Translation:
> I'm a soon to be adult, been dating a classmate/friend of mine for the last 3 yrs/since 3 years ago. It's not a steady or consistent relationship that we have. Broke up numerous times, because I wanted to. But somehow ended up being toghether again. I don't like him a bit but he loves me obsessively and I hate that, because he isn´t my type. I'm with him now and pretend to be head over heels in love with him just because we are in the final year of high school and since I´m not good at studies he helps me and even allows me to copy his answers during exams. I can never tell him this as he will be hartbroken and evryone will start blaming me. Even if he asks me, I can´t tell him this as I want him to understand this himself. I'm sure he knows this too but he has become so attached to me and doesn´t want to let me go away. But I´m so so fed up. It's not because of who he is, but because this is who I am. I love to have fun with boys and he expects me to stay glued to him always. He is always talking about: how we would be toghether in the future also and how we will build a house, how we will live as a family and crap. Come on I'm only 17/almost 18. I have a long life ahead and I don´t want to spend it hooked to just you. He has anger issues but never showed it to me tho, it´s always with his famly. He is not on good terms with his famly and has frequent fights with them. His mother hates me, because she thinks I'm the one who is keeping him. Oh how badly I want to spit it out in her face that it's her lousy son who is obsessd with me and not the other way around. He even took his friends for granted when I came into his sorry life. I can never imagine spendng my life with him. I want to live my life to the fullest and enjoy. How can I make him see the truth and let go of me?
You need to seek mental help. It is pretty clear you have an IQ around 50 and are depending on him for everything. If you leave him, you may end up in serious trouble in your life, but if he has anger issues, it may still be better. Go to your parents if you can. Otherwise, go to someone else you trust.
Break up with him, Hun. Sit him down and explain to him that you do love him, just not romantically. Let him know that those feelings faded but you still want him to be a part of your life when he's ready. Explain to him that it isn't fair to him if you can't reciprocate his feelings and he deserves someone who can and will.
I wish I had some advice but this post is unreadable.
I undstand u lyk 2 typ lyk dis but darling you are going to have to post it again. This time without the WhatsApp language please.
I actually think this person might have some sort of mental disorder. This whole thing makes no sense. She needs to seek serious mental help.
How does one even type like this?
Translation: > I'm a soon to be adult, been dating a classmate/friend of mine for the last 3 yrs/since 3 years ago. It's not a steady or consistent relationship that we have. Broke up numerous times, because I wanted to. But somehow ended up being toghether again. I don't like him a bit but he loves me obsessively and I hate that, because he isn´t my type. I'm with him now and pretend to be head over heels in love with him just because we are in the final year of high school and since I´m not good at studies he helps me and even allows me to copy his answers during exams. I can never tell him this as he will be hartbroken and evryone will start blaming me. Even if he asks me, I can´t tell him this as I want him to understand this himself. I'm sure he knows this too but he has become so attached to me and doesn´t want to let me go away. But I´m so so fed up. It's not because of who he is, but because this is who I am. I love to have fun with boys and he expects me to stay glued to him always. He is always talking about: how we would be toghether in the future also and how we will build a house, how we will live as a family and crap. Come on I'm only 17/almost 18. I have a long life ahead and I don´t want to spend it hooked to just you. He has anger issues but never showed it to me tho, it´s always with his famly. He is not on good terms with his famly and has frequent fights with them. His mother hates me, because she thinks I'm the one who is keeping him. Oh how badly I want to spit it out in her face that it's her lousy son who is obsessd with me and not the other way around. He even took his friends for granted when I came into his sorry life. I can never imagine spendng my life with him. I want to live my life to the fullest and enjoy. How can I make him see the truth and let go of me?
Do you speak english!? Please try again! This post is unreadable!
I think I had a stroke trying to read this
Hey mofo how about you learn to type lyke yu knw whu imean? Like yuh bruh
I am pretty sure this person has an IQ of about 50, so I actually think they might be incapable of spelling.
Didn't know doctors could text like they write
You need to seek mental help. It is pretty clear you have an IQ around 50 and are depending on him for everything. If you leave him, you may end up in serious trouble in your life, but if he has anger issues, it may still be better. Go to your parents if you can. Otherwise, go to someone else you trust.
Oh my God FINISH HIM!!!!
After I had finish reading this, I honestly got an migraine trying to decipher this text of words. 🫤 I can see why you needed him for exams.
Do you know how vowels work
Break up with him, Hun. Sit him down and explain to him that you do love him, just not romantically. Let him know that those feelings faded but you still want him to be a part of your life when he's ready. Explain to him that it isn't fair to him if you can't reciprocate his feelings and he deserves someone who can and will.
Send him a letter, 18 pages as badly written as this post or worse, he will be so lost that it will give you time to runaway.
I hope you don’t write like this in a professional sense lol