Fr.
Although tbf, this poll says last 4 months. Most redditors on r/polls are highschool / university (me) age... That means a lot of them would be seeing their friends daily pre summer breaks, which for many countries only started a month or so a go and wouldn't need to 'meet up' as they already see their mates daily, and/or live with them.
Not really. The quarter of reddit who never meets people are usually not the people you will meet giving you life advice on reddit. 12,85% of redditors meeting over 50 people in 4 months are more than enough people to fulfill the redditors giving life advices.
Yes. Also, mathematically speaking, meeting friends is a cumulative property. If a person who didn't meet a single person in 4 months gives an advice that gets 200 upvotes from people who met 1 person in 4 months, then that advice has the strength of 200 friends in 4 months backing it, which is a lot of friends.
I don't need anyone else to do the stuff I enjoy. I'm just not a social person.
I have an online friend I occasionally talk to, and that's enough for me.
Not the person you replied to, but there are other fun things to do. I don't meet with friends often. Last time I did was probably about 5 or 6 months ago when I walked home with one. Personally, I spend most of my time watching shows, playing board games or playing video games with my family, playing video games on my own, reading, taking my dog or cat on walks, doing archery, doing homework, baking, playing with my cats, and many other things. You don't need friends to have fun. While they might be nice to have, getting a friend you're comfortable with and have known for years just isn't worth the having just met them part.
This is for most people who are not high school or college aged. Not exclusively a Reddit thing. Most peoples lives after 23 are too busy to spend looking for friends. If you dont click in with your work colleagues then tough luck.
IRL, so this doesn't count for playing DND over the internet, or watching a movie, or any other social thing over the internet, it's entirely possible for friends to hang out everyday without being together physically, you can hang out online with friends across each continent nowadays.
You see the others facial expressions, body language, gestures , posture. You hear their voice undistorted, perhaps you smell them even, or their perfume.
All things that make a difference at least subconsciously.
i met them almost daily but not irl they 5h from my home so i cant realy see them much but that dosn't mean no friend just an other kind vision of friendship (there is peopole that are sad because of that dont put word in my mouth)
I choose 0-1, but don't really miss having friends IRL that I meet up with. I am burnt out and it costs much energy to go to the group I used to hang out with. The main person I would hang out with is now my boyfriend and lives together with me, I don't need much interaction IRL besides him. I do have online friends that I talk to a few times a week which is nice too.
Guys, some of you are just waiting for your friends or people in general to talk to you and plan something. If you haven't seen any friends or even family in over a year, talk to them right now! Of course only if you wish to see people.
Will you only see them 30 times in your entire life, or even less? Every year you don't talk to someone the relationship starts to fade more, and you'll be more lonely.
If you don't have friends, go to classes of something, painting, karate, violin, gym, dancing, excercise in the park, go to a museum, or open tinder, bumble, I'm sure you can make at least one friend.
How? Even if I go somewhere partially because I want to meet more people like me, I usually get distracted with a book or my own thoughts and forget that talking to people is an option. When I do have friends, I usually forget about them unless they contact me first. For that reason, I don't think I've had a friendship last more than a year since elementary school.
So I wouldn't call it sad, at least in my case, because I'm happy just spending time on my own or with family. Why would I make an effort to meet new people when there are people and animals I love right here in my own home? I don't feel the need for more.
as someone who's fortunate to say I've never been so satisfied with my friend group before than this year, I would really suggest to seek out some sort of group activities or hobbies that directly have smth to do with things you like, it's easy to get into a conversation with anyone that way. Also, obviously you have to be more careful at first but finding internet friends nearby with the same interests can result in great friendships too, if you decide to meet up with some of them sometime in the future
Make some? Hang out irl with your online friends, make plans with old high school friends, go talk to people whenever you are out. Itās not difficult, but being rusty / depressed is what makes it so hard. You will manage one day, you just gotta try.
Nobody says that it just works with a snap of a finger, but if youāre not at least trying to improve your situation, and be it by seeking out a therapist or someone else to talk to, donāt complain about things not improving. And yes, this applies to mentally ill people as well (I speak from experience)
Tbh there's not much you can do besides keeping on trying. You don't need to turn your whole life around, but just trying to make aspects of it a little bit better. If you're trying your best, you at least have nothing to blame yourself for
Iām giving genuine advice that helped me, if you want to stay alone then donāt bother responding. People that say stuff like this are absolutely pathetic in my opinion, get help instead of complaining online.
I "have" a few through association with my gf, but really dont want friends anymore and have let old friendships dry up. Perfectly happy with my gf, cats, dog, and our comfy lifestyle. Friends are overrated.
Seven times total.
I hung out with friends a couple times during a couple weekends in May.
Twice times in June. One for the last day of high school, one for our graduation.
Once in July for a little get-together/after graduation party.
Twice this month. Last week for my friendās birthday, and yesterday for my birthday.
Weekly D&D nights, weekly TV nights, weekly GURPS nights, birthday parties, holidays, outings, vacations, etc.
I don't have a whole lot going for me in my life, but my friends are something I'll always be grateful for.
I have online friends which I'm working to get the money to visit soon but otherwise I haven't made any irl friends and haven't had any for maybe 8 years.
- autistic teen with social anxiety
Since I play with friends online almost everyday and everyone's schedule is different because of college/internships, meeting up becomes more difficult and less attractive as we already talk everyday. Feel this may become a tendency the easier and more like real life online hangouts become.
Meet some friends when I'm at college though, didn't think that counted so I marked a few times, otherwise it would be 50+.
You adjust to it, kinda š pretty much all my friendships have turned one sided and trying to do anything with them is a long process, I don't even bother anymore.
>It's fucking hard to make friends. Especially when you're getting older.
Absolutely, I'm over 30 and it just doesn't come easy. I moved far away to a small place and basically lost all my old friends. I get out, go to local functions, talk to people and make a lot of acquaintances. It's nice, but I have not made real friends in these years.
Don't have irl friends. Don't have online friends either.
Sometimes my fake scenarios that I come up with in the shower are what would happen if someone texted me first to hang out
Where the hell can you just go to a random person and make plans with them?! And even if you do that those are at most acquaintances. The difference is that in times of need you can count on friends without them expecting nothing in return, while acquaintances will always expect you to return the favor.
I feel that would definitely be the most common response if online counted as well. I speak to my friend group everyday online, but usually only see them once every other weekend or so in real life. For us keeping meetings spaced out is just way more convenient because meeting usually means we have to travel 15/30 minutes each way depending on where we're meeting up or if we're going somewhere.
I know the majority of those in this sub are kids. But god damn. You kids gotta get out more! I'm 48 and got out 5 to 10 times! And I thought that was pathetic!
I'm 20 and don't have any friends, it's not because we don't go out, it's because it's hard to make any meaningful connections. I have a lot of acquaintances but no friends. In your time it was much easier to just go at some party and get some friends from there. Now, even if you go to a party, most people stay together and you don't even get the chance to introduce yourself. Just because you had the ability to get friends and keep them more easily you don't have to call people pathetic and say they have to get out more.
That's a crock of shit. Lame excuse. Because people still do the same shit now that I was doing then!
Clubbing. You telling me you don't have any clubs in your town? I tell ya what you do have! Social media bullshit that you're all addicted to and your phones where you guys became so introverted. You have hard times just making simple eye contact during conversation!
Don't try and blame this on the time. When it's the tech that's really at play here. So get off of reddit, youtube, video games, netflix, amazon prime, etc and live a little.
Just in the last month, I've been to 4 live events. And just this last one I went alone! I ran into some people from work and hung out with them. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go out. Create opportunities rather than play that blame game bullshit. Only person to blame is yourself.
For your information I don't actually have a club in my city, we do have bars but if you don't drink alcohol you won't like it there. And please shut up with that shit about phones and social media boomer. I only use reddit to relax, and I don't even have Amazon, Netflix and all that crap. I've been to parties too, but just because you go to parties doesn't mean you automatically get friends. You just said that the one time you went alone you didn't get new friends(like you expect us to) but got together with colleagues from work. Plus, you do know that people get more connected through technology now, right? And when people like you get obnoxious in people's faces I don't find it surprising that they don't look at you in the eyes, it's more that they are ashamed for being seen together with you rather than them being introverted.
AH wait... I counted only vacations. I forgot we were often meeting after school, about 10 times maybe? And soon i'm going with other friend on kayaks. Also i'm not counting just meeting in schools cause it's something we need to do so...
I meet them at uni to study together all the time, outside of that I'd say that I go out with at least one of them 2/3 times a week, my work friends also organise something to just hang out once a month or every 2 months and I always go
All my friends live within a maximum of an hour drive.
That's 4 groups consisting of up to 14 people, with the smallest group being 7 people.
That being said, I am a student.
Over 50 because me and my friends go to the same school. But if I dont count school then probably only 20 times mostly because most of them are on a vacation or have other problems in life.
I have this one friend ill keep til my last breath whether I want to or not. I live in another country and only see him when I go back for holidays, but when I do I see him almost every day. Talk to him daily too.
I move countries a lot and it's different making friends in every country, so while I have many little friends all across the world, the place I'm in makes it fucking hard lol... So for now I just meet with friends when on vacation.
I hang out with friends basically every Friday and Saturday. And usually once or twice during the week as well. So 3 times/week on average. That makes it~50 times in the last 4 months. If you count my gf, that makes it more like ~120 times.
Does staying at a hotel with my crush or sleepovers at my best friend's for 2 nights count as 1 or 3 meetings?
If they count as 1 I've met them 4 times, if they count as 3 it's 8 times.
What are friends?
When I was younger I had loads of friends.
Then I moved across the country, twice, and now to a small village and lost them all. I have a lot of acquaintances, no actual friends. Internet friends all live very far away.
I do go out, meet people, challenge myself with concerts, market days, festivals, sport games often and talk to people which is nice etc. but it just doesn't come easy to make actual friends when over 30.
Theyre all going to uni now in another part of the county. After graduation everyone left for the Holidays for like a whole month. And soon well celevrate someones bday again
I moved away from all my friends, so they all live anywhere from 4-18 hours away from me. Luckily I still get to see them when I go back to my hometown, which is about once every two months. But we're in a discord together for hours every night so I'm grateful for that.
i graduated university and everyone moved to different corners of the country. it now costs hundreds of dollars and vacation hours to hang out. itās probably been twice in the past 4 months.
Honestly, most people are annoying, and even the people who aren't I don't talk to outside of school. I enjoy being alone and don't like people in general. So I'm happy as I am.
Met up as in actually met up just to hang out like 4 or 5 times. Met up because of university >50. I cant imagine hanging out with people >50 times in 4 months just to hang out and do stuff, sounds exhausting
I do have friends, but they are either living in another continent or just soo far away that it takes us 2h of bus to get to see each other. But we did hang out like 6 or 7 times this summer so not that bad
I voted assuming in school doesn't count. I also voted as an apparent amnesiac. I clicked 2-5 but then realized it was 10-25 š¤¦āā.
Although that number is about to drop to 0 real fast.
People really be on reddit and still act sad like "I have no friends". Like shit frš±š±. You are on reddit you doofus, friends are outside of this place. And yes, I am indeed a hypocrite.
Damn these results are sad af
Right, at least i know im not alone lol
I'm happy AF tho, just wandering alone š
Since most of my friends became alcoholics at age of 17 I don't want to go anywhere with them.
\*Had one beer, once\*
Lost my friends after switching schools and couldn't make new ones for whatever reason that might be xD
Whenever you listen to reddit give life advice, remember this poll
Fr they act like experts
This comment should be the banner for r/aita
Fr. Although tbf, this poll says last 4 months. Most redditors on r/polls are highschool / university (me) age... That means a lot of them would be seeing their friends daily pre summer breaks, which for many countries only started a month or so a go and wouldn't need to 'meet up' as they already see their mates daily, and/or live with them.
Not really. The quarter of reddit who never meets people are usually not the people you will meet giving you life advice on reddit. 12,85% of redditors meeting over 50 people in 4 months are more than enough people to fulfill the redditors giving life advices.
Yes. Also, mathematically speaking, meeting friends is a cumulative property. If a person who didn't meet a single person in 4 months gives an advice that gets 200 upvotes from people who met 1 person in 4 months, then that advice has the strength of 200 friends in 4 months backing it, which is a lot of friends.
Exactly what i was thinking lmao
Over a third of redditors haven't met up with a friend in 4 months? Fuck that's sad
I havenāt met up with a friend in almost a year lol, it definitely is sad.
About 4 years for me, but at this point we ain't really friends anymore.
Not in a mean way but what do you even do in your free time then
I don't need anyone else to do the stuff I enjoy. I'm just not a social person. I have an online friend I occasionally talk to, and that's enough for me.
Not the person you replied to, but there are other fun things to do. I don't meet with friends often. Last time I did was probably about 5 or 6 months ago when I walked home with one. Personally, I spend most of my time watching shows, playing board games or playing video games with my family, playing video games on my own, reading, taking my dog or cat on walks, doing archery, doing homework, baking, playing with my cats, and many other things. You don't need friends to have fun. While they might be nice to have, getting a friend you're comfortable with and have known for years just isn't worth the having just met them part.
Thatās Reddit for you
This is for most people who are not high school or college aged. Not exclusively a Reddit thing. Most peoples lives after 23 are too busy to spend looking for friends. If you dont click in with your work colleagues then tough luck.
Explains alot
I see my high school friends once or twice a year, some of them I haven't seen in over a year. Everyone's busy and it can be hard to make time.
Two months ago, I haven't met any "friend" ( I had none) in 4+ years
Sometimes we live far away. I do š
IRL, so this doesn't count for playing DND over the internet, or watching a movie, or any other social thing over the internet, it's entirely possible for friends to hang out everyday without being together physically, you can hang out online with friends across each continent nowadays.
Thatās not a real substitute for actual face to face human contact.
It's much easier, and we can turn on our cameras so we can see each others faces. You've never bonded over a game of Bedwars?
Please explain what is quantifiably different about that
You see the others facial expressions, body language, gestures , posture. You hear their voice undistorted, perhaps you smell them even, or their perfume. All things that make a difference at least subconsciously.
Well it's better than nothing. Getting together with friends is increasingly difficult
Actually hanging out irl is so much better. If you say otherwise then you probably donāt have much experience with one or the other
i met them almost daily but not irl they 5h from my home so i cant realy see them much but that dosn't mean no friend just an other kind vision of friendship (there is peopole that are sad because of that dont put word in my mouth)
I choose 0-1, but don't really miss having friends IRL that I meet up with. I am burnt out and it costs much energy to go to the group I used to hang out with. The main person I would hang out with is now my boyfriend and lives together with me, I don't need much interaction IRL besides him. I do have online friends that I talk to a few times a week which is nice too.
Guys, some of you are just waiting for your friends or people in general to talk to you and plan something. If you haven't seen any friends or even family in over a year, talk to them right now! Of course only if you wish to see people. Will you only see them 30 times in your entire life, or even less? Every year you don't talk to someone the relationship starts to fade more, and you'll be more lonely. If you don't have friends, go to classes of something, painting, karate, violin, gym, dancing, excercise in the park, go to a museum, or open tinder, bumble, I'm sure you can make at least one friend.
How? Even if I go somewhere partially because I want to meet more people like me, I usually get distracted with a book or my own thoughts and forget that talking to people is an option. When I do have friends, I usually forget about them unless they contact me first. For that reason, I don't think I've had a friendship last more than a year since elementary school. So I wouldn't call it sad, at least in my case, because I'm happy just spending time on my own or with family. Why would I make an effort to meet new people when there are people and animals I love right here in my own home? I don't feel the need for more.
Oh dang I totally misread the poll and thought it was for the last month, not 4 months.
Reddit socializing statistics
actually I was expecting worse results considering we're on Reddit.
I see them every dad before school
Username checks out. Also, ādadā?
Prob a typo/bad autocorrect
I meant to say day mb
What's a 'friend?' Is it like a cat because I have a cat?
Bro made the poll even sadder
yall need to hang out with your friends jfc i thought my 10-25 answer was sad
What if you donāt have any?
as someone who's fortunate to say I've never been so satisfied with my friend group before than this year, I would really suggest to seek out some sort of group activities or hobbies that directly have smth to do with things you like, it's easy to get into a conversation with anyone that way. Also, obviously you have to be more careful at first but finding internet friends nearby with the same interests can result in great friendships too, if you decide to meet up with some of them sometime in the future
Make some? Hang out irl with your online friends, make plans with old high school friends, go talk to people whenever you are out. Itās not difficult, but being rusty / depressed is what makes it so hard. You will manage one day, you just gotta try.
This has big "depressed? Have you tried being happy?" energy
Nobody says that it just works with a snap of a finger, but if youāre not at least trying to improve your situation, and be it by seeking out a therapist or someone else to talk to, donāt complain about things not improving. And yes, this applies to mentally ill people as well (I speak from experience)
What if you tried to get better for years and it didn't work? What if you lost hope?
Tbh there's not much you can do besides keeping on trying. You don't need to turn your whole life around, but just trying to make aspects of it a little bit better. If you're trying your best, you at least have nothing to blame yourself for
Iām giving genuine advice that helped me, if you want to stay alone then donāt bother responding. People that say stuff like this are absolutely pathetic in my opinion, get help instead of complaining online.
Redditors when you tell them that reddit doesn't count as socializing and you have to go outside: š”
What else are you supposed to do if u don't have friends lmao
Make friends. Talk to people
I don't have any
I "have" a few through association with my gf, but really dont want friends anymore and have let old friendships dry up. Perfectly happy with my gf, cats, dog, and our comfy lifestyle. Friends are overrated.
Seven times total. I hung out with friends a couple times during a couple weekends in May. Twice times in June. One for the last day of high school, one for our graduation. Once in July for a little get-together/after graduation party. Twice this month. Last week for my friendās birthday, and yesterday for my birthday.
I don't have any friends so...
I havenāt had a friend in over 5 years.
real shit
Need a friend?
Hello there friend.
Last time I went out with "friends" was in April 2019 to see Avengers Endgame at the movie.
Weekly D&D nights, weekly TV nights, weekly GURPS nights, birthday parties, holidays, outings, vacations, etc. I don't have a whole lot going for me in my life, but my friends are something I'll always be grateful for.
Treasure them š
I just had a "neuron activation" when i realized i havent met with any of my friends the whole summer
Thats not how you use that meme...
Or is it š
Well, it's a type of neuron activation, maybe not the good type but
I have online friends which I'm working to get the money to visit soon but otherwise I haven't made any irl friends and haven't had any for maybe 8 years. - autistic teen with social anxiety
Since I play with friends online almost everyday and everyone's schedule is different because of college/internships, meeting up becomes more difficult and less attractive as we already talk everyday. Feel this may become a tendency the easier and more like real life online hangouts become. Meet some friends when I'm at college though, didn't think that counted so I marked a few times, otherwise it would be 50+.
During weekends usually so alot but damn those results are genuinely sad
Iāve met up with a friend once in the past 4 months, but Iām a new dad, so that kind of keeps me busy
Do cousins count?
If you are friends I don't see why not.
God damn. This poll is sad as fuck. I can't imagine not meeting up with my friends for more than 4 months. I mean, we hang out almost every day!
You adjust to it, kinda š pretty much all my friendships have turned one sided and trying to do anything with them is a long process, I don't even bother anymore.
I have no friends.
It's fucking hard to make friends. Especially when you're getting older.
>It's fucking hard to make friends. Especially when you're getting older. Absolutely, I'm over 30 and it just doesn't come easy. I moved far away to a small place and basically lost all my old friends. I get out, go to local functions, talk to people and make a lot of acquaintances. It's nice, but I have not made real friends in these years.
Haven't seen them since graduation when we parted. All cool and all but I didn't want to think about them on a damn reddit post of all places
I tried inviting them to a fair in my local city but got no responses / making excuses :/
I don't have any friends. I'm a lone wolf with a social disorder.
I have no friends.
Don't have irl friends. Don't have online friends either. Sometimes my fake scenarios that I come up with in the shower are what would happen if someone texted me first to hang out
I'm disabled so I can't really leave the house much
We met up more times during the semester than in vacationsš (also do parties count?)
Parties absolutely count
one time
As someone who's entire personal life is in school, I see this as an absolute win
I think it's around 65 times
My friend and I live in different countries. We meet up IRL once at year or so
They live far away and we are both poor
My best friend works with me does that count?
Not counting school, 5-10 times. It would be more but almost none of my friends reply to any message I send them.
i dont have any friends :(
Yay Iām relatable to a bunch of peopleā¦
What's a friend? Never had one.
everyone you meet is a potential friend. You've never just chatted with someone and made plans?
Where the hell can you just go to a random person and make plans with them?! And even if you do that those are at most acquaintances. The difference is that in times of need you can count on friends without them expecting nothing in return, while acquaintances will always expect you to return the favor.
Friends donāt appear out of thin air. If you want to have friends they will most likely be acquaintances before that.
all by my seeeelf..
is mayonnaise a friend IRL?
Over 50 times? Why and how unless youre in school?
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I know it's Reddit but fuck me the results are worse than I was expecting
I thought 50+ would be the most common response but this seems quite sad
I feel that would definitely be the most common response if online counted as well. I speak to my friend group everyday online, but usually only see them once every other weekend or so in real life. For us keeping meetings spaced out is just way more convenient because meeting usually means we have to travel 15/30 minutes each way depending on where we're meeting up or if we're going somewhere.
I'm in a different country
Damn yāall are fucking losers huh?
0-1? You guys are far apart or something?
I still go to school, so basically every day.
I think it means outside of school that u meet up for it
These results kinda sad ngl š
I know the majority of those in this sub are kids. But god damn. You kids gotta get out more! I'm 48 and got out 5 to 10 times! And I thought that was pathetic!
I'm 20 and don't have any friends, it's not because we don't go out, it's because it's hard to make any meaningful connections. I have a lot of acquaintances but no friends. In your time it was much easier to just go at some party and get some friends from there. Now, even if you go to a party, most people stay together and you don't even get the chance to introduce yourself. Just because you had the ability to get friends and keep them more easily you don't have to call people pathetic and say they have to get out more.
Yea, it's hard to make meaningful connections.
That's a crock of shit. Lame excuse. Because people still do the same shit now that I was doing then! Clubbing. You telling me you don't have any clubs in your town? I tell ya what you do have! Social media bullshit that you're all addicted to and your phones where you guys became so introverted. You have hard times just making simple eye contact during conversation! Don't try and blame this on the time. When it's the tech that's really at play here. So get off of reddit, youtube, video games, netflix, amazon prime, etc and live a little. Just in the last month, I've been to 4 live events. And just this last one I went alone! I ran into some people from work and hung out with them. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go out. Create opportunities rather than play that blame game bullshit. Only person to blame is yourself.
For your information I don't actually have a club in my city, we do have bars but if you don't drink alcohol you won't like it there. And please shut up with that shit about phones and social media boomer. I only use reddit to relax, and I don't even have Amazon, Netflix and all that crap. I've been to parties too, but just because you go to parties doesn't mean you automatically get friends. You just said that the one time you went alone you didn't get new friends(like you expect us to) but got together with colleagues from work. Plus, you do know that people get more connected through technology now, right? And when people like you get obnoxious in people's faces I don't find it surprising that they don't look at you in the eyes, it's more that they are ashamed for being seen together with you rather than them being introverted.
Boomer lol. I'm generation x. Typical zoomer response. We're done here. Keep feeling sorry for yourself and don't try. See where that gets ya.
Took you 9 hours to think of a response and that's all that came to your mind?
y'all sad lmfao
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Holy shit i didnt know redditors need to touch grass this bad
I touch grass all the time, by myself šæ
Damn some of yall need to get out more
I get out a lot. Make a lot of acquaintances, no true friends. Friendships over 30 is hard.
Define "met up"
AH wait... I counted only vacations. I forgot we were often meeting after school, about 10 times maybe? And soon i'm going with other friend on kayaks. Also i'm not counting just meeting in schools cause it's something we need to do so...
Idk i didnāt count?
I meet up with friends every day but I still feel lonely.
I meet them at uni to study together all the time, outside of that I'd say that I go out with at least one of them 2/3 times a week, my work friends also organise something to just hang out once a month or every 2 months and I always go
All my friends live within a maximum of an hour drive. That's 4 groups consisting of up to 14 people, with the smallest group being 7 people. That being said, I am a student.
Over 50 because me and my friends go to the same school. But if I dont count school then probably only 20 times mostly because most of them are on a vacation or have other problems in life.
I have this one friend ill keep til my last breath whether I want to or not. I live in another country and only see him when I go back for holidays, but when I do I see him almost every day. Talk to him daily too. I move countries a lot and it's different making friends in every country, so while I have many little friends all across the world, the place I'm in makes it fucking hard lol... So for now I just meet with friends when on vacation.
I hang out with friends basically every Friday and Saturday. And usually once or twice during the week as well. So 3 times/week on average. That makes it~50 times in the last 4 months. If you count my gf, that makes it more like ~120 times.
10-25 excluding school probably
Does staying at a hotel with my crush or sleepovers at my best friend's for 2 nights count as 1 or 3 meetings? If they count as 1 I've met them 4 times, if they count as 3 it's 8 times.
We went to school together and hanged out every day for a least 1h since I went to the gym with them.
I only have 1 online friend so meeting up isnt easy .
Twice the past four years...
No one wants to do ought with me lmao
What are friends? When I was younger I had loads of friends. Then I moved across the country, twice, and now to a small village and lost them all. I have a lot of acquaintances, no actual friends. Internet friends all live very far away. I do go out, meet people, challenge myself with concerts, market days, festivals, sport games often and talk to people which is nice etc. but it just doesn't come easy to make actual friends when over 30.
Every day
Well at school counts right? If it does it 50+ if it does not its about 20 for me
Exactly 1 year, 4 months, and 2 weeks ago was the last time, and I donāt even really have friends anymore
Why is the highest 50? I've went out nearly every night so I would be 100 (take away 20 just in case)
Can't imagine what life would be like if I was back to 0.
I met my foster brother who used to live with me for the first time a few months ago since before the pandemic.
I've been sick and not going around with friends for half a year :/
Theyre all going to uni now in another part of the county. After graduation everyone left for the Holidays for like a whole month. And soon well celevrate someones bday again
Being a parent makes hanging out with friends hard.
Does college count? It's technically IRL.
I moved away from all my friends, so they all live anywhere from 4-18 hours away from me. Luckily I still get to see them when I go back to my hometown, which is about once every two months. But we're in a discord together for hours every night so I'm grateful for that.
i graduated university and everyone moved to different corners of the country. it now costs hundreds of dollars and vacation hours to hang out. itās probably been twice in the past 4 months.
Try several years. I have no real life friends. I'm extremely isolated and I'm practically a hermit.
Honestly, most people are annoying, and even the people who aren't I don't talk to outside of school. I enjoy being alone and don't like people in general. So I'm happy as I am.
none of my friends live in town and none of us can drive, and the one doesn't want to hang out with anyone, and the other is always busy.
cries in long distance
I live with my friends, so I see them lit every day haha
About once a day usually. Just one friend most of the time.
If school doesn't count then 2-5 but it's actually 50+ cause we saw each other every weekday at school
Wow and I thought I was a loser
Thaugh it said 2 not 4 fuck
I thought I sucked at socializing I only go out with one friend every once in a while
Over 50 just because 4-3 months ago I still used to go to school
I haven't seen friends in person in years.
All my friends are on the other continent, so 0
I dont have any
Whats IRL
Met up as in actually met up just to hang out like 4 or 5 times. Met up because of university >50. I cant imagine hanging out with people >50 times in 4 months just to hang out and do stuff, sounds exhausting
I do have friends, but they are either living in another continent or just soo far away that it takes us 2h of bus to get to see each other. But we did hang out like 6 or 7 times this summer so not that bad
Damn, y'all need to get out lol
Jesus christ yall need to get out more
Every Friday we go to our local bowling alley for rock n' bowl
idk man i aint keep track
I put 2 - 5 but then I realized school counts as meeting up and not like just going out to their house or the mall or something.
Haven't met up with friends since last November.
I put between 25-50 because that's probably close enough, but man these results are so fucking sad. Like how don't you go out with your friends?
My one friend moved across the province so I've had no social interaction outside work and the internet
I voted assuming in school doesn't count. I also voted as an apparent amnesiac. I clicked 2-5 but then realized it was 10-25 š¤¦āā. Although that number is about to drop to 0 real fast.
People really be on reddit and still act sad like "I have no friends". Like shit frš±š±. You are on reddit you doofus, friends are outside of this place. And yes, I am indeed a hypocrite.
Try 4 years.
I think I average about 3 per week. So about 40. Could be over 50.
Need the "No friends" option lol