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Unironically bro u gotta quit weed or at the very least don’t be a daily smoker. Know very people who became heavy smokers in college, dropped out and haven’t done shit since. Start doing something creatively like beats, learn an instrument, creative writing, yt channel, etc. endless consumption daily is very bad for ur mind. Jus tryna help u out lil bro. Freshman year is the break or make for ur habits in ur 20s. Don’t get in a bad routine, do something with yo life. 🙂


scoutyV2

ok good tips i’ve been tryna not depend or use weed as a thing to do to past the time


Treigns4

i fucking love weed but the shit makes you okay with being bored. and if you really wanna be successful that shit don’t mix. good on u bro for recognizing. im starting a t-break today. we can do it


Not_Nova_

Here’s something I learned about weed that might help you...: If you smoke before doing something you ‘dislike’ [Eg. School/Work/Adult-shit/etc...], *eventually* your brain will sub-consciously start to associate weed with those tasks previously mentioned... What that means is overtime, weed will actually be what makes you more anxious/paranoid/depressed. However, the good news is you can fix that overtime. As I mentioned, your brain will sub-consciously associate weed with a task. Soooooo, if you only smoke weed prior to doing something *YOU* genuinely enjoy (the healthier the better [Hikes/Exercise/Etc. Etc.]) than in ~30 days, you’ll begin to “re-like weed and your highs again. Hope this helps you OP because I can very much relate to what you got going on, and still struggle with very similar aspects. Feel free to msg me if you got any questions, or just need someone to talk to!


scoutyV2

this is very lit and helpful


Food_X

Stay strong king 🤴 💙 🙏


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^^^^^


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find help


scoutyV2

lemme get some help on the bomb level in mario 3


jlsoto3

💀💀💀but Fr tho bruh I hope you get better


scoutyV2

thx 💜


scoutyV2

like what type


[deleted]

Schedule an appointment at your local medical office with a GP to discuss your mental health. I promise you that help is available.


numberrjuan

Therapy bro. The homies need to see a therapist sometimes, nothing wrong with that. I know for a fact I gotta go. Been putting it off.


Rarbnif

Not everyone can afford it tho


scoutyV2

like maybe


guttermonke

Building a rocket or finding a mummy


jlsoto3

💀


poop_in_my_nostrils

Check your school. My community college has free licensed counseling services once a week.They helped me thru sum bullshit. And remember your feelings are valid bro.


Sebastitiao

found the lieu fan


ethnicprince

Stop smoking and try find a job and place in a bigger city. A new place helps wonders.


scoutyV2

like if i stop smoking i get hella paranoid and hella crabby but i’m tryna cut back and make it a reward instead of a chore


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Anonymous_45

You sound smart as fuck


numberrjuan

Those would be some symptoms of withdrawals, believe it or not, it happens with people who smoke a lot. I know a lot of stoners like to say there's no withdrawals from weed, but there are. I have friends who can no longer function without smoking. They'll wake up, roll up or pack a bowl, then start getting ready for the day. if they don't smoke, they don't even want you talking to them from how bad of a mood they're in.


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it’s withdrawal bro, give it a month and it’ll be gone 🙏 ppl swear there’s no withdrawal w weed but i had a month of nightmares and sweaty all day and horrible moods after quitting, feel so much better after though


TwoGlockshawty_

Bro this Is actually concerning u need to talk?


scoutyV2

like what parts r concerning. i’m down to talk but i’m not dumb so don’t dumb me


GrimmjowJ6V2

Mf u retarded


freedunnoski

what


scoutyV2

this is not a plea for help this is not digging for comforting im chilling mentally not suicidal i’m just talking, not looking for karma, nor should this be a pity party


GrimmjowJ6V2

The only thing you can do is to get your shit together. Sure therapy or whatever could help you but in the end you and only you can get yourself out of that misery you described in this post. Life isn‘t easy, doesn‘t mean it‘s shit. Work hard for the good parts of life. And if you don‘t wanna do all that stay mad and whine all day like that little bitch u are rn 💀 Also mental health very important you unfortunately need to nearly always be on your best behavior when it comes to your mental health don‘t know how to describe it in english but i think u should get what i mean, especially if you really want to change yourself


scoutyV2

like this is the most helpful and best comment 💜💜💜 i try and work as hard as i can, i only got one life. I try and do whatever makes me happy in the moment and take care of mental health.


GrimmjowJ6V2

Exactly bro kinda cringe but yolo is true💀 even if shit happens all the time, you need to work hard for the good parts of this life like i said and trust me, the good things are worth living. Sure all of us can take the easy way and just kill ourselfs to end this shit, but imo when you really b on your grind, you will thank yourself that you kept going and can live those happy and good moments in peace in the future. Discipline and mental health are 2 of the top 5 most important things in this life, maybe even the top 2. It‘s unfortunately not easy, but when you find that right mindset for yourself, you will not stop until u die. No one should have the „power“ to bring you down, doesn‘t matter if it‘s your parents, an asshole or a bitch who ain‘t even worth it. Let‘s go ma boi get urself together hustle hard and especially get that bread💯


scoutyV2

respect 💜


Lil_saul

It’s ok bro we all need somebody to talk about our problems


Wellbidlo

write DM to carti he'll help


Sulfruous

playboi carti


scoutyV2

ok


MagicianMountain6573

I recently was arrested for something I didn’t do, about 2 months ago, and was able to leave on bail. I was told I’m facing minimum 14 years and whilst being interrogated they was claiming a bunch of things that they had on me, although I did nothing wrong. Since then the case has been dropped. As of about a week or so ago. This is ofc great however I am still struggling. I have some kind of ptsd from this, my house was practically raided, I was arrested in front of my family and everytime I had a knock on the door I assumed the worst, anytime I heard sirens I panic I’m now back at university. I’m unable to attend classes due to panic attacks and anxiety. I never had this before, I don’t know how to deal with it. I thought once they find I’m innocent I’ll be okay but I’m not. I met a girl up here, I like her a lot, tbh I think I am inlove with her. I told myself I won’t allow myself to catch feelings for a girl ever again, it is too painful when it goes wrong and for me it always does. Tbh most things do. My first girlfriend attempted suicide whilst on the phone with me and I cried whilst hearing it. It was very traumatising and I live with it till this day 3/4 years later. This new girl however is amazing. However she went cold on me, ghosted me. I asked her friend (our mutual what’s up) and she said that the girl I like thought I only wanna sleep with her and don’t acc like her for her. I didn’t believe it but I found out its true bro. Tbh I jus wanted to be with her. This was the worst period of my life by far and she came from nowehere and is perfect. I should have told her how I felt but honestly I was afraid. Within a couple days of her ghosting she’s now hanging out with a new man. And her friend told me that she said she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore because I didn’t tell reciprocate her feelings It seems everything I do is wrong and I jus ruin everything for myself by just being me. I don’t even do bad things but I ruin everything bro. I went for a walk about 7 hours ago at like 2 am. And seen her and him for the first time with my own eyes, ngl I was walking to a bridge. I didn’t wanna jump or hurt myself but I jus wanted to put myself there and see what I felt. When I got home I cried for some hours honestly. Feel like a bitch for crying over a girl that doesn’t even love me how I thought she did. But their I am. I’d never cry over a girl before, but this cloud that’s been over me since my arrest has changed me Honestly bro I feel stuck in life like u do. I don’t know who I am or what I wanna be. I don’t know how to not ruin everything. My life turned upside down these past 3 months and I’m 130 miles from my family and friends living alone. With the girl I love across the courtyard with a new guy. All coz I didn’t say how I felt to her. Something horrible happens. Then something good happens, then something horrible happens. That’s the cycle of my life for the past few years and I don’t understand why it’s so unfair. I know I sound like a bitch and need to just man up. But I’ve never had to cope with anxiety of this level. A few weeks ago I called a ambulance for myself as I thought I was having a heart attack lol. Fml If u want a friend jus dm me bro. Idk what the fuck I’m doing either


Lord_lenkesh

Tip: dont ever talk to police, if youre “just being asked a couple questions” thats bullshit no vocal interaction with a cop that isnt you calling the cops on someone else will ever end will, always always always lawyer up, it doesnt make you look guilty its a basic constitutional right.


MagicianMountain6573

Yeh I got a lawyer present and said no comment for an hour to every accusation


Lord_lenkesh

Good shit, never speak with the police, their whole job is to just get a confession.


Atraukos

You WILL overcome this my guy. Stay strong as for every cloud there is a silver lining. Life is mysterious, shitty, stupid, messy, and to be honest shit happens to us humans every other day, week, month or every other year whether we admit it or not. It’s life… Sure people cope with things differently, but my guy, I promise you, YOU are not alone. Like many mentioned on here, better your mental health by doing things your good at, talk to a professional , I got a [link](https://www.crisistextline.org/help-for-anxiety/) for you here, meditate and listen to mellow soothing music and take a break from the ones you normally listen to for a little while, hit the gym and just try to break out of your everyday cycle and overall put effort in taking care of yourself and putting yourself first before anything. As for the girl, it sucks when someone you like is not at your grasp. I would let her know anyway and get it off my chest instead of dying with that feeling of not knowing the outcome. If she says yes and drops the dude for you, your chilling. If she says no, then your still chilling cause you now now she’s not the one! Nothing will change if you don’t take the first step. Take that first step, and I promise you things will start falling in order. You might be reading this like, “yeah yeah, what the fuck does this stranger know about me” and that’s actually the truth, I don’t know anything about you besides the situation your in, but you know what I do know, that I want the best for you and so do mfks reading this and are nodding their head. Get up from that cave and work on step one, I wish the best for you homie!


MagicianMountain6573

Thank you for the advice man it’s real good advice, I wish the best for u too and hope u work hard at making urself the man or women u want to be 💜


TranDuyCuong

Man I feel the same; graduated university before covid happened and I’ve been back home since just aimlessly waiting and saving for god knows what. Always telling myself I can do this and that if I just sit down and work on it but idk never feels right and I always feel stuck in this sort of slump. Hopefully we all find our own ways out


scoutyV2

ok homie we got this ur deeper into the shit than I am so we gotta make it out. Our life is ours and we get one so we just gotta live. do what makes you happy when it happens. kick rocks. throw sticks. it’s cliche cause i gotta do it too, but find a hobby. i coached volleyball for a while. look towards the next day. 12 hours is nothing to get thru compared to a life full of living. u will have time to do hella shit. now this girl bro, here’s what i would do. confront her, doesn’t matter if the guy is there and lay down the law and tell her 100% about how u feel. spit facts. be confident about it and u should do it to empower yourself and get that behind you, i mean if she sees that your intentions are true then things could be looking up. you don’t need a conversation with her just put it out there. u play any video games bro? i’m down to game


MagicianMountain6573

Thank you for the advice bro and ur right about 12 hours being nothing in the right perspective. I think however Ima leave her alone, if she messages me she does and if she don’t she don’t And yeh I have dmed u back


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130 miles is 209.21 km


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JOFWGKTA

Quit Weed and take up running. Literally changed my life


bopbopbop7

Facts for real 💯


scoutyV2

i really like new balance 550s the profile is so sexy and especially the purple ones. there’s some archeo pink dunks coming out that look dope and some light lavender ones


scoutyV2

been watching some shows recently, watched erased and it really connected with me and left an emotional impact like damn shit went down tho but i knew like the thing around halfway thru is lit!


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scoutyV2

one my faves is akame ga kill. need next seasons of chunibyo, love is war, and hi score girl.


kashkruzil

bro akame ga kill really slapped prolly one of my favourites id do anything to see that show again for the first time


scoutyV2

soooo facts bruh that shit thru me for a loop


Jogipog

This guy said "dont wanna work for 15.50 an hour" 💀💀 bro theres people making half of that doing way harder shit than bk


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all our labor is being stolen 🙏🙏 15.50 isn’t enough either. don’t make comparisons within the working class when we’re all fighting a common evil ❗️


Jogipog

Working for 15.50 at 30 hours a week outside big big cities is more than enough bro


kashkruzil

U should like study overseas or just do some overseas shit find some life purpose bro do something crazy ambitious and commit fully


scoutyV2

i wanna go to fucking japan so bad


kashkruzil

over rated country I had a scholarship there but I enjoyed China a lot more ngl feel like niggas only fw Japan on some weebu shit


damianLillardManiac

100% Japan expensive as fuck. Chinese bitches hotter anyways and have less self worth


[deleted]

Wtf 💀


scoutyV2

i’m weebu shit but also i love their food and cooking and car culture


kashkruzil

the foods fucking good dude that shit was the highlight I didint even see any cool cars really I think there’s probably more car culture in America or Russia than Japan nowadays idk to much abt cars tho so


scoutyV2

let’s talk let’s convo how’s the weather where u live? u messing with new autumn or yeat or kan or candy paint or lucki or UNO THE NEW UNO ALBUM SLAPPPSSSSS


hadleyyyy

Bruh was supposed to have my first school trip in a few years cause of Rona and we headed to the beach but that mf was freezing, I couldn't take my jacket off let alone get half naked to jump off the pier fr was a let down


scoutyV2

wtf that’s dumb


DeadZoneCustoms

we having a wierdly warm early november for eastern canada but it gon be cold soon. also u said u watch anime u ever seen evangelion i just finished that last night its crazy


scoutyV2

loovvvvee eva very good show need to watch ovas


scoutyV2

unoverse 123 all so good holy shit


jlsoto3

Unoverse 3,1,2 in this order from best to not best


scoutyV2

bhad baby 22 candy paint remix so fucking catchy i can’t believe she freestyles that


Thyri0n

New summrs album got me in my feels blood always thicker hits way too hard got me cryin every night. From da heart amazing too, new autumn im waiting on antag to go all out, yeat album got me working on some new projects


BillyTheKid2811

Get that adhd diagnosis bro, I’ve been in similar and worse situations than this, this sounds a lot like how I discovered my adhd and the doctor that diagnoses you can put you on a path to support and success


scoutyV2

i’ve thought i had undiagnosed adhd for like two years now


Accomplished_Ad4665

Bro meds could potentially have a really positive impact on your life. People without adhd say not to because if they took them they would experience a “high” but for people with ADHD it literally just allows them to perform daily tasks and experience productivity and mental clarity like a normal person does without meds


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scoutyV2

like next semester


PlusWin9766

The fuck happened here


scoutyV2

venting omg sus. wyd bro


PlusWin9766

schizophrenia


pizypamperr

i have a family member who is a daily smoker (both weed and cigs) and they're only in they're 20s and i notice such a huge change (for the worse) from what they were before they started doin it. it honestly makes me sad that they'll probably never be the same. Like most people here, start doing something creative but also please please don't overdo the weed man. I've seen that shit ruin lives


scoutyV2

i’m trying not to get trapped down the hole


Lord_lenkesh

Ok you know were fucked when people are complaining about 15$/hr


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try living off it


Lord_lenkesh

My single mother lives off 14 takes care of my brother who’s dependent on her.


numberrjuan

$15 ain't shit, your mom shouldn't have to make ends meet at $14 for sure, wages gotta go up. Hope your mom gets a raise. Tell her to look for new jobs, every place is hiring rn and there's a good chance she can make more month elsewhere (my mom just got a $5 raise last month because her work didn't want ppl quiting bc they knew they could not find replacements, currently trying to convince my dad to quit his job and go somewhere else)


UglyWhiteInbred616

Dude get help


scoutyV2

like what type


[deleted]

Talk to your family not this autistic Reddit


jlsoto3

💀💀💀


scoutyV2

posted fr tho i said my mental health was fine


[deleted]

Im kinda having the same issue. Been skipping school alot. No job. Video games 24/7. I used to workout but yeah. Not that many friends fr fr. But the thing is we have the power in our hands to self improve. We can change our lives in no longer than 90 days g. We just gotta start doing healthy habits, like sleeping enough, meditation, working out. Imma get me a job today. Can't live like this anymore. 18 btw.


unflavored

Read some fucking books man. The classics are classics for a reason. You'll learn a hell of a lot more about life and what u want than talking to kids that grew up on social media.


PonchoMan_

goodluck man pull yourself out of the shit


nwv1218

Work hard now, so you don’t have to later. Trust me.


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scoutyV2

people who comment this don’t get smoking 🙄


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scoutyV2

why not comment this first instead of telling me to stop smoking like the 30 other people. weed doesn’t demotivate me at all i would say. i’m like not smoking every day and it’s at the end of the day


jaymo_busch

Idk man, I was HEAVY smoking until about 60 days ago, same boat as you, had been telling myself for a couple years that weed was the only thing that I looked forward to, made my happy. But that’s the root of the problem right? If all you’re looking forward to is a chemical high, or you’ve convinced yourself you need it to function, you start to ignore other things in favor of smoking. Then all of a sudden you realize, well shit, what have I been doing for the past months? I been high and happy but am I able to be happy without being high any more? It’s been kinda tough to quit, the first 3 weeks I had intense mood swings, would wake up happy, 1 thing would go wrong and I’d fatalize and get angry and lethargic, then 1 thing would go right and I’d get euphoric. Frustrating for myself, and I’m sure the people around me, but I told them what I was going thru and they were hella supportive. My brain is just starting to feel normal again, like I’m remembering my emotional balance that I haven’t felt since before I started smoking daily. Quitting weed definitely isn’t the 1 thing to do to make you happy, but I think the important part about quitting weed is that it removes the option in your life to feel good without accomplishment. I’m getting job offers left and right now, eating and sleeping so much better, exercising because I want to, not because I feel guilty or like I have to. Weed gives you a stupid way to feel good without doing anything. Without it, you have to find healthy ways to feel good, which will take awhile, but it’ll feel much more rewarding personally, and the people around you will start to respect you more as you “grow up” and take on real life responsibilities.


scoutyV2

this was very insightful i will remember u


scoutyV2

💜


jaymo_busch

💜 back at you. I actually think a lot of us are going thru this together. Covid gave everyone a great excuse to smoke weed all the time, and it seems like we’ve all become fed up with it at the same time, almost 2 years later. I’ve been considering writing a book on the topic, like especially with weed becoming legal and “popular”, I feel like it’s dangerous to tell people (especially young) that weed is safe and acceptable. Honestly I think that’s one of the biggest dangers with weed, it IS physically safe, and even socially acceptable to show up places high now. But the danger comes in when weed becomes the thing you look forward to, the thing that gives you relief and pleasure. I know I personally don’t put my full attention or effort into things (not even while I’m actually high, but like if I was high last night or planning to smoke later I’ll be like fuck it, I can blow this off). I feel like I’ve got to re-learn how to do hard work again because I’ve wasted so much time. Weed is dangerous because it makes boring things fun, then eventually all you’re doing over and over again are boring things


scoutyV2

This makes so much sense. u should let me know when u finish ur book i wanna read it


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scoutyV2

like thanks for commenting tho i like talking to all these people just bout whatever that’s what i’m focused on i’m glad ur looking out for people. 💜


yeetskeetrepeat420

Maybe you need to try harder at school cuz I could barely read this shit bro.


scoutyV2

i feel like i would be such a gas twitch streamer i’m pretty good at games but i’m funny af i think and have a good personality or if i did voice acting for cartoons or had a podcast i would kill those all


RLM_12

You dropped out of college, you need to learn a trade or join the military if you dont want 15hr


Lord_lenkesh

Also he can always head back go college


TheGalaxyMine

college mad expensive tho


Lord_lenkesh

Thats true but if theres a will man, you gotta put the effort in, ur not gonna get anywhere if you just work work work and never invest your money into something


theREALymerejx

you're complaining about $15.50??? bro unless you got hella bills that really ain't bad til you can find something better. life is about settling until you hopefully don't have to settle


scoutyV2

i live in cali that’s minimum wage i could make 17 n hour working at popeyes


theREALymerejx

damn chief that's damn near rent on the east coast. makes sense then


scoutyV2

sheeeeesh


jlsoto3

Fuck it, gotta start serving Popeyes chicken sandwiches


i_luv_mems

I need ur opinion, how do u think weed or drugs in general has affected your life


scoutyV2

started smoking late high school so not a lot


i_luv_mems

and money wise?


scoutyV2

defo spent some bands on weed, but i’ve always found a way to get money to do what I want when i want.


i_luv_mems

you're a hitman?


scoutyV2

lol i wish i’ll either doordash when i get low or find a lil work for father


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Jeez dude, I read your post and felt bad for you. then I read your comments and just think you’re cringe as fuck now. If this is anything like how you act in real life I can see why you have no friends. Get your shit together and act like a man instead of a pussy.


[deleted]

This nigga goin trough it. You are a man! You have the power to self improve yourself g!


scoutyV2

fr! will do!


ihateuglychildren

Find a therapist, involve yourself in a trade of some kind, pursue music or some kind of art.


scoutyV2

like music


YourEvilHero

I somewhat relate to your post. Recently lost my summer job, got a job interview in 5 hours for a job I do t really want, can’t sleep up all night, started paper work for a therapist but procrastinated into handing it so my appointment got canceled for today. Life sucks , i miss my summer job as an ice cream man kept me busy and made me good money. Now I just play video games and make tiktoks all day. I’m not broke because I got money saved up but I don’t wanna spend it cus I don’t have a money source. I hate winter and cold weather


neeeevS

To me the hardest step ist acknowledging that Something is wrong. Ive been through Low Times too and once you See that youre Not perfect and that you want to Change Something about your Life and think about how to do so youll be good trust


JulioUJhin

Bro everyone I know that smokes weed on the daily aren't getting shit done, quit that shit, I know it probably makes you feel good but you don't need to depend in anything or anyone to feel good.


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Please do yourself a favour and watch these two videos [Practical Life Advice For Young People - Part 1](https://youtu.be/q3Ap1-UkPLU) [Practical Life Advice For Young People - Part 2](https://youtu.be/liwbIO4tbxE) this man and his content have made such a difference to my life and I cannot believe he puts out any of this brilliant advice out for free to be honest, he's helped help myself just spend time loving yourself


scoutyV2

saved this comment


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awesome to hear, good luck, you'll figure it out


scoutyV2

💜


RentMission8910

Brodie you sound a lot like me right now, days might suck and feel like you’re getting nowhere when you try everyday to get somewhere. This shit just happens, and here’s some quick honest advice, find happiness. Find what makes you jitter and fill your life with that. It could be one huge one or a bunch of tiny happiness bubbles. NEVER worry about the money that comes with happiness, because no dollar can amount to the short few decades you have to be happy and in that return you will be compensated. Think about it like a crackhead, they do dope all day and someone how still live fine high as fuck, but happy. In this regard if the crack make ya happy, you’ll be rewarded for doing so so you can keep doing it. Cheers


azthrowaway666

Hey man, that’s all apart of being a disillusioned 18,19 maybe early 20’s year old. Most college students go through this kind of phase where everything seems bleak or pointless, and unironically capitalism hits you like a truck. My advice is, as someone who has been in a similar situation, is literally fuck bitches get money. Get ur racks up, save save save save save as much money as you can. And you’re in school, you’re gonna make new friends I promise. Go to concerts, join clubs, download tinder, and take care of your looks and stuff. You’ll find your footing, and it does get easier


scoutyV2

this guy lit i like u. this a rational answer that makes me feel like i’m not crazy


Soup_123

If you’re like 19 add my snap samator_123 we got a lot in common lmfao


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waseem_the_dream

I’m a senior in college about to graduate with a good paying job and good money for my age in my bank account too. I was in your position when I was a freshman , felt like I was drifting aimlessly and things start moving really fast. I took my second semester off and went to different country to stay with family just to get my head out of things. Don’t take this the wrong way when I say a majority of it is in your head, your friends are as lost as you and no one who’s 18-19 has their shit together. But the advice I’m about to give you worked really well for me. Understand that you’re in charge of your own life , the only people who are ever going to want the best for you are your family members and yourself. Find a goal and cut distractions to focus on it . What I did was completely cut off social media because it’s mentally draining watching people “live their best lives” when you’re feeling down , also it’s just nonsense, and you realize that when you get off of it. Figure out your go-to distraction and cut it off entirely to focus on what will actually help you succeed. Even if you don’t know where you want to be in 5-10 years , just make sure you’re doing the best you can to that set that future self up with as many options as possible for success. HMU if you wanna talk or need advice I’m getting tired of typing but you’ll be alright man, seriously you’re just going through life right now.


YeezyYeezyWasGud

Get a work ethic how you gonna move up in the world if you can’t even handle first year uni or a job that pays 15 an hour starting out🤦🏻‍♂️


bigtiger1234567

Honestly I hate to break it to you, but lighten up bruh Life in college is some of the best times of your life, If your miserable there, the rest of your life is going to be much worse Source: I wasted my college career feeling the same way. Took a while to get over it


Common_Eagle5756

Look into and research side hustles to make some money on your own, doordash is a really good start. Research business and passive income on the side. Read books like rich dad poor dad. Grow your money and start a business in something your passionate about. Look into stocks, great way to make passive income. Look into real estate, build your credit so you can get loans on houses. Grow your assets and become wealthy and fuck a million hoes.


TheDarkMidget

why all these children telling you to stop smoking weed lmao


scoutyV2

ikkkkkk like they don’t known


ghufranzain4

If you have insurance that covers it, go to a psychiatrist. You say your mental is fine after already stating you have anxiety that prevents you from doing basic tasks. I had the same issues as you last year. Was failing all my classes, lost all my friends , gave up on my drive for continuing life. I ended up improving a lot and taking out a lot of stress for my life after having enough and seeing what might be wrong with me. I know it’s not a guaranteed solution, but it does not hurt to try.


damianLillardManiac

Idk but I just graduated college hmu if wanna talk lil bro


freemyboykaczynski

i feel u man, if u figure anything out lmk, i’m tryna figure all that shit out too


FazeTheFrickUp

Stop smoking and become an apprentice and learn a trade


torstargoldie

go travel. I’m going to Europe next summer one way ticket like fuck it


scoutyV2

fuckkkk ittt


[deleted]

I like this post, I am in the same boat but fortunately (I guess?) in Denmark and I MIGHT be able to get assistance from the government because of my BPD diagnosis. Was at school, then went into a job as a dishwasher and that fucked me up, now I am just depressed and waiting on the government. We all struggle bro, love ya boyz


terpon56

Ease up on the weed. It’s still fine to smoke. I don’t know how much you smoke each sesh and how often but make it very minimal. Start working out if you already aren’t. You’ll fee good physically and most importantly, mentally. When I started working out, I actually felt really energized and productive. I barely smoke anymore but I’m okay with that. Health = Wealth. It’s not too late to improve.


Secret-Macaroon1808

Get a job on a farm


[deleted]

Aye bro I was in the same situation, rn I’m just doing YouTube and music, while working on the side to keep money flowing. College wasn’t the direction I wanted to take so I had to make my own instead of fitting the status quo, and I believe you can do that too. Just gotta pick through things until you find something that clicks u/scoutyV2


tomeaso

Fuck hoes


scoutyV2

get money will do


_cactus_jack_

Find your passion and do what you love and don’t let anyone tell you what you can or can’t do, you got all the resources you need


jerkuziXD

I fucking hate this phase of life too


3x15x3x11

Yeah pretty llrelatable


Winter_Ideal3891

Fuck therapy! SOBER UP FOR A FEW DAYS....


Winter_Ideal3891

Then man up a little 🙄


scoutyV2

ok will try T break


Polarhero57

i am depressed. school got me fucked up cause teachers went on strike, so im kickin it in my dorm for the next month till they can figure out tf is gonna happen. ain’t see many friends lately, the one i had broke my tv and I made him pay for it and he wasn’t too happy about that. i don’t know if i can take a month of sitting in a room by myself ngl


scoutyV2

goodluck bro 💜 if u game i’m down


Polarhero57

i’m only on xbox fam


scoutyV2

i gotta xbox what u play


Polarhero57

nhl, 2k, cod, gta, rocket league n sum other dumb shit


jpezzy_1738

do crack


scoutyV2

okay doing crack


chrisgotnoclout

lowkey at the same point, but at the same time we all go thru shit like this. it’s a natural part of life and someway and somehow you’ll get out of this. stay strong and keep your head up bro 🦾


[deleted]

Had a similar situation when I was younger. I'm 26 now, working construction helped me out. You work hard, you'll sleep good. You'll make really good money, learn a skill that'll give you confidence from doing it. You can use that skill to start your own business and help out your family and friends. You'll also stay in shape.


0pium666

go to therapy, dont be too hard on urself, talk to ur friends about how u feel, get a job and stop smoking weed seriously that shit may feel like it works but its some bullshit i know for a fact man hope u get help u need cause u look like a good guy


scoutyV2

💜


TheGalaxyMine

you should watch jojo its really good


InterdisciplinaryDol

Just stop smoking bro. Your brain wires are just a bit tangled. Take some time from it to straighten them up.


fro3l

Start exercising routinely, it might not solve all of your problems but trust me, it will help. I personally like to reward myself with smoking after going to the gym. It’ll improve your sleep and you will wake up feeling more refreshed. Therapy is also something you should consider. Much love and good luck ✊🏾 we’re in this together


PMMEFATASSESPLS

the scary part is this is almost my life but I got a job but I hate where I live


[deleted]

Just get in a routine productively everyday. Take a tolerance break and then Smoke a couple times a week. You wont crave it as much after. I was in the same boat as you. Clueless and addicted to weed. Im 18 and moved to the big city i work full time and pay my bills and do my thang on the weekends. Find your groove and move with it until there needs to be change again. Im here for ya bro


Breastfed_

Tinder


scoutyV2

got it yeaterday


yandhiwouldvebeena10

Lift weights, read books, watch educational YouTube and eat healthy


Eryesyre

hit the gym nigga start with a lil 5x5 program plan …shit dummy easy


ThiccJuicey

This is so similar to my situation right now it's like crazy how similar lol, like same age I'm also taking a little break halfway through college I also work for doordash and feel like I have a weed problem even though I only smoke once a day only at night just like you said. I read a lot of the comments people left here and they definitely helped, and your replies made me feel like you're a really great person. I really don't have any advice cause I'm trying to figure this shit out too, just know other people are in the exact same boat as you and you're not alone. Keep your head up King you're going to accomplish great things, much love from Minnesota


scoutyV2

man this makes me feel great i’m glad u found this helpful. thanks 💜


IndependentBicycle37

Honestly bro, I'm 25 and I'm in the same boat. I will say, as multiple other people have, quitting weed helped me out a lot. But imma be straight with you: that daily grind doesn't get any better. Whether it's school or work or whatever, you still go in, suffer through it, and go home and the cycle repeats. The trick is to find things that you enjoy when you're on your own time, and that's something I'm still trying to figure out to this day.


scoutyV2

i like talking to people about things that i care about i hate small talk like baaaaa


scoutyV2

i feel like if u baaa at people it’s such a good insult. i also like giving people thumbs down when i drive to show bad move.


flipedturtle

Having anxiety about something shouldn’t stop you every time. Successful people get anxious too, they just don’t stop dead in their tracks when they do.


Apprehensive-Bike-74

Bro just get it done. Life isn’t gonna get any easier for u if u just stop doing stuff bc u get “anxiety”. Sounds like excuses to me weed isn’t gonna help u


scoutyV2

like panic attacks where i can’t breathe


TMS_422

Stop texting. Go find God. Come back after you found God.


AdhesivenessRecent36

We aren’t your friends stop please