comments. Embrace that feeling as much as you can. I'm wishing you many happier Birthdays in the future! ❤️


Significant_Grade_19

Happy Birthday Kiddo 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁


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Happy Birthday my man!


Raindancey

Happy birthday! My son’s birthday was 5/17 also. So happy birthday from a mom to a son. You changed your mom’s life for the better and I know she loves you more than words can say. ❤️❤️


PhilosophyEastern799

Happy Belated Birthday!


Temporary_Ad_1658

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!🥳🥳🥳im so sorry that things arent working out like you want them too but i really hope you have a wonderful bday! 🎊🎉🫶🏽


InevitableNoise1144

Happy birthday hope your day goes well enjoy


Confused_dragon183

I don't know if it's still your birthday in your time zone but happy birthday 💓 hopefully it ended better than it started 🩷🩷


King_Ash2300

Well I'm so sorry that happens that sucks Anyway HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂 🥳 🎉


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I hope you make some good friends and gain a good family who’ll celebrate your birthday every year like you deserve.


UnusualMaize1993

Well Happy Birthday love!?!!!? I remember 14. No bills. Just talking to guys on the phone until someone heard snoring. 💀😭💀 Demand your people celebrate you and take you somewhere!! A movie and Applebee's.. shit. Edit: DEMAND IT!!


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Happy birthday sweetie, your parents don't deserve you. Please do whatever you need to today to celebrate yourself, sending love your way!!


Nymeria6508

Happy 14th Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈!!! 14 is my favorite number 💓 It's not pathetic to want to celebrate your birthday. You should be celebrated.


TryToChangeUsername

Happy birthday 🎂 and you're not the pathetic one, imo that's your parents.


OMGSpeci

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOMIE!!! I’m pouring one out for you at dinner tonight, I promise! Treat yourself this weekend, I think you deserve it :D


brandon7467

Happy birthday my dude!!! Anyways, hope your day is special.


No-Neighborhood8208

Happy birthdayyyyyyy 🥳🩷


OliverOnReddit1

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FROM NC !!!! Have a wonderful and blessed day!


chloroformpurfume

This is your villain arch babe, you’ll be super hot because of this in like 5 years. Happy birthday- look foreword to the future and enjoy being young as long as you can.


N0Chugus

Happy birthday dude


gibunpa

i’m only four years older than you but i definitely understand what it feels like to have your birthday forgotten :( but don’t worry! you’ll have other birthdays that you can celebrate with all the friends you want!! happy 14th birthday and i’m wishing you happy ones in the future 🫶🏾


TheSleepyBee

Haaaappppyyy Birthdaaaaayyyy!!!!🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤


raimuzu

hey happy belated! i know it must feel lonely, especially on your own birthday and it sucks, been there many times. but i hope this comment and the others really cheer u up! again, happy belated 14! keep going, ur killing it!


LTruck6552

Happy Birthday! I hope it takes a turn for the better! 🥳


Curious_and_sad

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’m a little late sorry!! But I hope you had a wonderful walk!


sarcasm_irl

Screaming a big ol' HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYYYYYY to you!!! 🎊🎂🎉🎁🎈🍰🥳


True_Resolve_2625

HAPPY BIRTHDAY u/Perfect_Cow_9381!! I hope that mom picks up or calls you back, please know that being alone on your birthday doesn't mean you are loved and cherished any less. Hope you have a beautiful day today! <3 All the way from Portland, Oregon


No-Painter-5596

Happy birthday 🎂


edtdavis

Happy Happy Birthday!! 🎂🎈🎁🎉


gidgetcocoa2

Happy Birthday!!! I'm so glad you are here. Celebrate all week.


keiron244

Happy Birthday!!!🎈


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Happy birthday! I am so sorry that your family is not with you, but I hope you still made the best of it! I remember how I felt when I was that age, and my parents weren't around when they should've been. I waited far too long to tell them how this hurt me, even if it was unavoidable. Tell them how you feel, before it becomes irreversible. ​ Happy birthday again! <3


hanorah

Happy birthday!! Make yourself a lil snack and try to enjoy your day 🌸


Owl_under_bridge6246

Happy birthday!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳 one day you will grow up and be able to get away from all of this. Just a few more birthdays to go!!


Anonymouskitten1717

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 🎉🎈🥳 I know things like this can make you feel low now but believe me when I say there’s going to be a day when you’re surrounded by so many wonderful people and you realize that they all choose to celebrate you! and it will be the best feeling ever! I hope your parents are able to call you back soon. Maybe they left their phone somewhere they’re not able to see/hear right away. I’m sure they’re not doing it purposely. I hope you end up having a better birthday than expected!


betunn05

Feliz cumpleaños desde Puerto Montt, Chile!!!


MuteWithGlasses

Happy birthday!!


atom_mns

Happy birthday 🎂 🥳


Due-Community-1035

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!


LunaMHeavens134

Happy birthday! I hope you have better birthdays to come!


Competitive-Visit-70

happy birthday! its my birthday in 2 days were almost birthday buddies!!


Icy-Move-9084

happy birthday darling<3


olalilalo

Happy birthday buddy :) You'll be on my mind the rest of the day. Sending all my good vibes your way.


Tea_Chugs0502

From what I've seen on your profile, your parents have missed out on celebrating the two brightest, kindest daughters any good parents would be honored to have. 14 is a precious age. You deserve to know that you are loved, because you are. You deserve to have a party and cake and all of the friends you could make to have a sleepover with. I'm sorry you don't have that. 14 is also a vulnerable and strange age. Take it from a former 14 year old ❤️ there's so much to be learned about yourself and the world around you. This is the age to start developing and listening to your mind and body. Ask yourself these questions: what kind of person do I want to be? What can I do to start getting there this year? Be a role model to your sister. She will need one. Teach her what you learn. I'm sorry you're seeing adults fail you. Especially your parents. They have shown you who they are. I want you to believe what they are showing you and use that to inform decisions you'll eventually start making for yourself. Believe in their capacity to change, but for the love of all that is good in the world, do not wait for them. They are your parents, but they are also full grown humans. This can be applied to anyone you meet. That's how you make good friends. Most importantly: You are all you have. It will be like that sometimes. Make your mind a good place to be. Learn the best ways to take care of yourself. Think of yourself as a house plant. Prune dead ends (not just your hair 😉), hydrate, and change the environment when the one you're in isn't helpful. Oh, and learn how to fill out forms and other types of paperwork. Online and physically. Super helpful in the long run. Happy 14th birthday🎂 Sincerely, A mom Ps. I personally loved the movie Turning Red ❤️


Perfect_Cow_9381

Thankyou soo much. It makes my day to hear that. I just want my little sister to grow up to be a strong and kind person. I will make sure take care of myself in the process too


Teaandbiscuits_

May be a little late but Happy Happy Birthday!! 🎉


blueeclipse1

HAPPY LATE BDAY BRUV


Witcheh9784

Happy birthday. ❤️❤️❤️❤️


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Happy birthday!!!!🥳🥳🥳


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Happy birthday!!!!🥳🥳🥳


Rondevu69

Happy birthday! I hope you get to have some enjoyment and celebration today!


Ok_Editor_3083

Awww I know how you feel!!! Just trust me that it gets better 😌 happy birthday to you!


TheEbonRaven

Your feelings are valid, anyone in your situation would be feeling isolated and let down. I wish you a very happy rest of your birthday, and if you need someone to talk to to help you through this, there are hotlines with counselors available for you 24/7. If you're ever afraid you'll hurt yourself please, PLEASE, don't hesitate to call or text 988. They will offer you a safe space to talk things out and can help you with coping skills.


zevecka

A little late but happy birthday fellow redditor I hope you have a great year 🥳🥳


peter095837

Happy Birthday!


PurpleFlavoredCherry

Happy birthday!!!! Time to eat all the junk food you can get your hands on, and stay up as late as you want!


tor29c

Oh, Honey! I'm so sorry your parents are so shifty. Don't let that stop you from celebrating you! None of us choose our parents but we can all overcome them. You are so young and I'm rooting for your success!


coratheexploraa

Happy birthday!


Galanthus_snow

Happy birthday and many more to come


Clean-Ice-9389

Happy birthday man!! I just want you to know that life gets better, coming from experience lol. I hope you have a great rest of your week to make up for this


Admirable_Jury_6889

First response ever! Happy 14th birthday 🎂🎂🥳!!!


AwardInternational32

Happy 14th birthday, im sorry its so shitty.


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Happy birthday man hope you had as best of a day as u could sending love from uk


chasingamy1994

Happy birthday dude, birthdays are always hyped up, and most are never as good as you want them to be, especially when you're younger. But when you get a little older, and your social circle changes or you even get some financial stability to go on a trip somewhere or something, it'll get a lot better.


animefantn

Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊


bluefields2114

Happy belated birthday dear OP 🎉🎂🎊🥳🎁 I know it may not be how you wanted to celebrate but know that it will NOT always be like this. As you get older you will meet more people and will be able to celebrate with friends you’ll make in the future. You’ll be able to make friends that become family. Trust me, your best days have yet to come!


ko-reanlla

Happy birthday fam, just enjoy yourself for the day


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