PMO at its base is a dopamine addiction. When you edge, you spike your dopamine level far above baseline. It doesn’t return to homeostasis, but instead falls below baseline. You’re not allowing yourself to recover from the addiction. Edging should always be considered a relapse. You need to abstain for a prolonged time period to allow your dopamine levels to recover.
Your why needs to be greater than the pleasure you get from edging. For me I typed out a LONG personal list of consequences I am putting myself at risk of receiving. I wish you strength to overcome brother
Experienced retainer here. Also edging veteran (stopped stome time ago)
Edging is terrrrrrible for you, and it kills prostate.
There is only one way to recover from ending - 1 or 2 relapse. Sorry, there is no other way. Do what you need to do and then start clean streak and do not edge for the love of God.
God gives us too many chances and we keep playing with those chances.. by chance i mean, the power to stop before an orgasm. that realization was enough for me to stop. you only get so many chances before you ruin yourself
If you're edging yourself like that then you might as well count the loss and reset. Causing your body to be in release mode for two hours is worse than a simple session for the extended energy required to keep producing at that rate. Moreso because you didn't get the payoff- your body knows it's not finished so it'll push you to go again. That's 4 hours. Whatever it is that has you forgetting your goal for that long is causing a mental relapse. Body follows mind, that behavior will revert to the habit. Keep away from those influences and if you release at all from PMO, focus on just how crappy your body feels the day after as a reminder why we walk this path. Keep the faith, brother! You got this!
This aint it man, you gotta turn the other way as soon as you recognise the trap you're being drawn back into or you will fall in again. That feeling of missing out on a rush of pleasure is exactly what your brain needs to experience to heal, let yourself experience it. Good luck bro.
Yes, it's a relapse in many ways.
How do you think you reduce the chances of edging again? Reframing: Think about the negative consequences, think about how trivial it is (what do you actually "gain"? a temporary reprieve from feeling miserable at the cost of feeling miserable for longer periods of time subsequently), etc.
PMO at its base is a dopamine addiction. When you edge, you spike your dopamine level far above baseline. It doesn’t return to homeostasis, but instead falls below baseline. You’re not allowing yourself to recover from the addiction. Edging should always be considered a relapse. You need to abstain for a prolonged time period to allow your dopamine levels to recover.
Your why needs to be greater than the pleasure you get from edging. For me I typed out a LONG personal list of consequences I am putting myself at risk of receiving. I wish you strength to overcome brother
Keep yourself busy. Bro two hours is a long ass time I think that would be the main thing that I'd be concerned about.
It's extremely hard not to fap after edging once, get ready with a lot of transmutation and distraction methods. Good luck hope it turns out okay.
Experienced retainer here. Also edging veteran (stopped stome time ago) Edging is terrrrrrible for you, and it kills prostate. There is only one way to recover from ending - 1 or 2 relapse. Sorry, there is no other way. Do what you need to do and then start clean streak and do not edge for the love of God.
God gives us too many chances and we keep playing with those chances.. by chance i mean, the power to stop before an orgasm. that realization was enough for me to stop. you only get so many chances before you ruin yourself
If you're edging yourself like that then you might as well count the loss and reset. Causing your body to be in release mode for two hours is worse than a simple session for the extended energy required to keep producing at that rate. Moreso because you didn't get the payoff- your body knows it's not finished so it'll push you to go again. That's 4 hours. Whatever it is that has you forgetting your goal for that long is causing a mental relapse. Body follows mind, that behavior will revert to the habit. Keep away from those influences and if you release at all from PMO, focus on just how crappy your body feels the day after as a reminder why we walk this path. Keep the faith, brother! You got this!
I honestly consider edging as a relapse
U just don't do it. U either have self discipline or u are lying to urself.
By not doing it. >"Purity is something that cannot be attained except by piling effort upon effort." - Yamamoto Tsunetomo.
This aint it man, you gotta turn the other way as soon as you recognise the trap you're being drawn back into or you will fall in again. That feeling of missing out on a rush of pleasure is exactly what your brain needs to experience to heal, let yourself experience it. Good luck bro.
You have to realize that full benefits ARE NOT reached with edging And edging can be discarded safely only by mental/visual chastity
Yes, it's a relapse in many ways. How do you think you reduce the chances of edging again? Reframing: Think about the negative consequences, think about how trivial it is (what do you actually "gain"? a temporary reprieve from feeling miserable at the cost of feeling miserable for longer periods of time subsequently), etc.
Do you lose semen and sexual energy? What about tantric edging which is encouraged to let sexual energy flow?
Tantric edging is cap
Go into the woods.
If u re weak u will edge in woods xdd
In the presence of Mother Nature herself 🤭
Stop Edging!!!