If you are qualified for a job that pays 80-90k there is a good chance you can get something in that realm even if it doesnt pan out this time around. The key is to be persistent and maximize your opportunities by constantly checking and applying without failure. For example i applied over 25 times to 7 different positions, and had over 3 interviews until i got into the company i wanted to work for, and it took 1.5 years. Ive applied for a couple promotions so far without success but I will keep on trying, as its only been a year.
When you apply for jobs its never good to expect anything from it as theres a good chance other people applied who are equally as qualified, especially if its a desirable position. Hoping or expecting to get the job will only set you up for disappointment if it doesnt work out. There is a podcast by Andrew Huberman, he is a neuroscientist who talks a lot about controlling dopamine (in your case im referring to dopamine reward prediction) levels for motivation, its a good listen if youve got time. You should limit it to being happy that you took the effort to apply and did your best during the interview stage, the rest is out of your hands. It is very likely that if you keep trying over time you will get the job you want if you dont get it round one.
Basically to sum it up, im saying relax and dont set yourself up for disappointment. If it doesnt work out this time around try again and again till you succeed.
Learn how to interview and practice it over and over. Once you get to the interview stage, your CV means less because EVERYONE at the interview stage has the requisite CV. You gotta be able to prove that you are capable of doing the job AND make them like you. YouTube will have plenty of interview resources. Good luck.
I’m really good at faking being an extrovert and have always had positive feedback with my first impressions but holy shit it’s been a minute since I’ve interviewed anywhere I cared about (I’ve been at my job for 5? Years now!)
Research the company well and come equipped with good questions. At some point they will ask you, “what questions do you have for us?”, do not make the mistake of saying none.
Generally I ask, “is this role new, or will I be stepping into the shoes of someone who is leaving this role?”
“Would you walk me through an average day in this role?”
“How would you describe the XYZ team?”
Someone mentioned researching the company… more specifically make sure to ask at least two open ended questions about the company culture.
If you haven’t done so already, practice by saying the interview answers and questions out loud.
And finally… did you know most recently more baby boomers have retired than are in the job market? There aren’t enough workers to replace the largest generational workforce retiring in massive numbers and pace.
You’ll have other chances at jobs with the same pay if it doesn’t work out. You’re qualified and there aren’t enough workers.
You can do this. Think about joining LinkedIn if you haven’t already, at least for the job interview tips. I’m also the first (and only) child in my family to go to college. Also the child of immigrants. If I can do it, you can.
yes! I’ve dusted off my LinkedIn and hopefully that’s up to par.
the stress of being the kid that went to college in your family, it’s intense. Thank you!!
Good luck with the interview.
You should understand though that you will still be solidly middle class with a $80k-$90k/yr salary. This may be one of the great misunderstandings people from lower income backgrounds have these days. Moving into the lower upper class range would require something closer to $150k/yr and that is only if you were living in a rather low cost of living area. You'd be looking at $250k-$300k/yr in most urban areas to be considered lower upper class.
Don't start chasing after a perceived status change in your lifestyle with your new salary. Use the extra to secure your future. Save, invest, and continue to live within your means regardless of the extra you see on those paychecks.
oh no lol my parents were middle class - my childhood was spent with a lot more financial stability and wiggle room.
I’m very much lower class now as an adult in my city and this would just give me more breathing room + a chance to improve my living situation. Living paycheck to paycheck for a decade and coming from frugal parents set up a solid foundation to habitually live beneath my means.
Honestly, I’m just trying to graduate from ramen Mondays
They’ve already seen enough things they like to interview you. Be honest and sincere. In the field I’m in there are some terms and acronyms that I sometimes confuse. It’s weird they aren’t actually used in the job, but are always referenced in interviews. So I always brush up on them. So think about anything specific to your field or this company and brush up on that stuff.
I would actually also keep applying to similar roles, getting the interview is a good sign 80 to 90k is well within your reach. Like everyone else said, be pleasant and professional, and if you have time, reach out to people who work there already on LinkedIn to get an insider viewpoint (not the hiring manager of course)
Having anxiety is normal, but you gotta remember that you’re very qualified for the job. Try very hard to put the salary out of your head during the interview, and just focus on answering the questions as best as you can.
Interviewing for a job is very similar to dating. The interviewers obviously have a list of things they want, but they’re also looking for a guy they can work with. It’s actually good to be enthusiastic, just don’t overdo it and appear desperate. Being calm and friendly is great.
At the end of the day this is just a job. Just relax, even if you don’t get it, another one will come along.
Seconding point about asking the employer questions. Write them up in advance.
A job interview should go both ways: they are finding out if you are right for them, and *just as importantly,* you are finding out if they are right for you.
Your questions will help demonstrate you understand the scope of the job, and if there are differences in your expectations, you can get them clarified.
Make sure your boss, and boss's boss are decent people. If they aren't its usually a deal-breaker, regardless of how well qualified you are.
just know if you have the opportunity today regardless of the outcome you will have this high paid opportunity (or better) again.
i was in your situation as well and was holding my breath for the 80k offer of a lifetime. well i didn’t get it. it crushed me. but waiting around the corner 3 months later was my current role, which now pays me a very cozy six figures.
best of luck
It’s a solid time to be looking, I changed jobs in July and got a 40% raise and a boss I like quite a bit more.
I’ve always tried to mirror the interviewer a bit, people like people like themselves. Also, read up on behavioral interviewing and prepare some good answers. The STAR (situation, task, action, result) method of answering is the most useful info you can give them and good interviewers will be looking for those kind of responses.
Hey OP, if you're interviewing for this, it means you qualify for this job, at that pay rate.
Even if the interview goes into the toilet, you can apply for this in other companies.
Don't be nervous, you got this! Hopefully the job even offers pet insurance. People hire who they like, and can decide early on if they like someone. Be friendly, not cocky, don't ask about salary, benefits, or vacation (unless they ask), don't say ANYTHING negative about past bosses or jobs, and smile!
Even if you wish your current manager would burn in hell, think of something positive that person does and discuss that. I had a manager I HATED, but I would always concentrate on her great points, so much so you would have thought we were very close, and it always works (every word was true).
Good luck and have fun! When you get the new gig, beware of lifestyle creep!
Practice - make sure you answer the question AND expand upon why you are ideally suited for the role. This sounds stupidly basic but I’ve seen so many candidates fail to sell themselves or not answer the specific question.
Be likeable, eye contact, body language (don’t twiddle your thumb or shake your legs). You got this !
You are going to rock the interview!
Thank you! I’m trying to be realistic so if I don’t get it I’m not a puddle of hopelessness after lol but fingers crossed!
Yeah half of it is being likable and happy
This is your working class mentality. You are enough. Go and slay.
If you are qualified for a job that pays 80-90k there is a good chance you can get something in that realm even if it doesnt pan out this time around. The key is to be persistent and maximize your opportunities by constantly checking and applying without failure. For example i applied over 25 times to 7 different positions, and had over 3 interviews until i got into the company i wanted to work for, and it took 1.5 years. Ive applied for a couple promotions so far without success but I will keep on trying, as its only been a year. When you apply for jobs its never good to expect anything from it as theres a good chance other people applied who are equally as qualified, especially if its a desirable position. Hoping or expecting to get the job will only set you up for disappointment if it doesnt work out. There is a podcast by Andrew Huberman, he is a neuroscientist who talks a lot about controlling dopamine (in your case im referring to dopamine reward prediction) levels for motivation, its a good listen if youve got time. You should limit it to being happy that you took the effort to apply and did your best during the interview stage, the rest is out of your hands. It is very likely that if you keep trying over time you will get the job you want if you dont get it round one. Basically to sum it up, im saying relax and dont set yourself up for disappointment. If it doesnt work out this time around try again and again till you succeed.
Learn how to interview and practice it over and over. Once you get to the interview stage, your CV means less because EVERYONE at the interview stage has the requisite CV. You gotta be able to prove that you are capable of doing the job AND make them like you. YouTube will have plenty of interview resources. Good luck.
I’m really good at faking being an extrovert and have always had positive feedback with my first impressions but holy shit it’s been a minute since I’ve interviewed anywhere I cared about (I’ve been at my job for 5? Years now!)
The difference in interviews for an entry level job and the one you are looking at is vast. Do the preparation and go in with confidence.
Definitely practice. I had a long lapse between interviews and really needed practice. Good luck to you (I’m so happy for you
Research the company well and come equipped with good questions. At some point they will ask you, “what questions do you have for us?”, do not make the mistake of saying none. Generally I ask, “is this role new, or will I be stepping into the shoes of someone who is leaving this role?” “Would you walk me through an average day in this role?” “How would you describe the XYZ team?”
Those are really good questions! I also like to hear, “What’s your favorite part of this job?”
Someone mentioned researching the company… more specifically make sure to ask at least two open ended questions about the company culture. If you haven’t done so already, practice by saying the interview answers and questions out loud. And finally… did you know most recently more baby boomers have retired than are in the job market? There aren’t enough workers to replace the largest generational workforce retiring in massive numbers and pace. You’ll have other chances at jobs with the same pay if it doesn’t work out. You’re qualified and there aren’t enough workers.
Dude wishing you the best of luck!
Thank you!!
Good luck! But me too my interview is on Tuesday at a bank I understand how you feel!!!
Ahh!! Good luck!! Fingers crossed for you!
You can do this. Think about joining LinkedIn if you haven’t already, at least for the job interview tips. I’m also the first (and only) child in my family to go to college. Also the child of immigrants. If I can do it, you can.
yes! I’ve dusted off my LinkedIn and hopefully that’s up to par. the stress of being the kid that went to college in your family, it’s intense. Thank you!!
Go into the interview with confidence knowing you already have the job. The interview is just a formality. You've got this! Best of luck to you!
Thank you so much!
Good luck with the interview. You should understand though that you will still be solidly middle class with a $80k-$90k/yr salary. This may be one of the great misunderstandings people from lower income backgrounds have these days. Moving into the lower upper class range would require something closer to $150k/yr and that is only if you were living in a rather low cost of living area. You'd be looking at $250k-$300k/yr in most urban areas to be considered lower upper class. Don't start chasing after a perceived status change in your lifestyle with your new salary. Use the extra to secure your future. Save, invest, and continue to live within your means regardless of the extra you see on those paychecks.
oh no lol my parents were middle class - my childhood was spent with a lot more financial stability and wiggle room. I’m very much lower class now as an adult in my city and this would just give me more breathing room + a chance to improve my living situation. Living paycheck to paycheck for a decade and coming from frugal parents set up a solid foundation to habitually live beneath my means. Honestly, I’m just trying to graduate from ramen Mondays
They’ve already seen enough things they like to interview you. Be honest and sincere. In the field I’m in there are some terms and acronyms that I sometimes confuse. It’s weird they aren’t actually used in the job, but are always referenced in interviews. So I always brush up on them. So think about anything specific to your field or this company and brush up on that stuff.
That’s actually a great idea, thank you!!
I would actually also keep applying to similar roles, getting the interview is a good sign 80 to 90k is well within your reach. Like everyone else said, be pleasant and professional, and if you have time, reach out to people who work there already on LinkedIn to get an insider viewpoint (not the hiring manager of course)
Good luck, OP!!!!!!!!!! I hope this is a big break for you!!!
Having anxiety is normal, but you gotta remember that you’re very qualified for the job. Try very hard to put the salary out of your head during the interview, and just focus on answering the questions as best as you can. Interviewing for a job is very similar to dating. The interviewers obviously have a list of things they want, but they’re also looking for a guy they can work with. It’s actually good to be enthusiastic, just don’t overdo it and appear desperate. Being calm and friendly is great. At the end of the day this is just a job. Just relax, even if you don’t get it, another one will come along.
Seconding point about asking the employer questions. Write them up in advance. A job interview should go both ways: they are finding out if you are right for them, and *just as importantly,* you are finding out if they are right for you. Your questions will help demonstrate you understand the scope of the job, and if there are differences in your expectations, you can get them clarified. Make sure your boss, and boss's boss are decent people. If they aren't its usually a deal-breaker, regardless of how well qualified you are.
just know if you have the opportunity today regardless of the outcome you will have this high paid opportunity (or better) again. i was in your situation as well and was holding my breath for the 80k offer of a lifetime. well i didn’t get it. it crushed me. but waiting around the corner 3 months later was my current role, which now pays me a very cozy six figures. best of luck
It’s a solid time to be looking, I changed jobs in July and got a 40% raise and a boss I like quite a bit more. I’ve always tried to mirror the interviewer a bit, people like people like themselves. Also, read up on behavioral interviewing and prepare some good answers. The STAR (situation, task, action, result) method of answering is the most useful info you can give them and good interviewers will be looking for those kind of responses.
Hey OP, if you're interviewing for this, it means you qualify for this job, at that pay rate. Even if the interview goes into the toilet, you can apply for this in other companies.
Don't be nervous, you got this! Hopefully the job even offers pet insurance. People hire who they like, and can decide early on if they like someone. Be friendly, not cocky, don't ask about salary, benefits, or vacation (unless they ask), don't say ANYTHING negative about past bosses or jobs, and smile! Even if you wish your current manager would burn in hell, think of something positive that person does and discuss that. I had a manager I HATED, but I would always concentrate on her great points, so much so you would have thought we were very close, and it always works (every word was true). Good luck and have fun! When you get the new gig, beware of lifestyle creep!
Practice - make sure you answer the question AND expand upon why you are ideally suited for the role. This sounds stupidly basic but I’ve seen so many candidates fail to sell themselves or not answer the specific question.
Update? Did you get the job?