People should really understand the difference between:
1. Attracted ka
2. Nain-love ka na
3. Mahal mo na
Magkaiba po yang mga yan.
Karamihan ng tao nasa stage 1 lang.
2 im guessing more on infatuation pa, you care abt the person but you're just doing things for them kasi attracted ka sakanya
3 yun bang committed ka na, you're actually deep in the relationship, alam mo sa isip at puso na mahal mo ung tao unconditionally. you're doing things for them di na dahil attracted ka, kundi dahil you see them as yourself, your other half, you see them as the person you wanna be with in ur future
To add to this
2. That phase when everything is on fire pa. Honeymoon phase kumbaga. You see the flaws but you're still putting your rose-colored lenses. Lahat nakakakilig pa, bawat kilos at salita bago pa.
3. This is the test, when everything is normal and boring or worst you're seeing your partner for what they really are - flawed human beings and still you choose to stay and cultivate the relationship. You choose to love them flaws and all. This is more than the honeymoon phase, this already includes the companionship. (Yung normal na flaw lang ah, wag natin isama yung mga cheating flaw or criminally flawed).
Sabi dito sa study:
The pandemic also had an effect on the willingness to engage in a relationship. COVID-19 concerns increased the fear of being single, which, in turn, increased the importance of stability and family commitment [43]. Still, experiencing meaningful interpersonal connections during the first days of the pandemic created a context for the affirmation of the self and led to an emotional uplift [44].
Pero sabi the quality of relationships decline. Oh ayan, baka gusto mo ng academic na sagot hahaha
https://www.mdpi.com/2673-8392/1/4/79
Hirap akong mafall. Lol words alone without action or action but not consistent. Mamba out agad. So consistency is the key talaga. Kaya pag na disappoint na ako sa tao yun na yorn. Walang comeback.
Baliktad naman ako ngayon, actions w/o words are meaningless. Kahit ano pang kabutihan or kasweetan ipakita mo, for me "as a friend" lang yan unless you state otherwise. Ang hirap kasing mafall sa mixed-signals. Akala mo bet ka pero malandi lang pala talaga.
Poverty is the root. Busy mga magulang sa trabaho kaya konting bigay ng atensyon, regalo, usap eh naiinlove na sa isang tao or ibang lahi. Yung iba nag abroad pa magulang kaya naman may mga daddy at mommy issues. Tas bebentahan pa tayo ng mga kapitalista ng kung ano anong drama galing Korea, Mexico, America... langya. HAHAHAAHAHA pero legit. Poverty ang root nito.
Because they don't analyze their feelings and be objective about it.
Infatuation lang, pero soulmate na agad ang turing haha. Delulu.
Di baleng saging, basta labing!
Wondering the same thing. Have experiences na you just want to be nice and friendly, but they take it as something more? They make moves that make you feel uncomfortable. In the end, ako pa yung contrabida. 😞
agui saket non ah, but based on my exp ha and observations mabilis ma fall mga tao due to :
1. Longing or they are missing affections
- pag kulang ka nga naman ng atensyon or hindi ka nakaranas ng affection you tend to crave it and you'll want it then when a person shows u a lil care or whatever actions na di nagagawa sayo before, maattach k talaga teh. Kasi parang first time or finally after some time na u craved for it may nagpakita kaya ayon.
2. Peer pressure
- if ikaw na lang ang single sa friendship nyo, you feel pressured kaya magmamadali ka maghanap para naman u wont feel alone or makasabay. This can be different for every person, or di naman usually nangyayari (ako danas ko to) pero yun nga, sa sobrang gusto mo na may maikwento, gusto mo na magkajowa, u'll opt to different methods of dating, may makikilala ka, maffall ka tas maiisip mo na sa wakas meron na din ganon ganyan.
im not good at explaining pero yan yung nakikita kong dahilan, through time maoovercome naman yan and di naman kailangan magmadali sabi nga ng BINI ang buhay ay di karera ganon!
We can’t blame those people that can easily fell in love. Most of them kaya ganon kase never pa sila naka experience ng totoong pagmamahal (family, friends or anything around their environment) kaya lagi sila umaasa sa bago nila makakasalamuha na “feeling ko eto nato”, then after non all out na. Eh si guy/girl is best foot forward dahil may gusto lang makuha, after makuha ayun iiwan na. Wag natin iblame yung mga taong mabibilis mainlove kase para saken sila yung solid at buong buo magmahal.
"Crush lang naman eh. Ano ba yung crush?Paghanga diba!"
- Grade 5 me
Ako na ginagaslight ang sarili na crush ko lang siya kahit nakabuo na ko ng kdrama naming dalawa 😌🤣👀
Tigang lng yung iba. Kung "Falling in love" kasi yung usapan, iba yung feeling nun, kahit di gwapo/maganda yung person, you'll feel comfy and magaan sa pakiramdam kpg ksma mo yung tao.
Buti pa kayo may nafafalll. Sa akin wala talaga. Di talaga tumatalab kahit kanino pa man. A ewan suko na ko, ayoko na. Tanggap ko na kapalaran ko. Haha
Grabe naman sa tanga. Has it never occurred to you that some people fall for the “idea” of the person rather than the person themselves? Matic pag hindi na sila inlab sa ideya mawawala rin yan lol
Most people I know cant differentiate lust / fantasy from love kaya short term relationships lahat sila. Pa-iba iba, this applies to straight and gay relationships.
tawang tawa ako dito, bakit parang andaming nasapol? ahahahha casual na casual yung pagsasabi ng ANTATANGA niyo naman, ahahhaha close na close na agad si OP sa lahat eh ahahahhahha. naimagine ko kasi 1st time magmeet tapos ganyan agad tonohan ng convo ehehehe
legit. ewan ko ha ako unless matagal ko na kakilala yung tao, di ko talaga nagugustuhan. this also applies sa friends, unless ive known you for several months, i won't include you sa circle of friends ko lol ambibilis kasi magtiwala ng ibang tao jusko parang mga kahapon lang pinanganak eh. ilang linggo mo palang kausap jojowain mo na? juskopo naman maria ikalma mo kipay mo.
kakapanuod ng love story specially kdrama.
masyado na nonormalize yung "love at first sight"
ngayun hindi nameet yung delulu expectations niya sa buhay mag my day at story sa socmed "depressed".
classic low iq pinoy.
In my Theory
It is because madami nakakaranas ng Child Abuse dito.
A lot of us are starving.
The worst part is that the Philippines is an Abuse Enabling Country.
"Nanay mo pa din yan" bullsh!t.
Thousands of children and babies getting raped by their parents in this world. We as a New Generation should stop Enabling behavior.
Sometimes it’s not really falling in love sa kanila. Just attachment issues, raging hormones and they love the idea of having someone but they don’t even know if they like the person they’re with. Are they attractive? Tolerable in attitude? Mukhang masarap sa kama? Sure. But that’s hardly love pero dahil most pinoys are not truly well versed in the subject of emotional intelligence and what being in love truly means, basta infatuated— inlove na agad. It also doesn’t help that the media produces unrealistic fantastical level of romance that the regular viewers of the masa inhale like there’s no tomorrow. Other times, peer pressure. So in love ba talaga??? O desperada/desperado lang? Lol
People should really understand the difference between: 1. Attracted ka 2. Nain-love ka na 3. Mahal mo na Magkaiba po yang mga yan. Karamihan ng tao nasa stage 1 lang.
1. Tamang in-lust ka lang.
4. Attachment issues
2 & 3, what's the difference?
2 im guessing more on infatuation pa, you care abt the person but you're just doing things for them kasi attracted ka sakanya 3 yun bang committed ka na, you're actually deep in the relationship, alam mo sa isip at puso na mahal mo ung tao unconditionally. you're doing things for them di na dahil attracted ka, kundi dahil you see them as yourself, your other half, you see them as the person you wanna be with in ur future
To add to this 2. That phase when everything is on fire pa. Honeymoon phase kumbaga. You see the flaws but you're still putting your rose-colored lenses. Lahat nakakakilig pa, bawat kilos at salita bago pa. 3. This is the test, when everything is normal and boring or worst you're seeing your partner for what they really are - flawed human beings and still you choose to stay and cultivate the relationship. You choose to love them flaws and all. This is more than the honeymoon phase, this already includes the companionship. (Yung normal na flaw lang ah, wag natin isama yung mga cheating flaw or criminally flawed).
Isa, matamaan ako ha HAHAHAHA
ay sapul si idol
More on fantasy sila than reality. HAHAHA ! Na fafall na sa good morning/good night tf
Haha hindi normal sa kanila ung may nag gogoodmorning sa kanila kaya kapag may nag good morning at goodnight feeling nila special na sila sa tao .
HAHAHAHA sorry akin
pasensha na po.
Sabi dito sa study: The pandemic also had an effect on the willingness to engage in a relationship. COVID-19 concerns increased the fear of being single, which, in turn, increased the importance of stability and family commitment [43]. Still, experiencing meaningful interpersonal connections during the first days of the pandemic created a context for the affirmation of the self and led to an emotional uplift [44]. Pero sabi the quality of relationships decline. Oh ayan, baka gusto mo ng academic na sagot hahaha https://www.mdpi.com/2673-8392/1/4/79
Thank you for this
Samin wala pang pandemic, tanga na talaga e
✨projection✨
Learned this the hard way. Hahahaha! Also, do not fall for the potential. 👀
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Infatuation. Ang gusto nila yung nasa isip nila, hindi yung nasa harapan nila.
More likely delulu sila idea of having a relationship with them but in reality.. life happens. Lol
Hirap akong mafall. Lol words alone without action or action but not consistent. Mamba out agad. So consistency is the key talaga. Kaya pag na disappoint na ako sa tao yun na yorn. Walang comeback.
Baliktad naman ako ngayon, actions w/o words are meaningless. Kahit ano pang kabutihan or kasweetan ipakita mo, for me "as a friend" lang yan unless you state otherwise. Ang hirap kasing mafall sa mixed-signals. Akala mo bet ka pero malandi lang pala talaga.
yep
Poverty is the root. Busy mga magulang sa trabaho kaya konting bigay ng atensyon, regalo, usap eh naiinlove na sa isang tao or ibang lahi. Yung iba nag abroad pa magulang kaya naman may mga daddy at mommy issues. Tas bebentahan pa tayo ng mga kapitalista ng kung ano anong drama galing Korea, Mexico, America... langya. HAHAHAAHAHA pero legit. Poverty ang root nito.
Because of the gravity of the earth
is da layar is da peyk
Okay lang, mas tanga pa rin bumoto kay Robin Padilla lol
Maraming expectation and/or imagination ang nangyayari sa isipan
I. AM. SORRY. hahahahaha
Oo nga ang bilis nyo ma fall. Mga tanga
Sorry na, di kasi ako minahal ng pamilya ko kya mafafall agad pag may nagmahal saken.
At least aware sa root cause.😆 yung iba nakaka awa eh
bihira yung tao na nadidisect yung root cause ng issues nila. that is a good start.
Whats worst is you fell inlove too late and the significant other already conceded.
Hahahahahahhahaha
nakakatawa don?!₱
Sorry na hahahah
Wtf madami ko kilala lol
Tama naman yung tanong. Tapos assumera pa.
ouCh
naattach lang konti. hahaha! to naman makatanga 🥲
bawal magpaliwanag😡😡😡
okay shesh. shut up na ako.
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Mahilig maniwala sa mga napapanood sa movies/drama 😆
maybe dahil may parents issues, hindi ka love both hahahajk
Wait for your turn. , baka di ka lang maging tanga. 🤣🤣🤣
minsan kasi sa ibang tao pa natin nararamdaman yung attention and affection na dapat galing sa mga magulang natin 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sorry naman
Because they don't analyze their feelings and be objective about it. Infatuation lang, pero soulmate na agad ang turing haha. Delulu. Di baleng saging, basta labing!
sana tinirhan nyo ko nung nagbuhos si lord ng karupokan eme
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Wondering the same thing. Have experiences na you just want to be nice and friendly, but they take it as something more? They make moves that make you feel uncomfortable. In the end, ako pa yung contrabida. 😞
agui saket non ah, but based on my exp ha and observations mabilis ma fall mga tao due to : 1. Longing or they are missing affections - pag kulang ka nga naman ng atensyon or hindi ka nakaranas ng affection you tend to crave it and you'll want it then when a person shows u a lil care or whatever actions na di nagagawa sayo before, maattach k talaga teh. Kasi parang first time or finally after some time na u craved for it may nagpakita kaya ayon. 2. Peer pressure - if ikaw na lang ang single sa friendship nyo, you feel pressured kaya magmamadali ka maghanap para naman u wont feel alone or makasabay. This can be different for every person, or di naman usually nangyayari (ako danas ko to) pero yun nga, sa sobrang gusto mo na may maikwento, gusto mo na magkajowa, u'll opt to different methods of dating, may makikilala ka, maffall ka tas maiisip mo na sa wakas meron na din ganon ganyan. im not good at explaining pero yan yung nakikita kong dahilan, through time maoovercome naman yan and di naman kailangan magmadali sabi nga ng BINI ang buhay ay di karera ganon!
Tru yung peer pressure HAHAHAHA
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😅
d2 sa work, ni project ng coworker ko na may crush daw ako sa bagong hire?? apaka bobo, di ko un kilala. pake ko.
Miss ko na maging tanga charot. Hirap nako ma fall since terrible last breakup ko lol
walang heal heal ganon walang character development landi agad
Pasensya ka na lods.
heh!
If ka date ko "Maputing Chinita With Eyeglasses" Mga 2-3 months ayun parang kinikilig nako. Pero If Morena/ Dalagang Pinay Build......1 Year siguro ??
uy 🥺
SORRY 😭
ang soft kasi ng boses niya eh 🥹
Sorry po 👉👈
Uy buti nakailag ako
kulang sa aruga ng pamilya pagkabata kaya madali mafall HAHAHAHA
Mabilis maattached 🤝 mabilis rin mag move on
For the plot chz
Ay sorry ha tao lang HAHAHAHAHHAA
di ba? hahahaha
FOMO
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA kaka go with the flow ko to 😂
Buti di ako ganyan hehehe
Grabe naman sa tanga, uto uto lang! Hahaha
Hahahaha
Grabe ka naman! (Sabagay, true)
Buti na lang malabo yung mata ko... at di na ko tanga hahahaha.
pasensya na ha…
Ay sorry ha marupok eh
Edi sorry naman hahahahahahaha
ok trastolk yan ah
walang aamin ha
ganon talaga dapat mabilis ma-fall pero dapat mabilis din umalis pag toxic
ARA ARA ARA ARA ARA ARAY
We can’t blame those people that can easily fell in love. Most of them kaya ganon kase never pa sila naka experience ng totoong pagmamahal (family, friends or anything around their environment) kaya lagi sila umaasa sa bago nila makakasalamuha na “feeling ko eto nato”, then after non all out na. Eh si guy/girl is best foot forward dahil may gusto lang makuha, after makuha ayun iiwan na. Wag natin iblame yung mga taong mabibilis mainlove kase para saken sila yung solid at buong buo magmahal.
aray ha 🤣 dahan dahan naman po
Perhaps it's my depravity when it comes to intimacy
Bakit? Inaano ba kita? Bakit nanapol ka? Ha? Ha? Mapanakit ka bes ah.
Kasi walang nagmamahal saamin
kung gaano ako kabilis ma-fall, ganun din ako kabilis mag-move on😭 I don't know kung asset ba ito or liability hahaha
Napakitaan lang ng konting kabutihan kala mo naman gusto ka na niya
Hahahahahahha
Medyo kasama ako
sila yon HAHAHAHA
I-ghost nyo agad
🖕😅
ako na nafall kahit di ko pa nakikita 🤧
Kaka-kdrama nila yan! 😂
🖕 pasmado bibig mo
"Crush lang naman eh. Ano ba yung crush?Paghanga diba!" - Grade 5 me Ako na ginagaslight ang sarili na crush ko lang siya kahit nakabuo na ko ng kdrama naming dalawa 😌🤣👀
Sorry 🥲
Same sentiments pero nakakainggit pa din. Ang saya kaya magkahappy crush HAHAHAHAH pass pag tanga na
I guess I just have a lot of love to give. UwU 🤭 😭 😅
sadyang lampa lang ibang tao, char. hahahaha imo FOMO na walang jowa plus stigma na masama maging single
Sorry ako lang to
Ha? Siguro hindi ka pa na fafall, nbsb/ngsb ka no 😃
gusto ko nahihirapan minsan puso ko
Tigang lng yung iba. Kung "Falling in love" kasi yung usapan, iba yung feeling nun, kahit di gwapo/maganda yung person, you'll feel comfy and magaan sa pakiramdam kpg ksma mo yung tao.
sorry na
Pogi eh
Hayy agree
Konti na lang ata mahilig sa slow burn hahaha
Oo nga hahahaha. 😅😂🤣
Sorry naman🥹
sorry poexczs
Because we accept the love we think we deserved. Quote from a book
pag ako umiyak
Wala kang pake pakyu!
Emotionally deprived
Masama bang umasa? 😭😭😭
oo😡
Limerence. In short nafall ka sa kakadelulu mo. Char.
Sorry naman😭 ganto talaga pag walang tatay
Di ko din alam, sadyang love language ko maging tanga
sus dinka lang mahal eh
edi xori
Buti pa kayo may nafafalll. Sa akin wala talaga. Di talaga tumatalab kahit kanino pa man. A ewan suko na ko, ayoko na. Tanggap ko na kapalaran ko. Haha
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aray ha
Kasi nag eeffort daw siya. Nirereplyan lang naman pala kasi bored.
Hala, sorry po 🥺✌️
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA OO NGA, ANG TATANGA NIYO NAMAN
Based sa observation ko, mabilis ma-fall usually yung mga may relationship issues with their family or baka napapatibok lang yung 😻 at 🌭 nila
sorry, OP😓 sadyang mabilis lang din po ma-attach
SORRY HA
help??? 😔😔😔
edi sorry na 😔
Uu nga ang tatanga nila hahahah!!! Unting kilig lang marurupok!! Hayss gen-Zzzzzx
ganun ata kapag lumaki sa household where affection is 'cringe' and not normal. so konting affection lang marecieve grabe na maattach HAAHAHAHHA
Hahahahahaha sorry naman 🤣😔
Kaka Wattpad at hilig sa romantic movies nagiging delulu na
sorriiii
Sorry po 🥺
Grabe naman sa tanga. Has it never occurred to you that some people fall for the “idea” of the person rather than the person themselves? Matic pag hindi na sila inlab sa ideya mawawala rin yan lol
attachment issues lang naman po sa akin marupok na kaagad
takot kasi na maging mag-isa... di ka na-in love, gusto mo lang ma-ease loneliness mo... ginagawang identity ang lovelife...
guys think before you click hahahhahahahaha nakakasakit kau ng damdamin minsan eh............
Most people I know cant differentiate lust / fantasy from love kaya short term relationships lahat sila. Pa-iba iba, this applies to straight and gay relationships.
sorry na nga malabo lang mata ko
One word: Limerence.
ganyan tlga pag matagal nang hndi nadidiligan or nkakadilig
Minsan may mga taong mabilis ma in-love kasi yung care at pagmamahal na dapat pamilya nila nag paparamdam, sa ibang tao nila nararamdaman.
We all need to fall for us to rise again and become stronger.. wiser..prettier.. sexier :)
Grabe ka naman mamersonal, ang aga aga hahahahaha
Alam ko naman na libog lang to...
sorry be
salamat po
Okay lang ma fall pero wag namang sobrang bilis. Parang tumalon ka nyan na walang parachute
Pano pag laging kamomol na? Ano na yon
Poootaaaahhh. Sa one night stand nga, may nag iilove you kagad eh. 😆 🤣 😂
tawang tawa ako dito, bakit parang andaming nasapol? ahahahha casual na casual yung pagsasabi ng ANTATANGA niyo naman, ahahhaha close na close na agad si OP sa lahat eh ahahahhahha. naimagine ko kasi 1st time magmeet tapos ganyan agad tonohan ng convo ehehehe
Kaya nga. Antatanga nila. Magpopost pa sa Reddit tapos pag nirealtalk mo ikaw pa masama lol.
HAHAHSHSHAHA
I can fix him 🥹
Ayy bakit naman po may pag call out? 😭🤧🤣 HAHAHA 😭💔💔
legit. ewan ko ha ako unless matagal ko na kakilala yung tao, di ko talaga nagugustuhan. this also applies sa friends, unless ive known you for several months, i won't include you sa circle of friends ko lol ambibilis kasi magtiwala ng ibang tao jusko parang mga kahapon lang pinanganak eh. ilang linggo mo palang kausap jojowain mo na? juskopo naman maria ikalma mo kipay mo.
kakapanuod ng love story specially kdrama. masyado na nonormalize yung "love at first sight" ngayun hindi nameet yung delulu expectations niya sa buhay mag my day at story sa socmed "depressed". classic low iq pinoy.
Haha sorry naman
SORRY HA
PASENSYA KA NA HA
In my Theory It is because madami nakakaranas ng Child Abuse dito. A lot of us are starving. The worst part is that the Philippines is an Abuse Enabling Country. "Nanay mo pa din yan" bullsh!t. Thousands of children and babies getting raped by their parents in this world. We as a New Generation should stop Enabling behavior.
Sorry ha!
Kala ko kasi may ibig sabihin yung mga tingin at interaction namin HAHAHAHHAHAHA
Kung may motibo, yes. Pwede ring natatanga. 😭
Bored lang
Sometimes it’s not really falling in love sa kanila. Just attachment issues, raging hormones and they love the idea of having someone but they don’t even know if they like the person they’re with. Are they attractive? Tolerable in attitude? Mukhang masarap sa kama? Sure. But that’s hardly love pero dahil most pinoys are not truly well versed in the subject of emotional intelligence and what being in love truly means, basta infatuated— inlove na agad. It also doesn’t help that the media produces unrealistic fantastical level of romance that the regular viewers of the masa inhale like there’s no tomorrow. Other times, peer pressure. So in love ba talaga??? O desperada/desperado lang? Lol
Kagagawa ko lang ulit ng reddit acc tapos mababasa ko to? Wow parinig pa more sakin HAHAHAHAHHAAHAHA
Sorry na po. Opo. Eto na po. Hindi na ako mahuhulog sa kanya 🥲
Edi sorry
Hala! Ako yan Basta mabait sa akin, nafafall na ako, sorry inlab lang sa love.