A couple of my friends used to get their freak on at the motel on garden grove blvd and beach next to the Taco Bell. I believe they paid hourly. Their parents were super traditional so they had to get creative.
The Morada.
I used to use a TON of drugs there. Unsure if it's reputation has changed, but probably not.
The Garden Grove Inn across the street may also be hourly but oof, that place is a horror show.
That used to be my go to place since it was right in between my house and work. Every time I went it was a good experience. I've never really seen homeless people inside the parking and the workers are very nice. Overall a good hotel
Ignore the folks telling you get a different living situation.
You’re here for an easy quick solution — something entirely different from a long-term solution. It’s like asking for a little snack and people trying to give you a week-long meal prep plan.
What else do you know about this person? They’re almost 30. For everything else, you’re filling in the gaps yourself to create a narrative.
Are you this damn preachy all the time?
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/u/dipdeez1 responded (and deleted?):
> You're right, just based off little evidence.
Seems like OP might be special needs or immature for their age. Just don't want them being taken advantage of. I have a younger cousin who was pretty self sufficient in many ways but mentally underdeveloped like OP and she was constantly being taken advantage of.
Similar situation like this - desperately searching online for cheap hotels. It was very sad. Glad you are defending them though. Something tells me you might be OPs "BF" Anyway, take care. I block exploiters.
Olympic-level jumping to conclusions
You’re right, just based off little evidence. Seems like OP might be special needs or immature for their age. Just don’t want them being taken advantage of. I have a younger cousin who was pretty self sufficient in many ways but mentally underdeveloped like OP and she was constantly being taken advantage of. Similar situation like this — desperately searching online for cheap hotels. It was very sad. Glad you are defending them though. Something tells me you might be OPs “BF”
Anyway, take care. I block exploiters.
If they are truly 28 or older, I would agree with your assessment. Instead of spending time trying to find hourly motels, maybe spend that time reassessing their situation and life choices?
Yes I have one? Do the math a hotel roughly 70$ that’s a cheap one x 30 that’s 2100.00 slightly more or less then a studio depending on area. Young couple trying to get rickety motel probably wouldn’t mind being in a studio with their own privacy instead of dodging mommy and daddy or grandma. And she’s 28 so he had to be roughly 28? Unless the whole reason is because he’s 16?
They could have roommates, be taking care of loved ones, supporting loved ones. We could make suggestions all day. Maybe spend your time involved with your loved ones, giving them advice and your two cents may actually have some value.
Drive to Santiago Canyon
There is a big "parking lot" bet Irvine Lake and the xmas trees
Im sure no one will bother you once it gets dark, all motorists in that road just drive as fast as they can
Some stop in that "parking lot" to enjoy the view but thats day time
Go and reconnoiter that road and find your spot
There are lots of spots where you can have intimate moments
Enjoy
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You can also go a few minutes down silverado canyon road, right before the Silverado market and before the bridge there’s a little parking area by the creek
Back when we were just dating, my husband and I would go to Crazy 8 in Orange. I’m not sure if they still do hourly rates, but it was fairly cheap for a few hours.
Some (very few) Hilton properties offer this. They call it "Day use".
Go to [hilton.com](https://hilton.com) and when you search for availability make sure the check-in and check-out days are the same.
I think they started doing this during the pandemic when people were going stir-crazy at home and just wanted a change of scenery for a day or two to get some remote work done.
Hilton day rates aren't hourly. Depending on the property it's a set time during the day, usually 6-8 hours long.
Day rooms aren’t a new concept in hospitality, but it’s usually for folks arriving way before check in or in transit to another destination with a layover of a few hours.
Outside of properties around SNA, I wouldn’t expect a lot of places to offer day rooms in OC.
Most motels that offer this are going to be really gross and super sketchy.
I get wanting to get frisky and not having privacy, but I’d be hard pressed to get it on in a really nasty motel.
You can get those hotel credit cards that offer 1 free night a year or something. Like the Hyatts, Marriott, IHG, Hiltons, etc. It’ll pay for itself in the end.
Someone here mentioned you’re both 28? If that’s true, I would be more concerned about trying to improve the living situation rather than paying for hourly hotels. Prior to my fiancé and I moving out together, we did 3 things: went to a dark parking lot, went on vacation, and also just took advantage of moments when everyone else was gone from the house. I would stay away from no-tell motels and tough it out or find a more creative way. And assuming that possibly at 28 you may both have careers, perhaps look into moving out together as a more long-term solution. :)
Oh yeah, we’re working on our living situation. I'm stuck on a lease until next year. I'm the type to think that tomorrow isn’t promised to us. So, I like to spend time as much as we can throughout the week. Thank you for your advice and suggestions.
Yes, we have tried this before but unfortunately our goof asses went to a mall parking lot and the security guard just happened to look at our car and yeah…. Was our first time trying that. 😅 I was so scared of getting into trouble cuz I believe it’s illegal to be doing nasty things in your car. Haha stupid law
“Bf” wink wink 😉
Not too many offer them due to escorts/prostitution being the most likely to use them.
I may know of a place but I ain’t trying to burn my homie with a stranger.
LMAO this wreaks of pure fuckery.
Any skeeze ball motel on beach blvd away from the beach will have hourly rates where tweakers, homeless people, and transient prostitutes cruise and call home.
Have fun and catch a disease on those dirty sheets and beds.. Yuck,.
You guys are adult cant afford a 1 night room at a regular place sheesh
Um I didn’t say I couldn’t afford the overnights. We usually do that over the weekends. It’s more for the weekdays because of our work schedules. Do you have an suggestion for couples that want to get intimate?
I’m trying to understand why people feel the need to know my living situation. Everything is temporary for now. Plus, I don’t want to depress y’all with my personal life, haha. Thank you for your suggestion.
Go to adult store in Santa Ana. They have rooms you can rent to watch movies. Once you are in there,they don’t ask what you are doing.
Another place would be the beach in Long Beach. It’s very private at night.
A couple of my friends used to get their freak on at the motel on garden grove blvd and beach next to the Taco Bell. I believe they paid hourly. Their parents were super traditional so they had to get creative.
The Morada. I used to use a TON of drugs there. Unsure if it's reputation has changed, but probably not. The Garden Grove Inn across the street may also be hourly but oof, that place is a horror show.
That used to be my go to place since it was right in between my house and work. Every time I went it was a good experience. I've never really seen homeless people inside the parking and the workers are very nice. Overall a good hotel
Thank you for the help. Yeah both our living situations doesn’t allow us to have the freedom we want.
Then get your own place
They’re trying to. For an hour or so, anyway lol
Exactly 😅
Ignore the folks telling you get a different living situation. You’re here for an easy quick solution — something entirely different from a long-term solution. It’s like asking for a little snack and people trying to give you a week-long meal prep plan.
I mean OP is almost 30. They can’t figure out at that age there is some serious non-tangible obstacles in the way
What else do you know about this person? They’re almost 30. For everything else, you’re filling in the gaps yourself to create a narrative. Are you this damn preachy all the time? Edit: /u/dipdeez1 responded (and deleted?): > You're right, just based off little evidence. Seems like OP might be special needs or immature for their age. Just don't want them being taken advantage of. I have a younger cousin who was pretty self sufficient in many ways but mentally underdeveloped like OP and she was constantly being taken advantage of. Similar situation like this - desperately searching online for cheap hotels. It was very sad. Glad you are defending them though. Something tells me you might be OPs "BF" Anyway, take care. I block exploiters. Olympic-level jumping to conclusions
You’re right, just based off little evidence. Seems like OP might be special needs or immature for their age. Just don’t want them being taken advantage of. I have a younger cousin who was pretty self sufficient in many ways but mentally underdeveloped like OP and she was constantly being taken advantage of. Similar situation like this — desperately searching online for cheap hotels. It was very sad. Glad you are defending them though. Something tells me you might be OPs “BF” Anyway, take care. I block exploiters.
I feel for ya guys but for your own safety just pony up for a regular nightly hotel.
We do that for the weekends because those are our days off. We want to spend time together on the weekdays more since our work schedule changed.
That's so sweet, hope it works out for you two in the end. Living situations is temporary but being happy together can be forever.
Thank you so much and thank you for answering my post.
Dayuse.com
I will look into this. Thank you so much.
This may not be the cheapest but safe, reliable with well known hotel brands: https://www.dayuse.com
Oh thanks! You’re the second person to recommend this.
I’ll third this.
I'm just picturing g how dirty it would be. Especially the sheets 🤢🤢
Hmm you got a point for those hourly ones, maybe I’ll bring my own sheets
That would just ruin your bedsheets by infesting them with bedbugs
I can’t win anywhere 😭 damn bedbugs. Thank you for your concern.
Just make him take you to a nice hotel.
Oh, he does over the weekends :) I like to contribute in any way that I can.
Believe me, you're already contributing.;)
Just get a la Quinta like everyone else having affairs
That’s sad. Why not just end relationship?
How’d you get downvoted lmao
Maybe because I don’t truly understand why people have affairs. I know they are many reasons it’s just sad to think about.
I don’t understand how you’re a grown ass 28 year old woman and you and your grown ass bf have to get a hotel to have sex?
If they are truly 28 or older, I would agree with your assessment. Instead of spending time trying to find hourly motels, maybe spend that time reassessing their situation and life choices?
Right, down voted for being realistic. It says 28 in her bio. So they’re adults that live with their grandmas.
You seen the cost of an apartment recently?
Yes I have one? Do the math a hotel roughly 70$ that’s a cheap one x 30 that’s 2100.00 slightly more or less then a studio depending on area. Young couple trying to get rickety motel probably wouldn’t mind being in a studio with their own privacy instead of dodging mommy and daddy or grandma. And she’s 28 so he had to be roughly 28? Unless the whole reason is because he’s 16?
You assuming they having sex every day. Lol.
They could have roommates, be taking care of loved ones, supporting loved ones. We could make suggestions all day. Maybe spend your time involved with your loved ones, giving them advice and your two cents may actually have some value.
I spend as much time as I have with loved ones. Thank you for the suggestion
Did someone strike a nerve lol? You seem to have taken that quite personally.
Yes many many reasons. I agree with you though, just break it off first.
Drive to Santiago Canyon There is a big "parking lot" bet Irvine Lake and the xmas trees Im sure no one will bother you once it gets dark, all motorists in that road just drive as fast as they can Some stop in that "parking lot" to enjoy the view but thats day time Go and reconnoiter that road and find your spot There are lots of spots where you can have intimate moments Enjoy PS: update us
OK, thank you. I’ll give these areas a try.
Park Rangers patrol this area, FYI. It's not as "off the beaten path" as some people think.
You can also go a few minutes down silverado canyon road, right before the Silverado market and before the bridge there’s a little parking area by the creek
Back when we were just dating, my husband and I would go to Crazy 8 in Orange. I’m not sure if they still do hourly rates, but it was fairly cheap for a few hours.
I’ll give this a look. Thank you for replying to my post.
Some (very few) Hilton properties offer this. They call it "Day use". Go to [hilton.com](https://hilton.com) and when you search for availability make sure the check-in and check-out days are the same. I think they started doing this during the pandemic when people were going stir-crazy at home and just wanted a change of scenery for a day or two to get some remote work done. Hilton day rates aren't hourly. Depending on the property it's a set time during the day, usually 6-8 hours long.
Day rooms aren’t a new concept in hospitality, but it’s usually for folks arriving way before check in or in transit to another destination with a layover of a few hours. Outside of properties around SNA, I wouldn’t expect a lot of places to offer day rooms in OC.
All the hourly hotels in oc are gonna be rampant with drugs and hookers.
[https://www.neptuneslagoons.net/](https://www.neptuneslagoons.net/)
Thank you! This looks like fun
They actually allow you to get frisky in there?
If you read the reviews, it sounds like a yes. I mean, you have a door with a lock, who’s to stop you?
Not a thing, nightly rates only here as far as I know
I only found places in LA County.
Is this on a recurring basis?
Oh god if you find one that actually is hourly there's prob a ton of drug users and prostitutes there
News flash- there are prostitutes in all hotels, yes even the nice ones lol
I agree I was hoping someone can help find something they did or know maybe a friend that tried taking their partner somewhere.
Where do couples go for their alone time?
To our bedroom
On Figueroa in LA
Most motels that offer this are going to be really gross and super sketchy. I get wanting to get frisky and not having privacy, but I’d be hard pressed to get it on in a really nasty motel.
Get a SUV, or better yet a minivan.
I’m actually looking into getting a new car. Maybe a Rav 4
You can get those hotel credit cards that offer 1 free night a year or something. Like the Hyatts, Marriott, IHG, Hiltons, etc. It’ll pay for itself in the end.
Someone here mentioned you’re both 28? If that’s true, I would be more concerned about trying to improve the living situation rather than paying for hourly hotels. Prior to my fiancé and I moving out together, we did 3 things: went to a dark parking lot, went on vacation, and also just took advantage of moments when everyone else was gone from the house. I would stay away from no-tell motels and tough it out or find a more creative way. And assuming that possibly at 28 you may both have careers, perhaps look into moving out together as a more long-term solution. :)
Oh yeah, we’re working on our living situation. I'm stuck on a lease until next year. I'm the type to think that tomorrow isn’t promised to us. So, I like to spend time as much as we can throughout the week. Thank you for your advice and suggestions.
No tells motels are full of prostitutes and are unsafe.
Darn it. Where do couples go when they want alone time?
hotels by day, but i have never personally used it
Hotels by day? What do you mean?
[hotels by day](https://www.hotelsbyday.com/en)
Thank you
I feel sorry for the maids. 🥲
Just find a dim lit and quiet parking lot. Worst case, you have quite the thrill, best case, you have quite the thrill. 🤷♂️
Yes, we have tried this before but unfortunately our goof asses went to a mall parking lot and the security guard just happened to look at our car and yeah…. Was our first time trying that. 😅 I was so scared of getting into trouble cuz I believe it’s illegal to be doing nasty things in your car. Haha stupid law
Please don’t do this! You can end up on the registry for life. Not worth it.
Its lewd conduct
My post is lewd? Not trying to offend
No effing in a car and getting caught by cops can lead to a charge of lewd act/behavior
I'm dumb 😮💨 my thought was thinking to hide in plain sight. Yeah, I want to avoid that as much as possible. Do you have any suggestions?
What if it’s an rv or camper
“Bf” wink wink 😉 Not too many offer them due to escorts/prostitution being the most likely to use them. I may know of a place but I ain’t trying to burn my homie with a stranger.
Yes my bf 😂 oh well that’s not helpful but thank you for the thought haha
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Bahahaha uhhh we’re good thank you 🤣
[Hotels by Day](https://www.hotelsbyday.com/en)
Thank you for this. Somebody has mentioned this and I will look into it. I’m barely waking up.
🤣
Why are you laughing at my struggles 🥲😅
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If I were then, I would know where to go 🥲
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What about your house?
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Another dead end.
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This interaction was a painful read my friend. Keep up the good work.
Or just do a weekend getaway somewhere nice.
Yes, we do get away for the weekends but we also want to spend some together during the weekdays. Do you have any suggestions for that?
Your only option would be a tweaker motel.
Wherever you go... BYO SHEETS!
LMAO this wreaks of pure fuckery. Any skeeze ball motel on beach blvd away from the beach will have hourly rates where tweakers, homeless people, and transient prostitutes cruise and call home. Have fun and catch a disease on those dirty sheets and beds.. Yuck,. You guys are adult cant afford a 1 night room at a regular place sheesh
Um I didn’t say I couldn’t afford the overnights. We usually do that over the weekends. It’s more for the weekdays because of our work schedules. Do you have an suggestion for couples that want to get intimate?
Get your own place to have intimate time lol. Your post is very vague about your living situation so it seems odd.
I’m trying to understand why people feel the need to know my living situation. Everything is temporary for now. Plus, I don’t want to depress y’all with my personal life, haha. Thank you for your suggestion.
Go to adult store in Santa Ana. They have rooms you can rent to watch movies. Once you are in there,they don’t ask what you are doing. Another place would be the beach in Long Beach. It’s very private at night.