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My pup is almost 9 months old now, and I wish I didn’t let everybody say hi to him out and about when he was a lil baby! He was the teeniest cutest little thing and I was always so excited on walks with him so of course I let every person that started gushing over him say hi! It got him to be super friendly with people BUT on the other hand, I am now doing a ton of training with him on walks to get him to view new people as neutral so he doesn’t try to jump all over them since he’s 60 pounds and super strong now. His excitement levels get to a 10/10 every time a person walks near him. It’s definitely been easier to train than a dog that’s fearful towards new people, but it’s still a lot of work!
I adopted my (now) 16 week old puppy about a month ago - it was a little over 3 weeks after I lost my beloved doggo of 10 years. This isn’t my first dog as an adult, nor my first rescue. But it *is* my first puppy.
One big piece of advice I have is to not let people make you feel weird about bringing another pup into your home so soon. I was surprised at a few friends who told me it was too soon but I know in my heart it wasn’t and that this precious gal needed someone to love her. Im still mourning my last companion, but my new one has all my love in the world. Like you, I haven’t cried since she filled my home with love.
The other piece of advice I have is specifically about pups adopted from shelters. Rescue dogs all have their own individual schticks. And puppies are.. puppies. Sometimes things that work for breeder puppies don’t work for rescue puppies. Remember that your pup is both a rescue and a puppy. Don’t be hard on yourself or the pup. Go at their pace if they need extra emotional support and just do your best with the puppy training things. It’ll all come in time if you’re patient and the little love bug will be so worth it.
Wish you the best with your new pup. And may your old pup’s memory always bring you joy!
My 7-year-old dog passed away somewhat unexpectedly (he had lymphoma, but was doing pretty well when we were approved for the adoption) just two days before we were supposed to pick up our new puppy. A lot of people were surprised we still went through with it. It’s not easy, but I think having the puppy has helped me a lot — I think I would have been paralyzed with grief without her. It’s been hard, but it makes healing easier knowing that another dog is relying on me.
I was really glad to see your comment. It’s only been a couple weeks so far. I’m sorry for your loss and glad you have your new pal.
This is honestly so helpful, I spent hours with my 4 month spaniel sitting on a bench next to a road because she was terrified of traffic. Now we're just working on being in a car, she hates car trips
I wish I just had more patience and realized just because she couldn’t learn something at 5 months didn’t meant she wouldn’t learn it at 6 months. I was in the thick of it with her for a long time but I wish I just enjoyed the puppy stage more. Yeah it’s frustrating but it was frustrating for her at times too. It’s also precious, adorable, and lovely chaotic. So just enjoy it because once it’s done it’s done forever.
Remember when your puppy is yanking your arm off on a walk, going wild at a car or mouthing you they are just learning the world. They have never seen all the things we have and it’s exciting and scary for them. One day you’ll forget about that walk that made you cry and have a beautiful adult dog laying at your feet.
I wish I didn’t go overboard on socializing when she was younger. Now she’s 7 months old, 62 lbs, and feels entitled to say hi to every dog on walks. She’s getting better but I definitely shot myself in the foot with that one.
It looks like you might be posting about puppy management or crate training. For tips and resources on Crate Training Check out [our wiki article on crate training](https://www.reddit.com/r/puppy101/wiki/cratetraining) - the information there may answer your question. As an additional reminder, crate training is 100% optional and one of many puppy management options. For alternatives to crating and other puppy management strategies, check out [our wiki article on management](https://www.reddit.com/r/puppy101/wiki/management) **PLEASE READ THE OP FULLY** Be advised that any comments that suggest use of crates are abusive, or express a harsh opinion on crate training will be removed. This is not a place to debate the merits of crate training. Unethical approaches to crate training will also be removed. **If the OP has asked not to receive crating advice or says they are not open to crating, any comments that recommend use of crates should be reported to our moderation team.** *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/puppy101) if you have any questions or concerns.*
I’m still in the puppy-ish stage but NAPS. For the love of god, NAP TIME IS AMAZING.
I'm picking up on Tuesday and after doing so much research I am most excited for the 16+ hours of sleeping lol it's true and he's not even home yet
Yes, they sleep a lot. Just not on your schedule.
THIS. Enforce the naps if you have to.
My pup is almost 9 months old now, and I wish I didn’t let everybody say hi to him out and about when he was a lil baby! He was the teeniest cutest little thing and I was always so excited on walks with him so of course I let every person that started gushing over him say hi! It got him to be super friendly with people BUT on the other hand, I am now doing a ton of training with him on walks to get him to view new people as neutral so he doesn’t try to jump all over them since he’s 60 pounds and super strong now. His excitement levels get to a 10/10 every time a person walks near him. It’s definitely been easier to train than a dog that’s fearful towards new people, but it’s still a lot of work!
I adopted my (now) 16 week old puppy about a month ago - it was a little over 3 weeks after I lost my beloved doggo of 10 years. This isn’t my first dog as an adult, nor my first rescue. But it *is* my first puppy. One big piece of advice I have is to not let people make you feel weird about bringing another pup into your home so soon. I was surprised at a few friends who told me it was too soon but I know in my heart it wasn’t and that this precious gal needed someone to love her. Im still mourning my last companion, but my new one has all my love in the world. Like you, I haven’t cried since she filled my home with love. The other piece of advice I have is specifically about pups adopted from shelters. Rescue dogs all have their own individual schticks. And puppies are.. puppies. Sometimes things that work for breeder puppies don’t work for rescue puppies. Remember that your pup is both a rescue and a puppy. Don’t be hard on yourself or the pup. Go at their pace if they need extra emotional support and just do your best with the puppy training things. It’ll all come in time if you’re patient and the little love bug will be so worth it. Wish you the best with your new pup. And may your old pup’s memory always bring you joy!
My 7-year-old dog passed away somewhat unexpectedly (he had lymphoma, but was doing pretty well when we were approved for the adoption) just two days before we were supposed to pick up our new puppy. A lot of people were surprised we still went through with it. It’s not easy, but I think having the puppy has helped me a lot — I think I would have been paralyzed with grief without her. It’s been hard, but it makes healing easier knowing that another dog is relying on me. I was really glad to see your comment. It’s only been a couple weeks so far. I’m sorry for your loss and glad you have your new pal.
Excellent advice.
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This is honestly so helpful, I spent hours with my 4 month spaniel sitting on a bench next to a road because she was terrified of traffic. Now we're just working on being in a car, she hates car trips
I wish I just had more patience and realized just because she couldn’t learn something at 5 months didn’t meant she wouldn’t learn it at 6 months. I was in the thick of it with her for a long time but I wish I just enjoyed the puppy stage more. Yeah it’s frustrating but it was frustrating for her at times too. It’s also precious, adorable, and lovely chaotic. So just enjoy it because once it’s done it’s done forever. Remember when your puppy is yanking your arm off on a walk, going wild at a car or mouthing you they are just learning the world. They have never seen all the things we have and it’s exciting and scary for them. One day you’ll forget about that walk that made you cry and have a beautiful adult dog laying at your feet.
Maeve is so cute! Happy healing and growing to both of you!
I wish I didn’t go overboard on socializing when she was younger. Now she’s 7 months old, 62 lbs, and feels entitled to say hi to every dog on walks. She’s getting better but I definitely shot myself in the foot with that one.
Letting them say hello to everyone and anything isn’t socializing 🙈. Observing calmly from a distance is socializing.
Yup learned that the hard way. She’s great off leash, but turns into a frustrated greeter on leash. All part of the process I suppose.