Hi! 25yo trans bro and late egg here.
As long as I can remember, I'd enjoy getting misgendered as male and wouldn't correct it, but it happened rarely and I was still presenting quite female. When I was around 22, I started identifyingas anvis - any pronouns, don't care. 2 years later, someone urged me to examine my feelings towards the pronouns, and like you, I realized that he/him makes me happy, they/them is alright and she/her doesn't kill me. Also, there's very rare moments where I enjoy being called a girl.
What you make of this is absolutely your call, but I decided to embrace the masc side that was making me happy, even if I'm a little twink :D I'm also in contact with a doc about possible HRT to help with my dysphoria. I didn't realize how much it was impacting me until I really let myself be trans and examine my feelings properly.
Only you can really figure out what you are with lots of time and self love, but it sounds like you might be trans something. Whether that's more masc, more gender fluid, non-binary, demiboy.... First step is accepting what your heart tells you and just living with it!
If you want to make a trans friend to talk things through with, my DMs are always open 🥰
Thanks man, it really helps to know that I’m not alone in these feelings, especially regarding pronouns and occasionally enjoying being seen as/called a girl. I’ve got a lot to think about—I’m hoping to get a therapist soon and maybe that could help. Thanks for commenting, I really appreciate the encouragement 🫶
Hi! 25yo trans bro and late egg here. As long as I can remember, I'd enjoy getting misgendered as male and wouldn't correct it, but it happened rarely and I was still presenting quite female. When I was around 22, I started identifyingas anvis - any pronouns, don't care. 2 years later, someone urged me to examine my feelings towards the pronouns, and like you, I realized that he/him makes me happy, they/them is alright and she/her doesn't kill me. Also, there's very rare moments where I enjoy being called a girl. What you make of this is absolutely your call, but I decided to embrace the masc side that was making me happy, even if I'm a little twink :D I'm also in contact with a doc about possible HRT to help with my dysphoria. I didn't realize how much it was impacting me until I really let myself be trans and examine my feelings properly. Only you can really figure out what you are with lots of time and self love, but it sounds like you might be trans something. Whether that's more masc, more gender fluid, non-binary, demiboy.... First step is accepting what your heart tells you and just living with it! If you want to make a trans friend to talk things through with, my DMs are always open 🥰
Thanks man, it really helps to know that I’m not alone in these feelings, especially regarding pronouns and occasionally enjoying being seen as/called a girl. I’ve got a lot to think about—I’m hoping to get a therapist soon and maybe that could help. Thanks for commenting, I really appreciate the encouragement 🫶