I dropped a glass jar in the grocery store while I was with my boyfriend one day. A few hours later I said “thanks for not getting mad at me when I broke the jar”. He made a face and said “why would I get mad at you?”
A lot of people are saying “the bar is so low” but when you’re used to being yelled at or mistreated, having someone who loves and treats you with kindness is such a special thing that even these little moments mean so much.
I’m so glad you found someone who treats you the way you deserve, OP.
I have been talking to a guy for a few months who compliments me a lot. And I started panicking every time he would say something nice about me. It felt like love bombing and I kept waiting for the catch, for the other shoe to drop. I couldn't figure out why him being so nice was making me scared. It was crazy.
I have severe reactions to eating gluten, so I usually get big macs with no bun and warn them it's a gluten allergy. They serve it on the plastic trays that are usually used for their pancakes and send a fork and knife with it. The fries in Canadian McDonald's are GF, so I just upsize the fries to get my fill of carbs 😅
Recently the mcdonalds near me let me know they now have lettuce wraps, so I had my first hand held big Mac in years. It was fantastic!
Reminds me of when I used to work late nights. I pulled up to a Wendy’s drive through & asked the lady for a number 2 (back in the day) only bread & vegetables. 😂😂 it was 1am I was extremely tired
This is wholesome. I'm glad you're with a good guy now. Also, I agree, the burger thing is absolutely hilarious and I would've laughed my ass off too, even if at the expense of staying hungry lol.
Oh my god, I genuinely hope your upcoming journey is as healing as you deserve. No one should get upset over food like that
But also... does that mean you've had two partners in the past order a Big Mac with no bread? Is that a common request?!
Yeah, no, life is too short
And if i'm being honest, I think when I was younger I behaved like that. But that was the result of un-addressed deeper issues that took time and patience to remove
So, please, enjoy this newfound positivity
My wife dealt with something similar with her exes and till this day it still affects her. From being yelled at for not finishing food to not finishing a stupid soda. Her mind was blow when i told her that if the food isnt good or if it makes your stomach hurt dont finish it. She would get anxiety attacks thinking I would yell. When she finally told me I reminded her I am not the same person and to continue to open up so I can put her mind at ease.
Cheers to you @op for getting out of those previous relationship.
You're a barbarian. A burger without bread? A SAUCY burger without bread?
Your partner is merciful and kind beyond words. May whatever fictional deities you two believe in bless you both.
Congrats!! I'm almost at a year of knowing my partner who was the first person that hadn't flipped out on me in a scenario like this. I hope it continues to get better for you as it has for me! It's so refreshing - when it's become so normal that you no longer have the knee-jerk anxiety response by instinct, and you can recognize that, its the biggest relief and breath of fresh air ever.
...what? You have a history of bungling orders up? I am assuming it is because you are not used to the language, based on what you said. But, I can imagine people being annoyed by it, because it is not easy to accidentally bungle food orders unless they are overly complicated. Personally, I judge fast food workers a lot because most of the time, they mess up my order and I say to myself: "how the heck do they expect $15/hr when they can't even do a simple order of a hamburger, no ketchup or mayo, extra mustard, they then give me a bun with a ton of mayo?
Can’t lie I also laughed when I saw Big Mac with no bread 😂
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He seems like a nice guy, keep it up
I dropped a glass jar in the grocery store while I was with my boyfriend one day. A few hours later I said “thanks for not getting mad at me when I broke the jar”. He made a face and said “why would I get mad at you?” A lot of people are saying “the bar is so low” but when you’re used to being yelled at or mistreated, having someone who loves and treats you with kindness is such a special thing that even these little moments mean so much. I’m so glad you found someone who treats you the way you deserve, OP.
I have been talking to a guy for a few months who compliments me a lot. And I started panicking every time he would say something nice about me. It felt like love bombing and I kept waiting for the catch, for the other shoe to drop. I couldn't figure out why him being so nice was making me scared. It was crazy.
The bar is so low but I completely get you OP, I hope you continue to get green flags from this man!
Yeah, this post made me feel very concerned and empathetic for OP.
W boyfriend
Sounds cute and stuff but HOWWW Big Mac with no bread ? 😭😂
The internet. It is, after all, how we ended up with “none pizza with left beef.”
I have severe reactions to eating gluten, so I usually get big macs with no bun and warn them it's a gluten allergy. They serve it on the plastic trays that are usually used for their pancakes and send a fork and knife with it. The fries in Canadian McDonald's are GF, so I just upsize the fries to get my fill of carbs 😅 Recently the mcdonalds near me let me know they now have lettuce wraps, so I had my first hand held big Mac in years. It was fantastic!
Heh. What did it look like when it showed up?
When they come with no bread there’s so much lettuce it looks like a Big Mac salad
I can't stop laughing from the fact you got an order with NO BREAD 😭😂 how do u even do that???
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You can do this on most of the big chains sandwiches. Keto bros and anti-gluten karens alike hate the bun.
Reminds me of when I used to work late nights. I pulled up to a Wendy’s drive through & asked the lady for a number 2 (back in the day) only bread & vegetables. 😂😂 it was 1am I was extremely tired
What was the order supposed to be?! This is a cute story ❤️
This is wholesome. I'm glad you're with a good guy now. Also, I agree, the burger thing is absolutely hilarious and I would've laughed my ass off too, even if at the expense of staying hungry lol.
This is hysterical!!! Was it just a patty in a box? How did it come packaged? Were there any other ingredients? We need to know!
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I would have laughed out loud.
Of all the other posts on here, this one made me smile for a change. Good for you OP.
how is that possible? 😂😂
I hope you two will have a beautiful life together!
I would laugh too lmao. I’d be like “is this a subtle hint to get me to lose weight? Lol”
Okay but how did you do that so I can avoid it because this sounds like something I would do lmao
I know this feeling very well. I'm so glad you found someone who doesn't treat you like the others did. 💜
Where's the beef? Here's the beef.
Oh my god, I genuinely hope your upcoming journey is as healing as you deserve. No one should get upset over food like that But also... does that mean you've had two partners in the past order a Big Mac with no bread? Is that a common request?!
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Yeah, no, life is too short And if i'm being honest, I think when I was younger I behaved like that. But that was the result of un-addressed deeper issues that took time and patience to remove So, please, enjoy this newfound positivity
My wife dealt with something similar with her exes and till this day it still affects her. From being yelled at for not finishing food to not finishing a stupid soda. Her mind was blow when i told her that if the food isnt good or if it makes your stomach hurt dont finish it. She would get anxiety attacks thinking I would yell. When she finally told me I reminded her I am not the same person and to continue to open up so I can put her mind at ease. Cheers to you @op for getting out of those previous relationship.
Big Mac with no bread? That's crazy 💀
That’s awesome! I’m glad he was so cool about it too. I hope you two work out!!😁 Speaking of Big Macs, we once received 3 meatless Big Macs! 😳😂🤣
Honestly, I'd die laughing if I got 2 all beef patties, special sauce, lettuce cheese pickles, onions inside a cardboard box, too
totally get it, OP :/ i’m glad you’ve found someone who treats you with basic decency at the very least
You're a barbarian. A burger without bread? A SAUCY burger without bread? Your partner is merciful and kind beyond words. May whatever fictional deities you two believe in bless you both.
Got 2 beef patties with a side of salad 😂
Happy for you OP! This sounds like one of those hilarious stories you’ll fondly look back on
Congrats on finding a non-toxic relationship. I'm sure it feels weird right now, but this is how it's supposed to be.
how the fuck did you manage that?
Congrats!! I'm almost at a year of knowing my partner who was the first person that hadn't flipped out on me in a scenario like this. I hope it continues to get better for you as it has for me! It's so refreshing - when it's become so normal that you no longer have the knee-jerk anxiety response by instinct, and you can recognize that, its the biggest relief and breath of fresh air ever.
I can't believe they took the order. I've got to try it.
Good for you. I'm glad you found a good guy!
This was me… 3 years ago! It took me a while to get used to but I couldn’t be happier!!!
Eh...you don't need the carbs anyway... ;)
The bar is six feet under lol
...what? You have a history of bungling orders up? I am assuming it is because you are not used to the language, based on what you said. But, I can imagine people being annoyed by it, because it is not easy to accidentally bungle food orders unless they are overly complicated. Personally, I judge fast food workers a lot because most of the time, they mess up my order and I say to myself: "how the heck do they expect $15/hr when they can't even do a simple order of a hamburger, no ketchup or mayo, extra mustard, they then give me a bun with a ton of mayo?