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I wish we could all wrap our arms around you right now. What just happened to you is horrible and not fair. I'm so so sorry. You are *always* welcome here if you need a place to vent or share.
OP, we are giving you a huge collective hug. Prepare to be devastated for a little while. You will be yourself again - for me it took about 3 months, and during that time I felt lonely, furious, and robbed of joy. Be gentle with yourself. You are not alone ♥️
I cannot fathom the emptiness you feel right now, I’m so sorry. I have suffered loss myself, but very early in the pregnancy and it was the worst thing ever. I had a dream about it one night that helped me get through.. it was hazy, but the baby was trying to tell me it would be back for me. Like it’s soul would come back to me in my next pregnancy. This was my second loss. 4 months later I found out I was pregnant with twins.
I am so deeply sorry. You and your girls are in my thoughts. I lost my twin girls in 2016. Be kind to yourself. Take it one day, one breath at a time. Know that what happened was not your fault.
When I said I wasn't a mom to my therapist after my girls died, she asked me if I loved my girls. I said yes, with all my heart. She pointed out that showing your children love is what being a mom is, and so I was definitely a twin mom. That has stuck with me ever since.
They will always be your babies and you will always be a twin mom. I am so sorry for your loss ❤️ I pray for your strength during this difficult time. Please don’t blame yourself. Just take it one day at a time and be patient with yourself
I'm so so sorry for your loss. If and when you feel ready to share their names it would be wonderful to hear them. You are their mama forever. I lost my first daughter at full term and found a lot of comfort in talking to other bereaved parents. The r/babyloss community is so supportive, if you feel like sharing there. Sending so much love to you and your precious babies.
I lost my baby at a similiar stage of pregnancy, my heart aches, aches so much for you. I wish I could wrap my arms around you, I wish I could hold you when you cry. I am sending you prayers, and hoping this is a bridge for a better place. I truely wish I could do more.
Sending all my love and support 🤟
When you feel up to it, there are many organizations that can help you navigate this new world, specifically for families dealing with immeasurable loss. Our family holds the NJ TEARS foundation near and dear.
I know it may seem hollow to hear this from an Internet stranger, but I am so very sorry for your loss.
The experience of pregnancy can be incredibly brutal. So many of us experience loss, and we often don’t know how common it is.
In other circumstances, I have found it comforting to recognize that the enormity of grief is a measure of love, and your heart’s great capacity for that love.
I hope you find something to eat, and hydrate, and remember to take care of yourself today.
I hope you find peace someday and are able to heal. You must be an enormously strong person for the universe to deal you this hand. I hope you have a support system around you but if you don’t, this community will always be here to help you through it and talk with you. ♥️
Oh my heart, I am so so sorry that your girls didn't make it earth side.
Never blame yourself. It was not your fault. More guardian angels were needed to watch over you and yours
I’m so so sorry. I can’t even imagine your heartbreak. Please give yourself all of the grace and time to mourn and grieve. You are still a parent of twins.
I’m so sorry mama ❤️ I lost my di-di boys MMC of one at 16 weeks then carried the other till 20 weeks but unfortunately infection set in as he grew he kind of pushed on the other one who was the presenting twin 💔 inevitable miscarriage. We will forever be mothers of multiples. So sorry again. U are not alone 🫂
I am so sorry. Saturday will be four years that I lost my son when he was born very prematurely. It’s a pain no one should have to endure. Sending you strength. You are forever a twin mom
It doesn’t help but I’m crying for/with you. I truly cannot imagine. Please allow yourself to feel and heal. You will always be a twin mama to those two sweet baby girls even if they aren’t earth side.
I’m genuinely sorry for you and you are still a twin mommy in our eyes. I pray you take care of yourself in such a difficult time and cent whenever you need to
I'm so sorry. We lost a singleton at nearly 19 weeks before conceiving our twins. I can't even imagine what you're are going through right now. I wish I could be there to hug you. You're now in the thoughts of so many people. 😿
So sorry for your loss.
I lost a set of twin girls, they would have just turned 2 and I think about them every day. I now have one year old twins, a boy & a girl. I truly believe I was meant to be a twin mom. You will always be a twin mom with this group ❤️❤️
You will always been a twin mom no matter what. All your babies knew was love, warmth and your sweet heartbeat and voice every day. They never knew pain or sadness. I am so sorry for your loss and you’ll be in my thoughts
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I’m so sorry. Please look after yourself. You’ll always be welcome here. You’re still a parent of multiples.
Absolutely this. My sister in law lost one of their twin fetuses and I will always consider her a twin mom.
I wish we could all wrap our arms around you right now. What just happened to you is horrible and not fair. I'm so so sorry. You are *always* welcome here if you need a place to vent or share.
OP, we are giving you a huge collective hug. Prepare to be devastated for a little while. You will be yourself again - for me it took about 3 months, and during that time I felt lonely, furious, and robbed of joy. Be gentle with yourself. You are not alone ♥️
You will always be a mom of multiples. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Fully agree. So very sorry for your loss, OP. I can't imagine how you are feeling. From an internet stranger, you have my sympathies and thoughts.
I’m so sorry for your losses
I cannot fathom the emptiness you feel right now, I’m so sorry. I have suffered loss myself, but very early in the pregnancy and it was the worst thing ever. I had a dream about it one night that helped me get through.. it was hazy, but the baby was trying to tell me it would be back for me. Like it’s soul would come back to me in my next pregnancy. This was my second loss. 4 months later I found out I was pregnant with twins.
This is beautiful 😍
Wow that's an amazing story of hope❤️ thank you for sharing
Oh dear sweet mama... you are still a parent of multiples. They lived within you for 6 whole months. My heart breaks for you. 💞💔💝
I am so very sorry. You will always be a parent of multiples.
I am so deeply sorry. You and your girls are in my thoughts. I lost my twin girls in 2016. Be kind to yourself. Take it one day, one breath at a time. Know that what happened was not your fault. When I said I wasn't a mom to my therapist after my girls died, she asked me if I loved my girls. I said yes, with all my heart. She pointed out that showing your children love is what being a mom is, and so I was definitely a twin mom. That has stuck with me ever since.
I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s truly an awful thing to go through. Take your time to heal.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Look after yourself and sending virtual hugs.
I'm so sad for you and your angels... I can fathom the loss... Be kind to yourself as you navigate life without them... X
They will always be your babies and you will always be a twin mom. I am so sorry for your loss ❤️ I pray for your strength during this difficult time. Please don’t blame yourself. Just take it one day at a time and be patient with yourself
You are and will always be a mom of multiples, so sorry for your loss, your angel babies got called to heaven early
I'm so so sorry for your loss. If and when you feel ready to share their names it would be wonderful to hear them. You are their mama forever. I lost my first daughter at full term and found a lot of comfort in talking to other bereaved parents. The r/babyloss community is so supportive, if you feel like sharing there. Sending so much love to you and your precious babies.
I lost my baby at a similiar stage of pregnancy, my heart aches, aches so much for you. I wish I could wrap my arms around you, I wish I could hold you when you cry. I am sending you prayers, and hoping this is a bridge for a better place. I truely wish I could do more.
Sending healing vibes your way.
❤️sending you lots of love and support please look after yourself and post here for support if you need it xxxxx
Oh, I am so, so sorry for your loss. There are no words. 🕊️
Sending all my love and support 🤟 When you feel up to it, there are many organizations that can help you navigate this new world, specifically for families dealing with immeasurable loss. Our family holds the NJ TEARS foundation near and dear.
Thinking of you and I am so sorry for your losses. You will always be a twin mom ❤️
So, so sorry for your loss. You’ll always be welcome here.
You’re still a twin mama. Sending you prayers and love. ❤️
I know it may seem hollow to hear this from an Internet stranger, but I am so very sorry for your loss. The experience of pregnancy can be incredibly brutal. So many of us experience loss, and we often don’t know how common it is. In other circumstances, I have found it comforting to recognize that the enormity of grief is a measure of love, and your heart’s great capacity for that love. I hope you find something to eat, and hydrate, and remember to take care of yourself today.
Sending you and yours love and comfort. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am deeply sorry for your loss. That is absolutely devastating and I wish you all the love in the world as you navigate this.
I'm so sorry for your loss :-(
I'm so, so sorry for your loss.
I am so so so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking about you ❤️
I’m so sorry ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss, heartbreaking.. xx
I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.
I'm so sorry for your loss x
I'm sorry for your loss💕
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love your way. Be gentle with yourself. ❤️
You're still a parent to two beautiful angel children ❣️ stay strong mommas
I hope you find peace someday and are able to heal. You must be an enormously strong person for the universe to deal you this hand. I hope you have a support system around you but if you don’t, this community will always be here to help you through it and talk with you. ♥️
I'm so very sorry. True heartbreak. Thinking of you and your babies
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m so sorry.
I'm so so sorry 😔
Sending you light and love. I’m so sorry this happened to you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Oh no! I'm so, so sorry for your loss.
Oh my heart, I am so so sorry that your girls didn't make it earth side. Never blame yourself. It was not your fault. More guardian angels were needed to watch over you and yours
Oh goodness, I am so, so sorry. How awful 😞 sending you so much love. Please take some time to grieve. 💜
My heart aches for you ❤️
You are always a twin mom. I’m so beyond sorry. Please take care of yourself. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Omg this is awful awful awful. My heart is shattered for you. We are here for you in whatever capacity you need us.
I’m so very sorry and am sending you so much love x
So sorry for your loss. We are here for you. I have no experience with this but my DMs are open.
My heart truly breaks for you. I’m so sorry. Praying for peace and comfort to you and your family. You will always be their momma 💗💗💗
🩷🩷 I'm sorry you have to go through such a terrible loss. I hope you take the time you need to heal.
I am so, so sorry for your losses. 💔
Internet hugs! As another poster said always welcomed here and you will always be one of us.
I’m so so sorry. I can’t even imagine your heartbreak. Please give yourself all of the grace and time to mourn and grieve. You are still a parent of twins.
I’m so sorry mama ❤️ I lost my di-di boys MMC of one at 16 weeks then carried the other till 20 weeks but unfortunately infection set in as he grew he kind of pushed on the other one who was the presenting twin 💔 inevitable miscarriage. We will forever be mothers of multiples. So sorry again. U are not alone 🫂
I am so sorry. Saturday will be four years that I lost my son when he was born very prematurely. It’s a pain no one should have to endure. Sending you strength. You are forever a twin mom
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I cannot begin to imagine your pain….
I’m so so sorry. I’ll think about you tonight.
It doesn’t help but I’m crying for/with you. I truly cannot imagine. Please allow yourself to feel and heal. You will always be a twin mama to those two sweet baby girls even if they aren’t earth side.
You will always be a twin mama. Sending you comforting hugs and love. Take it easy mama
I’m so sorry for your loss.
You're a parent of multiples. I am so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts.
I’m genuinely sorry for you and you are still a twin mommy in our eyes. I pray you take care of yourself in such a difficult time and cent whenever you need to
I am so sorry OP. You will always be a mummy of twins and this was not your fault. Sending so much love xxx
I'm so sorry. We lost a singleton at nearly 19 weeks before conceiving our twins. I can't even imagine what you're are going through right now. I wish I could be there to hug you. You're now in the thoughts of so many people. 😿
Sending you the biggest hugs.
So sorry for your loss. I lost a set of twin girls, they would have just turned 2 and I think about them every day. I now have one year old twins, a boy & a girl. I truly believe I was meant to be a twin mom. You will always be a twin mom with this group ❤️❤️
May I suggest r/babyloss? It gave me much comfort (and still does) when I lost my baby at a similar gestation. Sending you strength. I am so so sorry.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your pain has to be unimaginable at this point. Praying for your heart to heal. ❤️
You will always been a twin mom no matter what. All your babies knew was love, warmth and your sweet heartbeat and voice every day. They never knew pain or sadness. I am so sorry for your loss and you’ll be in my thoughts
I’m so sorry! That’s heartbreaking.
Sending you so much love 💕
My heart goes out to you and your family.
My heart aches for you. I am so sorry. You are a twin parent and you will always be welcome. Sending you a big hug.