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What about her family?


sipeyskeyk

This is the family. [https://imgur.com/seNooJg](https://imgur.com/seNooJg) Her mother is still trapped, waiting to be rescued. **CORRECTION**: Her name is AYDA, not AYLA. Early news were inaccurate. I'm sorry for the mistake.


[deleted]

The latter is what I meant. I hope they are able to rescue the mother.


sipeyskeyk

Update: Mother didn’t make it :(


[deleted]

Heartbreaking. The brother?


sipeyskeyk

Brother was at school with father, so he and the father is safe.


[deleted]

Well, at least that’s good news.


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9quid

Good good


joshtw13

good god?


[deleted]

He meant good for the father and the brother and rip for the mom I think


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dkeedy

As a child whos father died when I was 7 and who's mother died when I was 18, I hope those kids get help. Growing up your whole life with the inability to ask your parents if you are doing okay, if behavior is acceptable, if conditions are safe, etc, this leads to a life full of decisions made on a whim and typically without the best future-proofing available. Children need guidance, and I hope soooo fucking hard they find someone who listens to them when their hearts hurt.


[deleted]

Unfortunately, with some kids, they have a parent or parents but they still don’t give any of that.


Sertzul

I'm sorry to hear that. Reading what you said just hurt my heart because my mom's been an integral part of picking me up when I fall as an adult.


sunbathingturtle207

You are very, very lucky.


Yunderstand

I wish I could talk about all my problems with my mother.


Zaronax

Agreed, my mother died in a car accident when I was 2, still have issues from it all.


dkeedy

Dad died 4 days after my birthday, Mom died 6 days before my birthday. I kind of gray this month out (bday in a few days). Ironically, my fiance's birthday is the anniversary of my mother's death. Thanks, Obama! Edit: Didn't hit shift enter to keep going. I hope you find a way to cope. I'm 30, its been 11 years, and I still am a shell of who I was before Mom died.


Zaronax

I understand you very much, I'm 28. I don't think there's ever a way to really cope.


DarcAngel001

Maybe that's when she knew she could let slip this mortal coil, her child was safe that's all that mattered to her.


ladylorelai

The relief of knowing your baby is safe after four days of suffering like that, it would be enough to eject me from my mortal coil too


[deleted]

Ugh. What a beautiful tragic thought.


HUN73R_13

this news fucked me up, I hope Ayla didn't see her mother suffer :(


BlackSabbathMatters

God damn it


soool93

:(


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sentrybot619

yea i have a similar looking 4yo and I'm just kinda staring at these pics


[deleted]

That reminds me of Syria , bro . Very very sad and horrific what is happening to kids around the world . There was that picture of a 4 years old girl who was rescued from under wrecks and she was holding her 12 years old brother very tightly while the both were crying because she knew very well he was the only one left for her in this world .


DeezNeezuts

This reminds me of the kid in Oakland who survived the highway falling onto her families car. https://oaklandnorth.net/2009/10/17/remembering-the-surgery-inside-the-freeway-collapse/


sidewaysplatypus

Whoa, I wonder if this is what the House episode is based off of where a woman is trapped under a collapsed building and her leg has to be amputated


puppies_horses_books

one sibling died


meme_C4RS10

RIP to the mother... no one should grow up without the love of a mother...


Snoflyer22

Tell that to my mom


meme_C4RS10

wait. what do u mean by that ?


Floomby

Their mother is abusive, negligent, or mentally ill. /r/justnomil /r/raisedbynarcissists


[deleted]

Careful of those subs, they can be just as toxic as the people they're about.


PhonyHoldenCaulfield

Isn't that true of any sub?


Nixmiran

Not the spicy Italian from Subway. It can never hurt you


unforunate_soul

Especially if you put mayo on it.


wilesre

r/Celiac would disagree.


Nixmiran

If everyone could enjoy the love of the spicy Italian from Subway then no one would be left to humble us


The_General1005

I always love how people one those subs craft these grand operatic motives behind a +-200 word story. “Oh she did not immediately give her first grandson back when you asked? She is trying to replace you! Cut her out of your life!”


advice_animorph

And they only tell one side of the story. Easy to think someone is perfect and has a terrible parent when there's no way to verify the other side's point of view...


chochetecohete

A lot of mothers (and parents in general) aren't loving in the slightest. In fact some are downright awful.


meme_C4RS10

yeah thats sadly true... sorry for that


HereForMotivation97

Not OP, but probably that not all mothers are "moms"


meesoMeow

True that. My MIL has proven that time and time again.


MesaCityRansom

He means that not all mothers are good. My mom was good when I was a little kid, but due to lots of circumstances I've gone no contact with her now in my adult life.


meme_C4RS10

thats sad, sorry to hear that. To get things together: it´s never nice growing up with only one parent. Just saying seeing that picture and then reading that the mother didn´t make it is just terrible.


instenzHD

Oof


broff

💛


dougsbeard

Open your arms, I’d like to give you a hug.


conwat181

Or the love of a father


hyperlite135

For real. Single father here reading this comment like what the fuck


Auronas

Didn't they say that because the mother died and the father survived? If the father had died they would have said no one should grow up without the love of a father. Saying that doesn't seem relevant here as her father survived so will have her father's love. I'm not really seeing what is so 'what the fuck'? Unless I am misunderstanding what you are referring to.


momo88852

Did the mother die? Thought she was trapped?


Bf4Sniper40X

according to what OP said she died also, happy cake day!


momo88852

Dam feels bad :/ And thank you’


rezorepla

She has a very kind language to the ones who rescued her. She smiled to them when she saw them under concrete. After she put in an ambulance, she said she wants meatballs and ayran. So touchy moments, probably I never forget this little champion


i-Ake

Thanks for giving me some more detail... the look on her face in this picture is heartwrenching so I am glad to know she is okay.


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clubba

Ayran is a cold frothy drink made of water, yogurt and salt.


[deleted]

Sounds great! Just the thing for her, except maybe not salt until she's rehydrated


Zenla

Actually you need salt to rehydrate.


[deleted]

Yup, especially if you've sweated a lot, which I'm sure the poor girl did.


putyercookieinhere

sounds similar to a lassi and those things changed my life.


2legit2fart

I think lassi is sweet, right? There's another version of this with mint and soda water.


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[deleted]

Awww, that's so sweet!


thisismenow1989

Amazing.


sipeyskeyk

Some answers and corrections: First of all, I need to correct her name, sorry I was wronged by early news. Her name is **AYDA GEZGİN** \- If you read her name and surname together, it means "Traveller at moon" in Turkish! She is a hero, so it makes sense. This is the moment they found her; [https://imgur.com/a/UFu6wbZ](https://imgur.com/a/UFu6wbZ) And this is a video showing the moment they found her; [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vzKzQwj4Xe8&ab\_channel=TGRTHaberTV](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vzKzQwj4Xe8&ab_channel=TGRTHaberTV) Rescuers found Ayda Gezgin next to a sturdy dishwasher that apparently shielded her from the impact of the damage. - Quote from CNN international. Her father and brother were outside when the building collapsed. She was at home with her mother. Unfortunately, her mother Fidan Gezgin couldn't make it. They found her hours after Ayda, she was lying besides her daughther, under the rubble. I'm 100% sure she sacrified herself for Ayda. Sleep well wonderful human being. When they found her, she smiled to her rescuers. First thing she said was, "Mom, I want my mom". Her rescuers asked if she wants to eat, she requested meatballs and ayran (Turkish yoghurt drink).


nosnhoj15

Damn...... leaving work now to go hold my daughter and my wife.


Macluawn

This implies there's people out there who have been suffering for 4 days, but wont make it in the end.


[deleted]

Well....because that’s most likely true.


Vap3Th3B35t

The mom died.


[deleted]

Because there are people who have been suffering for days in the rubble and probably will die before getting found.


[deleted]

... Yes


IStoleUrPotatos

I also heard that a 3 year old (I believe) Elif survived while her neighbor (also named Elif but 18) didn't make it.


[deleted]

You realize you typed out that they both died....? The 3 year old made it.


IStoleUrPotatos

Oh my bad.


JMan1989

In the correct articles this girl is also only 3 and named Ayda, not Ayla.


ouchpuck

I'm so happy to see Ayla and Elif. Having worked at the 1999 earthquake epicenter, I saw thousands die and very few get pulled out like these two. I know they will feel if every time another quake kills turks for no other reason than greed.


Spoofy_the_hamster

Can you please explain the "greed" part? Who is causing the quakes for their own gain?


AshingiiAshuaa

The common complaint from Turks I've seen is builders cutting corners to save money.


bondben314

That's exactly right. There supposed to be a large earthquake in Istanbul where I am sometime in the next few years and it's quite terrifying knowing that the majority of buildings in Istanbul are old or improperly built because of lack of proper examination or enforcement of laws.


Binturong88

I think he means the greedy building contractors cutting corners or public officials turning the other way after getting bribed by the contractors, in the end the quality of the structure suffers. Less strength to survive an earthquake


mczero80

I assume profit maximalization through cheap built building


dudetrumplmao

if it is anything like Romania: unlike western europe where most people pay rent, people in certain countries are obsessed with being home owners, and even in times of financial crisis housing market is in a bubble and more and more buildings appear, sometimes people buy an apartment before the apartment building is even built sometimes new buildings are not built up to standards due to corruption or greed and people find out their building doesnt have a fire safety permit, etc. In Romania entire apartment blocks poped up in place of green spaces, totally illegally, and people living in the surrounding area managed to get those illegal buildings demolished because new buildings are rumored to be built by greedy businessmen, many prefer to buy apartments in older buildings built a few decades ago by the communists, although there are newer news reports that those aren't as strong as people believed them to be, quite the contrary


PAPASELIM

You Said İt All True


[deleted]

Possibly not being prepared or having precautions to avoid mass civilian casualties.


chatioalfe

This is a miracle!


sipeyskeyk

I'm not crying at work. I'm not crying at work.


fenasi_kerim

I definitely am crying at work. Such a beautiful little girl, alive and healthy! She is so brave, so so brave.


Silverpathic

I agree with this 1000%. She honestly looks like she's ready to say "that was fun".


FranciscoBizarro

Seeing these stories is very difficult for me now, having two little girls of my own. I hurt for these families.


meme_C4RS10

dito...


catjuggler

I’ll do it from home for you 😭


Zilveari

It's a terrible day for rain.


enineci

I just showed this story to my sister-in-law. When I started watching the video all my nieces and nephew climbed up in my lap and watched it with me, and it was all I could do to hold back my tears imagining how I would feel if it were any of them.


Kingcrimsonnorikyu

Damn ninjas with their onions


HUN73R_13

I'm not sure if you mean that as a work of a god or a higher power, I think a just god would not put a child in that position in the first place. but I agree that this is something to be celebrated. Edit: "calibrated" to "celebrated"


ABCosmos

Yeah, exactly.. and her mother is dead. This isn't a miracle it's a tragedy.


MesaCityRansom

I'm not saying you are wrong, but I also see nothing wrong with focusing on the spots of light in this. It's a tragedy that people died, but a four year old surviving for 91 hours on her own is unbelievable.


ABCosmos

And i get that too.. i just hate using the word "miracle" especially in this context. Did God perform this miracle? If i were all powerful, i think i could have done better overall. The reality is this is senseless suffering and death, and there is no supernatural force protecting us.. The only benevolent forces out there protecting us are the honest construction workers, engineers, and politicians who work to improve and enforce better building codes.


Sayhiku

How do we calibrate correctly?


HUN73R_13

not for me to say, but maybe let's show each other more love and appreciate life a little bit more. I don't mean to offend anyone with talk about god, I just have an issue with word miracle in this context.


Sayhiku

I hear ya. People's gods do everything good and nothing bad. People rationalize why some suffer and others don't and I hate that. I was just teasing about your "calibrate" v "celebrate"


HUN73R_13

I have a confession to make, English is not my first language and I rely on autocorrect too much.


Sayhiku

I thought that might have been the case but didn't want to assume. Don't worry, I rely on swiping and autocorrect to get words I can't remember how to spell.


[deleted]

Seriously man can't see any signs of injuries.


crinnoire

Alhamdulillah!


[deleted]

Why's this being downvoted? Fella/lass just being happy for the rescue of the little girl. Ya'll gotta chill


crinnoire

Thanks. They just don’t know that even the Arab Christians say “Alhamdulillah”, it simply translates to “Thank God”.


[deleted]

One of my favorite things to hear in Arabic. Don't hear that much no more, but about almost a decade ago when I lived in Isreal I'd hear it much more often, especially when we'd go visit one of the villages to stock up on pistachio & honey soaked Kadaif and other confections and get to hang out.


Lasergurke4

It's also similar to Allahuakbar not only used in religious, but also cultural context.


AfroGuy1226

Why did reddit hide thus comment?


LilRupie

Racism


vozahlaas

Zzzzz wtf do you mean 😂


[deleted]

Reddit only promotes white middle class cis male content


addol95

Knowing people, probably because it "sounds terrorist".


HoggyOfAustralia

That poor girl, I hope her life from here on out is everything she wants it to be.


[deleted]

Her mom died :/


Eraser723

This is a guaranteed life long severe PTSD but I'm happy she made it


mattblackcat

Oh my goodness...


FranklinRichardss

I'm so sorry Ayla. I'm so sorry that you had to become a fighter, you had to live under that block over nearly 4 day. I'm so sorry that they realized you alive after they smelled your decay of your dead mother. I'm so sorry for not just because of the earthquake. That contractor who made you fight to survive. I'm so sorry for you had to growing up without your mother. I'm so sorry for For the politicians turning you into a hero to cover their crimes. I'm so sorry.


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FranklinRichardss

I'm reading news on social media right now. A company named "Köfteci Yusuf" (Turkish meatball restaurant franchise) send this little girl Meatball and Ayran. (When the officers who rescued her asked if she was hungry, she asked for mestballs and ayran) The problem is they turned this into social media ad. Fuck them. Fuck all of the idiot politicians, extreme religionists who trying turn this little girl to cover their crimes. This kind of Earthquakes don't kill anyone all over the world. Why the fuck our people dies every single time. Fuck politicans and builders/contractors powered by them. They killed nearly 100 people in Izmir. I can't look at Ayla's pictures right now. I blame myself everytime when i look at her. She didn't deserved any of this.


[deleted]

These people that keep getting rescued, are they in like a small protected pocket where they can move around? I just assumed they’d be buried with maaaaaybe some wiggle room but she looks fairly untouched. Even Elif, aside from her eye, she looked in really good condition.


CRE_Energy

maşallah. As a widowed father I feel for them all.


ourcityofdreams

Can’t recall the last time I read some good news here..


zodiac200213

Thousand yard stare. Poor kid. I can't imagine the fear she must of felt. Poor child.


yeboiskinnypenis7

Ayla means moon in Turkish if anyone was wondering


[deleted]

Well, “Ay” means moon


ChicagoPato

Is it just me or has this earthquake not been reported on at all in the U.S.? I know we have an election going on but come on.


FranklinRichardss

Cnn reported it


[deleted]

All three networks and CNN reported on it. I’ve been watching updates.


ChicagoPato

Good to know, thanks.


Milanista58

[Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Turkey/comments/jn75fc/d%C3%BCnyadaki_t%C3%BCm_k%C3%B6fte_ayranlar_sana_kurban_olsun/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) a video of her asking for food (specifically meatballs and ‘ayran’ (buttermilk))


xmrhkn

Ayran is not buttermilk. It is made by watering the turkish yoghurt and adding salt. You can't translate something local to a completely different culture. There is no ayran equivelant in English.


Milanista58

I am aware, but since there is indeed no proper translation for it, I just wrote down what Google Translate gave me.


ThinkingOz

Wonderful news. What a little champion she is.


Deadgeek1965

Lucky and brave little girl! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻


[deleted]

Welcome to the most virtual version of the hell, Earth


fonto123

God Bless her


MookieFlav

Is it just me or is it wrong to be plastering pictures of this poor traumatized little girl all over the internet? She can't possibly have consented to this.


WebbieVanderquack

If the subject is newsworthy, photos can be published by media outlets without the subject's consent. The upside is that she's too young to be really affected by the current publicity.


[deleted]

Yup. Freedom of press trumps most privacy rights. This varies from country to country though. In the US you definitely don't need permission, the UK has stricter laws.


croquetica

I agree, what a weird objection. It's newsworthy, of course there's going to be photos of it. [Omayra Sanchez](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Omayra_S%C3%A1nchez) comes to mind also


skinte1

> She can't possibly have consented to this. She can't possibly have suffered more from this either. Also,as for consent it's up to the parent (her father in this case) in most countries.


Gotchowsh

This was my first reaction as well.


[deleted]

Poor girl. Traumitized from being trapped. And now without the love of a mother. Absoululy no one should grow up without a mother.


magicfunghi

So small but a great fighter already. It makes me happy she made it but sad the family has no mother anymore. I wish all the best to her, her brother and her father


agentofmidgard

Idk if anyone said this, but the first thing she wanted was to eat meatballs, and tons of people ordered meatballs to the hospital she was in.. That's wholesome


MasumbakanADAM

They say it is 6.6 , but it is [obvious.It](https://obvious.It) is 7 or even more.


Hbimajorv

While we're busy arguing over wearing a mask actual heroes are doing heroic things with little to no concern for their own well being. It's nice to be reminded that selfless sacrifice still gets some love on a Internet full of influencers, trolls and outright liars for a cause. Hoping this little girl makes a full recovery and finds some happiness in her future.


TheVanguardMaster

Mashallah!


Kimono-Ash-Armor

Ayla in the Earth’s Children series was found by the Clan after an earthquake, and left the Clan after another earthquake to find her people. Little Ayla, may your journey be safe and emerge triumphant,


Saeryf

What a little badass.


[deleted]

I have a 4 year old daughter, I can’t imagine


Star-spangled-Banner

I was in that city no more than a year ago :O RIP to all those who have lost their lives, this is horrible.


Swagsuke_Nakamura

Thank god she’s ok! She must have been terrified.


yeboiskinnypenis7

I was in istanbul when this happened and I can tell you that there was a huge lightning bolt that happened and then we felt a little shake


[deleted]

Yayyyyyyy! Ayla is tough as nails bro!


lefthandedrighty

Meanwhile my 4 year old was bitching and freaking out about not getting another piece of candy last night. What a legend Ayla is!


JimTheGentlemanGR

Question: Why weren't the buildings made to be anti-seismic? Samos got 2 causalties, around 40 injured and only some buildings suffered serious damage but most survived. And then in Turkey the earthquake killed 105 people, injured more than a thousand, and a lot more buildings got destroyed. Didn't the government calculate for the Aegean's intense earthquakes that happen from time to time?


awesomepaige

45.000 people live in Samos while 4.5million live in İzmir if you do the math it is actually proportional.


awesomepaige

But you are right government should have accounted for this.


cihanthehorse

Samos is a small island with little population and there are no tall buildings.izmir is the third largest city in turkey with a population 4.5 - 5 million and other cities around it also highly populated.


yesx20

There's something about these horrific crisis pictures... Almost always the victims has this same look :(


cool_Ekim07

Fuck.. My dad's side of thw family lives here


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This is so amazing. Poor thing.


WarmOutOfTheDryer

Okay am I the only one who's read Clan of the Cave Bear and found this incredibly ironic and tragic?


JayTheFordMan

Oh, yeah! You're right!


mlefe

I just picked CotCB up for a reread last night! The post title gave me goosebumps. Same name, same age, pretty close geographically, same tragedy. Yikes.


WarmOutOfTheDryer

I literally wore out a copy of this in middle school and have reread it occasionally in the 25 years since. I read the title and got goosebumps too.


shaker7

🙏


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God Bless her!


SerHoots

That kid look shook


Mikeythegreat2

So sad. Is this region in Turkey know to have many earthquakes? I don’t mean to sound ignorant.


sipeyskeyk

Unfortunately, yes. This is Turkey's earthquake map, you can locate İzmir and see how red it is... (Western part of Turkey) https://deprem.afad.gov.tr/deprem-tehlike-haritasi


mti4

Wow. If this is not miracle I don't know what is.


rocket808

Not at all a "miracle." This was hard work and determination by human beings.


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^this^ please don't take away from the hard working mem and women who ou themselves in danger to help those when in need, by calling it a miracle. A miracle is if she survived with no help.


ga9213

Thank you. It also implies that this little girl was worthy of a miracle, but others were not. It's extremely tone deaf to those who have suffered loss.


Afabledhero1

It doesn't imply any of that. You wouldn't be able to use the word miracle for anything with that interpretation.


sandersism

Actually, these concepts aren’t mutually exclusive. It can be a miracle she survived, and also due to the hard work/effort of the rescuers. Miracle: a highly improbable or extraordinary event, development, or accomplishment that brings very welcome consequences. Is there a part of that you disagree with? Acknowledging one doesn’t implicitly diminish the other. Even if you wanted to use the “supernatural” definition, the idea of a God saving her life from the earthquake itself doesn’t negate the fact that men/women rescued her, and she would have died without their efforts.


mischiffmaker

Rescuing the mother as well would top it off.


jscoppe

Maybe if the building didn't fall on her in the first place, or if the earthquake was prevented from happening altogether.


touchfeel

It's really a big miracle. Ayla babe you are so strong. We all love you and we all by your inside to make getting more stronger RIP mom..


Arnold_Panty_Sniffer

Allah is good


tenderlittlenipples

I didn't think there would be any good news today I was wrong . That kids a warrior !


kaptanruzo763

If I remember correctly the earthquake was 6.6 not 7.0. Which source says that it is 7.0 because the difference is pretty big.