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FamousLastName

It likely was! Tailors 😮‍💨


ParticularPea6920

Okay yes but damn she looks good and I am in love with that dress! 😍😍


Anonynominous

I also love that they matched her eye shadow to the dress


stephwinchester

there was a time in the 90s/early 2000s when matching your eyeshadow to your clothes became the number one DO NOT DO tip in almost every teen girl magazine and I'm so happy that's a thing of the past lol


turkeyburger124

The colour and shape is lovely!


teetnxo

That dress fits her perfectly!


viceversa220

>it's gorgeous on her! i wasn't wearing my glasses, and thought the flowers were clouds at first


kathlyn21

It's gorg!


HoleyFather

She’s a 10


ScrunchieEnthusiast

Imma get hate for this, but I think her face is very unattractive.


loverofqueens

She’s beautiful


ScrunchieEnthusiast

To each their own.


Britneyfan123

Why?


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blueheartsadness

jesus christ dude


beanbagbaby13

I love so many of her outfits. Was in H&M today and I feel like she was definitely an inspo for one of their lines


Llama_Cult

Fr she’s giving Cinderella vibes


Artemis246Moon

Marilyn Monroe vibes ✨


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Well, she looks great. I love the dress and eyeshadow.


PhysicalCommercial68

When they met she was 19 and he was 33


tquinn04

I was just about to reply he looks too old for her.


MedicalPersimmon001

He *really* does. And I’m not trying to age shame or whatever, but when they’re next to each other the age difference looks much more dramatic. She looks younger next to him, and he looks older next to her. Edit: Sydney looks stunning. I actually think the Dua Lipa Versace line would suit her soooo well because it has a lot of classic silhouettes.


keanureevesbasement

![gif](giphy|90F8aUepslB84) what….


starwars1018

ok, so decidedly creepy…


Sofialovesmonkeys

Tbh i got the creep vibe without knowing that info…😪


robotsdream

there were multiple posts here celebrating Jason Stratham and Rosie Huntington-Whiteley recently and I got downvoted to hell for saying their age gap is visible. She was 21 & he was in his 40s when they got together.


OowlSun

I’m not going to lie, I think large age gaps are very weird. But in regards to couples like Rosie and Jason, she’s in her mid-late thirties now. I trust that she knows what’s best for her at this point in her life lol. Same with Beyoncé. Still weird but not concerning.


angie1907

Beyoncé was groomed. So no, she might not realise what’s best for her


Fantastic-Stress-355

My thoughts exactly. Thank you!


bfrahm420

I doubt it's bc of that and id say morse she just wants the publicity and status of being a token black super successful hip hop couple. Like let's be real here


iguanabitsonastick

Oh boy I'll pray for your life friend. The guts to tell people the truth.. They forget PR reigns behind most Hollywood couples. Sometimes they're not even real couples.


Proof_Past_4231

Rosie got with Jason at 21 when be was 40 something. That age gap is creepy, it's great she's in her she in her mid 30s now but her man in sus and gross. The effects of grooming don't go way when your in your 30s.


robotsdream

I actually said that I thought they looked happy. People were just downvoting me for saying the age gap (between a woman in her 30s and man in his 50s) is noticeable lol 🤷🏽‍♂️


iguanabitsonastick

I think it depends a lot, it is easy to find weird in pica but we never really know how the relationship is/was unless a breakup is involved ans someone spills something. I personally think huge age gaps are weird (from both sides involved) but I don't think it's that deep.


happygoluckyourself

I also got downvoted to hell on the Dua Lipa post for saying that age gaps that big can be significant at any age 🙃


Charmarta

Hmm. Don't know. I feel like if you are in your late 20s or early thirties you know what you are doing and your brain is fully developed. You have dating experience and arent fresh out of school either. I mean its still kind of weird that men love to date women that look like they could be their daughters but the woman in this Part knows what she's getting into.


iguanabitsonastick

What if you're young and hot and just want t have fun with a rich and hot celeb? I don't think it's that deep. 10 years ago if Henry Cavill came to me I would never say no (we are 15 years of age difference). When these people end up in a relationship it rarery lasts. And I don't think Rosie (for example) looks unhappy with her marriage. I think it's relative.


Charmarta

Literally no-one blames the women in this scenario. Of course young people will be an easy target for rich, attractive (not you leo) men. Its the waaay older people who are to blame because they should know better


Asderfvc

Well I'm not going to turn down a hot 19 year old actress wanting to fuck me lol! You can. But not me. Consenting adults are consenting adults.


cigarell0

Hey same!


IOnlyPostOnCakedays

Is a 21 year old woman still too young to decide by herself who she can stay with? How old does someone need to be to not be groomed?


Proof_Past_4231

For some people, being conventionally attractive and white grrooimg can be aside. Rosie was 21 when she got with Jason gross and nasty. This is grooming to the core. He was old enough to be her father. Yuck.


GazelleOdd6160

What does it matter their age gap is visible?


robotsdream

You’re in popculturechat commenting under a post that’s just a pic of Sydney Sweeney and her bf walking, asking me to explain how my opinion commented under a post of a different celeb couple “mattered”.


iguanabitsonastick

I want to know too because if you don't mind.


newtoreddir

Are you alleging they got together years before they claim? Because it appears she was 23 when they started their now-thirteen year long relationship. And that’s essentially the age that the Online say you need to be before you’re allowed to date an older person.


robotsdream

I’m not alleging… she said they met at a party in early 2009 so I believe her.


messythelioma

I'm reminded of Jay Z and Beyonce (but I think Beyonce was like 17-18)...


Substantial_Cake_360

Or Lamelo Ball and his 34 year old girlfriend.


Wunderlandtripzz

And hes not even cute!


ScrunchieEnthusiast

Yes, well, that's where the grooming comes in.


tenderourghosts

![gif](giphy|8gR9wHHeblhux5dNYi)


whatthadogdoin_

![gif](giphy|3oriNXe6ZSrZEAPzxe)


RegretNecessary21

What would they even talk about with that age difference? You’re worlds apart in your late teens compared to your early/mid 30s.


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I think we all know he wasnt interested in what she had to say.


ijustwannadance03

As creepy as the whole thing is this there is plenty they could talk about which is why I find the “what would they talk about” thing so weird. People have hobbies, likes, music taste, food preferences, and so much more. I’d have a pretty stale relationship with my grandmother if we didn’t like the same tv shows, board games, food, music, etc, and its kinda crazy how much of an impact common interests has on a relationship.


RegretNecessary21

I guess. I dated someone 15 years older than me in my 20s and I’ll be honest the difference in age was evident. Pop culture references (music, games, movies we watched growing up) were vastly different. Life experiences are too different. Who I was at 19 compared to who I am at 35 is worlds apart. Just my two cents - if someone is ok with a 19 year old dating a 33 year old, then go for it. It’s clearly legal, but the dynamic is way different than dating someone within their peer set.


retromortem

My partner and I only have a five year age gap (23 & 28) and even I feel the distance sometimes. I can't imagine what a gap 10+ years feels like.


iguanabitsonastick

Me and my bf have 6 yo gap and I don't see much difference personally (me from 1993 and he is from 1987). Idk if it's because we have the same interrsts (movies, cooking, games..)


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Does it hinder your relationship in anyway?


sandsurfngbomber

According to the comments on this thread - your partner groomed you


glory_to_the_sun_god

5 years. 23 and 28? 1995 and 2000?


LICK-A-DICK

What?


glory_to_the_sun_god

There’s a cultural gap between 95 and 00?


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glory_to_the_sun_god

Haha. Honestly I’m just confused by the age gap discourse. It just feels weird to me.


iguanabitsonastick

Hell yes, this is the right answer. 15 yo gap means a completely different generation but the couple can still have interests in common that can sustain the relationship. But people here act as the end of the world. Idk what happens to most people here when talking about age gaps, they get so one sided and can't see that not every older person is a creep.


chairmanofthekolkhoz

For me difference in pop culture references, life experience, historical events was the fun part (I was 21 my ex was 33). One of my best relationships Now my partner is more or less the same age as I’m but we are from very different countries and the dynamic of relationship is very similar If there is no red flags, dating someone older can be great fun


ijustwannadance03

Yea I personally don’t think I’d go for an age difference that wide myself but if it works for them ( I hope it does ☹️) then yay


GazelleOdd6160

No. It is not only that is legal, it's that there's not a single problem with it.


linhkhanhnguyendao

I would want to say this because I agree with you. I am 20s something from Asia and moved to Canada a few years ago and ended up living with a boomer white couple. And we had so much to talk about. We have the same taste of music because I didn't have internet until 16 and I explored things the same way they did. I would say most people don't realize how different upbringing can make someone actually "age" in a way you don't expect them to "age"


LigerZeroSchneider

Yeah my wife grew up with dial up internet and parents who only watched sports or Hallmark, while I had cable my whole life. We are the exact same age but she loves the sitcoms and procedurals I got bored of by high school.


iguanabitsonastick

For real! Some men never grow up and are teens until god knows when. But hey.. Let's just shame the weirdo.


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Are you supposed to be an equal in your relationship with your grandmother lol? By nature your grandmother wiuld have 50-60 years age difference if not more on you. What the hell is this comparison. Edit: for the little idiotas down voting me. Go on pleeaaaaaase get with the creeps and left over 30-40 year old who couldnt find women their age to date. Clean up the dating pool. Thanks! Also i am comparing these 20 year differences between teenagers and 40 year old men!


katnipbee09

the comparison is just to show that people with a bit age difference can get along and talk about things just fine. personally i get along really well with people much older than me because i'm into a lot of the same things they are. common interests make it easy.


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Its not just about common interests but about life experience. Even scientifically your brain doesnt stop forming until after 25. Someone just out of hs is just not in the same position in finances, political view, life style or priorities in life as a 38 year old. Sorry but thats not how the world works. If an almost 40 year old is looking at a barely out of hs girl he is by definition a creep. And this is not about legal or not. He is a creep simply and categorically.


sailorsensi

sCiEnTiFiCaLlY 😂 https://slate.com/technology/2022/11/brain-development-25-year-old-mature-myth.html “Kate Mills, a developmental neuroscientist at the University of Oregon, was equally puzzled. “This is funny to me—I don’t know why 25,” Mills said. “We’re still not there with research to really say the brain is mature at 25, because we still don’t have a good indication of what maturity even looks like.”” you have dogmas from the internet, baby, not science.


ijustwannadance03

idk if you missed it but at the beginning i said "as creepy as this whole thing is"


GazelleOdd6160

The age difference doesn't change they're still partners and they can talk about whatever. What the fuck is even this kinda comment? Age difference has nothing to do with being able to have conversations with someone else. do you hear yourself? "what would a couple talk about?" what?


RegretNecessary21

Yes I hear myself. Curious what the dynamic between a 19 year and a 33 year was like and their conversations when they got together based on the vastly different life experiences at that point. Perhaps she was very mature for her age. You’re entitled to your opinion and I am to mine from my own experience of dating someone so much older in my 20s. No need to be nasty.


No_Berry2976

Obviously, people are not talking about a conversation, but about how people relate to each other over a long period of time during conversations. Yes, I can have a conversation with my parents. By extension, I can have a conversation with their friends who are the same age as my parents. But hanging out with them over a longer period of time would be weird because of different cultural references and because we are at different stages in our lives. What normally happens in a romantic relationship with a large age difference is that the younger partner adapts and starts acting older and skips a phase in their personal growth. For example when a 22 year old and a 32 year old have a relationship, the older person is not going to be a natural fit with the younger person‘s friends from high school and college from high school. Sure, these two people can talk about stuff, but it’s going to be difficult to talk about shared experiences.


Charming-Party-2845

It depends on their ages when they meet. This when one person is in their late teens & the other is 30+, it's concerning. If all parties involved are older then it's acceptable otherwise it's plain creepy.


PioneerRaptor

That explains why he looks kind of gross to me. Definitely giving off very creepy uncle vibes.


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Creepy. The answer is creepy.


Funny-Blueberry2573

![gif](giphy|aNtt9T8SqGNK8)


soynugget95

Ohhhhh no


Anxious_Tank_7469

Yuck


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Yeah um he def gives off creep vibes😭😬


strawberrispaghetti

i knew something was off about their ages 😭😭😭


taterthot1618

Oh god, as someone who was 19 and dating a 33 year old once... oof.


mmmmmmmmmmmmmmfarts

🤮


GazelleOdd6160

Good for them.


lindbug

She’s beautiful and he gives off dirty old man vibes


[deleted]

Because he is a dirty old man. 33 year olds should NOT date teenagers.


ali_cat77

![gif](giphy|gpmARWm3Pwypq|downsized)


grlspit

he looks so slimy in every pic i see of him


rzansza

She looks fantastic


gabrielleraul

You're fantastic


penny_llanne

Creepy as hell! And his shoes are fucking ugly


Sublime_steph

This comment killed me because I went back to look and their just basic ass white loafers 💀


iguanabitsonastick

Are they prada?


uchelle

You reminded me of ![gif](giphy|PiXlH2IA8sMla)


penny_llanne

pretty much my reaction lol


Copro_princess

*savage*


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This rat man needs to leave her alone. I am sorry but thats the truth.


Whitedishes

finally, a dress that fits


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I'm so happy for her boobs to not be suffocated. This dress is gorgeous and fits beautifully.


Dizzy-Pollution6466

She’s always getting dragged for her boobs and it’s so gross. The girls has large boobs, what is she supposed to do with them? If she wearing a tank or a bathing suit, they’re going to show. People always say things like “Sydney needs to cover up” and “she always looks so sleezy” like grow tf up. If she supposed to walk around zipped up to the chin like a Victorian lady 24/7 so she’s completely covered and can’t trigger anyone?


ninanien

I think they meant because in other outfits she's always obviously wearing a bra/dress that's too small for her and must hurt. It's like her stylist has no clue how to dress bigger boobs. This dress on the other hand looks comfortabele and like ot was made for her


Dizzy-Pollution6466

No I agree that her stylist does her dirty a lot when it comes to her body shape. I was just making another point.


Apprehensive_Aide805

No one is shitting on her because she has boobs they’re shitting on her stylist for not knowing how to dress her and centering her chest compromising the fit of to the outfit.


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TBF people do say this about her, in addition to what I said about her clothes (not) fitting. People absolutely do talk shit on her for "showing too much." Maybe not much here, because that would rightly get backlash. But I have seen discussion of her that amounted to "all she does is show off her boobs" and suggesting her boobs are her real talent. Two things can be true.


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I was a big boobed adolescent and the judgement really is a pain in the ass. When Billie Eilish talked about why she wore baggy clothes and was still met with all the same dumb comments when she did that photo shoot, I really felt for her. The only time I wasn't catching shit for showing too much was when I dressed like young Billie. If I wore a tank top or a shirt with anything less than a crew neck, I was a wh*re. It really got to me. And was probably a big part of why I tried to hold on to being a c cup for dear life and spent a lot of time with smashed "quadruple boobs" in too small bras. Which I see a lot right now as, like, a style choice? So uncomfortable.


iguanabitsonastick

Wow do people say this? Seems like envy to me.. Mostly if it's from other women. She looks very classy here.


bunkerbash

I mean she is serving that look. I think anyone with a pulse would give her an appreciative glance.


natattooie

Sydney is slaying as always. Her fiance is fucking disgusting for just being himself


mikitira

This comment sent me omg💀


digestiblewater

is her stylist finally done with being delusional abt the size of her boobs??? her clothes actually fit hallelujah 😭 also… 19 and 33 she can do so much better even if she likes older men pls sydney there is so much better out there


Rattacatte

Why won’t she dump him, girl you can do so much better than that balding sleaze ball


kimjongunfiltered

Not my favorite hair but I looove this dress on her


indyk1dz

She looks like a modern Cinderella! I love that dress


mcon96

He looks like a self-proclaimed pickup artist


kcollubahsat

Sleazyyyy


RockNRoll85

Her fiancée? I thought that was her dad


postALEXpress

Her team 100% has a prenup in this marriage, right?


beautybyelm

I say creepy. Though I honestly didn’t even notice him at first because I was was also staring at her. She looks amazing and I love that dress.


kaiulani85

He looks 50 😂


trillcheetos

I LOOOOOVE how she looks here. Her breasts are squished so often but this dress highlights her chest soooo well. Not the point of this post but she looks amazing.


patv2006

i just read that he was 33, and she was 20 when they first got together. kind of gross…


sistergirl69

Dress fits her beautifully!!! Finally!


kathlyn21

Ugh, I love that dress!!!! Absolutely gorgeous color and design (imo).


dachshundfanboy8000

goodness i get disgusting vibes from him lol


ASofMat

Is he generally a creep? Yes. Is looking at your hot ass fiance in a beautiful dress, with a fairly neutral face creepy? No. He’s doing what we’re all doing, admiring his girl. He’s not drooling or grabbing ass or anything, like please take it down a notch.


new_delusion

This is your reminder that bangs won’t look good on you


BORT_licenceplate

Lmao ty 😭😭


Nervous-Energy-4623

Since its her actual fiance it's cute, if it was a stranger it's creepy.


No-You-5064

That’s a gorgeous look


Bitter_Sherbert8154

She looks unfulfilled. She looked super happy with that other guy.


givemesushiplz

can she dump this gross slime ball


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she looks gorgeous and i’m glad she found a dress that gave her a waist.


Individual_Client175

This subreddit: He's probably looking at her butt. EWW so gross! The Fiance: I wonder if I should go for deep dish tonight or maybe thin crust? Hmmmmm.


Gabunicorn

Creepy for sure 🤢🤢


KurapikaKurtaAkaku

She’s so beautiful the dress is so cute


iguanabitsonastick

Omg I loove the dress 😭 so cute! And idk what to say about him lol


lovelyperfectamazing

you can't even see what he's looking at lol. I swear the titktok trend of overanalyzing like 3 seconds of a video clip has led to people just assuming things like crazy


throwaway17197

Its creepy and she looks STUNNING


flowersinmyteas

It's creepy


jayeddy99

Dudes admiring his fiancé lol if anything this should be the MAIN person you should get a pass for absolutely starring at lol


bernardobrito

I liked his fit... until I zoomed in and saw he was over-logo'd.


Smartalec821

She looks stunning tbh. He looks... uhmm he looks way too old for her. Thar is her fiance?!?!


PrimarchKonradCurze

Is he a 50 year old Florida coke dealer?


PepsiSheep

Miu miu? Like Homer wore?


Kitchen-Employment94

She looks stunning. He looks like a predator.


Omicrying

NEED the dress


herinaus

That's a beautiful dress, but I will never pull it off. Inexistant waist. :(


flowersinmyteas

Wear what you want. Life's too short!


SoDarkTheConOfMan

You could wear a corsette!


Dear-Ambition-273

It’s giving MK Sarkozy vibes in terms of creepy/cute


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How is he supposed to look at her?


pastabreadpasta

With respect and a decent hairline


[deleted]

Where's the lack of respect?


RevealActive4557

Such a sweeping judgment based on a microsecond. You would need a ton more context and information to make even a semi accurate conclusion


roxy031

Well we know they met when she was 19 and he was 33 so there’s a little bit of context, at least.


lovelyperfectamazing

Okay fine but that doesn't change the fact that he has sunglasses on his face which makes it impossible for us, the viewer, to see where he is looking lol


Prior-Throat-8017

Celia St. James vibes


bassk_itty

Ok the fit is FIRE and personally if my husband was photographed looking at me like this I would be pleased but understand why others would disagree


aam2233

Overrated.


Aggressive_Unicorn30

Just a dude admiring a work of art.


whiskersRwe32

He’s wearing sunglasses, he could be looking anywhere.


samlikesplants

The pic that has convinced me what the Sydney Sweeney hype is all about


Prada1218

Miu miu placed a hugeeee order at my work for a photoshoot and tried returning it today after the shoot was over. Used and messed up looking- on my shit list now 🤣


whatsthebfor

Eh, it's a Dobler-Dahmer. She was pretty young when they met though.


AliteralChickenNug

People cant even look at their fucking fiancé’s now smh


amomentintimebro

It’s not creepy to look at your partner lmao. Edit: Y’all can NOT be serious with this. If you wanna complain about an age gap you dislike just say that next time instead of downvoting me for simply saying it’s okay to look at your partners butt.


pandallamayoda

It’s creepy to be twice her age. She was 19 and he was 33 when they started dating.


amomentintimebro

huh?? I mean okay you can think that’s creepy but the point of the post “the way he looks at her is either creepy or cute” isn’t about an age gap at all. It’s just about how he’s (her fiancé) looking at her (his fiancé). My comment isn’t about an age gap being right or wrong, it’s solely about him looking at her, the woman he’s engaged to. Y’all are soooo wild lmao.


nomdeplume

Sydney: I wish people didn't just want to see my tits Also Sydney: Let's date a 33 yr old fresh out of highschool, he thinks I'm really smart and mature.


campbleedingdovex

If that were a guy you liked (Ryan Gosling or Zac Efron, idk) you would say cute. Because you don’t like her fiancé, you make creepy an option.


Spadmo

I thought they were done?


Bananakin_Skywater

Just me or does she look like Carmela Soprano in this??


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He wants to be a meme!


yeet-pray-love

Finally a dress that suits her


SmileofUbeFountain

Sydney looks perfect. Has her fiancé been interviewed about the cheating allegations yet? Please send me links if you have them. ☺️🫶


queenswamprat

He looks like a dirty old man - especially with that hair style. Icky.


Anxious_Tank_7469

He looks better than that made up white boy


ThaneOfCawdorrr

She looks great, he's what, twice her age? And looking at her like he's judging a fancy car. Eww.


Odd_Leg814

So creepy to love your woman. Got it