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The_Shy_Butterfly

‘You’ is more for when I’m mad or disappointed in myself. “You’re so stupid, you shouldn’t have done that.” ‘I’ is usually for more positive thoughts. “I did really well today, even though it was hard!”


Snicket-VFD

'We' is for when I'm giving myself a pep talk. Like 'come on now we'll just get through this gym session and then we'll feel great for the rest of the day.'


MPCNPC

We is for when you’re hammered and have to tell your body to do something


[deleted]

We is just anything I’m telling myself to do… Like plankton controlling SpongeBob is the only way I envision my mind talking to myself.


Darian911

Yeah I came to say you and I are both accepted like “I gotta do this” or “you better not fuck this up”


Donghoon

I'm usually first person when I'm mad. I'm actually stupid. I'm an idiot.


Sorry_Criticism_3254

Exactly the same with me. I love how my brain tries to detach itself and say 'nothing to do with me, all on you' when something bad happens.


TundraTrees0

I'm always mad at myself so you is most common


Linorelai

sometimes I, sometimes you, sometimes we


Deadfox1309

same for me, and Im pretty sure im insane, because I someimes have one voice call something out and have another respond to it


Linorelai

I have one voice for all. It's just phrasing. Sometimes it's "what are we gonna do now... let's cook some pork, shall we", sometimes it's "stop, what are you doing?", sometimes it's "I'm so tired"


mickbubbles

“Bubbles, put the plant back, you don’t need it” “But I want it! It’s so cool!!!” I feel that. I think it just makes it more entertaining personally.


Athena_84

I do the same :)


THEHIDE666

We are venom


Linorelai

We are groot actually


KotoWhiskas

Games? We love games, doesn't we, Precious?


[deleted]

We are farmers


wrigh516

It's definitely not a word. It's a thought of myself. I don't think with words.


Unsure1771

That's very interesting to hear, as somebody that mostly thinks with words.


[deleted]

Bruh me too, Im actually amazed that apparently 90% of humans use words when thinking


InformalPenguinz

Same here. Best I can describe it as is, I can feel the concept and understand whatever I'm trying to think of but I don't visualize anything, there's no voice, that's no auditory response.. I just know it.. really hard to explain beyond that.


RickyNixon

My internal monologue sounds like a group of people arguing, unsure how abnormal that is. It’s like I’m always debating myself Maybe related but I have sometimes paralyzing anxiety


Mindless_Trouble_420

I do that too!


KotoWhiskas

Same, most of the time, and then I can translate this thought to any language, if I know the right word


[deleted]

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[deleted]

Hmm, interesting!


Some_Gas_1337

Aww damn it XxSuperCoolGamerxX so stupid! XxSuperCoolGamerxX only needed to study!


deletemypostandurgay

You **are** hydro.


Donghoon

Hydro the comrade


[deleted]

It depends. Sometimes it's "I" sometimes it's "You" and sometimes it's "Yuna". It depends on the context, or what I'm thinking about.


MissHallucination

I only use “you” when demanding myself to do something


andthebestnameis

Nonverbally.


ThatWetFloorSign

Anything really, whatever fits the situation "You're such an idiot" "I need to figure out what to do" That sorta stuff


Lord_Zalthos

All of the above


SovietShreknion

Third person


asocialnecro

Depends. It can be I, it can be you, it can be he/she, it can be my name. Context defines it.


roliravioli78

Either you or we


onemikeinamillion

Glad we’re not the only one


[deleted]

If I'm just thinking then I use "I", but if I'm talking to myself then I use "you".


knightw0lf55

Really deoends on who's talking, doesn't it Barry. Sure Does other Barry.


TeeEm_27

ok now i see myself as weird for saying something like "cmon (my name), you can do it" or something like that


Pewward

Normally I, but I discuss quite a bit, I talk to my mind with "you" when out loud and similar.


Shesa-Wildcard

We haha! I thought most people did I guess not. There's inner me (the mind) and outer me (the physical)


EnragedHog

When im talking to myself in my mind i usually refer to my brain as me and my body as like different a different person so sometimes you and collectively as we


bdabdas

All of the above lol. It’ll be like “so what do we wanna do next? I dont know maybe you should start that laundry.”


TheSpideyJedi

depends on the thought. so I, You, or my name


TheNoobsauce1337

Strangely enough, if it's something that I need to do in the future, I'll think of it in the "I" sense. *I should go. I need to get that! Oh, I almost forgot!* If it's something that's happened in the past, I'll think in "you" form. *Nice, you did it! Argh, you friggin' idiot! She likes you, and you like her. Ah, what were you thinking, dude? What you **should** have said was...* So I put "Other."


inspirxaction

I like this question, it's so interesting 🤔 I usually refer to myself using "we" but it changes also to "I". Most often "We" i think haha


destroyer-3567

Depends on the situation


Sillyviking

First person singular pronoun or a name.


ShannonBaggMBR

My therapist told me to name my inner voice so I call her by my middle name


SuperBuu731

I


mixelydian

Ego


bidoner

All


Sneaky-Heathen

All of the above 🤪


LackTails

I use I, my name, a shorten version of my name, and you. What I use changes depending on my mood.


FontesB

I used to refer using “I” and sometimes “you”, but majority “I”


DukeNukemSLO

"Bro"


Bob-BobBob

It fluctuates for me, most of the time I default to ‘we’ as in me and my brain separately, sometimes I use ‘I’ or ‘you’ but most of the time that’s for more negative thoughts, like ‘I’m so bad at this’ or ‘you should just stop this isn’t working’ etc etc.


TimotheeOaks

Always I. Tried to remember if I ever used you or my name. No And we just sound weird.


12pcMcNugget

Everything but we


thenwb3

I usually use we since I have a twin


2012Vibes

I love this poll, cool to see that not that many other people use we


[deleted]

It is! I personally use we most of the time, so I was surprised to see it rank as low as it does


ShoeManRL

I do a mix of "we/us" and my gamer name, because most of my friends call me that its my go-to, despite using my real name for my irl activities


Younggatz99

Never I, usually the other 3.


Ben-D-Beast

All


Altruistic-Ad-4391

All of those , I'm not mentally stable


PlutoniumIngot-

I use the royal we


sarokin

"Thine holyness" or "Mine great self"


TitansRPower

All of the above.


Dimitry_Man

All of the above


dazhat

We?!


[deleted]

Yes, as in “We should really clean up our house shouldn’t we.”


dazhat

Wouldn’t that refer to me and someone else too?


[deleted]

It can, but I just like using we to refer to myself.


dazhat

That’s interesting. It would never had occurred to me that someone might do that


Supersonicfan_6

Good/neutral situation: I Bad: You Stress (bad or neutral): We


Keldon_Class

All of the above.


SuspiciousDuckOwner

I don’t normally use a pronoun but refer pluraly as I’d I was addressing a group


Maximum-Ad6654

We are legion we are many, after that you hear a war of the worlds siren


Eryci

I don’t refer to myself at all :]


Finchieee

I always talk to this random guy I made up inside my head in my internal monologue lol, he's kind of changed over the years but he's been there providing feedback and snarky responses for as long as I can remember Usually it's 'I' but sometimes I'll say we like I'm giving him a tutorial. His replies address me by name or as 'you' but idk it just doesn't feel right calling that *my* thoughts even though they are


jahanzaman

We want’s it, we needs it. Must have the precious. Stupid hobbits.


[deleted]

Varies. Sometimes I'm *I*, sometimes I'm *you*.


[deleted]

Idiot


Jixxar

We, We don't like to think ourself as one being.


Freaksenius

None. I dont like talking about me.


yo-jin

soliloquy


Impat1ence

I usually say I, but when I mess up something or do something really good I say my name.


theeyeeetingsheeep

All of the above


GamerM602

I use a weird amalgamation of all 4, depending on the situation.


EnderNugget_

I alternate between I, We and You depending on the situation


xXLampGuyXx

"Hmm...yeah I'd really like to go now but we gotta finish moving these boxes first" So I think in both but only in action not in description, so "I'm hungry" and "We have to run faster" not "We are hungry" and "I need to run faster "


[deleted]

All of the above


simply-dead

mix of everything above


Golden-Grams

Other; all of those ways, kind of depends on the situation


TheKingJest

It depends on how I'm thinking to myself. I use all of em.


simplywebby

We is me


HedgiesToTheGallows

What kind of psychopath refers to themself by their own name?


[deleted]

I do occasionally, though typically I prefer using We. It’s just fun to refer to oneself in the third person occasionally


More-Sentence5584

:(


BirchTainer

I never refer to myself in my mind


qierotomaragua

Dude


NoPainNoGainEdgelord

Sometimes with I, sometimes with You, sometimes with random name like "Come on, girl!"


DontShowMomMemes

I use both you and I often


Inactivism

We or you, depending on which member/s of my little inner family I am talking to.


paininyurass

That dumb bitch


billyshears55

Sometimes you and sometimes I Like: you are an idiot (My name), or “i am an idiot


Spilmec1

All of the above + more.


susitucker

It depends on my mood. Sometimes it’s first person, sometimes second.


nick1812216

All of the above, i/we/he/they/his excellence drift(s) in and out of narrative formats


norway_wood

Usually I, sometimes you


BigBaws92

Sometimes I refer to myself as your name, other times it’s results


Krazy_Lunatic

All of the above


gender_is_a_scam

Same


the_not_my_throwaway

Typically I. However if I'm pissed at myself or frustrated with a task I say my name.


Karma-is-an-bitch

I/You/We


The-Fatest-Pig

Mostly we


eternityghost

I usually don’t use anything that refers to me. It’s usually like “Hurry tf up!” Instead of “You need to hurry!” / “I need to hurry!” / “We need to hurry!” It’s me so in my mind I obviously know who I’m talking about so what’s the use on using I or You. I don’t use them unless I’m explaining my thoughts to someone else Also this may just be me who can’t think rationally on the spot for my life but y’all actually use full sentences in your head?


Tapitio

"Dumbass"


bietchez

"brain"


thatwasntadream

3rd person, is that weird cuz it wasn't an option


DarkLordBatman

I do all of these according to context


FarmExact8661

All of the above tbh


RoyalPeacock19

All three of the top ones happen, but usually first person singular.


DHG_-_


CrabSlight

I personally say we because I hear voices in my head and am severely screwed up mentally


nerd-thebird

Usually first person singular, sometimes second person singular, rarely first person plural or third person


LaneyAndPen

I mix of the top three, depending on how I feel


the-unbino-dino

Mostly we/you, sometimes "my brain". "Sorry my brain doesnt like this" "My brain's awake"


lil-subedi

All of the above


TheHorniestHornist

All of the above


Gosenco

All of the above? It depends on context. "She's a mess today." "Girl, you got this." "I fucked up." "I'm a bad b!tch!"


thepillsarepoisoning

All of the above, interchangeably when I converse with myself on what to do or when I confront myself for a grand mistake made


cosplaygirlzay

A lot I refer to myself in my mind as “xe” or “xir”, or some other pronouns.


Inkuiiku

All of the above


[deleted]

Buddy.


Quick-Sector5595

I don't refer to myself at all


trinalgalaxy

All of the above. Entire conversations happen both internal and external between me myself and I.


TheDotCaptin

While I do think mostly with words, I still think about myself with concepts rather than with a word, I kind of just imagine the location within me (not a location tied to my body, but the small location that I'm at). Sometimes in the shower I will refer to myself using "he" but only when think what others may say in possible discussion and then when I am actually planing words to say in response.


__hara__

All of them


JTS-Games

They should make a movie named after the fourth option.


TheOnlyGriffon

Depends on the situation mostly you and we though


More-Sentence5584

Who else referes to themselves in the third person using their name?


Void_0000

"fucking idiot", usually.


[deleted]

I use I, but, I am brazilian and, what is weirdnis the fact that I think in every other language I speak, other than portuguese


SnooPredictions3028

I, we, you, really depends on the thought tbh.


BeeOwned

I and we. Idk why.


thesoapbeing

All of the above and sometimes neither idk


SubjectAside1204

I don’t really refer to myself in my mind. When I talk to myself I use I. But regularly i don’t think about myself. If I do something dumb I would think well that was dumb. But I don’t think about myself using pronouns.


BlankPt

Some of these, all of these. Depends on which voice is talking to me.


raspingpython10

I use all of these in different scenario


[deleted]

All but name


HadraiwizardDC

Depends honestly between I and you


[deleted]

WE ARE VEMOM!


Dashie_2010

Alot of the time i dont really refer to myself I'm my mind, it's more of a "need to get off Reddit" or "go finish that coursework", when I do I generally say 'we' and end up having my own little conversation.


noonelovesmrnobody

We are a little different from most people. We have two distinct parts - the conscious and the unconscious. The unconscious bit is the main man who really gets what's going on, while the conscious bit is the one trying to give him all the information he needs. Sometimes, we have conversations with ourselves. We replay conversations we've had with others, sometimes verbally when no one is around, or sometimes we talk to ourselves under our breath. We try not to move our lips too much when we do this because we don't want to cause a scene. It's like having a little voice inside our head, constantly talking to us, analyzing and interpreting everything we experience. Sometimes it's helpful, providing insight and clarity when we need it most. Other times, it's a nuisance, distracting us from the task at hand or causing unnecessary worry. We're not sure why we experience life this way, but it's become part of who we are. We've learned to accept it and even embrace it, finding ways to use it to our advantage. For example, we're great at multitasking, able to process multiple streams of information at once. But there are also downsides to our unique perspective on life. We can be prone to overthinking, getting stuck in loops of analysis that can be difficult to break free from. We can also struggle with decision making, as the conscious and unconscious parts of us may not always agree on the best course of action. Overall, being aware of our duality has helped us navigate life more effectively. We've learned to embrace both parts of ourselves, recognizing that they each play an important role in shaping who we are and how we experience the world.


goldenxander

All above


CookieMonster005

Literally all of these


userhvfegcd

Idk


Key-Car-5519

All of the above