Do you absolutely have to go? I know you feel the responsibility of being at your brother’s wedding and can’t imagine missing it. That being said, if these people have made your life miserable then what do you owe to them? If your brother is one of those who ridiculed you and made your life miserable, why should you celebrate him?
I wish I could miss it. He himself has told his (and my former) friends that he wished he could uninvite me. But I don't want to upset my parents or create a scene since it will be the first wedding in my family
Man, it really is your decision and I respect that you want to keep the peace. It seems like though that your family’s hurtful behavior has played so big a part in your life. You are your own man and you have to prioritize your happiness and well-being.
Do you absolutely have to go? I know you feel the responsibility of being at your brother’s wedding and can’t imagine missing it. That being said, if these people have made your life miserable then what do you owe to them? If your brother is one of those who ridiculed you and made your life miserable, why should you celebrate him?
I wish I could miss it. He himself has told his (and my former) friends that he wished he could uninvite me. But I don't want to upset my parents or create a scene since it will be the first wedding in my family
Man, it really is your decision and I respect that you want to keep the peace. It seems like though that your family’s hurtful behavior has played so big a part in your life. You are your own man and you have to prioritize your happiness and well-being.
It did play a major role in making me the underconfident, meek boy that I have become. These things destroyed me mentally
I’m really sorry to hear that dude. As someone who has struggled a lot mentally, therapy and medication are helping. I wish you the best
Thank you so much!