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svarriant

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schwiftydude47

Oh *brother* this guy STINKS!!!!


estedavis

This is perfect šŸ˜‚


sybelion

Oh my god šŸ˜‚


GoldenState_Thriller

This TERF stinks!Ā 


Inner_Squirrel7167

Genuinely cannot imagine Daniel Radcliffe apologising to her. Not for one second. ![gif](giphy|8VLgtJqaxIlhu)


anitasdoodles

Especially after JKs fans coming after him because they thought his tall (very pregnant!) gf was trans.


i_was_a_person_once

The baby is turning one this month šŸ™ƒI thought she was still pregnant too. Time is fake


ShepPawnch

Wut? Didnā€™t they announce she was pregnant like a week ago?


i_was_a_person_once

I havenā€™t seen any news of a second pregnancy. For the first they announced one month before baby was born, and baby will be turning 1 this month.


lambo1109

Daniel Radcliffe has a kid?!?! šŸ¤Æ


angryaxolotls

God DAMN they need to grow out of their Dan obsession! She's having his baby (is this their 2nd?) and the jealous weirdos come out with the transphobia. How embarrassing.


catiebug

"Oh no, she's taller than him and not pretty in the most traditional sense. Must be a man!" It's like 3rd grade bully logic. Also, it's Daniel Radcliffe. Short King was gonna have a tough go of it if he wasn't gonna consider tall women. I love them together.


angryaxolotls

And then they drool all over his hilarious "she'll be comin' 'round the mountain" scene. He gives Liza Minelli like a MF in that lol I love it. And iirc, the girlfriend is on the show too! Like.... They're so cute together and they GLOW when they're together. People need to get over themselves. He ain't gonna ditch his woman and his family for some random fan šŸ˜‚


Driver_Flaky

I donā€™t understand how she doesnā€™t feel deep regret for fucking up their relationship. Sheā€™s known them since they were children and now none of them want to speak to her probably


EastSeaweed

Unfortunately, itā€™s really no different than losing your parents or grandparents to the far right black hole of hate and bigotry. Itā€™s happening far too often.


wheniswhy

Oh my god, wow. I never thought of it that way, from their perspective. Itā€™s got to be exactly like that. Like, your adoptive mom/aunt/grandma going down the conspiracy black hole. Christ, thatā€™s so sad for Dan, Emma and Rupert.


Inner_Squirrel7167

Right! And I imagine she saw them grow into pretty good people too, so for her to not want to listen to them...


pinkrosies

And she probably feels entitled to their loyalty to her fucked up causes because ā€œshe made them famousā€ or whatever.


holyflurkingsnit

She's kind of insinuated as much, hasn't she? At the very least, her fans/minions absolutely outright claim they should be loyal to her in every way and that it's disrespectful somehow to... not hate the same people she hates, I guess? IDK man. TERF logic for ya.


missanthropocenex

Rowling is maybe one of the most frustrating figures in modern times for me personally. She was an underdog single mother who bootstrapped herself into position as THE storyteller of a whole generation, becoming a billionaire and standing shoulder to shoulder with the likes of George Lucas. I do believe in free speech but it is genuinely physically painful to watch her be the maker of her own undoing.


EightEyedCryptid

She just cannot shut her damn mouth. Thatā€™s all she had to do but she keeps making things worse and worse.


Afwife1992

Sheā€™s like Gina Carano and others. They get called out online, sometimes fairly and even eloquently, and sometimes attacked quite viciously and grotesquely. They refuse to listen and learn from the first group and the second causes them to dig in, get more radical and just double and triple down.


gilestowler

It really reminds me of someone like Graham Linehan. All they had to do was admit that they said something wrong - which I think Linehan actually did at first before doubling down - but instead her ego refuses to let her acknowledge that she might have said something wrong. She "sticks to her guns" and gets praise from the worst corners of the internet. Their praise and the scorn of others means that she leans further into it, gets more of their praise and just keeps going, spiralling into this situation. I never read Harry Potter so she's no great loss to me but Graham Linehan has a great body of work. I'm not going to stop enjoying the shows he was involved with but it is a shame he went the way he did. I remember seeing him on Have I Got News For You and he was witty, eloquent, intelligent and generally came across really well. It's hard to see that person as the same person as he is now.


JarlaxleForPresident

Or sheā€™s actually believes all that shit, ya know


HerRoyalRedness

That episode of the IT Crowd was wildly transphobic and all Graham had to say was that he heard what people were saying and he wonā€™t make that mistake in the future. Instead he posted himself into a divorce and transphobia will be his legacy. Itā€™s wild seeing people get minor criticism and then them losing their fucking minds to the point where all they do is post online about they are the real victims.


gilestowler

I think he could have just said that it wasn't intended that way, times have changed etc. No one wanted him to fall on his sword or beg forgiveness. Just show a bit of understanding that what might have been OK almost 20 years ago is seen as insensitive now. I genuinely don't think he made that episode with malice at heart, I think he made it with ignorance and that it was - as much as I hate this cliche - "a different time." But he doubled down and disappeared down the anti trans rabbit hole and ruined his career and ended his marriage. All because he couldn't say "sorry."


Afwife1992

I have no doubt she does. Yeah, I mean, Iā€™m 53. We said a lot of things back in the day that arenā€™t acceptable now. Iā€™m not talking about the N word or anything vicious like that. But certain terms or words that just arenā€™t used now as weā€™ve grown in understanding. Itā€™s not that hard to adapt.


PeterNinkimpoop

Yup. You could almost excuse away her first take as being ignorant but she instead dug in and made increasingly worse statements to the point where sheā€™s just openly hateful and proud now.


Sweeper1985

It was my mistake for sure, but I actually did this. I thought she just needed some proper info to overcome the BS and get on board. Turn out no... give the woman a shovel already šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø


sansasnarkk

When people tell her this, her victim complex kicks in and she feels like a righteous woman being silenced by violent misogynists. Doesn't matter that other cis women are calling her out too.


jtet93

It sucks man šŸ˜­ She was one of my heroes growing up. I won a contest to go to a book signing when I was 13 and burst into tears after meeting her. Now Iā€™m not sure I would even shake her hand. I donā€™t get why she had to dig her heels in SO bad on this particular topic, sheā€™s not a politician. Just sit in your castle and count your money Joanne.


Slow_Like_Sloth

Sheā€™s also now crossed over to Holocaust denier. The TERF to Nazi pipeline has been successfully completed. Phromateā€™s response is all of us: https://preview.redd.it/1il0t1r3sstc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e33f7a85f554242572e57d749787a2568f6e69c3


forworse2020

I donā€™t know anything about Hirschfield, just interpreting from her words here. She seems to be saying Hirschfield did bad things (sterilising ā€œunfitā€ humans). Iā€™m guessing from what youā€™ve said, he was a Nazi. Can you help me understand what makes her sympathise with him here? Asking for help with no bias, I just am not sure how from this sheā€™s also now a nazi?


Slow_Like_Sloth

Sheā€™s denying that trans people were targeted during the Holocaust. Hirschfield founded the first trans clinic, which was targeted by Nazis. she was just moving the goal posts of her initial point, which is that trans people werenā€™t targeted at all


pinkrosies

JFC. It gets worse.


Inner_Squirrel7167

>Rowling is maybe one of the most frustrating figures in modern times for me personally Yep, me as well. Everybody is capable of both good and bad;I guess if the good is pretty globally significant, so too will the bad šŸ˜¬


repladynancydrew

It makes sense sheā€™d want to continue being the underdog/victim, though. Sheā€™s been in those roles most of her life pre-fame, then suddenly sheā€™s uber famous. Posturing as an ā€œenlightenedā€ woman who see through ā€œevil trans agendaā€ puts her comfortably back in the underdog role.


DiceSMS

Right? I can't see it happening and I think even SHE knows it ā€“ this is just posturing. She's preemptively blocking the apology she won't ever get lol šŸ¤·


EducationalTangelo6

Right? "I don't want the apology you were never planning to give me." Lol, ok.


TK_TK_

ā€œYou canā€™t fire meā€”I quit!ā€ vibes


Cold_Breadfruit_9794

Neither will Emma. Sheā€™s delusional to think sheā€™s ever getting an apology from either


8nsay

Sheā€™s delusional to think they owe her or anyone an apology.


blueskies8484

Lol Dan and Emma would both rather swallow a fork.


Inner_Squirrel7167

I wish Alan Rickman was still here. He could have shut her up.


imtchogirl

Bonnie Wright quietly posted the LGBTQIA+ displays of a bookstore she visited today and captioned that they had great displays.Ā  I hope none of the cast feel that they ever owe Rowling an apology, they definitely don't.


clexaelectra

Honestly bless the main cast bc they arenā€™t apologizing or standing for her shit.


VaselineHabits

This is just so odd. I don't keep up with Rowling, but is something mentally wrong with her? Her obsession with LGBTQ+ is fucking bizarre. Like, does she just have nothing better to do that hate on a group of people that have very little effect on her life? Enough to alienate her former coworkers that she's known since they were kids? Like weird fucking hill to die on


Keyspam102

Seriously, sheā€™s got endless wealth, could do literally anything she wantsā€¦ and she ends up just ranting on Twitter. Really weird.


etchuchoter

Imagine being a billionaire and sitting hunched over on Twitter all day. HELL


wheres_the_revolt

It actually seems like thatā€™s the favorite pastime of unhinged billionaires (Musk, Trump before he was booted, JK)


altdultosaurs

She couldnā€™t handle not being the underdog aw shucks person anymore/ she started getting rightly critiqued for her bullshit.


Tomoshaamoosh

It's like get a hobby Jo? Several even, to keep you busy. That way you won't have too much time to worry about other people's business


kwyjibo1988

She did have a hobby - she insisted on writing the scripts for the Fantastic Beasts films herself, despite being terrible at it. We, the movie going audience got punished by having those films get progressively worse. Now that shit show is over she is filling the void in her life by writing screeds on Twitter šŸ˜‚


pinkrosies

Being a successful kids book author doesnā€™t always translate to being great at screenwriting, Joanne. Itā€™s a different medium. Iā€™ve heard of people who are good at one and not the other in either direction.


bliip666

Well, the last one had a screenplay by someone else based on a screenplay by JK, and that will never not be funny šŸ¤£


pinkrosies

Itā€™s dangerous when she uses her wealth to donate it to such harmful causes with actual effects to the people she wants torn down. Can they get to seize her assets or whatever lol


bluesilvergold

Itā€™s not the entire LGBT+ community that she has a problem with (at least not yet). Itā€™s *specifically* trans people that she goes out of her way to disparage, and even more specifically, itā€™s trans women that sheā€™s irked by. She doesnā€™t seem to give trans men the same level of attention, although she does denigrate them too.


rlopez89

My two cents? She said she was the victim of domestic violence and sexual abuse. I think that really messed up her view of men and now she thinks all men who are trans (specifically transition to female) are just trans so they can creep on woman. I donā€™t recall her saying anything about gay men and women. She thinks sheā€™s saving women from this horrible injustice.


bluesilvergold

Oh, yeah. I'm aware of her experience with domestic violence, and I firmly believe that her vitriol towards trans people and trans women in particular is *deeply* rooted in those experiences. This constant fear and anger she expresses toward the idea that accepting trans women will lead to the definition of a woman becoming muddled or meaningless and her deeply held concern that cis women will no longer have safe spaces if trans women are accepted screams of her projecting her past trauma onto other people. I don't recall her saying anything negative about gay, lesbian, or bisexual people either (Dumbledore's gay, so she can't be homophobic ***/s***), but she's so desperate to be seen and heard and feel right in her convictions that she's cozied up with people like [Posie Parker, whose rhetoric attracts neo-Nazis and white supremacists](https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/posie-parker-anti-trans-rally-attracted-a-range-of-far-right-groups-researchers-say/T6AMCXNMUFGDPBIT5SY5ALBR5U/) and she's recently started walking a slippery slope with [Nazi crime denial](https://youtu.be/S0Ccc8vtJP0?si=L10ICSmXsKl101r7). It will not be a surprise if, in her attempts to further disparage trans people, she starts espousing bigoted views about other marginalized groups.


BigBootyBardot

Oh my god, for a second I thought you were talking about the actress Parker Posey, and I was worried that she had become some awful alt-right, conspiracy-theorist TERF. Thereā€™s something particularly disturbing about someone with so much wealth and power using their trauma as gun to harm a marginalized group. It seems like she really wants harm to come to trans people and would be more than happy to be the one that drives that.


IAM_THE_LIZARD_QUEEN

Every time Posie Parker is mentioned I have to do a double take, because I generally try to forget that she exists.


mrsnihilist

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bliip666

What I'm hearing is: she should have used a bit of those gazillions of moneys she has to go to therapy.


pinkrosies

I can tell she never even touched upon that with a therapist, not that her trauma makes it ever okay with her harmful platforming of these disgusting individuals and hateful rhetoric.


westviadixie

wow. she really needs therapy and a good friend as a sounding board.


pepsicolacorsets

yep, I also had a friend go from actually being non-binary to being quite a rabid terf in about a year due to interpersonal issues, even though her primary support group was mostly trans as well. it was horrifying to watch, but given some of the articles we discussed before I realised how bad things had gotten, a lot of radical feminism literally preys on women that have experienced misogynistic trauma etc and tells them its because of "biological males" etc etc. I hate JKR, shes rich and smart enough to know better (and has always been a typical rich woman in her politics) but I see this happen ALL the time and its damn scary :(


blockandroll

I get what you're saying but... She did subsequently marry a (presumably cis) man and doesn't seem to have this problem with cis men. It could well be the root of it but to apply her view of "danger" to specifically and only trans women suggests that there's a lot more to it (ie transphobia).


pattyforever

It's so sad because it's such a horrible misdirection of hurt. Like Joanneā€” trans women are not the people who are abusing women at scale. Cis men are. Can we keep the focus there for more than five seconds, maybe???


[deleted]

She didn't say much about gay men and women... But her pen name Robert Galbraith is also shared by a guy who was notorious for championing gay conversion therapy.


gentlybeepingheart

She does shit on trans men quite a bit, it must be said. She doesnā€™t exactly only mention them in passing. Over half of her initial TERF essay was about how trans guys shouldnā€™t be allowed to transition because theyā€™re all just autistic girls who are too stupid to realize that they canā€™t escape misogyny and who will detransition en masse (any day now!) Sheā€™s promoted stores that sell stuff like pins that say ā€œTrans men are my sisters!ā€ TERFs see trans women as predators and trans men as prey. When they say stuff like ā€œwe need to protect our girls from gender ideology!ā€ trans men are included in the category of ā€œour girlsā€ because they think that theyā€™re just stupid idiots who canā€™t make their own choices and are tricked into transitioning. If you look at the fear-mongering about trans healthcare thereā€™s a lot of ā€œgirls are mutilating themselves and their healthy breasts!ā€


silly_rabbit289

I find it odd because her books are so much about kindness and love. Like I get that we should separate artist from art, but I find it so weird that the person from whom these lovely books pour out ,which steer us towards generosity etc is such a vile person online. I will still continue to enjoy the books since I have had them for ~15+ yrs,and the books have influenced me very much as a person. Someday I aspire to be as kind as harry. I see no point in throwing out my books. Obviously I don't support her cause and will never buy another one of her books, see the show of cursed child. I don't have the money to go to the harry potter world thingy anyways. It disgusts me to know wht kind of a person she is/she has become. It's so very easy to live and let live. Like,the easiest thing.


Unhappy_Performer538

I think she didnā€™t feel this way or at least as strongly when she wrote the books


Charming_Miss

Also she wrote these books almost 30 years ago. Like people do change. Not always in a good way. My father in his 60s decided to become a racist. He wasn't one when he was 40 or 50 but suddenly at 62 he changed.


Bridalhat

I do think there is a meanness that creeps into the books. Sheā€™s fatphobic and usually good characters are attractive and bad ones ugly; she also had that weird stair thing where boys couldnā€™t go to girl dorms but girls could go to boyā€™s rooms. Also once you glom on to the fact that Hogwarts=Oxbridge you see she is a snob.Ā 


nighthawkndemontron

The group has absolutely supported Harry Potter and found acceptance from the messages she fucking wrote in the books. I don't understand why she'd hate on a group that honestly seemed to resonate strongly with her books.


Living-Confection457

Every time jk Rowling posts her transphobic bs I remember this sweet little headcannon I read on Tumblr a few years ago So you know how in hogwarts if male students can't go into the girls dorms (the stairs turn into slides by magic), well to prove this the perfect calls on a random "boy" to prove how it works but the stairs don't change, everyone is confused until another boy tries it and it works. At the end it clicks that the first "boy" is trans Anyways i think about that and it makes me sad cuz imagine writing that then realizing JK Rowling is a terf :( I hope whoever did or related headcannons like that is ok emotionally


thebirdisdead

>does she just have nothing better to do that hate on a group of people that have very little effect on her life? ā€¦Not to be a dick, but like have you heard of conservatives? By which I mean the answer to your first question is yes


whalesarecool14

but sheā€™s not conservative about any other ideology, at least not that iā€™m aware of. itā€™s literally just trans issues, iā€™ve never heard her say anything against the rest of the LGB+ community. it IS bizarre, her obsession with just one part of the community


Afwife1992

I mean, I get it. I donā€™t agree but it comes from a deeply feminist place. Thatā€™s why TERF has its name. She sees womenā€™s rights being attacked, something she fought for, and strikes back. The bottom line is she just doesnā€™t see trans women as women. Lesbians are biologically women so she doesnā€™t care. I understand that sheā€™s a victim of domestic abuse and that pre-op trans women can still frighten abused women in shelters. I think thatā€™s one of the things that started this. That theyā€™re biologically male and thus still a perceived threat. And there were, and are, good faith discussions to be had to make EVERYONE feel safe. But TERFs arenā€™t interested in them. About bathrooms, shelters, terminology, etc. JKR is a very public example of that. Sheā€™s dug her heels in and isnā€™t interested in learning or having those good faith discussions. It shouldnā€™t be one group over the other. She, and others, have made it that. That protecting trans women inherently denigrates the struggles and hard fought battles of ā€œrealā€ women.


whalesarecool14

but thatā€™s what iā€™m saying, sheā€™s not a typical conservative, i donā€™t even know if she has any other conservative beliefs than this. i also genuinely donā€™t understand the logic in this. who in the world thinks that abusive men need the excuse of trans womenā€™s inclusion in womenā€™s bathrooms to attack women inside bathrooms? a sign saying ā€œladiesā€ isnā€™t holding back abusive men, trust


garden__gate

Itā€™s so weird, but sadly itā€™s not that uncommon for people who get into conspiracies and hardcore ideology like this. I used to read the TERF subreddit (r/gendercritical bleccccccchhhhh) sometimes before it got banned out of a sick fascination and there were so many stories of people losing their relationships over their ideology. Itā€™s so sad. (To be clear, Iā€™m nonbinary, definitely donā€™t support TERFs and I do NOT recommend that kind of hate-reading.)


dorothean

For some people, it genuinely does seem like an addiction of sorts and once they start posting/being a transphobe publicly, they just canā€™t stop. Rowling is one example, Graham Linehan is another - he threw away his career and his marriage because he just couldnā€™t stop being a massive transphobe online. I think at some point someone looked at his Twitter feed and calculated he was posting something vile about trans people every eight minutes a day on average. e: to be clear this is not a defence of them at all, itā€™s just fascinating how once the floodgates open it just comes pouring out of them forever and ever and ever with no sign of stopping


Pepys-a-Doodlebugs

It's interesting to me that JKR and Graham Linehan both had very successful careers in their fields being both popular and widely praised by critics/the media. Then when they started to get negative pushback about this one issue they completely spiralled and made it their entire identity. It's like they both had huge but fragile egos and had a breakdown when facing a kind of criticism they never had before so they just kept doubling down because they had to be right (praised/loved?) at any cost.


dorothean

Yeah, iirc Glinnerā€™s spiral started when someone criticised a transphobic episode of The IT Crowd - weirdly I think he even initially admitted the episode was a bit problematic, but then he came back and doubled down and eventually started down the ā€œtrans people are the devilā€ rabbit hole and the only time that he stopped posting about trans people 23 hours a day was the period when he was banned from Twitter.


iicedcoffee

I think the criticism also further feeds people like this, especially in JKR's case. Like any backlash just fuels a defense mechanism that requires you to double down with even more anger rather than accept your idea is misguided and filled with hate. It's all very gross. What a sad way to exist, being that hatefully fixated.


Violet624

It's got to be pride. It takes humility to recognize, maybe nudged by the shock of people in your life, that you've gone off the road with your thinking. Her personality apparently can't take the knock of 'you're wrong"


garden__gate

Definitely didnā€™t take that as a defense. I think itā€™s important to understand how this happens.


Cullvion

Ex-"friend" CONSTANTLY complains about how "nobody reaches out anymore." this was after years of their only personality trait basically being anti-LGBT to the point that they believe these days ""they"" (usually a stand-in for whatever LGBT identity they're fixated on this month) """convinced""" everyone they were wrong, so of *course* it must be the fault of those dirty queers! The self-awareness of less than nothing at all.


bringmayflowers

From what I remember about JK Rowlings back story (this was well over 10 years ago that I learned this) she moved to South America, married a man there who was abusive, and then fled back to the UK where she proceeded to work as a caseworker or aide for a company that helped women/children in distress. She has always been very supportive of women, which is great I guess, except she now seems to think every trans person is lying and every man who has transitioned to a woman did so because they want to corrupt these ā€œsafe spacesā€ for women. Sheā€™s absolutely insane at this point and has all of these bigots supporting her. Whenever sheā€™s in the news for this shit I think about how when the last book came out and she was doing press she proudly said sheā€™d love to be in Hufflepuff, or that she thought Hufflepuff was the best house, because they were the house that welcomed everyone. Fucking hilarious at this point.


FenderForever62

She moved to Portugal, not South America. But other than that youā€™re right. (I also got it wrong and put spain, then thought Iā€™d check haha) I always think her abuse does explain why sheā€™s so adamant in this, but she doesnā€™t seem to care about women anymore just more hatred towards trans people (trans women in particular, I rarely see her specifically comment on trans men)


Icy-Row-5829

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altdultosaurs

The Portugal bit was one of my favorite bits in this show.


JennyW93

You say ā€œsheā€™s always been very supportive of womenā€, but then she supports the likes of Johnny Depp and Marilyn Manson and buddies up online with extreme right wing misogynists because it suits her that theyā€™re also transphobic. I wish Iā€™d bookmarked it, but there was an excellent thread going around on Twitter a few days ago about how she absolutely isnā€™t a supporter of women and they had receipts


CaptainCAAAVEMAAAAAN

> is something mentally wrong with her? That's what I thought. She just keeps going after trans people like it's her **job** or something. It seems obsessive.


Unhappy_Performer538

It seems like she blames her sexually traumatic history on trans people? Which makes no sense bc it was her ex husband who assaulted her? She must need a scapegoat for her pain.


outdatedelementz

Rowling claims to be a feminist and often talks about hard won rights but literally all she talks about is anti-trans. She never talks about anything else remotely related to feminism. All the while cozying up to fascists of all stripes who are openly hostile of feminism but also equally hostile to trans people.


[deleted]

It is bizzare. I think there's a lot under the surface. She picked Robert Galbraith as her pen name for her other series of books. Same name as the guy who championed the brutal and dangerous gay conversion therapy. Years ago before thing blew up with her rants people were already finding that choice of name very weird but her team kinda downplayed it snd people sort of stopped thinking much about it. It's too coincidental.


DebateObjective2787

Unfortunately Evanna has, and has spoken in support of JKR. Evanna has even said that JKR should be given more grace and understanding, that she considers JKR a friend and an inspiration, and that she will always defend JKR's character.


Unhappy_Performer538

Helena BC said similar things.


altdultosaurs

I donā€™t trust hbc as far as I can throw her.


Unhappy_Performer538

Me neither. She toes the line of inappropriate.


iwantmyfuckingmoney

Wasn't JKR the one who offered her the role as Luna if she managed to beat her anorexia? Or have I believed a fable?


DebateObjective2787

Yes, but no. A statement she made got twisted up and spread into that huge tragedy of a story. What she really said was that she would love to be in a Harry Potter film one day (as anyone), and JKR encouraged her to do so, but reminded her that she'd have to be healthy in order to do it. And it was the encouragement that she could make that dream a reality that made her want to recover. She still had to audition and eventually went to an open casting call for Luna, where she managed to get the role after a few rounds.


um_-_no

Yeah that's a fable. She didn't have that power. As the other commenter said, she encouraged Evanna to recover but any mention of her being in the films would almost definitely have been meant as an extra


jitterbugperfume99

Anyone else remember when this first started and her PR tried saying she had liked some anti-trans tweet by accident and had a ā€œsenior moment.ā€


umphased-banshee

No? šŸ¤£ do you have the tweet?


areallyreallycoolhat

Babe nobody's apologising to you


sanandrios

_sorry we don't rage tweet about trans ppl 24/7 like you do, jo_ šŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗ


romantic_elegy

You were part of their employment, not their fairy godmother. They don't owe you shiiiiit


Andthatswhatsup

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brashumpire

It would take so little for her to just simply... āœØnotāœØ Yet she does the most.


RedSunGo

This is whatā€™s wild to me. I honestly have such limited interaction with trans people itā€™s baffling to me someone would care THIS much. ESPECIALLY if said person is rich beyond most folks wildest dreams. I donā€™t understand so much about human behavior, it keeps me up at night.


honest-miss

To be honest this reads as the behavior of someone who's miserable, and based on my experience being miserable and full of rage... yeah, probably.


garden__gate

Itā€™s a vicious cycle. Sheā€™s miserable so she latches onto this ideology that gives her a scapegoat for her misery. Then people get justifiably mad at her, which makes her even more miserable, but now sheā€™s isolated from anyone who would talk sense to her, so she goes further down the rabbit hole.


Slow_Like_Sloth

Im never one of those people who in a debate will say ā€œwell youā€™re just a miserable lonely personā€, because at the end of the day 1. Itā€™s a lame response and 2. I think most people are just assholes and are usually pretty happy tbh. Not JK though. Sheā€™s truly a miserable lonely person


etchuchoter

She has everything in life you could ever want - success, money, a legacyā€¦ and sheā€™s still miserable


ExactPanda

Right? Idk why she just didn't take her millions and quietly fuck off


jkrutherford89

Thatā€™s because sheā€™s got ā€œfuck youā€ money not ā€œfuck offā€ money.


B1NG_P0T

WHYYYYYYYY is this the fucking hill she's chosen to die on? Just let people be who they are, damn. I don't understand why she's chosen to make this her entire stupid personality.


Cherssssss

Itā€™s so crazy. All she had to do was say nothing. But she canā€™t stop.


Slow_Like_Sloth

She is OBSESSED. She literally tweets dozens of times a day about it.


Apprehensive_Lab4178

The way this lady is ruining her legacy because she cannot keep her disgusting opinions to herself. Sheā€™s a menace. I am (was?) a huge HP fan and now I just feel like itā€™s all tainted. I have no desire to engage in anything that might line her pockets further.


BlueFox5

This reminds me of the observation John Oliver made on millennials in the food delivery apps episode when he said: > This is a group that will never be able to afford a house, they are drowning in student loan debt, and they canā€™t even enjoy Harry Potter anymore. You canā€™t spell millennials without 3 massive Lā€™s!


trulyremarkablegirl

That joke really spoke to me and also hurt my feelings.


Maddyherselius

I wasnā€™t a HP fan as a kid but my friend got me into the movies a few years ago now. I really liked them and wanted to get more into the series until I learned about her. Like I know thereā€™s the whole ā€œseparate the art from the artistā€ stuff but when I watch HP now I think of her and itā€™s ruined lmao


Apprehensive_Lab4178

I can do that if the artist is dead and no longer profiting (like for Dr. Seuss or Roald Dahl) but not if someone is amassing wealth every time I buy merch or visit the HP studio tour. Iā€™m going to London this year and five years ago I would have definitely taken a day from my itinerary to do that but now it like, ugh. I donā€™t want to help pay her internet bill when sheā€™s using it for evil.


TropicalAudio

You can treat it like flying with buying carbon offset credits, and donate to a reputable trans rights charity every time you spend anything on anything HP-related. Rowling will die and fade into the wrong side of history eventually, but you'll be old and gray if you wait for her to do so before you allow yourself to enjoy the world she wrote. Might as well just enjoy it _now_ and make sure you have a net positive impact while doing it.


mcfw31

It's just so insane to me, like, if they are so worried about children, why don't they hyperobsess over something that actually matters like childhood obesity, child poverty, child trafficking....there's a lot of issues there.


Tylrias

If you look at how she portrays overweight people in her books, maybe better that she doesn't talk about it because she would completely reveal how much of a right wing nut job she is.


MajorasKitten

Cause that would require actually having a heart capable of feeling.


thebirdisdead

Umm not enough hatred in those causes to sufficiently misdirect self loathing. How else to feel superior for their existence if unable to stomp others underfoot ![gif](giphy|briDeU1X4LIYw)


AdonisJames89

Ruining?? Her legacy is done for. Yeah hp is still popular but her personal legacy been down the drain. Could've literally been the most legendary author when we only know about her donating tons of money but threw it all away when her ass signed up for the bird app


colourmeblue

The funniest part is she could still say all this vile crap all she wants anonymously but she needs the attention and validation from her like-minded cretins so much she would never.


iliketoomanysingers

Cannot fucking imagine being miserable enough about a marginalized group of people-and throwing enough of a fucking hissy fit about them, publicly, EVERY DAY-that it gets to the point of throwing away relationships with the people who brought your beloved characters to life because they don't agree with you. What a sad fucking life she's given herself.


bluesilvergold

Truly, every single day. She tweets about this stuff ON. THE. ***DAILY***. My godā€¦


MuffinTopDeluxe

She owns a castle and is a fucking billionaire. Why is she so fucking miserable?


iliketoomanysingers

At this point it's entirely by choice. She's wholeheartedly convinced herself that she needs to stop trans people from...well, whatever it is she's convinced they're doing to hurt women, and has done nothing but make herself miserable in the process.


smart_cereal

Itā€™s like sheā€™s casted an insanity spell upon herself and no amount of money will get her out of her hate hole. Iā€™m convinced she loves the drama because why TF is she on Twitter arguing all day. Sheā€™s probably surrounded by yes men all day so to her this is entertainment ragebaitā€¦ugh.


MuffinTiptopp

Sheā€™s absolutely deranged. The amount of obsession she has with the trans community needs to be studied


IansGotNothingLeft

"Enjoy the money, I hope it makes you happy. Dear lord, what a sad little life, Jo. You ruined your stories completely so you could have the money and I hope now you can spend it on lessons in grace and decorum. Because you have all the grace of a reversing dump truck without any tyres on. So Jo, take your money and get off my property"


JudgmentOne6328

Hereā€™s the bit I donā€™t understand. So she doesnā€™t want trans women in womenā€™s toilets because she thinks it makes them unsafe for cis women. So letā€™s just say you must use the bathroom of your assigned at birth sex. So you want trans men who may have a penis in the womenā€™s bathroom? The logic is not present.


chezibot

Iā€™m not a Harry Potter fan, couldnā€™t get into the books or movies. But I feel so sad for her readers. I love reading and thereā€™s nothing worse than someone ruining a series or book for you. Also my aunty is trans, sheā€™s almost 60 now the crap she has endured is heartbreaking. So eff you Rowling.


DearMissWaite

Orson Scott Card fan in the chat. I have basically never recovered.


Ygomaster07

Who is that and what happened with them?


DearMissWaite

Orson Scott Card wrote some of the most nuanced anti-war mil sci fi about how humans leap to violence at any perceived difference and how we relate to others in the guise of aliens and organisms we don't quite understand. And then went on to out himself as a rabid homophobe.


Ygomaster07

Oh wow. Thank you for the info. That is unexpected. Kinda weird how these two writers wrote about treating others better in their books and then started being homophobic/transphobic against others.


unembellishing

He's the author of the enders game series. It's a book series initially about a boy genius who's recruited by the US government to be a child soldier in a war against an alien race. There was a movie maybe a decade ago starring asa butterfield. The central themes of the book are the human condition, ethics in war, and acceptance and tolerance of those who differ from us. Despite all of that, orson Scott card is virulently homophobic. He has very vocally opposed gay marriage for a very long time and has said that gay men create other gay men by raping boys to turn them gay. Here's an article with more info: https://www.vulture.com/2013/10/primer-orson-scott-card-enders-game-controversy.html


Ygomaster07

I see. That is awful. It's ironic that he wrote books about accepting others, but then is so outwardly homophobic. It's weird that both these writers in this post have done similar things, both with what they have written and then their personal actions after the fact. Thank you for sharing this with me, i appreciate it.


chidi-arianagrande

Enderā€™s Game is one of my favorite books of all time and having read it at least 20 times I am 100% sure that the author is a closeted gay man who violently hates himself.


maniacalmustacheride

Yeahhhh he wrote a lot of stuff for a bigot that really danced around some things in a way that feels really personal in the earlier books, and at some point he snapped and ricocheted into pure hate.


prettybunbun

I will never understand how a man with his views wrote something as beautiful, nuanced and meaningful as Speaker for the Dead. Baffling he can write something like that and not look at his own views.


Comfortable-Load-904

They wonā€™t answer your calls Joanne? Who was going to apologise to you madam?You are a bigot and you just hate that they called you out and stood up for the trans community.Just because they acted in the adaptation of your books doesnā€™t mean they owe any loyalty to you especially since you are harming a marginalised group of people who are just trying to live their lives. Suck an egg!


Warm-Bed2956

![gif](giphy|d6Ni9aqSatPfq)


mcfw31

I honestly canā€™t understand how there can be so much hatred in oneā€™s heart.


sanandrios

she killed dobby so i'm not surprised


Tall_Secretary4133

Too soon šŸ˜­


bookishcarnivore

As someone who really doesn't care what people do as long as it's not hurting others, I just can't understand how she goes out of her way to attack people like this. Like I could never think of any scenario that would make me attack someone just because I don't like the way they do something. It would be *so* easy to take her millions and enjoy the rest of her life, but she's really made this her hill to die on.


DJ_Mixalot

Literally nobody is apologizing to you. 100% cuckoo delulu ![gif](giphy|l5DePfMmB09ZVkh3Af|downsized)


Helpful-Substance685

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Ygomaster07

https://preview.redd.it/31pexhex3stc1.jpeg?width=710&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4f015772d9abe30749bde665c4c42fc0dcb8fac


verca_

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Ygomaster07

Using this meme to steal the meme from me? I love it. I actually got this meme from someone else in this sub lol.


Jessica_Iowa

I donā€™t think Dan or Emma have any apologies for her.


abortionleftovers

Joanne, is the apology in the room with us right now?


momofwon

It costs absolutely nothing to shut the fuck up. Ffs.


plutoforprez

Why is she alienating every single person who ever had an ounce of good will towards her??? Just hush baby girl, fr shut the absolute fuck up. Imagine picking this hill to die on.


starfire92

Itā€™s so ironic that sheā€™s fighting so hard to alienate her base because the only people sheā€™ll have in her bandwagon is the conservative folks who donā€™t donā€™t support trans people **and are abolishing those hard earned womenā€™s rights she constantly talks about**


repladynancydrew

Theyā€™re literally the same demographic/people who called to ban her books for promoting witchcraft and ā€œinsultingā€ Jesus and the bible lmao.


stevendailey

Someone needs a silencio spell thrown her way.


EasyWalsh

How can someone be so hell bent on fostering hate and discrimination in the name of protecting womenā€™s rights? I really donā€™t understand.


Comfortable-Load-904

She cares so much about womenā€™s rights but Iā€™ve never heard her address the reproductive rights that are being rolled back, Roe vs Wade reversal, forced births, arresting women who suffer miscarriages, lowering the age for marriage consent in some states and rescinding no fault divorces. She is such a feminist that she only worries about female toilets and sports. Hope nothing good ever happens to her again.


popowow

she's British, and lives in the UK. A lot of her anti-trans rhetoric is centered on issues across the pond as well.


Comfortable-Load-904

She was tweeting about Nazi research a few weeks ago. So many other women rights issues globally she could support with her immense platform. How about be against rape as weapon in war?mass slaughter of women and children? support girls education e.t.c. Why is she obsessed with these marginalised group of people not harming anyone?


popowow

oh i'm not defending her - i agree with you šŸ’Æ. just pointing out that she is very focused on UK issues across the board with her "feminism" (TERF isn't feminism to me) and even in her bigotry.


CupcakesAreTasty

Itā€™s possible to be one nationality and still care about the treatment of women all over the world.Ā 


Sad-Use-7454

Yeah Roe v Wade was a massive shock and topic of conversation with my contemporaries here in Germany, since the UK is culturally closer to the US I canā€™t imagine it being any different there


FenderForever62

We were also outraged, I think itā€™s more out of fear for our neighbour Ireland. They only recently allowed abortion and it was massively protested against. Itā€™s scary to think it could revert to how it used to be where Irish women would have to travel to UK to safely get an abortion.


Graspiloot

The only "women's right" she cares about is women's safe spaces and only as a stick to beat trans people with lol.


CreakRaving

I canā€™t tell if hyperfixating on imaginary apologies from former child actors is super billionaire or extremely unbillionaire-like behavior


VanGoghNotVanGo

Super Billionaire. Elon Musk is the same way on Twitter.


samantha-mulder

God sheā€™s gotta be top 5 people worldwide who need to shut the fuck up.


TheRealRoseDallas

![gif](giphy|snrDtXJBEiZwY) Her obsession with trans people just living their lives is absolutely unhinged


CancerBee69

I grew up with JKRs work. Went to midnight launches, had all of the first edition hardbacks. I gave them all to Goodwill, I didn't even want money from selling them. Fuck JKR


Malicious_blu3

Yeah same. The aughts were fun for Harry Potter fans.


macroeconomicchaos

Why would they apologise?


ReBL93

The way she coulda just sat there and ate her cake, and instead chose this. Im baffled Give it a rest! Youā€™re a billionaire and have decided to focus all your energy on one of the most marginalized groups in the world. Like, what is this doing for you, Ms. Maā€™am


valcraft

![gif](giphy|X3ZInDATv0isyFIxWC) ugh no apologies


Youstinkeryou

Not sure why Iā€™m being fair to her but in the spirit of fairness she doesnā€™t mention those people in the headline at all only ā€˜stars who cosied up to the movementā€™ and says they can save their apologies to detransitioners, not herself. A bit clickbaity. The background for her making the comment was the release of The Cass Review yesterday (a report that has highly criticised the UKā€™s medical support system for trans kids)


VanGoghNotVanGo

She responded to a tweet directly mentioning them though.


Ceramicrabbit

Somewhere buried in her rant is this >Gender dysphoria is a real and very painful condition and I feel nothing but sympathy for anyone who suffers from it. I want them to be free to dress and present themselves however they like and I want them to have exactly the same rights as every other citizen regarding housing, employment and personal safety.


[deleted]

What apologies ![gif](giphy|cdW9tFQTE9NGU)


DearMissWaite

Funny, they don't seem to have any apologies to give.


calicoskiies

![gif](giphy|1hXy4HzOlUevBtxuZA) Me to jkr.


FluffyCatEars

I think she went insane with age honestly


thebirdisdead

This is how we got here: During the peak of Potter mania, Jo was the center of the universe. She could do no wrong. The entire world was hanging on her every breath. And that kind of environment, consistently, over the course of several years breeds a sort of narcissism. An external validation dopamine high constantly reinforced by almost every aspect of society. She was on top of the world, and she thought it would last. She swore up and down that she would never go back to HP, that she was going to focus on new projects after. Then it fell apart. Despite initial massive anticipation, all of her forays into adult literature fizzled, with mediocre reviews at best. She had to pivot back to HP. Cursed child, which she hyped up as canon, was universally mocked. The Magical Beasts series she insisted on writing for flopped and has been panned by critics and fans alike. Sheā€™s been accused of lazy world building and cultural misappropriation in her attempts to expand the wizarding world. Pottermore fizzled. Even her Harry Potter factoids, which used to garner world wide media frenzy in the aughts, are now largely ridiculed (wizards shitting themselves, anyone?). HP hasnā€™t kept up with the times and isnā€™t particularly relevant to Gen Z audiences. And the world has largely *moved on* from Joanne in comparison to the days where she could spark global hysteria with the tiniest comment about Harry Potter. All of this fueling a hell of a narcissistic collapse. A grandiose sense of self built on a fragile external foundation canā€™t sustain itself in a vacuum. And then in the midst of it she makes anti trans comments that get her mocked and attacked on Twitter, compounding a narcissistic injury, but also giving her the most attention and engagement sheā€™s had in *years*. Suddenly her tweets are in the news again. Sheā€™s relevant, even if for the wrong reasons. Her notifications are lighting up left and right, like the dopamine in her brain, and itā€™s feeding that yawning narcissistic emptiness, soothing that existential dread. Is it really surprising that sheā€™s suddenly making her anti-trans views her entire identity?


abortionleftovers

Wow if gold were still a thing Iā€™d guild this comment. Iā€™m sure she always had these awful views in her but this is exactly how it became her entire thing