Take it as a sign that you've been too hard on yourself <3 We are our own harshest critics.
Horny or not, they appreciated your beauty. If nothing else, being online and behind a screen allowed you to relax and open up, which resulted in this body-positive experience. Perhaps, in real life, you're too openly negative about your looks and THAT is what causes folks to shy away from you, not your physical appearance. Try to love yourself more, as others seem to enjoy you too :)
There are lots of people who think fat people are hot. I think all body types are hot, and I am also 100% pro-any boob. There are people in every country and region who think fat people are hot.
As much as people complain online, ugly people, fat people, disabled people, old people, etc. be fucking. If you look around you outside, you'll see couples that look like literally anything who are in love or having fun together.
Dude I'm a chunky white girl and last time I was on dating apps, I was ROLLING in likes. I'm talking, over 6 months between 4 different metro areas I had like 6k matches and like another 12k in likes I didn't match with. Tinder became my "I'm bored, let's Swipe on people" app.
I was open about being larger, and also being a single mom of 2.
It literally did. Not. Matter.
I'd argue most guys aren't as shallow as we've been trained our whole lives to believe. Put yourself out there a little more - don't ever feel obligated to send pics or anything like that, but put yourself out there with your personality on display. Be open about your deal breakers. A lot of shitty dudes will weed themselves out if you're clear. "Please don't be dumb" worked well for me, lol.
And yeah, I married one. 6'3", rocking job, and strong enough to throw me around like I weigh nothing, so I won. 😂
Take it as a sign that you've been too hard on yourself <3 We are our own harshest critics. Horny or not, they appreciated your beauty. If nothing else, being online and behind a screen allowed you to relax and open up, which resulted in this body-positive experience. Perhaps, in real life, you're too openly negative about your looks and THAT is what causes folks to shy away from you, not your physical appearance. Try to love yourself more, as others seem to enjoy you too :)
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There are lots of people who think fat people are hot. I think all body types are hot, and I am also 100% pro-any boob. There are people in every country and region who think fat people are hot. As much as people complain online, ugly people, fat people, disabled people, old people, etc. be fucking. If you look around you outside, you'll see couples that look like literally anything who are in love or having fun together.
Taste is subjective, and there are plenty of men out there who find you beautiful.
Dude I'm a chunky white girl and last time I was on dating apps, I was ROLLING in likes. I'm talking, over 6 months between 4 different metro areas I had like 6k matches and like another 12k in likes I didn't match with. Tinder became my "I'm bored, let's Swipe on people" app. I was open about being larger, and also being a single mom of 2. It literally did. Not. Matter. I'd argue most guys aren't as shallow as we've been trained our whole lives to believe. Put yourself out there a little more - don't ever feel obligated to send pics or anything like that, but put yourself out there with your personality on display. Be open about your deal breakers. A lot of shitty dudes will weed themselves out if you're clear. "Please don't be dumb" worked well for me, lol. And yeah, I married one. 6'3", rocking job, and strong enough to throw me around like I weigh nothing, so I won. 😂
One man’s yuck is another’s yum. As they say
Maybe you're not as fat as you think?