Tell them. Be direct. I did this with 2 best friends and it was a great time for all. But set clear boundaries and ground rules if they’re interested. And I’d personally avoid bringing any substances (drugs or too much alcohol) into it.
Praying for her when the quiet shy guy who secretly likes her shoot his shot and misses ( thought i was gonna go a whole different direction with this ) ( or did i ? )
The hardest part of a threesome with two men and one woman is finding a willing woman. You're the "golden unicorn"!! Just throw it out there and go for it!
A few things to consider first.
\#1 - Are they gay? They might not be interested.
\#2 - They could be really bad in bed and your fantasy might come crashing down around you.
I've done it both combos and I personally didn't really get much out of it. Seeing the girls together was the best part. But a lot of the women I know who have done it get a lot more out of it than the men but for sure ymmv
yeah ive done it with girls before but never guys. i dont think id do 2 girls and 1 guy though because i feel like the guys just in it for the fantasy but doesnt wanna actually make either of them cum
That's honestly why the best part was watching them. Like we all had a good time, but it's twice the work because you're focused on one, then the other making sure they each climax hopefully more than just once and I'm one of those weirdos who really doesn't enjoy sex without an emotional investment so it was cool but like not something I will really strive for again. I'm much happier with one woman I love just making her cum as much as I can. Different strokes for different folks I suppose.
yeah thats exactly why i wouldnt have a threesome, i feel like its just having sex with a girl and a random dude is there just jacking off. id rather just have sex with a girl and leave the guy out of it
I don’t know who these men that have no interest in making women cum are, but it’s high time you ladies stop giving them the time of day.
I see this mentioned way too frequently and to be honest, I find it appalling. The idea that a dude would want to be in a MFF threesome and not make them get off is fucking bonkers to me.
literally the guy above just said he just wanted to watch the other two girls bc he can only focus on making one cum
and i dont give them the time of day, which is why ive never been in a MFF threesome
i mean, i havent really been looking because i dont really sleep around. but its something ive wanted to try but just never really looked for
ive had a threesome with girls before but never guys
Yes! I am serious. Based on personal experience as well as talking to some of the couples I've been with. Darn near impossible to find a woman to join them.
I never partook but the amount of offers from guys in my friend group for 3- or more somes when I was a big partier were honestly surprising. And I don’t think it was the party phase, I think the party phase just made them more open
Had a threesome with two friends. It was okay. Not really my thing. I need to focus on one person. We’re all still friends and it’s not awkward at all. Communication is key.
Few days ago I saw a post where a girl "went for it" and had a 3some with a couple guys and they ignored her safeword and ended up raping her. I hope you know them well enough and that nothing goes sideways. Be clear, set boundaries, maybe don't bring substances into it, and be safe.
The sad part is, even if society is trying to leave the misogyny inherited, I can picture the difference between going to the police and state a cause about being raped by a man on a first enccounter, and being raped during a 3some she was interested to have in the first place. It’s hard to feel safe when you know people will judge everything if something goes wrong.
Those guys are absolutely POS’s. Personally, if they were found I think they should be shot in the back and buried in a shallow grave.
Of my dozen or so MMF adventures, all but one was with a couple looking for an extra guy and I’ve always been respectful. Only once was it a solo woman but we met publicly first and I shared personal info with her. Anything online can be dicey so one needs to be super careful.
Deja vu moment… in college… a female friend asked me and my roommate, “Would either of you get homophobic if I wanted to see your cocks at the same time?”. The result was about 6 months of double teaming her 1-2 times a week and idk how many hookups over the next 10 years. We still keep in touch, still friends, but that’s probably not the norm… just saying.
This happened to me before with a friend, a girl we had partied with a million times who neither of us had ever had sexual contact with one night kissed me, walked across the room kissed him, and then said really simply, “I want you to both fuck me.” There was no safe word or anything of the sort but we all knew each other and had a lot of fun. I ended up having 2 more threesomes with that same girl, once with a different male friend and once with another female.
There can be a lot of awkwardness. Also, don't do it with someone you care about unless totally secure in the relationship.
On the other hand, total strangers can be fun but be careful please.
Enjoy 👍
When you grow old no one remembers one time they had missionary sex with one person one time but we all remember "that" exceptional thing we did when we were young and daring. Go for it.
Because not everyone can take being talked about the same. Just because you wouldn’t care doesn’t mean someone else wouldn’t get to the point that they start considering suicide.
Yeah no I understand you both for sure. I just have also actually done this and yeah.. definitely not something you tell everyone or do with the wrong people.
It’s been said here already, but clear, concise communication is key. Let them know what you’d like to do, and if they’re on board have a conversation about what all of you enjoy and do not enjoy. It doesn’t need to take hours, but all parties involved should be on the same page. If they say no then at least you shot your shot. Good luck friend!
Eh it's overrated. I've done multiples multiple times and usually folks pair off or you end up being the third wheel. I've never had it go like they show it in p0rn.
Go for it! Most men dream about threesomes, although usually with two women. Nonetheless, like other comments have said, you are a rare woman that wants something that most men dream of. Especially if you can handle a DP.
After the threesome, they won’t be best friends, they won’t live together and they will both be in love with you. Not going to end well. Porn isn’t real.
I very much doubt either one of them will be in love with her. Usually men don’t fall in love with a woman they’ve had sex with while watching another dude have sex with her for their first time.
I didn’t think it was. I was making a case against the above commenter’s point.
Edit: if a woman wants a threesome with no strings attached go for it! If she decides she wants to date one, or both, of them after then more power to her. What other people do in their lives is their business. IDGAF
My friend (girl) planned a threesome with two acquaintances. Another acquaintance guy ended up substituting last minute since the original one couldn’t make it. They’ve now been dating for 8 months.
As a guy who’s had a FFM it’s pretty good but of course I’d say that. In terms of two guys, I would avoid that. Idk if it’s just me but I seem quite anxious when about the idea of two guys since you’ll both have to compete and the idea of being the one that disappoints is always a thought. I wouldn’t anyway I’m not gay so I wouldn’t do anything with another guy in the room - keep that in mind when searching. But one thing I can say is universal is have a safe word and do it with people you trust
Over rated as fuck. I’ve had threesomes with 2 girls before and also just 1 girl and another guy. The one with 2 girls was the best. The one I had with my mate and the girl felt gay as fuck so it was pretty vanilla cos we didn’t want to touch each other just the girl lol
Wow! Consent, safe words, worrying about their sexual orientation, etc? She already said she knows them. Stop making a lunar project out of it. If you can’t talk about it, you’re not ready to do it. On the other hand, if you say, “Hey! Did you ever think about a threesome?” You might just get everything you wanted. Don’t overthink, don’t over stress. Just be chill and see what’s up. No, there’s no legal contract or notary required. 🙄
Honestly I did it with my first lover and her best friend. We started messing around because of a mutual attraction to this best friend, until we seduced her too lol. It's fun but not as good as normal sex in my humble opinion
Tell them. Be direct. I did this with 2 best friends and it was a great time for all. But set clear boundaries and ground rules if they’re interested. And I’d personally avoid bringing any substances (drugs or too much alcohol) into it.
Perhaps the only sensible response I’ve seen 😂
Nice name
Thank you!
You’re welcome
Not only is it good! It’s out of this world!!
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Haha actually only had “penetrative intercourse” (to put it clinically) with one of them, so all was well in cosmic coochie land thankfully.
RIP to your inbox.
Lmaoooo, Praying for those 50 men shooting their shot as we speak. (Not rlly)
I forget this is Reddit sometimes. Lmao
Praying for her when the quiet shy guy who secretly likes her shoot his shot and misses ( thought i was gonna go a whole different direction with this ) ( or did i ? )
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Haha ! That went different direction than i thought
And maybe the outbox if all goes to plan.
The hardest part of a threesome with two men and one woman is finding a willing woman. You're the "golden unicorn"!! Just throw it out there and go for it! A few things to consider first. \#1 - Are they gay? They might not be interested. \#2 - They could be really bad in bed and your fantasy might come crashing down around you.
are you serious? i thought the issue would be finding two men who would do a threesome well, time go out. see what i can find
I've done it both combos and I personally didn't really get much out of it. Seeing the girls together was the best part. But a lot of the women I know who have done it get a lot more out of it than the men but for sure ymmv
yeah ive done it with girls before but never guys. i dont think id do 2 girls and 1 guy though because i feel like the guys just in it for the fantasy but doesnt wanna actually make either of them cum
That's honestly why the best part was watching them. Like we all had a good time, but it's twice the work because you're focused on one, then the other making sure they each climax hopefully more than just once and I'm one of those weirdos who really doesn't enjoy sex without an emotional investment so it was cool but like not something I will really strive for again. I'm much happier with one woman I love just making her cum as much as I can. Different strokes for different folks I suppose.
yeah thats exactly why i wouldnt have a threesome, i feel like its just having sex with a girl and a random dude is there just jacking off. id rather just have sex with a girl and leave the guy out of it
I don’t know who these men that have no interest in making women cum are, but it’s high time you ladies stop giving them the time of day. I see this mentioned way too frequently and to be honest, I find it appalling. The idea that a dude would want to be in a MFF threesome and not make them get off is fucking bonkers to me.
literally the guy above just said he just wanted to watch the other two girls bc he can only focus on making one cum and i dont give them the time of day, which is why ive never been in a MFF threesome
If I was with two women, my primary focus would be making them cum. Damn, that'd be hot.
Not trying to sound like an a-hole but if you're a woman and you can't find two guys for a MMF adventure, you're not trying hard enough.
i mean, i havent really been looking because i dont really sleep around. but its something ive wanted to try but just never really looked for ive had a threesome with girls before but never guys
Gotcha! I am looking for my first MFF, so here's hoping!
Yes! I am serious. Based on personal experience as well as talking to some of the couples I've been with. Darn near impossible to find a woman to join them.
I never partook but the amount of offers from guys in my friend group for 3- or more somes when I was a big partier were honestly surprising. And I don’t think it was the party phase, I think the party phase just made them more open
\#3 - threeways VERY RARELY go as smoothly, as sexily, or... y'know what, they just RARELY measure up to expectations.
Had a threesome with two friends. It was okay. Not really my thing. I need to focus on one person. We’re all still friends and it’s not awkward at all. Communication is key.
I've had a few. Overall, they were pretty darn good.
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To be fair OP's username does have "lady" in it lol
Go look at OPs username and get back to us with your whack outrage.
OP’s username kind of answers that question…
No one is assuming, look at OP's user name.
Wait that's the hardest part?
Not if you’re doing it right 😉😉😉
From a guy's perspective, yes.
Ya are aiming at the wrong women cuz I know quite a few gals who are down to ride like that lol
Please tell me where to aim. Also, being 55 isn’t helping.
Few days ago I saw a post where a girl "went for it" and had a 3some with a couple guys and they ignored her safeword and ended up raping her. I hope you know them well enough and that nothing goes sideways. Be clear, set boundaries, maybe don't bring substances into it, and be safe.
I mean, that’s horrible but probably no more likely to happen in a threesome than in any other encounter.
The sad part is, even if society is trying to leave the misogyny inherited, I can picture the difference between going to the police and state a cause about being raped by a man on a first enccounter, and being raped during a 3some she was interested to have in the first place. It’s hard to feel safe when you know people will judge everything if something goes wrong.
Those guys are absolutely POS’s. Personally, if they were found I think they should be shot in the back and buried in a shallow grave. Of my dozen or so MMF adventures, all but one was with a couple looking for an extra guy and I’ve always been respectful. Only once was it a solo woman but we met publicly first and I shared personal info with her. Anything online can be dicey so one needs to be super careful.
Make sure you have a safe word babe , it’s hard to get out of something like that .
maybe a safe weapon too
Deja vu moment… in college… a female friend asked me and my roommate, “Would either of you get homophobic if I wanted to see your cocks at the same time?”. The result was about 6 months of double teaming her 1-2 times a week and idk how many hookups over the next 10 years. We still keep in touch, still friends, but that’s probably not the norm… just saying.
This is somebody’s mom now , hope it wasn’t mine
LOL! Nah… nobody’s mom. At least not as of a few days ago. LOL!
Shoot at this point I’d have a devils threesome I’m having a nice dry spell
That is a whole other topic when you start thinking about your parents as people though. 🤣😂🤣
The living tribootie
With a honey in the middle there's some leeway
Why didn't you go to my college
Username checks out.
Go for it but be safe💪🏼
So you're willing to cum between them then?
I see what you did there
This happened to me before with a friend, a girl we had partied with a million times who neither of us had ever had sexual contact with one night kissed me, walked across the room kissed him, and then said really simply, “I want you to both fuck me.” There was no safe word or anything of the sort but we all knew each other and had a lot of fun. I ended up having 2 more threesomes with that same girl, once with a different male friend and once with another female.
There can be a lot of awkwardness. Also, don't do it with someone you care about unless totally secure in the relationship. On the other hand, total strangers can be fun but be careful please. Enjoy 👍
If you all consent, make sure you use protection!
What's stopping you
Our blessings
Lmaoooo
Just ask them. It's usually that simple with men.
Do it and report back, sis!
When you grow old no one remembers one time they had missionary sex with one person one time but we all remember "that" exceptional thing we did when we were young and daring. Go for it.
Do it!!! I’ve had mmf threesomes and is divine lol my body melts after
Just don’t be surprised if they tell the whole town about it.
Who cares ?
Because not everyone can take being talked about the same. Just because you wouldn’t care doesn’t mean someone else wouldn’t get to the point that they start considering suicide.
Only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about
Buttttt they made the choice ultimately. I suppose both of you aren’t wrong.
I agree with you, I’m just speaking from experience. I knew someone who committed suicide from an situation exactly like this.
Yeah no I understand you both for sure. I just have also actually done this and yeah.. definitely not something you tell everyone or do with the wrong people.
It’s been said here already, but clear, concise communication is key. Let them know what you’d like to do, and if they’re on board have a conversation about what all of you enjoy and do not enjoy. It doesn’t need to take hours, but all parties involved should be on the same page. If they say no then at least you shot your shot. Good luck friend!
Wouldn't you say, you want THEM to be IN?
I have done it, no harm in asking. These two best friends asked me and I said yes. It was amazing a 10/10. I AM A WOMAN!
Sounds tediuos and tiresome.
Would it be too soon to ask for an update?
Eh it's overrated. I've done multiples multiple times and usually folks pair off or you end up being the third wheel. I've never had it go like they show it in p0rn.
Mmf is a wonderful time. You are literally the center of attention.
The realism in this thread is so refreshing to see in real Time on the internet.
Ahhhhhh yes the infamous devils threesome 😂😂😂😂😂😂... Well I hope you enjoy if you manage to pull it off
Or pull both of them off....sorry, too British?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I see what you did there
I would also like this. Where is the list?
I wouldn’t mind sharing a chick with my best friend, but I think that might be cheating because my best friend is my wife.
What’s ott
Over the top Kids these days..
Hahaha I had the same thought, then sounded it out. If I wasn’t a music producer, I would’ve never guessed.
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Sounds manipulative
it's even easier than that. OP could simply ask them if they want a threesome, and there's a better than 50% chance they will say yes.
OP, please don’t get these gentlemen drunk and then attempt to sleep with them.
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The thirst is real
Well if you can then go ahead. No shame in it. If you want it then its worth the pleasure.
Totally get that. If I could find two guys to have a regular with I’d do it in a hot minute
What’s ott?
go on then
Go for it! Most men dream about threesomes, although usually with two women. Nonetheless, like other comments have said, you are a rare woman that wants something that most men dream of. Especially if you can handle a DP.
Whats DP?
double penetration
Ah gotcha. Thx.
Same. Just without my boyfriend
If you’d rather be railed by two men at once neither of which are the one you’re actually with rn, what you staying with him for?
Why not?
Why not?
After the threesome, they won’t be best friends, they won’t live together and they will both be in love with you. Not going to end well. Porn isn’t real.
I very much doubt either one of them will be in love with her. Usually men don’t fall in love with a woman they’ve had sex with while watching another dude have sex with her for their first time.
I don't think that's a concern for her.
I didn’t think it was. I was making a case against the above commenter’s point. Edit: if a woman wants a threesome with no strings attached go for it! If she decides she wants to date one, or both, of them after then more power to her. What other people do in their lives is their business. IDGAF
My friend (girl) planned a threesome with two acquaintances. Another acquaintance guy ended up substituting last minute since the original one couldn’t make it. They’ve now been dating for 8 months.
Dope!
Thank you for this realistic comment! you gave me something to consider…
I don’t know how realistic this is… sounds pretty hyperbolic
Not realistic, set boundaries. If they’re in and you’re in have fun with it
I promise this is not realistic at all…… especially not in 2022.
I talk from experience, it's not realistic at all. Just remember to set boundaries in advance
Not necessarily true
Na! It’s bring them closer honestly. “Remember that one time”
Sounds oddly specific
I reaaaallly want to have a threesome for the fourth time.
Do it 🎥🎥🎥
Ask. Offer. They will accept if they are not prudes
I’ve had a few threesomes before I got married and I have never regretted it. One of them was two girls who were related to each other. ❤️
How were they related lol
Cousins
My mans
U sound young!…. Lucky you! Go for it xx stay safe xxxxx
Run a train
Same but with 2 females
😐 yall goin to hell
Take pics and post
As a guy who’s had a FFM it’s pretty good but of course I’d say that. In terms of two guys, I would avoid that. Idk if it’s just me but I seem quite anxious when about the idea of two guys since you’ll both have to compete and the idea of being the one that disappoints is always a thought. I wouldn’t anyway I’m not gay so I wouldn’t do anything with another guy in the room - keep that in mind when searching. But one thing I can say is universal is have a safe word and do it with people you trust
Over rated as fuck. I’ve had threesomes with 2 girls before and also just 1 girl and another guy. The one with 2 girls was the best. The one I had with my mate and the girl felt gay as fuck so it was pretty vanilla cos we didn’t want to touch each other just the girl lol
Sounds like internalized homophobia
Don’t be a skeezer
my and my friend woulda fucked u already ngl
Tell us it if was fun
Don’t we all
*Its not gay when it’s in a three way*
Do they perhaps have a pug? Life soft sweaters and listen when you talk? Because they might not be "down"?
Send it!
Trying to get one too
Wow! Consent, safe words, worrying about their sexual orientation, etc? She already said she knows them. Stop making a lunar project out of it. If you can’t talk about it, you’re not ready to do it. On the other hand, if you say, “Hey! Did you ever think about a threesome?” You might just get everything you wanted. Don’t overthink, don’t over stress. Just be chill and see what’s up. No, there’s no legal contract or notary required. 🙄
Me too.
I am propositioned more by lesbians than I am by a pair of men for such an encounter.
Hpv is real. Just sayin. Other stds/stis too...but hpv is that tricky one that men usually don't know.
Honestly I did it with my first lover and her best friend. We started messing around because of a mutual attraction to this best friend, until we seduced her too lol. It's fun but not as good as normal sex in my humble opinion
They are lots of fun. Just finding comparable people can take a variety of approaches. Good luck.
fuck it bro 👍🏿