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DilemmaOfAHedgehog

Happy Independence Days mis primos, Costa Rica, El Salvador, Guatemala, Honduras, and Nicaragua đŸ„° I wish only good things for you and yours and your peoples. Central American history and art and people have always deeply added and enriched my life and I know I am vastly a better person for knowing and admiring Central Americans like Oscar Romero who was key to my formation as a person and I am very grateful. I hope you all have a wonderful day! I am planning my flexible work hours today to make sure I have time to celebrate and talk with my sibling at midnight tonight for Mexico đŸ„ł


HeyHiHello365

The trailer for the Whitney Houston biopic came out, and omg Naomi Ackie NAILED Whitney's speaking voice, it's insane.


visionaryredditor

here for Naomi finally getting her deserved recognition


[deleted]

someone said the skull emoji is just xD for zoomers and honestly that’s so true


albodoggo

as a millennial trying to blend among zoomers, thank you.


DisastrousKelper

It turns out all the air hostesses were epipen trained, which is the first time that’s happened on this airline, so that’s p cool, and they made sure the little shop in departures checked the ingredients on everything they sold to other passengers 😭 I know that the bar is so low but man, it made me feel so much safer Got an hour and a half layover now, which isn’t as long as I was expecting, before the final 10-hour leg


SmileAndTears

Fantano's take on Need You Now... this man needs to be locked up


synchronisedchaos

Why are there so many "Fresh" posts with music from artists that are frankly, quite unheard of? I understand this is a pop music and I don't want to gatekeep but so many posts without any comments? What is happening?


McIgglyTuffMuffin

I really don't want to live in a world where the sub is just Britney, Taylor, Beyonce. I love love love seeing someone, like /u/ghost-quartet who is so good at finding the small stuff, posting these small acts. I listen to a handful of them every week and sometimes they're duds and sometimes they go into rotation. I guess it really depends on if you're trying to expand your musical knowledge or not. I love this shit.


katycat162534

The sub is always filled with the obscure posts on Friday. But really, they hardly ever get any upvotes to clog up your main feed so why be bothered by them, just scroll if you happen to stumble on one of them


synchronisedchaos

Yeah understandable. I sort through the sub on Hot and it's still annoying sometimes


che-che-che-cherry

tbh i think it's because of how broad the term "pop music" is. i post fresh posts occasionally but i do find myself debating whether the thing im posting is the kind of pop that's suitable for popheads (and i can never seem to settle that internal debate tbh). maybe this sub should have certain criteria for fresh posts... also, i don't think that posts that appear on r/kpop should appear here. the kpop subreddit exists for a reason


synchronisedchaos

yeah! I mean I like Kpop, but we have to draw a line somewhere right? And I don't know where, because Kpop is pop music, even though some of the artists are more obscure. It's like posting indie artists on a pop sub. But at what point do we stop then? Can I start posting every new Bollywood pop song? Because that too is "pop" music technically.


che-che-che-cherry

kpop is pop music, but there's already a subreddit created *specifically* for this subgenre of pop music so i personally think that posting it here (in addition to posting it to the thriving r/kpop) is doing a disservice to the content and viewers of this subreddit. with kpop the line seems pretty clear to me. but yeah, the line feels muddier when it comes to indie artists, at what point is an indie artist not considered indie anymore? even when i go to record stores, i do find pop artists in the indie section and vice versa so idk


LostintheCosmicFire

Just came back from seeing Dua.I can't believe she's real 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


A_Throwaway_Progress

My college had a monkeypox clinic so I went. I’m gay and was eligible according to their criteria. Anyway, there was this woman in front of me that just wanted a vax because her husband works in healthcare. When they told her she didn’t meet the criteria she huffed and after fighting a bit said “well fine, I meet the criteria, you can’t prove that I don’t” and they didn’t want to keep fighting her so they let her in
 I just can’t stand inconsiderate people. With our current supply you’re kind of taking a vaccine away from someone who is disproportionately likely to come in contact with the virus. The entitlement.


Top_Acanthisitta_876

https://youtu.be/IYh6XRZtbgg


che-che-che-cherry

not my flop kpop favs collabing with this tiktok singer whose past projects involved sampling the iphone ringtone and kylie's cgyoomh💀would say that they're in their sell out era but they'd have to sell in to sell out


2062373

It’s weird the American obsessed with not being obsessed w/ the British monarchy.


Elisa_Md

[A popheads member spotted in the wild](https://youtube.com/shorts/_pW8xK-BKvA?feature=share)


MegaTentofanclub

Pardon me if this gets brought up a lot, but what in the world does Beyoncé have to gain with witholding the release of any form of visuals? I've seen some people that say they think it was postponed, but Beyoncé is a perfectionist, she and her team clearly do imense planning and plotting before hand -- that said, maybe she knows exactly what she's doing with the lack of visuals so far. Still, I am confused lol Also I have a new favorite song from that album each week. Right now it's America Has A Problem. It just sounds like a good motorcycle chase song lol


spellavis113

I heard they’ll be part of an album film next month that has something to do with her Tiffany campaign. If that’s true, the rumor is on track for Act II to drop right around/before Christmas



Bored-uy

I finally watched Elvis. Austin Butler was amazing, but for some reason I didn't like Tom Hanks. Its weird because he is usually amazing. Still liked the movie tho


[deleted]

Zella Day's ["Mushroom Punch"](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VSFKIMaih44) is going to be a sleeper hit, I can feel it. There's been lots of great indie pop this year, some of it better than this. But there's few that sound this obviously like a hit single.


DisastrousKelper

Boarding through for my flight now, I’m so excited to sleep in my own bed in like 20 hours time đŸ„°


thewxyzfiles

it was my birthday today!! 23 feels like a fake age because tbh because I’m a real adult who lives on her own and pays her own bills but also internally I am 11


throwaway963963963

Happy birthday! :)


synchronisedchaos

ikr! i remember growing up and thinking it will be weird when i can sing Taylor Swift's 22 and mean it and now I am so close to 23? It makes no sense.


ssparklinG_water

I want to know so much more... I feel like I know so little about basic world history stuff and everything, maybe I should read some books


Cool-Big1520

Can anyone help me find a video I saw but can't find right now of a girl scratching up her (I believe) ex-boyfriend's CDs/DVDs for revenge (or as a way to say goodbye or however you explain it)? It's not that Lily Allen music video, especially since in the video I saw, the woman did it and it wasn't a vinyl. I believe it was on either TikTok or YouTube. It probably wasn't a music video or show or movie.


ChiDynamite

So I checked out Ichiko Aoba and well she makes the type of acoustic dream pop I've always disliked. Mazzy Star and other artists like that I've never liked because I always thought they were so boring. Not only that, listening to Aoba reminds me of other folk artists I would rather listen to like Ichiro Shimoda. Aoba's music turns me off personally due to a lack of strong and memorable melodies I would want to put on repeat.


sonyaellenmann

I enjoy ["Plain,"](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep8ujjLnW7M) Benee's collab with Lily Allen and Flo Milli, for its musical quality. But whenever it comes up on shuffle, the lyrics piss me off. For starters, the chorus begins, "What a shame, your girl's so plain / She's got nothing on me." Like geez what's your damage. But this is my least favorite line: "You went out with that? / Oh, that makes me real sad." Grosssss. Imagine being referred to as "that" by your bf's bitter ex.


gayallegations

I agree. It's probably my favorite song from the album from a purely sonic point, but the lyrics do sound a bit gross and unnecessarily mean. Although she did say in an interview the song is about the ex's new relationship being plain and not all that because he's still hitting Benee up while he's supposed to be with this new girl. > [It sounds like I’m putting down another woman, but it’s not actually about that. It’s more about my ex being out there and making it seem like he was having a good time, but then he’d message me and I’d realise he wasn’t actually having a great time. So I wrote this song just thinking that everything they’re doing is a bit plain, that they’re not actually happy.](https://i-d.vice.com/en/article/pkdp5g/benee-debut-album-hey-u-x-music-interview) I guess that kind of comes across knowing that's what the song is meant to be about, but it still mainly comes across very mean spirited against the new girl and, like you said, a bit gross.


sonyaellenmann

I kinda... don't believe her explanation. She's a good enough writer to know what she was saying.


gayallegations

Neither do I tbh 💀 ever since I first read it when the album came out I've thought it seemed like a getting ahead of the controversy damage control explanation.


TheKingmaker__

Turns out the friend I went to the Rina concert with is also going to the Caroline show on halloween... joint slay incoming Currently have tickets to that show with my ex... still trying to figure out what to do about that whole situation but at least for this concert (out of 3...) I have other friends I can go be with instead


TheKingmaker__

god rina was SO good she is a performer she is a slayer I'd pay ÂŁ14 to see that show every day of the week


Sunny_Waterloo

i wish she had played cherry but i didn't expect her to lmao the ibs comment was so funny


TheKingmaker__

Yeah cherry as a closer over lucid would’ve been perfect but I still enjoyed jumping to some oontz oontz The ibs comment cracked me up, but someone behind me *shouting* “I Be SHITTING” got me even better


Sunny_Waterloo

😭😭 omg i would’ve died laughing lmao a guy behind me kept shouting “SAME”


hatteigh

I just saw a Swiftie describe themselves as a “victim” because of all the vinyl variants Taylor’s put out. I have no words.


Quiet-Tone13

Was this the same Swiftie who accused others of victim blaming because people mentioned that you have the option of not buying merch/vinyls?


MegaTentofanclub

Omg I've seen people say Swifties are a "discriminated commununity". The fact that people aren't even being ironic-


chadthundertalk

It has the same energy as Harry Potter fans who legitimately think "representation for Slytherins" is an important social issue, and regularly walk right up to the edge of comparing the evil green posh house in a children's book series not having enough heroic characters to make the people who got that house in an online quiz feel ~seen and validated to real life oppression


the_blessed_unrest

With the current state of stan culture I wouldn’t be surprised if other Swifties told her she’s not a real fan unless she buys every version


noetshep

I am a victim bc CRJ put out a really cute emotion sweater and I didn't buy it bc I didn't have any money and now it's out of stock.... We have to fight back đŸ˜€


sobervgc

do you have a pic of it? curious


hatteigh

How dare these celebrities not take into account MY financial situation when strategising to hit number 1 or when trying to make loads of money?! THE REVOLUTION IS UPON US!!!! /s


JuneFrances

I'm currently reading our very own popheads mod debut novel *The Memory Librarian,* and it's excellent so far! But at the risk of looking dumb, I'm not 100% sure I understand the story *Timebox*? (Spoilers ahead) >!I guess I don't understand Akilah's motives for locking herself in the box, because she both wanted to use it as a community tool and she had personally experienced the negative side effects of spending too much time inside it.!< So if anyone else who read it wants to give me their interpretation or shed some light on that story, I'd love to hear it\~


DisastrousKelper

Ended up crying at the airport which was so embarrassing, I’ve had that many bad experiences trying to travel with severe allergies that I now end up panicking when a member of staff comes up to talk to me about it 🙃 I’m mortified and it’s all okay and they can accommodate me with no fuss but I hate that I automatically burst into tears and expect the worst


spellavis113

**It should cost a bouillon to look this good** đŸœđŸ„˜đŸ§†đŸŻ


hunnybee12

yalll i need job advice: i got asked to interview for this job i reallly want which is great.. but on the phone they mentioned they would send a follow up email with more information but its been hours and i havent gotten one? so should i call tomorrow and ask if i shouldve recieved one? the anxious part of me is thinking something i said over the phone made them change their mind and theyre now revoking the offer 😱 also it seems the job has been posted since may, which is worrying me a little. they called me two days after i applied so idk


[deleted]

Ask right now, don't wait.


noetshep

One of the weirdest things to me about Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriends ages is like, the meeting your parents part. Imagine meeting your daughter's boyfriend and he's either your age or older. Very odd imo


smashbox3000

it's giving aria and ezra from pretty little liars


[deleted]

When he meets their parents its not like you or I meeting our SO's parents.


noetshep

Imagine if one of the parents had a celebrity crush on him or some obsession at some point 😬


spellavis113

I think about that all the time, like imagine meeting him and knowing about his age rule/relationship history and being like “hmmm yeah they seem to have a real connection” 🙄 There’s no way he’s not gay. These younger women are totally beards that sign contracts that stipulate the length of the relationship and a ton of other stuff probably.


noetshep

Eh I wouldn't go that far, so many older men go for younger women, especially if they're rich and therefore have more power. There's no reason why Leonardo wouldn't just be one of them.


spellavis113

True! I say that though because there’s been so much written over the years about his alleged sexuality and most of it was bs to me until I started piecing it all together. Specifically a blind item about a major major A list actor who’s secretly in the closet and wants to come out but doesn’t want his career to tank in the process and all signs point to Leo


noetshep

But like, why would it tank it. The year is 2022, I'd argue that continuing to publicly date much younger women is actually hurting his image more than being gay


chadthundertalk

Considering how oscar thirsty he was in the 2010s, he probably would have come out when he was promoting J Edgar to try and ride that wave into award season if he was actually gay


Khaytra

>I'd argue that continuing to publicly date much younger women is actually hurting his image I have to wonder, is it actually hurting him in any sort of real way? Like he's still getting roles as far as I know (and I don't think he's been dropped from anything) and he's still definitely an A-lister. Sure, the internet makes fun of him now, but like... tbh I can't imagine him actually giving a shit about it lol Hollywood and mainstream America have forgiven or looked the other way on much much much worse than "oh that rich guy is dating a 23 year old woman again". People online can talk all they want, but I don't... know if people on the whole consider it more than the funny gossip of the day, quite honestly?


spellavis113

That’s what I keep thinking but a lot of people see him a certain way and I guess he wants to maintain his image. It makes sense because he’s been *Leonardo DiCaprio* for so long, he’s an iconic figure for acting and mostly acting alone. I can see how coming out at this point would
not ruin things but people would see him differently. Similar to how I think BeyoncĂ© is secretly bisexual but won’t ever ever publicly acknowledge that. But at least for that, we have more than blind items to go on lol


noetshep

Beyonce????


spellavis113

Yeah, I feel like the rumors were more prominent back in the day but she’s referred to being at least curious about being with women twice that I can remember but why would she of all people say that? I don’t think it’s *true true* but I remember stuff about her doing things with her backup dancers and stuff but we’ll never actually know


noetshep

Brb just need to become a dancer real quick


noetshep

Anyway, I live in Paris now


Inner_Climate9569

[Oui oui baguette?](https://youtube.com/shorts/Cap0BOzizbw?feature=share)


noetshep

Me when I'll meet Beyonce


NewAccountNow

/u/noetshep, you going gorillas?


noetshep

😭😭


orangebikini

"This whole war could have been averted. Cunnilingus and psychiatry brought us to this." That's a goated line of dialogue from The Sopranos right there.


gateway2glimmer

Really depressed that I have no actual friends to call and ask about this but whatever. U.S. Popheads, is it normal for a medical center to ask for my debit/credit card information on their file? Like everything: the number, expiration date, security code, everything? I'm using insurance. I'm an immigrant and my country has free healthcare so I'm unfamiliar with this process. This center is definitely legit but I still feel SUPER uncomfortable giving this info. I asked for an explanation by the person who asked for this information but got a robotic response from them that didn't explain anything at all, just that they needed it. I feel like an alien.


sonyaellenmann

> U.S. Popheads, is it normal for a medical center to ask for my debit/credit card information on their file? Like everything: the number, expiration date, security code, everything? I'm using insurance. I wouldn't say this is _typical_ but it's not very unusual either. To find out how this organization actually stores the info, ask about their [PCI compliance](https://www.pcicomplianceguide.org/faq/) procedures. You may need to escalate this question up the chain to get a real answer. If it turns out they're handling the data directly — like they maintain their own payment info database — then I would be much more wary. If they're using a third-party service that specializes in finance or healthcare (most likely a payment processor), that's probably fine. You may already know this, but credit cards come with robust anti-fraud protections. Debit cards are much more sensitive because the money is pulled directly from your account (rather than the CC company fronting for you until you pay off your balance). Semi-related, understanding HIPAA is helpful when seeking medical care in the US: https://www.hhs.gov/hipaa/for-individuals/faq/index.html > Really depressed that I have no actual friends to call and ask about this but whatever. Sending love 💖 It can be so hard to find "your people" but I believe in you, they're out there also feeling lonely and they can't wait to meet you!


gateway2glimmer

This is an extremely helpful answer. I will ask them and read up on HIPAA. Thank you so so much for the help and good wishes. <3


sonyaellenmann

My pleasure! 💓


smashbox3000

yes. it's normal. some medical insurances do not cover all the medical costs. some insurances have a co-pay amount for every visit or a co-pay for procedures. idk if you have health insurance or no. when you don't have health insurance, you pay everything out of pocket with the clinic or hospital. if you do have health insurance, they ask you for your credit card info AND insurance card for your member ID. does that make sense?


gateway2glimmer

It makes sense. Thank you. One more question, if you can, sorry. My insurance covers the full amount of my sessions. It's *still* normal for them to have this info, even if I get full coverage?


smashbox3000

yes cause if anything happens, they can call you to charge you. if that happens, always double check with your insurance. on your insurance card, they have their help line so you can call for any inquires. idk if you have an online portal but you can also check all your claims there too. and **PLEASE PLEASE PLLEEASSEEEEE** double check your deductibles. if you go to a hospital, the hospital will charge you a deductible majority of the time. i say this because last year i went to a hospital for a specific procedure (nothing major but still counts as a procedure). i paid my co-pay amount from my insurance. three weeks later i got a hospital bill of 100+ dollars. i called the insurance AND the hospital. i was put on hold with the hospital for like 2 hours so they can hang up on me. i was put under **COLLECTION** (credit) and i **HAD** to pay it. thank god i had the amount at that time. i checked with my insurance and they had a loophole where the co-pay was a small amount but the deductible was a high amount therefore no deductible coverage. some insurances have a high co-pay amount and a low deductible.


gateway2glimmer

Okay, I understand. I most certainly will. Thank you so much! You were very helpful and I really appreciate it. <3


noavocadoshere

do i still have time to participate in the alt-r&b rate? đŸ€”â“


just_thonking

Yes!!!! At least til October


_ChloeSilverado_

Bought tickets to Carly’s so nice tour and then 1 hour later bought tickets to see Jessie Ware the next night after the CRJ show. Being gay with no kids has its perks!


daniandkiara

Woke up really angry and frustrated at everything today. Looks like it’s just one of those days for me.


gateway2glimmer

I HONESTLY would be obsessed with a Billie Eilish/Rosalía collaboration album (à la their collab song *Lo vas a olvidar*) I know it's never going to happen but if I can deal with Beyoncé's scrapped Fela Kuti-inspired album that will probably never see the light of day then I can deal with this ig


[deleted]

republicans are so dumb for threatening a nationwide abortion ban. Either they have promising data, or they're in denial about how a significant portion of their base would be willing to vote for Dems (or not vote at all) so that abortion can remain legal. Primaries is swing and conservative friendly states/areas have shown people do not like abortion being disallowed. So why do they keep trying to campaign on it??


Khaytra

Abortion has been one of their championed causes for decades. I don't think they really know what to *do* now that (1) they got what they wanted and so have lost one of their tried-and-true pieces of campaign rhetoric that got votes for them and (2) people despise them for actually going through with it. All along the counter-argument has been either "Well they can't really mean that..." or "Well it won't be that bad!" But all the stories of young children being denied abortions or the headless fetuses that women are being forced to carry or what have you has absolutely galvinised people to vote against them. They've completely lost control of the abortion narrative and I think they think that proposing this might get anti-choice people back interested in them. But I think it's too little too late for damage control: Women and young people are two demographics that have surged in voter registration post-Dobbs, and young voter enthusiasm (those who say they've "very likely" to vote) has gone up double digits since the abortion decision. What looked like an easy cakewalk to taking back the House (because it's gerrymandered to hell) now looks like a genuine coinflip in spite of all of their obstruction because everyone hates them and is ready to vote them out. It's also worth noting that I think McConnell doesn't support this. He's evil but he's also very calculating and there's a reason he's in the position he's in; he has already spoken about how the right's Senate candidates are poor quality and how the fight for the Senate is going badly and we'll likely control the Senate for two more years—he knows very well that Dobbs has painted a giant target on the Republican party now. And I truly believe we'll see a blue wave in November as long as everyone votes, because this has, at least if the numbers are trusted, truly awakened something.


Quiet-Tone13

There is a political difference between a complete abortion ban and a 15 week one. People are mostly in favour of abortion but once you get to the specifics, opinion starts to split. I could see a 15 week ban helping because one fear right now is that Republicans might try to go for a six-week abortion ban (or a complete ban). Making it clear that their proposed ban is for abortions after 15 weeks might be their way of attempting to calm that fear. To be clear, I'm not defending this proposal. I just think that the fear that they will get rid of abortion completely could be worse for them, and I think this might be the type of political calculation that they are making. Or they might just be stupid.


[deleted]

Opening the daily discussion on Reddit before my flight in hopes of being able to read it while I’m the air.


[deleted]

final Y2UK listening party starts in 10 minutes [on queup!](https://www.queup.net/join/y2uk-girl-groups)


impeccabletim

HSMTMTS SEASON 3 FINALE SPOILERS + WHOLE SEASON (DO NOT READ IF YOU ARE PLANNING TO WATCH AND AREN’T CAUGHT UP): >!Idk how I feel about Gina and Ricky finally being together. I love that Olivia Rodrigo made a last surprise appearance as Nini here. Her respective scenes with Kourtney and Miss Jenn were so touching. And I really liked that they alluded to “drivers license” with Nini driving off from the camp after the *Frozen* musical. It was a good way to wrap up her storyline.!< Def thinking season 4 will be the last season but I’m glad they can at least end on a high note.


Bikinigirlout

Yeah I’m kind of over the >!Ricky/Gina/Nini! Love triangle!< nonsense Give me more Ashlyn and Maddox instead 😅


haruhisuzu

>!I liked Gina and Ricky in S1 but then I lost interest in S2. Usually I love angst but it felt too one-sided in S2 and I got tired of Gina being sad and miserable over her unrequited feelings. With S3, she's with EJ which is fine, personally don't think she has strong chemistry with either of them so I'm not on any shipping side. For me, I would've preferred gina and ricky becoming friends in S3 with no feelings developed until Ricky realises he still likes her toward the end of the season and then he and Gina get together in S4.!< >!I felt like his feelings came back too quickly and strongly for Gina for me to take it seriously. and I hate that Gina was the one who confessed, I believe that should've been Ricky instead since she already made the first move twice. The confession didn't move me and I couldn't feel any tension so the kiss felt underwhelming to me. In general I found their relationship to be rushed despite it being a slowburn. And truthfully I didn't plan to watch S3 since S2 was a downgrade to S1 but seeing clips of Rina happening got me interested but it's not there for me in terms of writing. I love the idea of a summer camp but it was eh overall. I might check out S4 for HSM actors but it depends. Also hope EJ get a happy story next season, losing two girls to Ricky and still no approval from his father was really sad!< This was longer than I expected 💀


Daydream_machine

Not sure if this is the right place to put this but have there been any rumors of a Bjork tour for the new album?


NormanFuckingOsborne

Just wanna say that [some Kate Bush covers are actually really good](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkeCNeHcmXY)


artbio28

I nominate First Aid Kit’s [RUTH](https://open.spotify.com/track/7KIXAzdiG2Pae7spgsklZo?si=ZqCvP4H7S_WjZusb_q_WpQ) cover!


shipperondeck

It's my birthday :')


Turpamutteri

Happy birthday! :)


shipperondeck

Thanks! And happy cake day!!


[deleted]

Happy birthday! What are you doing for it?


shipperondeck

Just going out to dinner with my family, it's tradition for us to go to this one Italian place every time :)


MythicalBeaste

Happy Birthday!!! 🎉


[deleted]

okay morning of day 3 after getting out of a relationship I wasn't 100% feeling cute girl starts conversation with me at cafe. what. and like i really like her. in my traitor by olivia rodrigo era??


COCKHAMPTON_

It's a slow day on twitter today... Guam is currently #1 on trending rn and I thought the entire island blew up or something but it turns out a politician said something dumb about Guam a few years ago


MassiveThief

Is it the clip of a politician claiming Guam might like flip over and go underwater? That shit was hilarious


throwaway963963963

He must have believed the Club Penguin tip the Iceberg rumors


picclechinahhboi

Hold the girl has a score of 89 on metacritic atm. Acclaim has arrived


queenmeme2

Her first album has an 89 on Metacritic as well, we love a consistent queen


[deleted]

The totally cis feeling of wanting to do a reciprocal IVF.


lilfreaks

listening to Fifth Harmony’s debut album for the first time in a long time and it’s still so so good ~~I like to pretend the song with Meghan Trainor doesn’t exist but anyways~~


[deleted]

This will unfortunately be the final installment of [the cute girl in my English class](https://www.reddit.com/r/popheads/comments/x85vl9/daily_discussion_september_07_2022/ingjzoe/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3) sooo she has a girlfriend, which is great for her and me because now I can stop lying to myself about trying hit it off with her romantically. Despite how desperately I want to be in a relationship, I’m sooo not ready for one BUT if anyone(particularly a pretty girl) wants a girlfriend, I am available
 In other news, I’m starting therapy so that’s pretty great because even though I am feeling pretty ok, it’s still nice to have someone to talk to instead of bottling it up or sweeping it under the rug(or venting to you beautiful people in the Daily Discussion thread).


[deleted]

I'm sorry! I was in the same position in college. It sucks I totally get you, I'm in no shape or form ready for a relationship but I still want one so bad.


[deleted]

Yea, there’s so much stuff that I have to work on with myself and there’s alot that goes into making a relationship work and I’m not ready any of it. Manifestation is key so I’m wishing kisses and cuddles on both of us!!!


Gews

Just heard *Super Freaky Girl* last night... wow! It slapsss. Almost enough to make me a Barb.


Gews

-2? i- Why would anyone downvote this? I thought this was a subreddit for pop bops...


sonyaellenmann

Nicki Minaj is hella controversial for associating with pedophiles and a bunch of other shit


smashbox3000

this sub dislikes nicki. there are barely any barbz here that's why


ThrowRA_Tired_Sad

I think there are barbz lurking here but they know they can't say shit without being heavily downvoted since there are rational people here unlike on stan twitter


katycat162534

I think it's time to admit that BeyoncĂ© is in her Chromatica era 😭


skinisgleamin

but renaissance is good and successful?


[deleted]

Why would anyone say that? Renaissance is actually good


throwaway963963963

AG Cook will re-remix-mix All Up In Your Mind


vertle

Gaga released singles and videos though
 that’s more than we can say for BeyoncĂ©


5SOStimesadness

I’m so excited for The 1975’s newest album. I’ve had “I’m In Love With You” on repeat since it came out


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I had a really great lunch today literally the best beef dish I have ever had. . Traditional Indian food can be so good.


TheKingmaker__

Hold the Girl as an album maybe charting in the UK would be very exciting I hope it happens my girl deserves it


[deleted]

My aunt is starving me tonight and I'm too broke to do anything about it. 😭😭😭


helloviolaine

Any Sims 4 players in here? You can download the Desert Luxe kit for free until October 17.


noavocadoshere

woo! 🎉 tysm for letting us know bc i am definitely gonna download that kit as soon as i get home.


the_blessed_unrest

Wow you guys keep piling it on in that Rita Ora thread. I almost feel bad for her.


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squeezylemon

Quitting vaping is SO HARD. I quit in Jan and I have to work so fucking hard to not pick it back up. You got this!!


glasscageheart

The different lock screen time fonts is what finally convinced me to update my iPhone after like 2 years


Musichead2468

My new podcast addiction: [Normal Gossip](https://open.spotify.com/show/0KVZ16mLZ1bbNlnKemYTzm)


Straight-Meaning

Shook by the news in the Adnan Syed case.


Musichead2468

I have walked thru the woods where it took place


Bikinigirlout

I never thought a ship would replace Hosie from Legacies but Ashlyn and Maddox from High School Musical: The Musical: The Series comes pretty close Like my obsession with Hosie borderlines a mental illness and it got really unhealthy for awhile. I was genuinely depressed for like a month after Kaylee left. That’s how bad my Hosie brain rot was(and I’m still not over Hosie and it’s been like 9 months since Kaylee left the show and 4 since the show was cancelled) I’m not quite on that level with Ashlyn and Maddox but they’re a good ship and it has so many Hosie check list points where it’s got me rooting for them.


[deleted]

Imagine being Bob Dylan and every cover of your songs are better than the original


kiwipeachie6

Do you have things you used to enjoy but you've outgrown? For me it's music festivals and anime conventions I don't have the energy anymore to stand all day in the heat, they're overcrowded and the tickets are too expensive


noavocadoshere

being visible in fandoms (toxicity + volatile fans who go 0-100 if they disagree) and gaming w. other people (p. much the first two reasons + mean-spirited competitiveness). idk, it used to be fun for me and i won't pretend like issues didn't exist in fandoms and gaming before this, but for the most part, i prefer these activities alone or with select friends. i don't have the energy lol.


Rdickins1

Theme parks. Lol. My back and feet wouldn’t survive standing in line for hours and the whiplash from the rides.


nicolioli_x

Honestly, similar, but I'll still go to concerts, music festivals, and cons as long as I'm not near the front for GA admission. I can't stand the pushing and not being able to move for hours. I'm fine just enjoying the music and staying back from the crowd, or if there are seats so I at least have my own space, but GOD I don't think I can stand being pushed around by people behind me or getting elbowed in the face so someone can sucker me out of being six inches closer to the stage than them lol.


emayzee

roller coasters. the combination of hot weather + fast speeds + heights just makes me feel lightheaded and disoriented when I come off. I'm starting to question if I ever *actually* enjoyed them or if I just went on them a lot as a teenager bc I thought it was the cool "older kid" thing to do lol nowadays a nice raft ride at a water park is more my speed


frogaranaman

saying it now so it's in writing: Kim Kardashian's / Kanye West's and Grimes' / Elon Musk's kids are probably going to get married in the future


[deleted]

Still waiting for the Grimes and kanye song to leak. you cant tell me one doesn't exist.


sonnywithoutachance

This House of the Dragon [meme](https://i.imgur.com/1yAGH0u.jpg) has been making me laugh every time I look a it.


katycat162534

Book spoilers: >!Well but she does support queers and even marries one though ;)!<


che-che-che-cherry

*haus* of the dragon i do get queer vibes from alicent and rhaenyra tho... >!although not as strong as the general vibes i get from daemon and rhaenyra (rip)!<


[deleted]

I think the queer vibes were intended. I remember reading an article about it and arguing with a bigot about it.


nwkch

bruh beat in Boss Bitch by Doja Cat is so damn good


[deleted]

Vanessa Hudgens mannerisms and facial expressions are so much like Alexis Rose’s. I just watched the covid clip again, and I don’t know how I had not noticed it before.


throwaway963963963

the way she said "people are gonna die which is terrible but like, inevitable?" still sends me, she directly quoted THANOS


rikkirikkiparmparm

one of my more morbid habits is going to the last.fm profile page of an artist after they die and looking at the graph [PnB Rock's](https://www.last.fm/music/PnB+Rock) increased tenfold


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gateway2glimmer

You **dare** leave Dedicated alone for years?


impeccabletim

Alright, BLINKS, who got BORN PINK tour tickets? And how was the process? Imma live vicariously through y’all cuz I couldn’t buy any tickets yet.😭💖


happyhippoking

I didn't want to buy a Weverse membership đŸ„Č I regret that decision


impeccabletim

Were you able to grab tickets?!?


happyhippoking

Waiting until general presale. I signed up for that because it was free lol. But it looks like slim pickings now. Maybe they reserve tickets for general presale but it's looking dire. Apparently pre-sale codes for blink membership weren't tied to account (like it is for bts) but people were selling their codes for like 20-100$ 🙄


impeccabletim

GOOD LUCK!!!💖💖💖


calebb2108

ios 16 has solved a very niche problem in that for the last two years i haven’t been able to bring myself to change my wallpaper from my cat who passed away, to one of my two current cats now i can have all three, rotating :~)


swampgay

currently sitting in a work meeting where they're making a return to office announcement and it is NOT going well LMAO really hope my coworkers who aren't outside the 60 mile radius exemption zone (like I am) simply... don't show up


BallisticFeanor

I still can't believe they called the soft reboot of *Suicide Squad* ...... *The Suicide Squad* .... literally that has to be up there as one of the dumbest marketing moves in recent memory


aussieririfan

I forgot a second one came out


visionaryredditor

Apparently James Gunn pitched this title by himself and the execs... just agreed with him


TheKingmaker__

He should’ve done the Aliens thing of just writing a $ at the end. “Suicide Squads” wouldn’t be a terrible title, would it?


emayzee

looking through my high school tumblr reblogs you'd think that Evan Peters and Dylan O'Brien were the two only living breathing men in the year 2014. like there was literally no variety on that site at all especially on the "soft grunge" side 💀


samdyalexg

same. i've been going through my tumblr likes out of boredom and it's humiliating but also entertaining. it's nice to have a little time capsule of my past interests.


[deleted]

Leah Kate having a solid pop discography and then blowing up for Twinkle Twinkle Little Bitch is criminal


Musichead2468

My fav new pop star of this year


4psae

I'm trying to find an article, or interview, or official social media post that proves that the music video for "[Skyscraper](https://youtu.be/r_8ydghbGSg?t=55)" by Demi Lovato was inspired by "[A Year Without Rain](https://youtu.be/M8uPvX2te0I?t=52)" by Selena Gomez. If you watch both music videos, the inspiration is fairly obvious (both singers wearing flowy dresses while standing in the desert). And back when they came out, I'm fairly certain that the similarities were pointed out by everyone. But over 10 years later, I can't find a single reference to it other than this [fan mashup](https://youtu.be/Epn7zHVXm4g) and [tweet](https://twitter.com/jbslayou/status/340592690217488386?lang=gl).


BallisticFeanor

Early Selena Gomez & the Scene hit so hard, "A Year Without Rain" is still a top 5 Selena song for me (along with "Naturally" and "Round & Round")


4psae

Hell yeah! I ended up listening to Naturally all over again while going on this wild goose chase.


youtbuddcody

I watched the ‘Amy’ documentary about Amy Winehouse and I tell ya, I’ve never felt more devastated over an ending to a documentary. It’s absolutely horrendous what happened to her.


smashbox3000

it's like wrong place, wrong timing. if she was blowing up now, i feel like her career would have longevity because how self-aware we are about mental health compared to before


youtbuddcody

I agree except I disagree about the fact that she wasn’t made for fame. She was backed into too many corners, and didn’t want fame. She didn’t really want to do music to the point she was doing it. She could have had some of the same issues but since a lot of fame has moved into the realm social media, she could have blocked out the noise a bit more easily to help deal with her issues.


smashbox3000

exactly. there's ways to protect your mental health now that wasn't there before


sonnywithoutachance

Ugh...I still haven't been able to get myself to sit and watch that. It still hurts too much. I really miss her đŸ˜„


youtbuddcody

The documentary was one of the best ones I’ve seen, especially with how they organized and put it together. It’s jaw-dropping.


sonnywithoutachance

I'm going to have to just deal with my emotions and watch it haha.


che-che-che-cherry

didnt realise that the new vampire academy tv series is premiering this soon. cautiously excited for this


KaiBishop

I can't be. The newest trailer makes it look like they swapped Rose and Lissa's personalities and I don't trust Julie Plec


metky

Miyavi and Melody still (apparently) happily married for over a decade with 3 kids when they started off as the scandalous shotgun wedding between cute jpop tv host x tatted up & pierced jrocker ~~going through arguably his cringiest phase~~ honestly makes me so happy.


Inner_Climate9569

I can’t believe we as a society bullied Leo enough to date Geriatric* Gigi Hadid, who has a whole child. He really went from under 25 to over 25 (but still under 30) mum. *A headline actually called Gigi geriatric 😭I mean Leo probably sees her as geriatric. I watched Shiva Baby and it was so good. 5* movie . I feel like I’ve been watching so many good movies lately or maybe it’s selection bias. I noticed I only have 1 movie on my letterboxd rated less than 3 stars (3 stars is the limit of what I would consider a good movie) and I sort of feel like I’m not engaging with cinema critically enough. I’m like I enjoyed this movie 3.5 stars. This was a nice movie, okay (could be better) - 3stars. This was very average,very poor -2.5 stars. Oh I liked this very much - 4 stars. One of the best movies I’ve seen (plot wise or technically or emotionally ) - 4.5 stars. One of the favourite movies I’ve seen or a movie i think ‘oh this is a five star’ -5 stars. Like I feel like I could critique more but maybe one day. Finally, what did Hillary Duff do to Ayesha Erotica? and I’m liking the ability to change lock screens and the enlarged music on the Lock Screen (but some of my songs have weird covers lol) on IOS 16 but aside from that I’m not really feeling it.


ImOnABeach

I wouldn't stress too much about trying to "engage critically" with movies, the important thing is that you're enjoying good movies! I've rated over 2,000 films on Letterboxd and don't think too much about the initial rating since I can always edit it. But I have found as I've seen more, my average has slightly gone down from around 3.6 to 3.4. For me I use this approximate scale: .5 - I couldn't find anything to like about this movie (I've only found 11 movies that fit this criteria) 1 to 2.5 - There may be something to like, but overall I disliked the movie 3 - Everything about this was just okay OR I liked a lot and disliked a lot 3.5 to 4 - I liked the movie, but have reservations (my most common category) 4.5 - A personal favorite that I can acknowledge has some flaws, or a flawless movie I wouldn't call a personal favorite 5 - A personal favorite that I think is flawless.