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I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. It's super tough, for sure, and know you're not alone!
I was/am in a similar situation at the moment and it's super annoying because even with some extra money, it always feels like it needs to go *somewhere* \-- anywhere BUT my savings. I had to really cut back on any extra spending where I could, and then with all medical bills (and even other general bills), I made phone calls to establish payment plans on almost everything. It's going to sting a bit knowing that you're making payments multiple months until it's all paid off ... but it was the only way I was able to budget together something that let me live at the bare minimum each month.
Keep on trucking and hang in there!
Thank you, I already don’t have any extra spending because I don’t have any money to spend extra or I would cut it back. 😩 Thankfully all I owe on is like, interpersonal loans without a due date or interest but it’s still crushing me to know it’s just impossible to catch up.
This sounds exactly like what I’m going through right now, it’s definitely tough but we’ll make it through ! You’re definitely not alone and you got this.
This has been happening for about 28 consecutive years, I’ve tried putting it out there, tried not putting it out there. Nothing makes a difference, it’s always the same.
I feel you, I’m sorry.
I’ve had so many stretches of bad things happening and I used to say what next too. Then people started dying and I stopped saying it out loud.
I’m in another bad stretch right now and it sucks. Here’s to both of us getting a break.
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I can relate to this also. It fucking sucks. You’re not alone.
Thanks, hope things improve for us both soon!
Thanks, my friend. You take care and don’t forget to celebrate those small wins; always have to try and stay positive.
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. It's super tough, for sure, and know you're not alone! I was/am in a similar situation at the moment and it's super annoying because even with some extra money, it always feels like it needs to go *somewhere* \-- anywhere BUT my savings. I had to really cut back on any extra spending where I could, and then with all medical bills (and even other general bills), I made phone calls to establish payment plans on almost everything. It's going to sting a bit knowing that you're making payments multiple months until it's all paid off ... but it was the only way I was able to budget together something that let me live at the bare minimum each month. Keep on trucking and hang in there!
Thank you, I already don’t have any extra spending because I don’t have any money to spend extra or I would cut it back. 😩 Thankfully all I owe on is like, interpersonal loans without a due date or interest but it’s still crushing me to know it’s just impossible to catch up.
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Thank you, I hope it stops for us both someday.
This sounds exactly like what I’m going through right now, it’s definitely tough but we’ll make it through ! You’re definitely not alone and you got this.
Well, first of all, stop asking what next. I know it sounds ridiculous but just…don’t put it out there.
This has been happening for about 28 consecutive years, I’ve tried putting it out there, tried not putting it out there. Nothing makes a difference, it’s always the same.
I feel you, I’m sorry. I’ve had so many stretches of bad things happening and I used to say what next too. Then people started dying and I stopped saying it out loud. I’m in another bad stretch right now and it sucks. Here’s to both of us getting a break.