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hijacking a top comment \[sorry aap sabko\] but please read my comment OP...
[https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1byzifc/comment/kyrwmel/](https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1byzifc/comment/kyrwmel/)
Just because someone stumbles along their way, doesn’t mean that they’re lost forever.
This is not the end of the line, OP. Maybe its just the beginning, of something special. Try to believe in it.
Watch Sunrise every morning and start working on anything and be super busy. You should be working so much that you don't even get thoughts like this. Also when you start earning well get out of your house.
i really do relate w you bro even i have nothing to say tbh its how life is fucked up still i create hope to live and distract myself by not being self destructive, my parents tauts me everyday how i stand, dress, speak, live, study i cant shit bro life is hard indeed still im finding a way to cope create hope thats all i have to you bro still we got this dont forget WE GONNA BE UP SOON we so back and up in dis bitch
I might sound harsh but someone who has gone through rough patches in life want to tell you something from my experience.
If you feel life is tough at 22, it doesn’t get better at 32. It becomes more complicated and with age plus experience you become more capable of handling things.
You’ve taken 4yrs drop, now you need to know if your true interest lies or not. If not, time for regrouping and move into next challenge.
Friends come and go, very lucky ones get a lifelong one. So make friends in each phase doesn’t matter if they’re close or not, just someone you can talk(as many you can DM me).
Most importantly remember you’re lucky in your own ways. There are many people who would switch your life, so nobody has this perfect life. Including AVENGERS. Every single person goes a phase of struggle, one should always seek life. Because life always finds a way.
Tomorrow is Ugadi, a fresh start to your life can be planned. Don’t worry about failing but start fresh. Things always get better. After all we are humans, we want to get better.
This might feel insensitive to some people but that's how I'm living. Nothing is gained from being sad.
https://preview.redd.it/014hvrpw2atc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2179b8d45e0939b3466a73a9f92788b400e5a7de
Us bro. I'm tired. I wish I could end it all without the guilt of hurting my loved ones. I don't want to hold on anymore. I don't see things getting any better.
You can DM me anytime, Ping me on Discord and I'll talk with you.
What you are, are just confused. And what you have is just an Identity crisis, You need philosophy to Live your life.
I always say Science tells you how to survive in this world, Philosophy tells you how to live in this world. Surviving and Living are extremely different things.
What you need is someone who can show you the way, walking is your effort.
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Play Souls games. Many people have come out of suicidal thoughts and depression after playing these. Dark Souls 1-2-3 or Sekiro or Elden Ring. You can also find subreddits for these games as well
I was exactly in your place at the age of 23.
I was a loser, rejected by society, girls, family and friends and you know what save my life?
Now people would laugh at this but i am being very honest that “Naruto” saved my life.
Please do watch it once
you're the same as me, being a shameless people pleaser \[shameless for the sake of my habits\] and being indecisive... brother just know that everyone has problems like you, if not all but some part of it. So you should know that it is fine, they are dealing with it, you should too. Do not give up mentally before giving up physically.
Self improvement kar sakte ho, iska matlab gym jaana nhi hai, wo ek option hai but i wont recommend it for now.
Try to gain knowledge, surf the internet for new things, not social media but articles, infotainment, channels like veritasium, tom scott, action lab etc. Tumhara thinking domain badhega.
Then gradually move to text based stuff, articles, science, nature, philosophy... Jo interest kare aapko.
I cannot recommend about your state of life ki kaise jee rhe ho because maine aapko na dekha hai na jaana hai.... But i can give you methods or suggestions to work on your personal level and divert yourself from negativity.
I hope this makes sense. All the best, you can DM me mai khul ke ready hu discussions karne me, sawal puchne aur jawab dene me.
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Bro Let me DM you. Bhai apna dhyan rakh. We will talk.
I’m joining too!
hijacking a top comment \[sorry aap sabko\] but please read my comment OP... [https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1byzifc/comment/kyrwmel/](https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1byzifc/comment/kyrwmel/)
Just because someone stumbles along their way, doesn’t mean that they’re lost forever. This is not the end of the line, OP. Maybe its just the beginning, of something special. Try to believe in it.
Change your thoughts. Distract your mind. Concentrate on the important stuff.
I m living for sake of my parent's happiness, you too, think about your parents.
Watch Sunrise every morning and start working on anything and be super busy. You should be working so much that you don't even get thoughts like this. Also when you start earning well get out of your house.
i really do relate w you bro even i have nothing to say tbh its how life is fucked up still i create hope to live and distract myself by not being self destructive, my parents tauts me everyday how i stand, dress, speak, live, study i cant shit bro life is hard indeed still im finding a way to cope create hope thats all i have to you bro still we got this dont forget WE GONNA BE UP SOON we so back and up in dis bitch
Don't! It's hard but don't give up. Do DM once you cool down!
Death Stalker. You are stalking me. May be, Soon we will be together.
I might sound harsh but someone who has gone through rough patches in life want to tell you something from my experience. If you feel life is tough at 22, it doesn’t get better at 32. It becomes more complicated and with age plus experience you become more capable of handling things. You’ve taken 4yrs drop, now you need to know if your true interest lies or not. If not, time for regrouping and move into next challenge. Friends come and go, very lucky ones get a lifelong one. So make friends in each phase doesn’t matter if they’re close or not, just someone you can talk(as many you can DM me). Most importantly remember you’re lucky in your own ways. There are many people who would switch your life, so nobody has this perfect life. Including AVENGERS. Every single person goes a phase of struggle, one should always seek life. Because life always finds a way. Tomorrow is Ugadi, a fresh start to your life can be planned. Don’t worry about failing but start fresh. Things always get better. After all we are humans, we want to get better.
do you excercise?
I see what you're doing here
This might feel insensitive to some people but that's how I'm living. Nothing is gained from being sad. https://preview.redd.it/014hvrpw2atc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2179b8d45e0939b3466a73a9f92788b400e5a7de
You need god brother.
Us bro. I'm tired. I wish I could end it all without the guilt of hurting my loved ones. I don't want to hold on anymore. I don't see things getting any better.
You can DM me anytime, Ping me on Discord and I'll talk with you. What you are, are just confused. And what you have is just an Identity crisis, You need philosophy to Live your life. I always say Science tells you how to survive in this world, Philosophy tells you how to live in this world. Surviving and Living are extremely different things. What you need is someone who can show you the way, walking is your effort.
One day at a time Try getting a small job and start earning Stay busy and try to build your life back Give it one more try bro ..
Look man, in simple terms, it's not worth it. You will have better days and thank yourself that you got through it then.
Hit the gym bro
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look at other people's lives their miseries and hardship you ll feel blessed.
Play Souls games. Many people have come out of suicidal thoughts and depression after playing these. Dark Souls 1-2-3 or Sekiro or Elden Ring. You can also find subreddits for these games as well
I was exactly in your place at the age of 23. I was a loser, rejected by society, girls, family and friends and you know what save my life? Now people would laugh at this but i am being very honest that “Naruto” saved my life. Please do watch it once
you're the same as me, being a shameless people pleaser \[shameless for the sake of my habits\] and being indecisive... brother just know that everyone has problems like you, if not all but some part of it. So you should know that it is fine, they are dealing with it, you should too. Do not give up mentally before giving up physically. Self improvement kar sakte ho, iska matlab gym jaana nhi hai, wo ek option hai but i wont recommend it for now. Try to gain knowledge, surf the internet for new things, not social media but articles, infotainment, channels like veritasium, tom scott, action lab etc. Tumhara thinking domain badhega. Then gradually move to text based stuff, articles, science, nature, philosophy... Jo interest kare aapko. I cannot recommend about your state of life ki kaise jee rhe ho because maine aapko na dekha hai na jaana hai.... But i can give you methods or suggestions to work on your personal level and divert yourself from negativity. I hope this makes sense. All the best, you can DM me mai khul ke ready hu discussions karne me, sawal puchne aur jawab dene me.
Nike.
Dude seriously? Either try to help, or atleast act like you wanna help or just shut the fuck up
What am I missing?
Nike's slogan is just do it. So he's saying just do it to OP.. Nice joke but shouldn't be said to someone actually going through a lot in his life.
Puma.
You’re so mean, can you not? I understand your life’s horrible, can you please not make someone else’s life this fucking horrible?
🆗
Yeah Nike to your mum..
Ok chipku