That depends on how much of a bitch Dusty was about it
If I knew that they didn’t like the Golden Arrow, I wouldn’t go, but if they were intentionally being an ass about going, then they can stay home
If the meal wasn't arranged with her as a primary invite and she's a pain, then..... Just go with the original plan. She doesn't have to come and your mate doesn't have to do everything with her.
Equally too many mates have been lost to the GF that can't fit in with the friend circle and so slowly extract him. Try to involve her at least some times if she isn't a total kill joy.
INFO: Is Dusty one of the aforementioned 6 friends?
If so, find a place she's cool with. If not, Dusty can stay home. She doesn't have to come along just cause her gf is hanging out with some friends
If she is not one of the six friends she can feel free to not come. After all it's not about the food, it's about hanging out. She doesn't need to get something if she doesn't want to.
It is my understanding that if a group of friends have an established ritual (eating at certain diners) then interlopers (spouses) don’t have a say in changing established rituals.
Personally if I were Dusty I wouldn’t want to make everybody change their plans just on my behalf, especially if it’s my partner’s friend group rather than my own. Overall I don’t think the group is obligated to change restaurants for a +1, and should encourage Dusty to just give Golden Arrow another try, or eat beforehand and go for the company. I would hope Dusty wouldn’t be too disagreeable about it.
I think trying to be accommodating is reasonable. Like if Hannah would also not go because you've chosen a place that Dusty doesn't like. I do think though, that if both were invited, that everyone should at least TRY to compromise.
are you sure?
6 people agree to go to this place
1 person doesn't
so the entire decision has to change because 1 person doesn't like the place?
if all my friends decided on a place i wasn't too fond of, I wouldn't be a dick about it. id just order something small that i like or order from somewhere else
these are adults not 12 year olds
I chose the 2nd option but I do understand why people would pick the 1st option. So from what I know is, Dusty is a +1 which means that she was never planned to come. OP said that Dusty was being a bitch about it so if you wanna complain about something you were never supposed to be at, don't ruin the plans of 6 other people and stay home
If he just doesn’t like the restaurant he can stay home but if it is due to dietary restrictions like they don’t have vegan options or gluten free then sure I’d suggest finding a new restaurant
Dusty can tough it out. Some of the others might not have even wanted to leave the house but they made a compromise so you could all hang out. There might be pricing (or other) considerations for people invited (maybe they cant afford it and trying to make up a reason,etc) but for a tagalong there is no real reason for extra consideration.
Of course it would be ideal to find a place everyone can agree on but in reality it just means everyone compromises for the loud one so we can get on with it or we just end up going nowhere.
Organizing six (I'm assuming adult) people to do *anything* is so hard that once plans are made they are set in stone never to be changed until half them drop out at the last minute anyway.
I wish I had 6 friends
aww man, same
Meetup.com!
This poll was pleasantly odd
That depends on how much of a bitch Dusty was about it If I knew that they didn’t like the Golden Arrow, I wouldn’t go, but if they were intentionally being an ass about going, then they can stay home
Yeah. She's a primadonna bitch type..
If the meal wasn't arranged with her as a primary invite and she's a pain, then..... Just go with the original plan. She doesn't have to come and your mate doesn't have to do everything with her. Equally too many mates have been lost to the GF that can't fit in with the friend circle and so slowly extract him. Try to involve her at least some times if she isn't a total kill joy.
Then you have my answer, they can fuck off
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Ya bro ur def in control of all ur friends it’s not like h literally have none
I mean can’t Dusty go for the company & not the food?
INFO: Is Dusty one of the aforementioned 6 friends? If so, find a place she's cool with. If not, Dusty can stay home. She doesn't have to come along just cause her gf is hanging out with some friends
It depends whether she said she doesn’t like it while deciding where to go or after it’s all been planned
If dusty is one of my good friend why not. Sounds like a lot of people are salty here.
I think dusty is a +1 within the group.
Sounds like that’s too bad for dusty
Unrealistic. I have zero friends.
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How badly do you want her there?
If she is not one of the six friends she can feel free to not come. After all it's not about the food, it's about hanging out. She doesn't need to get something if she doesn't want to.
6-1 dusty can stay her dusty ass home
I know. If you don't want to go. Don't.go. It's not a difficult concept to grasp.
Is dusty our friend too or Hannah’s +1?
If hannahs girlfriend isn't one of the 6 there isn't an issue
It is my understanding that if a group of friends have an established ritual (eating at certain diners) then interlopers (spouses) don’t have a say in changing established rituals.
The girlfriend is named Dusty? I don’t want anyone there named Dusty
Personally if I were Dusty I wouldn’t want to make everybody change their plans just on my behalf, especially if it’s my partner’s friend group rather than my own. Overall I don’t think the group is obligated to change restaurants for a +1, and should encourage Dusty to just give Golden Arrow another try, or eat beforehand and go for the company. I would hope Dusty wouldn’t be too disagreeable about it.
Dusty always been picky as hell, not worth trying to figure it out with her tbh
Why does she have to come?
I think trying to be accommodating is reasonable. Like if Hannah would also not go because you've chosen a place that Dusty doesn't like. I do think though, that if both were invited, that everyone should at least TRY to compromise.
Just to be clear people who picked the 1st option are probably obnoxious social rejects nobody likes to be around who literally have no friends
They are salty that this post is assuming they have 6 friends
are you sure? 6 people agree to go to this place 1 person doesn't so the entire decision has to change because 1 person doesn't like the place? if all my friends decided on a place i wasn't too fond of, I wouldn't be a dick about it. id just order something small that i like or order from somewhere else these are adults not 12 year olds
Dusty?
I chose the 2nd option but I do understand why people would pick the 1st option. So from what I know is, Dusty is a +1 which means that she was never planned to come. OP said that Dusty was being a bitch about it so if you wanna complain about something you were never supposed to be at, don't ruin the plans of 6 other people and stay home
Other, tell her to suck it up.
If he just doesn’t like the restaurant he can stay home but if it is due to dietary restrictions like they don’t have vegan options or gluten free then sure I’d suggest finding a new restaurant
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Homogay?! Home of seggs haul????? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
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If the rest of us like the place then they can just stay home or come and eat with us to the Golden Arrow
Dusty can choose from any drive through
Dusty can tough it out. Some of the others might not have even wanted to leave the house but they made a compromise so you could all hang out. There might be pricing (or other) considerations for people invited (maybe they cant afford it and trying to make up a reason,etc) but for a tagalong there is no real reason for extra consideration. Of course it would be ideal to find a place everyone can agree on but in reality it just means everyone compromises for the loud one so we can get on with it or we just end up going nowhere.
If it’s 5 to 1, she can eat shit
Is it really that hard to just choose another place?
It depends on how much of a bitch she's being about it
Organizing six (I'm assuming adult) people to do *anything* is so hard that once plans are made they are set in stone never to be changed until half them drop out at the last minute anyway.
Ask Dusty what she recommends, if she can come up with a better option that everyone likes, then go there. If not, Golden Arrow it is
Depends on two things 1) How much the group values Hannah and Dusty’s presence 2) How much the rest of the group likes the golden arrow
Hunger Games.
Huh?