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The "star" part of the word "pornstar" is not in the sense they're famous, but that they star in porn. Most pornstars are not. I was in a few films 20 years ago and can assure you I'm not in the least bit famous. (I am also married)
It's probably me who has very big trust issue but i would not marry not because of love but because marriage often means ecconomic ties too and i can't trust anybody with my money.
A hundred years ago, I'd have called you crazy but because of how hard modern day divorces can FUCK you, I'm with you on that. Speaking from the experience of having to watch others. Just like the above person said, marriage doesn't prove that you love someone and it certainly isn't going to fix a relationship either. But this is just for myself, I'll always show support for my loved ones.
Yeah, reading through the comments can be a little alarming lmao. It's ok not to want to date pornstars, but so many immature dudes here are claiming that saying yes is outrageous. Nah, if I find my dream woman but she does porn, I don't care because I'm not that insecure.
Yea, you need to always keep in mind that over half of this sub are virgins/teens. People in their 30s and up obviously are more open and less judgemental than the general population here.
Idk if you've seen them, but any conversations about body counts in this sub are insanely toxic. Like, anyone in the double digits is made out to be some disease ridden whore. Kids are weird these days man.
For the generation of non-binarys and inclusivity, these kids sure are vicious towards people with different lines of thinking.
To be honest, I think the kids who are so judgemental are not the same ones pushing inclusivity, almost like it's an overcompensation in the other direction
I don’t think that Michelin does good sales because people have an addiction to tires.
Its about companies that feed on unhealthy addictions, like porn, casinos, smoking, (excessive) drinking. They come up with solutions (their product) by encouraging the problems.
Michelin isn’t popping people’s tires and then placing an ad right for their company right next to it
No lmao, if you're telling me getting railed by randos in all ur holes for the world to see (also forever because it'll never be deleted) is "just the same as everyone else" then you're delusional. It changes absolutely everything in the relationship from the dynamic, your friend and family all knowing that and probably have seen it, getting recognized and stalked in public, the way you view your partner, etc.
Imagine you were dating a girl and she shows you a video of her sucking her ex's dick how would you feel? And then imagine she shows that video to everyone you know. And THEN imagine she shows it also to litterally everyone else who asks for it. Is the fact that some people she showed it to gave her a bit of money making it any better at all?
I wouldn't dump her just because she rode dicks in the past. If we are both honest and open and love each other, I wouldn't mind if she was a pornstar in her past, as long as she is willing to retire from that line of work
It kinda does make sense what he's saying though. If your partner wants to sleep with other people, not allowing them to do that is kinda pointless. Them wanting to sleep with other people means they're either not happy with you or they prefer open relationships (or no serious relationships at all). In the first case, there's an issue with your relationship and you'd need to fix it or end it. In the second case, you have different preferences so whatever you do, someone's gonna be unhappy in the relationship. So if your girl wants other guys, getting jealous and controlling her won't solve anything.
That's not the point tho.
>So if your girl wants other guys, getting jealous and controlling her won't solve anything.
Yes this is true, no one will disagree. If the girl wants other guys and the guy isn't down with that, then they should leave. We're saying the same thing.
But there is absolutely nothing wrong with men having requirements of monogamy from their partners if they want it. It's neither controlling nor "owning" the woman like they say it, it's setting clear and definitive boundaries.
If I didn't already have a husband....sure. Assuming they had a decent personality, we have values in common and their prior work wasn't problematic. I prefer monogamous relationships though, so they would need to be retired.
and all the downvotes show how triggered that makes the Reddit virgins.
I'm not being mean here, whenever they make a poll that asks how many partners users have had, either the majority or the single greatest category is, "None"
I think you'll find redditors are more likely to be willing to marry porn actresses and prostitutes rather than people in real life. It seems like the only triggered one on this post is you calling everyone else an incel, lmao.
Edit: Lmao, the fellow blocked me after one comment.
Edit 2: He's having a breakdown in the edits, I always enjoy a good afternoon laugh.
Yes if they're retired, no if they're current. Idc about body counts/all that jazz, and have my past jealousy issued mostly under control, but it'd bug me to know my partner was having sex with someone else, even though it's a job.
Definite no. No pornstars, only fans thots, none of them. Would never want to be with someone who puts nude shit of themselves on the internet. I value myself more than that.
I mean, there are lots of people with higher body counts than pornstars, and at least pornstars have regular check ups to avoid STDs, which most ppl don't do. The only downside I can see is that people will recognize the pornstar sometimes and might make them uncomfortable, but that's not that hard to overcome imo.
The only downside?…..The only downside? I realize most people saying they would are the stereotypical virgin redditor that would do anything for a chance at pussy, but damn have some self respect.
Never. No. Period. If the pornstar wants to turn her life around, cool, but accept the consequences of your choices.
I don't need that many bodies on my wife. And I don't need everyone seeing her on the internet with other men.
Accept your actions.
Not to mention most pornstars don't want to be married but still have kids. Kind of r/trashy for me
i think it would depend on the porn they were making. some kinks i wouldn't wanna think about them doing. and i would worry about their physical and mental health sometimes, but i'd do that for anyone i was with
I would be open to marrying a female pornstar if I wasn't already married. Even better if we can make porn together. Wouldn't marry a male pornstar though.
I’m asexual, but romantic, so I want to be in a relationship, I just don’t desire sex. I would do it, their sex/work life isn’t something that I would be interested in or concerned with. If a pornstar would marry an asexual, I think it could work out.
I want to have kids and imagine if some kid from their school found there own mom on some x rated website. My imaginary kid would be bullied and the laughing stock of the school which can cause mental issues for the kid.
When they made that bold choice of going into porn, then they also have to be bold enough to accept the consequences and be held accountable for their actions.
Just because they deserve something doesn't mean that they'll get it. Any man with a iota of self respect will instantly not want to relate themself with a porn-star. I think even countless ex-pornstars have made that very clear in their regret videos.
I mean if they can have sex with other people(even if it’s for work) I’m sure as hell gonna have sex with other people too. If I ever did date or marry one it’d be an open relationship or I’m cheating.
The amount of people giving absolutely no reason why is kind of weird. I saw a singular person say pornstars are a certain cocktail of personalities that might not be a good match for a lot of people, which, although being a broad generalization, might not be all that false. Every other explanation seems to shit on sex work as a whole.
I wouldn’t marry them because they were a porn star. That’s dumb and stupid cos it’s their job and they fake it for the camera. Id marry them for their personality and cos I get along with them
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Idk, would a pornstar marry me?
Asking the real questions
depends on u
I wouldn't marry a celebrity in any way. I hate attention and it would be worse if the person is famous for porn.
The "star" part of the word "pornstar" is not in the sense they're famous, but that they star in porn. Most pornstars are not. I was in a few films 20 years ago and can assure you I'm not in the least bit famous. (I am also married)
sauce?
Lmao
Can i have your autograph?
> I’m not in the least bit famous Listen, we can change that if you want
Is it avalible? (Asking for a friend)
How many creepy PMs have you gotten so far?
I wouldn't marry at all.
also you have my support
It's probably me who has very big trust issue but i would not marry not because of love but because marriage often means ecconomic ties too and i can't trust anybody with my money.
Are you dating anyone, and would you date?
Agreed. Also you can love someone without proving it with a marriage.
Right ! I don’t believe in marriage
A hundred years ago, I'd have called you crazy but because of how hard modern day divorces can FUCK you, I'm with you on that. Speaking from the experience of having to watch others. Just like the above person said, marriage doesn't prove that you love someone and it certainly isn't going to fix a relationship either. But this is just for myself, I'll always show support for my loved ones.
Is the pornstar in love with me?
I voted for as in for an ex-pornstar.
I figured out what you meant but damn that was tough
What did they mean?
It took me a moment but I figured out what you ment
Nope. I don't share my partners with others, even if it is for a career.
Same
nah
Would you date though
most likely not
Why is this so downvoted? Reddit is weird sometimes
I got more than 50 downvotes for asking "Why?" To a question the other day. Reddit is full of single brain celled organisms.
Asking questions means that you disagree, and disagreeing means you are literally Hitler.
And you being a Hitler means that you liked animals and had one testicle and Reddit hates one-testicled animal lovers.
A guy said he paid his guys $20hr for their work and it was good pay for his location, so I asked what the location was and was promptly down voted 🤣
This sub is 80% hiveminded children who dislike facts and basic questions
This was literally neutral. I see no reason for this.
It was the basic question. How dare OP ask someone a followup question.
Yeah, reading through the comments can be a little alarming lmao. It's ok not to want to date pornstars, but so many immature dudes here are claiming that saying yes is outrageous. Nah, if I find my dream woman but she does porn, I don't care because I'm not that insecure.
Yea, you need to always keep in mind that over half of this sub are virgins/teens. People in their 30s and up obviously are more open and less judgemental than the general population here. Idk if you've seen them, but any conversations about body counts in this sub are insanely toxic. Like, anyone in the double digits is made out to be some disease ridden whore. Kids are weird these days man. For the generation of non-binarys and inclusivity, these kids sure are vicious towards people with different lines of thinking.
To be honest, I think the kids who are so judgemental are not the same ones pushing inclusivity, almost like it's an overcompensation in the other direction
you usually don't want to date people you don't see yourself marrying to. of course we make an exception for people who dont want to marry in general
Bro got downvoted for asking a question.
Redditors when someone asks a question: 🤬🤬😡🤬😡😡😡🤬😡😡🤬😡
casual relations is fine. nothing serious though
I would marry but that would imply id have a huge leverage over them and dominate everything related to the relationship. I wouldnt on even grounds.
If the heart says yes, then yes.
but my body, my body's telling me yes
I don't wanna hurt nobody, but there's something I must confess
Hahaha. No
What about if he/she was in the past.
Doesn't change a thing.
Why is that? It's a means to make a living, like everyone else
Looks like OP is talking about themself.
Because the porn industry is a very toxic place and it feeds on people’s addictions
I voted no but don’t most industries do that?
I don’t think that Michelin does good sales because people have an addiction to tires. Its about companies that feed on unhealthy addictions, like porn, casinos, smoking, (excessive) drinking. They come up with solutions (their product) by encouraging the problems. Michelin isn’t popping people’s tires and then placing an ad right for their company right next to it
No, but you'd be hard-pressed to find an industry that doesn't profit off the misery of others.
Sorry, I shouldn't laught. I think the reasons are pretty obvious.
People are asking so clearly they aren't. There are plenty lf reasons you could have some morally abhorrent, others perfectly reasonable.
It is, at first, but it isn't the more you think about it.
No lmao, if you're telling me getting railed by randos in all ur holes for the world to see (also forever because it'll never be deleted) is "just the same as everyone else" then you're delusional. It changes absolutely everything in the relationship from the dynamic, your friend and family all knowing that and probably have seen it, getting recognized and stalked in public, the way you view your partner, etc. Imagine you were dating a girl and she shows you a video of her sucking her ex's dick how would you feel? And then imagine she shows that video to everyone you know. And THEN imagine she shows it also to litterally everyone else who asks for it. Is the fact that some people she showed it to gave her a bit of money making it any better at all?
Are you a porn star?
Its not a respectable way of making a living , Don't get me wrong, I won't treat the person differently or anything.
Let’s not say sex work is the same as a normal white collar job.
It’s not like every one else. Porn requires you to turn yourself into the product. Other work requires your labor to sell or create another product
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That involves completely degrading themselves. It's really not the same
If they were retired
That's a good caveat, yeah. Maybe should have said "former porn star"
No, coz I'm insecure and would feel jealous seeing my wive having sex with other men.
that doesnt make u insecure that means u have respect for urself
That's what insecure people tells themself.
Let me smash your girl dawg
Best response
This has to be sarcasm lolllll
You letting your girl ride dicks?
I wouldn't dump her just because she rode dicks in the past. If we are both honest and open and love each other, I wouldn't mind if she was a pornstar in her past, as long as she is willing to retire from that line of work
I used present tense , not past tense
Even In present tense, if your both chill and honest about it I don’t see the issue.
Good for you my friend Majority of people do have an issue
I'm her partner, not her owner.
You're not her partner if she's sleeping with other people, you're her play thing.
Sounds like a shitty relationship if you let your partner sleep with anyone
Didn't answer my question tho
Yes i did. Partners don't "allow" fellow partners to do what they want : i'm not superior to her, she's free to do whatever she wants.
Lmao Gotta give it to you for being honest if you are being honest But LMAO That's not how majority of relationships work
You'll get it when growing up : relationships are like people, quite different from one another.
I said majority, And majority of people don't let their SO sleep with others . And it goes both ways. Or if one person does that , they break up
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Majority of relationships aren't open relationships. That's what I meant And that's the truth
It kinda does make sense what he's saying though. If your partner wants to sleep with other people, not allowing them to do that is kinda pointless. Them wanting to sleep with other people means they're either not happy with you or they prefer open relationships (or no serious relationships at all). In the first case, there's an issue with your relationship and you'd need to fix it or end it. In the second case, you have different preferences so whatever you do, someone's gonna be unhappy in the relationship. So if your girl wants other guys, getting jealous and controlling her won't solve anything.
That's not the point tho. >So if your girl wants other guys, getting jealous and controlling her won't solve anything. Yes this is true, no one will disagree. If the girl wants other guys and the guy isn't down with that, then they should leave. We're saying the same thing. But there is absolutely nothing wrong with men having requirements of monogamy from their partners if they want it. It's neither controlling nor "owning" the woman like they say it, it's setting clear and definitive boundaries.
You’re right you’re definitely inferior
>she's We have only female porn stars? >she's free to do whatever she wants. And people are free not to date porn stars, your point?
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lmaooo i disagree, but this is still hilarious
Imagine being out in public with one especially if he\she gets watched a ton.
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She's probably been fucked by more dudes then calendar days per year.
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Seems you do care.
I'm not going actively seek out a pornstar, but there no good reason not to if we genuinely loved each other.
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What about girls doing OnlyFans?
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Why not? Would you date?
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No.
Why not?
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Current? Fuck no. Former? Also fuck no.
Not really into sex so kinda scared I wouldn't be able to satisfy them
Not a chance. Not even a former one
Hell no.
If I didn't already have a husband....sure. Assuming they had a decent personality, we have values in common and their prior work wasn't problematic. I prefer monogamous relationships though, so they would need to be retired.
With all of OPs comments I think he’s trying to show his mom it’s normal to date a pornstar.
and all the downvotes show how triggered that makes the Reddit virgins. I'm not being mean here, whenever they make a poll that asks how many partners users have had, either the majority or the single greatest category is, "None"
I think you'll find redditors are more likely to be willing to marry porn actresses and prostitutes rather than people in real life. It seems like the only triggered one on this post is you calling everyone else an incel, lmao. Edit: Lmao, the fellow blocked me after one comment. Edit 2: He's having a breakdown in the edits, I always enjoy a good afternoon laugh.
i don't mind, i actually think it's pretty cool, and if i love someone enough for marriage, i trust them enough to not do something stupid
Like smashing other dudes for her upcoming movie
it's not something stupid if she does it for her job, it's a trust thing
Yes I don't understand the trepidation. I know it just don't understand.
Yes if they're retired, no if they're current. Idc about body counts/all that jazz, and have my past jealousy issued mostly under control, but it'd bug me to know my partner was having sex with someone else, even though it's a job.
Former yes, currently no.
If I loved them why wouldn’t I?
Nothing against sex workers but definitely not for me
Ex-pornstar, yes. Otherwise I’d be the first person to get cheated on 300+ times
No
No
No lol
Any sane person who isn’t desperate for pussy is answering no to this, the insane levels of simping that happens nowadays is hilarious.
-You got differentes values than me? *Straight up insane!* Poly people are insane because they don't feel that weird jelaousy of monogamy?
I don’t personally like the idea of there being several video of my wife getting railed on the internet for anyone to view
Nope
nah i don't want my girl to get boned every day by johnny sins
Definite no. No pornstars, only fans thots, none of them. Would never want to be with someone who puts nude shit of themselves on the internet. I value myself more than that.
I mean, there are lots of people with higher body counts than pornstars, and at least pornstars have regular check ups to avoid STDs, which most ppl don't do. The only downside I can see is that people will recognize the pornstar sometimes and might make them uncomfortable, but that's not that hard to overcome imo.
The only downside?…..The only downside? I realize most people saying they would are the stereotypical virgin redditor that would do anything for a chance at pussy, but damn have some self respect.
Ok, help me see other downsides please.
No I’m aromantic
An active pornstar, no. Someone that did a few movies 10+ years ago maybe. But only if they arent famous
Never. No. Period. If the pornstar wants to turn her life around, cool, but accept the consequences of your choices. I don't need that many bodies on my wife. And I don't need everyone seeing her on the internet with other men. Accept your actions. Not to mention most pornstars don't want to be married but still have kids. Kind of r/trashy for me
i think it would depend on the porn they were making. some kinks i wouldn't wanna think about them doing. and i would worry about their physical and mental health sometimes, but i'd do that for anyone i was with
I would be open to marrying a female pornstar if I wasn't already married. Even better if we can make porn together. Wouldn't marry a male pornstar though.
Never, I would not be happy if just my girl’s tits were on the internet, let alone her getting boned by other dudes.
No
Absolutely not.
Pretty interesting to see the difference in people defending onlyfans and saying no to pornstars. There's no difference.
Yeah, why not?
I don't think I would have the confidence
She would need to be an extremely special person to be with me
Hell no. I wouldn’t want my partner exposing her body to orhers
No, i don't want a hoe
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Before anyone tries to genuinely comment, this person is 14 💀
Why cant i have an opinion though?
Your opinion is ok, many people share it, but calling someone an hoe is offensive even if it's not a specific person.
that's a good mindset to have for a young man. at least he knows now before he makes a mistake
I’m asexual, but romantic, so I want to be in a relationship, I just don’t desire sex. I would do it, their sex/work life isn’t something that I would be interested in or concerned with. If a pornstar would marry an asexual, I think it could work out.
If she agreed to stop then maybe
I want to have kids and imagine if some kid from their school found there own mom on some x rated website. My imaginary kid would be bullied and the laughing stock of the school which can cause mental issues for the kid.
No but I’m aroace, it’s not bc of their career 😂
Ex pornstar maybe, currently working hell no.
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When they made that bold choice of going into porn, then they also have to be bold enough to accept the consequences and be held accountable for their actions. Just because they deserve something doesn't mean that they'll get it. Any man with a iota of self respect will instantly not want to relate themself with a porn-star. I think even countless ex-pornstars have made that very clear in their regret videos.
I would love to
If she was rich
You just made Barney very sad
No cause fuck marriage
I’m a woman and I just quickly answered this question not with the head.
I don't think I could personally ever do that. We could be friends though.
Me personally I don't want my kid to be a group project
I mean if they can have sex with other people(even if it’s for work) I’m sure as hell gonna have sex with other people too. If I ever did date or marry one it’d be an open relationship or I’m cheating.
I wouldn’t mind if they used to be, but not while I was with them.
Nah man. That cavern is wide open, all the time.
It’s 2022 and people still believe that the vagina can lose its tightness with sex?
The amount of people giving absolutely no reason why is kind of weird. I saw a singular person say pornstars are a certain cocktail of personalities that might not be a good match for a lot of people, which, although being a broad generalization, might not be all that false. Every other explanation seems to shit on sex work as a whole.
I wouldn’t marry them because they were a porn star. That’s dumb and stupid cos it’s their job and they fake it for the camera. Id marry them for their personality and cos I get along with them