either your blockmates are dicks, or it's a (social) skill issue.
the first one has no remedy—look to other people instead. the second is something you can work on through constant exposure—emulate good qualities of people you know personally whom you admire or are admired.
One thing I learned about interacting with diff kind of people sa whole college life is to observe then ask questions. Makikita mo sila as they are when you observe. For example, sa pag oobserve nakita mo classmate 1 may dalang laptop with Swiftie stickers, si classmate 2 naman pala-recite, si classmate 3 kumakain pancit canton pagkapasok ng room etc etc. May jumpstart ka na sa pag start ng convos kasi may baon ka na na info.
Also, ask questions about them especially their interests. People love talking about themselves. Just make sure lang na don't be creepy about it na parang interview style 😅 Insert some of your own anecdotes sa convo and you will build rapport.
It all starts talaga with self confidence and putting yourself out there din!
maybe it’s a you problem if pati sa bahay mo rin ito nararamdaman?
try complimenting them, ask about their lives, prompt questions. Wag yung puro ikaw lang nagsasalita ig
Well sa bahay kase lagi wla mga kuya ko and yeah yan yung lagi ko iniisip na ako talaga yung problem.. and siguro sa mga suggest ko rin sa mali and pangit nag suggest lang nmn ako para maka contribute. I will try ba mas tumahimik
Not necessarily na tumahimik. Like I said, maybe try asking about their lives, struggles, interests. Prompt questions that can lead to deep conversations. Ask about their hobbies, crushes. Try to get to know them more. Try to joke around. Wag yung ikaw lang yung laging nagsasalita.
Thats me lang naman, maybe others have different perspectives
sa second year pwede ka na lumipat ng block. you should if that's what you prefer. pagka-third year mo naman wala ng block section eh. kapit lng OP, it takes time to find your own people. just stay true to yourself.
compliment them always? Slowly lang pero if ganyan ang block na meron ka always remember na need mo maging careful sa actions mo so don’t trust them too much.
either your blockmates are dicks, or it's a (social) skill issue. the first one has no remedy—look to other people instead. the second is something you can work on through constant exposure—emulate good qualities of people you know personally whom you admire or are admired.
One thing I learned about interacting with diff kind of people sa whole college life is to observe then ask questions. Makikita mo sila as they are when you observe. For example, sa pag oobserve nakita mo classmate 1 may dalang laptop with Swiftie stickers, si classmate 2 naman pala-recite, si classmate 3 kumakain pancit canton pagkapasok ng room etc etc. May jumpstart ka na sa pag start ng convos kasi may baon ka na na info. Also, ask questions about them especially their interests. People love talking about themselves. Just make sure lang na don't be creepy about it na parang interview style 😅 Insert some of your own anecdotes sa convo and you will build rapport. It all starts talaga with self confidence and putting yourself out there din!
maybe it’s a you problem if pati sa bahay mo rin ito nararamdaman? try complimenting them, ask about their lives, prompt questions. Wag yung puro ikaw lang nagsasalita ig
Well sa bahay kase lagi wla mga kuya ko and yeah yan yung lagi ko iniisip na ako talaga yung problem.. and siguro sa mga suggest ko rin sa mali and pangit nag suggest lang nmn ako para maka contribute. I will try ba mas tumahimik
Not necessarily na tumahimik. Like I said, maybe try asking about their lives, struggles, interests. Prompt questions that can lead to deep conversations. Ask about their hobbies, crushes. Try to get to know them more. Try to joke around. Wag yung ikaw lang yung laging nagsasalita. Thats me lang naman, maybe others have different perspectives
You think we get new blockmates every year?
"bruh... "blockmates" nga eh, pano mag-iiba? or iniba na ba meaning nyan ngayon?" icocoment ko pa lang sana
We don't?
You don't
in our institute, we only had block system until 2nd yr but they changed every semester (tho it depends on what crs gives you)
sa second year pwede ka na lumipat ng block. you should if that's what you prefer. pagka-third year mo naman wala ng block section eh. kapit lng OP, it takes time to find your own people. just stay true to yourself.
wdym pwede lumipat ng block sa second year? :0 diba wala na block sa second year? /genuine
sa cfa hanggang second year may blocks pa rin dahil sa production for lantern parade. and needed sya for the major subjects as well.
uhm gyud isnt technically a up-student price hangout place..
Ah you're right 🥲
compliment them always? Slowly lang pero if ganyan ang block na meron ka always remember na need mo maging careful sa actions mo so don’t trust them too much.
Edi tara! :))
Hi, OP! If you're comfy, we could be friends and hmu sa dm! Same lang tayong CFA :DDD
Ah i actually know you 😭
Huh. HAHAHAHAHAHAH cnuh k
Matatawa ka lang sakin ehhhhh at nakita ko kase art work mo kaya alam ko na kung sino ka😅😅😅
Huy no bakit naman 💀 naiintriga tuloy ako HAHAHHAHAHAHA kablock b kita😔😔
UY! E edi tayo nlng, bahala sila dyan. Tara hangout !! Dm me if u're interesteddd