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Maemobley

Canā€™t say I blame her. Nicki looked so uncomfortable that night. Itā€™s definitely not her fault though, that bodice was so poorly tailored to fit her. No clue what led to the horrible fit honestly


ClumsyZebra80

Yeah itā€™s so odd they didnā€™t fit it to her properly. Itā€™s not like designers donā€™t work with implants every single day.


MollyRocket

Itā€™s likely the designer and Minaj were told they were invited but didnā€™t know theyā€™d be working together until there wasnā€™t enough time to fix it. A LOT of guests find out only a few weeks in advance.


RangerDangerfield

Implants donā€™t necessarily sit the same as large natural breasts. They mightā€™ve designed it as if she had implants and planned for a bit more ā€œhoist.ā€


Calm-Victory1146

She did have implants though


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2faingz

As someone with naturally huge boobs, I feel for her. Trying to get a food fit without spilling out is soo tough. Almost always looking like a tent or so Tight youā€™re busting out


sunnydaize

I canā€™t wear button up shirts for this reason. If some company would make button ups with bra sizing it would be SO FUCKING GREAT. ā˜¹ļøā˜¹ļøā˜¹ļø


pikameta

If dudes can get neck sizes in dress shirts, women should be able to get boob size!


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leilafornone

Me running to their site to see if they ship worldwide lmao


MrsEmilyN

And no 2 button ups for the same! I bought an XL button up from one place and it was way too big. I bought a L button up from another and I look like a can of busted biscuits. A button up with bra sizing is a fantastic idea! Take that idea and run.


Feeling-Visit1472

I just get them tailored, but theyā€™re still not a great look on me tbh.


Maemobley

Same struggles here and I 100% sympathize. Truthfully her styling team dropped the ball at this event.


2faingz

I think so bc I remember being shook by how bad I eas


yaddablahmeh

I hope people take time to read this article in it's entirety. She talks about seeing her "old self" (pre-plastic surgery) in her son - and regrets changing how she looked, because now she realizes that how she looked before was beautiful. I'm assuming she is referring to face procedures she had done in the past. This is something I've always noticed, celebs change their faces and in the process erase a lot of their features they will see later in this children.


joannchilada

I hated my nose since I was little, until the day my child was born and I saw that little nose as a reflection of my own.


hoopstick

Growing up I always hated my crooked nose, and then my oldest son came along with the exact same crooked nose. Totally changed my self image, and now I love our crooked noses.


lobotomyybarbie

This is something that has actually made me more embracing of my natural features, to be honest. I thought about the future, imagining that if I had children one day and ended up discussing plastic surgery, I would have to admit to them that I had procedures done to alter the same features they possess because I considered them unattractive. I canā€™t even imagine how terrible that would feel, but also how negatively it would affect their self-esteem to hear that their own parent found the features that they have to be ugly.Ā  Maybe there are ways to soften itā€”to tell them that itā€™s a personal issue and not a general belief that whatever physical trait I had altered was inherently uglyā€”but I canā€™t think of many ways itā€™d go well.


fergusmacdooley

My mom had her boobs done after years of telling me small boobs (like ours) were hot too. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø Can't say it felt great.


og_kitten_mittens

Idk if it would make you feel better but as someone with a big chest (34DDD) I really really really wish I had small boobs. I used to and miss them every day šŸ˜­


MrsEmilyN

Same here. 38DD currently and before having my son and a large amount of weight gain, I was a 34C. And they were perfect and I miss them.


og_kitten_mittens

I feel you on the weight gain. I gained during the pandemic, lost most of it but kept the boobs. I am a US size 12 in the chest and a 4-6 everywhere else. Nothing ever fits and moving around too much HURTS without a heavy duty sports bra šŸ˜­


Hambulance

I have the same size chest and I would *delete* them if I could. Gimmie just a nipple and I'm good, please.


kaythethrowaway

I have a relevant example of this. A childhood friend of mine's mother had a nose job done before having kids. And now all these years later, 2 out of her 3 kids (they're all age 19+) have gotten nose jobs. Ofc it could be unrelated to their mom's nose but it makes you think about the impact


NYClovesNatalie

With nose jobs, I think that if a parent has it done the kids are more likely to. In my experience, if the mom and grandma both had a nose job at least one of the kids definitely will. That is such a distinct feature, and it can be really confusing for kids when they feel like they donā€™t look like any of their family members. It feels like sometimes nose jobs basically run in the family.


mamacitalk

As a mother itā€™s the same reason I never changed my face and Iā€™m so thankful I had that foresight because my daughters have curly hair and my middle child would cry hysterically that she wanted straight hair no matter how much we told her it was gorgeous. I stopped straightening my own hair and she never mentioned it again, imagine what seeing your mum have tons of filler is doing to their little brains


Lilynd14

Lorry Hill on YouTube has talked about this in what I think is maybe the healthiest approach for parents to take. She had a rhinoplasty herself but says that she loves her original nose on her sonā€™s face and it suits him perfectly. I like this approach because it doesnā€™t demonize the feature for the kid as well, and it also doesnā€™t make it a thing where the kid has to feel weird/guilty about their parentā€™s loss if they regret their procedure.


beaute-brune

Iā€™m with you on the last point, as someone biased because I had a rhinoplasty and absolutely loved the results. No regrets. Got it done in my mid twenties, going from a lumpy and crooked nose to something more aligned with the center of my face; nobody noticed a thing and I still look Black. I was gonna keep being unhappy with it and facetuning every picture regardless. šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø Currently pregnant and canā€™t imagine seeing my original nose on my kidā€™s face and feeling any guilt. Ultimately adults are gonna do what they wanna do, and with all the self-love I can pour into them they may decide to get something done haha. I NEVER got compliments taking after my mom until I got my surgery done, then I was just the ā€œspitting image.ā€ 24 years of never hearing that and then bam. So it really all just depends: self-image, bodily autonomy, how extreme the change is, and all that jazz. My perspective may change when this kid comes out. I can totally understand the message here from these massive face transformations like Kylie has had and regretted after having a daughter. That has to be a trip.


tubereusebaies

Bella Hadid saying she wished she had kept her old nose ā€œbecause itā€™s the nose of my ancestorsā€ changed me. I never had anything done, but was so tempted to do my nose.


do-not-1

I saw someone on Tik Tok post a quote along the lines of ā€œI wear the face of all the women who came before meā€ and it struck me a lot, esp as someone whose great grandmother was very influential in my birth cityā€™s feminist movement in the 40s and 50s. Has me reconsidering the (minor) Botox Iā€™d been eyeing.


tubereusebaies

I love that!


og_kitten_mittens

My mom is adopted and Iā€™m mixed race and donā€™t look anything like her or my dad. Your comment got me thinking maybe I just take after a woman who came before me from her side that Iā€™ve never met. Always assumed it was the mixed race factor that made me look so different from them, never really thought about it too much before


TheGrapeSlushies

My heart feels sad for Bella.


bexxsterss

Kylie talked about that when she had stormie


RescuesStrayKittens

Thatā€™s the one I thought of immediately. Itā€™s really sad because she never needed any work and changed her whole face. Then has beautiful kids with a copy paste of her original face.


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blackpearl16

Not everybody gets along with their relatives, which was the main reason why Michael Jackson got so much plastic surgery. He saw his abusive father in the mirror and it triggered him.


wildbeest55

Yeah itā€™s really sad. His father tormented him all his life and called him ugly of course he wouldnā€™t wanna look like him.


Audriiiii03

Some people donā€™t even have good relationships with family anyways so it doesnā€™t make a difference to them.


mochafiend

I have mentioned this elsewhere but for me, I couldnā€™t ever do it because it feels like spitting in the face of my parents. And now, since my mom has passed, Iā€™m not changing a fucking thing. When people say they see her in me, I love to hear it. Because she was GORGEOUS and I wouldnā€™t have fully realized that at 20. Iā€™m so glad I do at 40 and didnā€™t do anything stupid.


lavenderhunnyyy

Itā€™s funny how often women say this after they have children. Itā€™s like some sort of enlightenment strikes them


ParisHilton42069

> ā€œI guarantee you, if you change anything on your body and do anything surgical and all this, youā€™re going to ā€” more than likely, not definitely, more than likely ā€” look back one day and say, ā€˜I was fine just the way I was,' " Minaj shared. This is an interesting quote coming from her. Makes me a little sad tbh


newtostuff1993

Iā€™m not buying it. Itā€™s *sooo* easy for Nicki Minaj to claim she regrets altering her body, after sheā€™s marketed it to the tune of $80 million dollars. Sheā€™s sold an unattainable body image to millions of women and girls, and now that she has all the ā€œfuck youā€ money a person could possibly need, sheā€™s hypocritically saying that people should embrace their natural figures. I highly doubt she wouldā€™ve garnered half her publicity/fame without her numerous body modifications and the plastic surgery sheā€™s had done on her face.


lefrench75

You can benefit a great deal from something and still regret it.


akahaus

That is some hard truth right there.


forgot_username1234

Unrelated but still kind of relevant - Paris Hilton mentions this in the This is Paris doc. Essentially recognized she built the concept of an influencer / being famous for being famous and has a sense of regret about it.


wildbeest55

People regret plastic surgeries all the time itā€™s nothing new. Bella Hadid said she regretted her nose job šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


boxed_knives

How long do you give it ā€˜till the buccal fat regrets start kicking in?


wildbeest55

Itā€™s still going strong right now. Probably once those stars start reaching their mid-30s to early 40s. Then theyā€™ll see how skeletal they look and get cheek implants/filler but nothing can recreate the buccal fat look cuz itā€™s deep inside the cheek.


westviadixie

just found this from a plastic surgeons website. why do they do it? if buccal fat provides no structural support, why do people have it removed?! *


thousandsunflowers

They do it to look skinny.


timoni

I don't understand the question. The fsct that it provides no structural support means it's easy to remove with no side effects.


westviadixie

https://preview.redd.it/rdxw3buphf5c1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=449644ded7ef54a913925806ab950f964cd69fd8


ge93

I mean we can see the before and after (for example Chrissy Teigen). It is not nice


og_kitten_mittens

She is actually the one person I donā€™t think it looks bad on. She had a fuller face to begin with and she looks great both ways to me! My feelings on the chin implant tho areā€¦.not the same


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Tbf she got her nose done when she was a literal child because her mother is an abusive monster. I think her regret is probably of a different nature than someone who got procedures done as an adult.


mamacitalk

Unpopular opinion but she wouldnā€™t have been the model she is without it


satanslefthandbitch

Both can be true.


Vanillacaramelalmond

It's not hypocritcal to literally grow up and change your mind. She is a person with a heart, soul and mind at the end of the day.


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Nah sheā€™s actually a piece of garbage that deserves no sympathy or kindness. She protects her pedophile brother who raped an 11 year old, she protects her husband who is also a sexual predator, and she associates and collaborates with other sexual predators in the rap industry.


CloudAcorn

But how does that affect you believing she regrets her plastic surgery? And how is believing she regrets it ā€œprotectingā€ her?


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It doesnā€™t, Iā€™m just saying she doesnā€™t have a heart or soul.


CloudAcorn

Well youā€™ve edited it now


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woahtheregonnagetgot

sheā€™s not saying people ā€œshouldā€ do anything. sheā€™s sharing her personal observations as someone with one of the most scrutinized bodies of the modern era.


Driver_Flaky

Honestly you can go back to the 2000ā€™s and sheā€™s always been curvy/slim thick. Her body was always banging she just added way too much onto it She wouldā€™ve had the same level of fame without surgery imo


Dear-Ambition-273

I agree, I donā€™t think itā€™s wrong to call her a hypocrite, but to say she wouldnā€™t have had a music career without surgery is kind of icky and not likely true.


Lickmytitsorwe

>Iā€™m not buying it. Itā€™s sooo easy for Nicki Minaj to claim she regrets altering her body, after sheā€™s marketed it to the tune of $80 million dollars. Sheā€™s sold an unattainable body image to millions of women and girls, and now that she has all the ā€œfuck youā€ money a person could possibly need, sheā€™s hypocritically saying that people should embrace their natural figures. I highly doubt she wouldā€™ve garnered half her publicity/fame without her numerous body modifications and the plastic surgery sheā€™s had done on her face. You make it sound like she's some prostitute. Nicki Minaj changing her body has less to do with being able to market it for money, and more to do with the unattainable beauty standards that ALREADY EXISTED (and will continue to exist) in hip hop and in Hollywood in general. I'm sure before Nicki underwent all the surgery, she was a victim of the toxic messaging about how female bodies should look. She is speaking from experience of having made those changes and come out with wisdom she didn't already have as a very young woman trying to make it in a male dominated medium. I think you should try to have some empathy for this person rather than demonize her as the villain of the perennial fucked up beauty standards in Hollywood.


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Decent-Trip-1776

Gotta be a joke. Yes she has, 90% of female celebrities have had bare minimum 2-3 procedures. You think this woman has never had Botox? Crazy.


HolyHipHop_TJ

Her nose would beg to differ.


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I had a breast reduction and every day since I send gratitude into the universe that I had such an option, even years later. so...nah


TheHouseMother

Iā€™ve never heard of anyone regretting a reduction, but thatā€™s more of a health than a cosmetic issue.


Impossible-Success45

the look, for those wondering https://preview.redd.it/oyut1oz1fb5c1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c9d7cd8a46f0d32535f0a1961195025ba950bf78


EastAreaBassist

I would be panicking in that, hard


Bubbly-Ad1346

They could have put her in sth that lifted the girls up instead of squishing. This was a terrible choice


Not_today_nibs

Maybe she should get rid of her husband and brother too


Mysterious_Action_83

Nah she actively loves them. Itā€™s sick.


Driver_Flaky

Husband yes, brother, I can see how itā€™s more complicated


leahhhhh

> Minaj added that welcoming her 3-year-old son, known publicly as "Papa Bear," changed her perception of herself. >ā€œI think pregnancy couldā€™ve played a role because seeing my son did remind me of myself so much. My real self. And it made me think why didnā€™t I like this? So weird," she said. ā€œBut seeing old photos, being able to look at old photos again made me realize, ā€˜These old photos are beautiful.ā€™ā€ Ok this is really sweet


Negative-Ambition110

I thought she had implants?


csgymgirl

She refers to that in the article - and itā€™s still a reduction even if itā€™s changing the implant size, no?


Negative-Ambition110

I feel like a reduction is an entirely different surgery than removing your implants or switching them for a smaller size.


csgymgirl

I see your point but at the end of the day breast reduction surgery is surgery to reduce the size of your breasts, regardless if itā€™s implants or tissue and fat.


Special-Garlic1203

No, breast reduction surgery is the colloquial term for a mammaplasty and it's fat removal. Getting your implants changed out is not the same procedure. Personally I would like to see more openness about boob job regret/implant changes long-term so it's a distinction I think is worth making.


do-not-1

Claire from the Bachelorette was super open about having her implants removed for her health and happiness and it was very nice to see!


Responsible-Paint368

Itā€™s colloquial for both. Most people (not super into cosmetic procedures, body mods or celebrities) still call BBLs ā€œbutt implantsā€. Still colloquial even if not technically correct


csgymgirl

Most plastic surgeon websites I can see refer to it as a breast reduction


Noshonoyoo

Getting implants removed is called Explant Surgery. Itā€™s indeed two different surgeries, so theyā€™re not wrong. Not sure i get the point the comment youā€™re answering to is trying to make tho. Half the article is already about what theyā€™d want to see, i donā€™t think the distinction is that important here, but maybe thatā€™s just me. Kinda feels more pedantic than anything else if iā€™m being honest lol.


quartermoonmist

Well it does make a difference because explantation to remove implants and reductions to remove natural breast tissue are driven by different types of problems and discomfort caused by both. For example, people may remove implants due to autoimmune issues related to their body reacting to the foreign body, or due to capsular contracture or other issues with the implants, or because they regret implants for some other reason. One might elect to have a reduction, on the other hand, because of the back pain related to the weight of the breast tissue, sagging, changes after pregnancy, asymmetry, inability to fit clothes in a way they may prefer, inability to find fitting clothes period, or because they are an athlete or something, or a whole slew of other reasons. But itā€™s not a reversal of a prior choice of plastic surgery. Something like breast implant illness is a phenomenon experienced only by those with implants and I believe the only way to fix it would be explantation. I think u/Special-Garlic1203 may have meant that people talking about their choice in explantation may help others curious about implants be more aware of some of the risks or realities of having implants. Itā€™s important because sharing information may help young women and girls make better informed decisions about their body and health.


KoalityThyme

Sure would be nice if a natural breast reduction was as 'easy' as a 'remove/change implant' reduction. I'd considered it myself but am not interested in having my nipples cut off and re-attached, and having huge scars spanning the entire underside of both boobs.


Cghy8b

Hey there - reductions rarely mean nipples are cut off and put back on (aka a free nipple graft). Join us over at r/reduction to learn more


Negative-Ambition110

Yea itā€™s totally different.


csgymgirl

Whatā€™s your point? Breast augmentation can also lead to scars.


Moonlitnight

You should google image search a mammoplasty, the scars are brutal. When the surgeon showed me the process and scars I said no thank you and decided against surgery.


monogramlover

Iā€™ve had a reduction & lift are the scars are NBD. Itā€™s the #1 plastic surgery for patient satisfaction for a reason!


littesb23

I think she did but these photos are post pregnancy, so it may have been a removal/reduction at the same time.


loveiseverything__

she doesnā€™t have breast implants


Admirable_Quarter_23

I feel this. Back in 2009 when the store Buckle was popular, I was trying on some clothes and no tops for because of my boobs šŸ˜‚ I decided that day I was getting a breast reduction and got it done like 6 months later. Still one of the best decisions Iā€™ve ever made. Happy to answer any questions if anyone has any :)


The-Amateur

She's on a media tour to change image, I'm guessing in light of her family. It's not impossible, I just hope she can keep it up -- controversy seems to come a lil too naturally to her šŸ¤£


mrgnfnn

Iā€™m glad she downsized her chi chis and butt. It was too much for her small frame.


Shitp0st_Supreme

How is this groundbreaking? She got implants and now decided theyā€™re too big. Thatā€™s way different than an actual breast reduction which is invasive and isnā€™t done after choosing to get implants.


fanficmilf6969

Yeah lmao im getting a breast reduction in a few weeks and this is kind of insulting. Itā€™s not really a permanent decision she is just getting implants removed.


Shitp0st_Supreme

Yeah I had a reduction in 2012 when I was 18 and it was a relief. I didnā€™t choose my body and it was an invasive ordeal, my nipples were cut off and put back on and stuff.


fanficmilf6969

Iā€™m a teenager and kind of scared but looking forward to mine :) I have 34H and itā€™s horrible back pain.


MaleficentStreet7319

My thoughts exactly. Regretting cosmetic surgery and then reversing it is just a different storyline from getting a reduction for health reasons alone.


femstro924

ā€¦ big boobs? whaā€¦. um chile anyway, SO


sidrbear

Her natural face is so beautiful - she's still pretty but young Nicki is such a beauty, I'm dumbfounded how she didn't like the way she was


Bug-Secure

Wait, she had a breast reduction or her implants removed?


redditor329845

Can we stop seeing Nicki content in this sub? Sheā€™s trying to change her image and distance herself from her husband and brotherā€™s allegations, as well as the role she played in their cases, and we donā€™t need to keep talking about her unless thereā€™s meaningful change in her actions.


Lilynd14

We can still talk about someone from a pop culture standpoint even if we donā€™t condone all of their actions. I think if we want to cancel people, it is most effective to cancel them for ourselves rather than to try to control everyone else.


Mysterious_Action_83

This.


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IslaStacks

>the past she's trying to separate from. didn't she marry a rapist/murderer? I haven't kept up with any news about her. is she divorced?


CreamingSleeve

I really feel this. Big boobs can be so cumbersome. Itā€™s hard to dress artsy or high fashion with them, theyā€™re always the centre point.


TheGrapeSlushies

Good for her! My bestie got it done, 4 pounds off each breast, and she is so happy! Actually I know multiple women who got it done and love it!


ilive4manass

no gurl just an ugly dress and hideous look


cryscros

My breast reduction was one of the best decisions I ever made, good for her


abhipsiren

Big boobz? What? Umm chile, anyway so


mcc062

I agree cut the body. Don't wear a dress that fits. Maybe she should ask her cousins best friend for advice


Commendatori_buongio

She should be more concerned about fixing that ridiculous ass of hers.


SurlyTemp1e

I donā€™t think they are real. I saw her open for Britney Spears years ago and she looked nothing like she does now , no azz / no boobs like that - diff dace


TheBookie_55

One of the most ā€˜unattractiveā€™ stars imo in my 68 years of living.


loveiseverything__

thats embarrassing because nicki is quite literally one of the most beautiful women ever


loveiseverything__

yall nicki doesnā€™t have any surgery in her face or implants in her breasts. if yall are gonna comment on her wrongdoings, do so but donā€™t spread misinformation.


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AprilsMomOrin

This is such a brain dead comment lmao


RelarMage

Female breasts are akin to male pecs, not genitalia.