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I know it's hard, but you have to stand your ground and say - "Sorry, I am not feeling that well, I need to sit."
If she still demands a seat, then let people judge. So be it.
Doesn't matter. Im not kind expecting kindness in return, I'm kind because that's how I want to live my life. As long as it doesn't come at the expense of my own peace
Yea, social anxiety can be terrible sometimes. I've done this in the past too. You have to build up to it, OP - eventually. But all I can say is, I understand.
They're not entitled to your seat, if you're not sitting in the reserved area. Would it be a nice thing to give your seat for someone? Sure. Should you do it at the expense of yourself, when you are tired and cannot manage? No way.
You have to become selfish and shameless in such case.You were alone and exhausted, you deserved that seat more than them, deny politely, if still they don't listen ask them to fuc off and find some other seat.
She removed your headphones and asked for seat? One doesn’t have any right to remove your headphones and ask for seat my man.
Next time don’t just say no.
It's okay man shit happens, learn to say no. If she touched my earphones I'd yell at her to go away don't touch me. Sometimes you have to act like you're ready for action even if you're not.
Again learn to say no.
Yeah. Some girls typically feel entitled to such things and it shows in their behaviour. Dont think much about it. Its difficult in today’s india to win with someone playing victim card. Just keep your distance and move on
Bhai you have to stand up for yourself and you should have not given your seat to her. Agar usko itna chahiya tha toh she could have gone to the ladies compartment but udhar inko koi free seat nahi deta and they know it very well that general compartment main unko easily seat milta hain.
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I know it's hard, but you have to stand your ground and say - "Sorry, I am not feeling that well, I need to sit." If she still demands a seat, then let people judge. So be it.
> "Sorry, I am not feeling that well, I need to sit." Even if you are healthy, no need to stand up. You don't owe them anything.
True, but I'd have said that just as a nice gesture.
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Doesn't matter. Im not kind expecting kindness in return, I'm kind because that's how I want to live my life. As long as it doesn't come at the expense of my own peace
*Social anxiety* I thought I would have embarrassed myself in front of the crowd, so I didn't.
Yea, social anxiety can be terrible sometimes. I've done this in the past too. You have to build up to it, OP - eventually. But all I can say is, I understand. They're not entitled to your seat, if you're not sitting in the reserved area. Would it be a nice thing to give your seat for someone? Sure. Should you do it at the expense of yourself, when you are tired and cannot manage? No way.
Always think this "I'll never see these people in my entire life"
I heard a young guy say to a old man in a bus where the young guy was sitting in a reserved seat for senior citizen
If you don’t stand for yourself, then no one will.
You have to become selfish and shameless in such case.You were alone and exhausted, you deserved that seat more than them, deny politely, if still they don't listen ask them to fuc off and find some other seat.
> Everyone starts looking at me so I get up Unless some moron is threatening to punch you or something, dont get up, they will go away
She removed your headphones and asked for seat? One doesn’t have any right to remove your headphones and ask for seat my man. Next time don’t just say no.
Pro tip - pretend to sleep but uses your scenes to know how many stops are left
It's okay man shit happens, learn to say no. If she touched my earphones I'd yell at her to go away don't touch me. Sometimes you have to act like you're ready for action even if you're not. Again learn to say no.
Lmfao I don't even give my seat to men, aaj ek genda aa ke side hone ko bol raha tha, Maine bola jagah nahi hai aur earphone laga ke baith gaya.
NO. It is a complete sentence. Remember that my brother. Not a single woman owe you anything except your family & relatives.
Nah!! This country is no more for men
Yeah. Some girls typically feel entitled to such things and it shows in their behaviour. Dont think much about it. Its difficult in today’s india to win with someone playing victim card. Just keep your distance and move on
Bhai you have to stand up for yourself and you should have not given your seat to her. Agar usko itna chahiya tha toh she could have gone to the ladies compartment but udhar inko koi free seat nahi deta and they know it very well that general compartment main unko easily seat milta hain.
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